Why do Women wait until they are all "Used Up" before looking for a Good Man? (Page 2)

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Usually if your bragging about how big the peen is... it's usually in the golf pencil size.

So its great to hear how attractive, successful, and wanted you are Op. But we need dick pics to prove it.

I'll inbox them to you 😉

It only counts if we ALL see them.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
@TeddyBearMD your first mistake is assuming these women see you as a 'good man'. Your a mark to them...nothing more nothing less. Your value is tied into how much you can do and give them.

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@TeddyBearMD your first mistake is assuming these women see you as a 'good man'. Your a mark to them...nothing more nothing less. Your value is tied into how much you can do and give them.

Ah, the Good Man! Is it really something men ever really live up to? It's almost as if..... a "Good Man" is whatever that particular woman wants you to be at the time. It's an expectation that no man will ever really live up to because it's subjective and just another way for most women to manipulate men into doing what they want.



Example:

I get home after a long day of work and my woman asks me to give her a foot massage. If I say that I don't feel like it today, she can easily pull the "A good man would..." card to try and coerce me into doing so.



But, in general, when a women is looking for a "Good Man" she is looking for a guy who is:

A.) Good Looking

B.) Financially Secure

C.) Willing to support her and her kids

D.) Is charming and witty

Say what you say, but that's the truth of it. So when I say that I'm a "good man" I'm only referring to the standards that YOU WOMEN define as a "good man". So if y'all want to stay mad, it's your prerogative. But deep down, alot of you are only mad because it's hitting home for you and the truth is hard.

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@TeddyBearMD your first mistake is assuming these women see you as a 'good man'. Your a mark to them...nothing more nothing less. Your value is tied into how much you can do and give them.

You used the term 'Good Man' in your thread title. This is what I was referring too... keep up.

Your babbling doesn't change the fact that your a mark to these females.

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Doesn't really matter what I am to them. The women I deal with now are smart, educated, well off, and have zero kids. So at the end of the day, those are the ones that I entertain. And yeah, sure I will continue to add any girl who adds me from high school to see how well I'm doing now. I wont actually respond to them, but... yeah 🙂

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
It's all good bro. Now that you're successful you can finally get a woman on your level.

Posted by TeddyBearMD
Doesn't really matter what I am to them. The women I deal with now are smart, educated, well off, and have zero kids. So at the end of the day, those are the ones that I entertain. And yeah, sure I will continue to add any girl who adds me from high school to see how well I'm doing now. I wont actually respond to them, but... yeah 🙂

Posted by TeddyBearMD
And now most of the same girls are adding me and Facebook and starting conversations to "catch up". I think it's worth mentioning that prior to this, I had never even had a conversation with half of these girls. Their stories are all the same. They got with a guy, he pumped and dumped them. They have kids and no father. Or it's a situation where the husband was abusive and now they are single with about 3 kids.

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Posted by lexci
This whole thread sounds fake to me. Either you are not as successful as you think, or maybe you just made up the whole story to make yourself feel better. I don't know many successful men who have to ask this question. Its simple: When we are young we feel that we are going to be young forever. No one wants to settle down, unless they are with someone hot or rich. Which you stated you were not. So what happened was the girls grew up, they realized their youth was no more and are now looking for a stable relationship. You have to let young people be young. Nothing to cry about or be upset about.

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Posted by Undine
What makes you believe they would have ended up differently if they accepted a relationship with you...?

Yes, women have children.

Yes, women put on weight when they have children.

Yes, many relationships do not survive.

And your problem is...?

He thinks the only value women have is their looks and their chasteness and without that they are worthless. And with men, their value is their achievements, that's why he equates being rich with being a good guy. —

His problem is how dare these undesirables think they have a shot with such a weiner.

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Posted by Undine
What makes you believe they would have ended up differently if they accepted a relationship with you...?

Yes, women have children.

Yes, women put on weight when they have children.

Yes, many relationships do not survive.

And your problem is...?

He thinks the only value women have is their looks and their chasteness and without that they are worthless. And with men, their value is their achievements, that's why he equates being rich with being a good guy. —

His problem is how dare these undesirables think they have a shot with such a tiny super mini-microscopic weiner.

Fixed it.

Refixed it.

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Posted by Soul
Well hell, my mind has been blown.

Maybe because humans are selfish by nature. People in general like shiny, nice looking, beautiful objects. Its no different when choosing friends and lovers sometimes. I don't blame people for being human though. Most attractive and wealthy people get thrown into a category early on in school. Some grow up and expect the best because that's all mom and dad ever gave them. You cant even really blame them either, because love makes you want to do everything you possibly can for the living creature. Humans are cute with all their problems and weird oddities that truly screw everyone over in the long run.

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Posted by Soul
Well hell, my mind has been blown.

Maybe because humans are selfish by nature. People in general like shiny, nice looking, beautiful objects. Its no different when choosing friends and lovers sometimes. I don't blame people for being human though. Most attractive and wealthy people get thrown into a category early on in school. Some grow up and expect the best because that's all mom and dad ever gave them. You cant even really blame them either, because love makes you want to do everything you possibly can for the living creature. Humans are cute with all their problems and weird oddities that truly screw everyone over in the long run.

No, not so cute. Humans waste too much of their potential with stupid, pointless shit, like worrying about some fake status based on paper money, possessions, or looks. As a whole, humans have proven systemically stupid and slow to learn.

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Posted by TeddyBearMD
So, when I was younger (in my early 20's) I didn't have much. I had the drive and ambition to be successful. But nothing to show for it. Wasn't the best looking guy, but I had good physical qualities to compensate for it. No girl would give me the time of day. No matter how funny I was, no matter how good I was with words.

I would just sit there and watch them date bad boy after bad boy while I had to go home and jerk off every night. The only girlfriend I could get at the time had a kid and basically just used me as a "father figure" in her kid's life until I got tired of being used and ended it.



Fast forward to now, I'm pushing 30. Run a successful side business in the mobile game development realm and have a solid job as a principle consultant for a Tech firm. And now most of the same girls are adding me and Facebook and starting conversations to "catch up". I think it's worth mentioning that prior to this, I had never even had a conversation with half of these girls. Their stories are all the same. They got with a guy, he pumped and dumped them. They have kids and no father. Or it's a situation where the husband was abusive and now they are single with about 3 kids.

They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?

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Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.

The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.

How disgusting. Hate women like that.

No shit, sherlock.

But he's no better by viewing them as "used up" and objectifying them, like they have no value now that they're older, have kids, aren't thin as they used to be, etc. FYI, privileged male, society views older women as "less valuable" because they have kids, aren't in their barely legal "prime" for gross creepers, etc. This is what stirred the pot. If this dipshit had left out "used up" from his title, he probably would have had a lot less backlash.

The situation in itself is lol worthy because men AND women do that shit- go around, fucking their way through dating and then realize what it's REALLY about and come crawling back. ...To which you just lol and move along. They aren't worth anyone's time. They couldn't be bothered back then because they were fucked in the head and selfish? Pfft. Bye bitch. Can't be bothered with them now, right?

However, his attitude is no better than theirs so he doesn't have room to talk, tbh.

I also can't help but wonder if this is just a humble brag post. The answer to this is so obvious and someone his age should know this answer already.

"I'm so great now and look at them. Why are they crawling back now??" Bitch you know why. Stfu. Jfc. Sad little boys go on the internet to brag about their financial and sexual prowess.

The truth is the truth.

When you see a rich fat old man paying for escorts and spoiling hot young women, everyone views him as disgusting, creepy and vile. But when a woman has a bunch of babies, gets fat and becomes a failure in life and people bring it up then they're "objectifying them." Stupid double standard.

These women are disgusting.

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Posted by bubbythewhale1
Simple psychology:

"Back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me..."

-Mike Jones

You could've just listened to the song to get your answer... humble brag? 🙂

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Posted by Explicit
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.

The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.

How disgusting. Hate women like that.

No shit, sherlock.

But he's no better by viewing them as "used up" and objectifying them, like they have no value now that they're older, have kids, aren't thin as they used to be, etc. FYI, privileged male, society views older women as "less valuable" because they have kids, aren't in their barely legal "prime" for gross creepers, etc. This is what stirred the pot. If this dipshit had left out "used up" from his title, he probably would have had a lot less backlash.

The situation in itself is lol worthy because men AND women do that shit- go around, fucking their way through dating and then realize what it's REALLY about and come crawling back. ...To which you just lol and move along. They aren't worth anyone's time. They couldn't be bothered back then because they were fucked in the head and selfish? Pfft. Bye bitch. Can't be bothered with them now, right?

However, his attitude is no better than theirs so he doesn't have room to talk, tbh.

I also can't help but wonder if this is just a humble brag post. The answer to this is so obvious and someone his age should know this answer already.

"I'm so great now and look at them. Why are they crawling back now??" Bitch you know why. Stfu. Jfc. Sad little boys go on the internet to brag about their financial and sexual prowess.

The truth is the truth.

When you see a rich fat old man paying for escorts and spoiling hot young women, everyone views him as disgusting, creepy and vile. But when a woman has a bunch of babies, gets fat and becomes a failure in life and people bring it up then they're "objectifying them." Stupid double standard.

These women are disgusting.

Honey, you're fucking stupid when it comes to this stuff. Absolutely stupid. You cannot sit here and try to cry about it being a "double standard" when women are the gender that has had more violence, objectifying, and double standards set against them than men have throughout history.

To sit here and whine about how it's a double standard to call an old, fat guy paying for sex and escorts as gross is so fucking laughable. You need to start cracking some books on these topics because everytime you pitch in on these, your ignorance is so freaking astounding. All you do is further prove the points being made against the guilty parties within your gender.

Do remember, oh special one, that women are the gender who have the "expiration date" - a concept set by guys who expect hot women at all ages (see your lovely example of old and fat paying for sex, hence "creepy").

Please, DO share the age at which men have their own "expiration" date. I'll be waiting sweetcheeks. I know you won't have an answer. Maybe then, you'll realize that your silly argument about double standards is utterly invalid on this topic.

Lol well then I guess we disagree!

It's OK for women to have a bunch of babies, end up single and fat and people are not allowed to "objectify" her, but when a man has a failed life, failed career and gets fat, then he's a "loser" and not a "real man." And how many times do we hear about men who've failed at life and people have these little things to say about them like "still lives in his mommy's basement." But as soon as a woman fails at life, has a bunch of babies and becomes fat then heaven forbid we call it like we see it!

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Posted by LeoLady822
What umisaid stated is pretty much on point. It takes time and bad experiences for women to grow up, just the same as men. I always wonder why some men prefer overly dependent, unintelligent, door mats to be their girl/wife, but such is life. It is what it is.

Posted by pathfinder
I didn't read all 12 pages, but trust me, the opposite is also true. but now they have alimony, child support, balding hair and baby mama drama to boot. Some may even have substance abuse issues.

Posted by Explicit
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.

The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.

How disgusting. Hate women like that.

Posted by Explicit
And by the way, if this thread was made by some girl who was fat in High School and no guys payed attention to her, and then suddenly she lost weight and became hot and the same guys who didn't care for her were messaging her then everyone would be like "YOU GO GIRL, GOOD FOR YOU."

But since it's a man doing it then he's "objectifying" women and he's insecure and creepy.

Posted by TeddyBearMD
So, when I was younger (in my early 20's) I didn't have much. I had the drive and ambition to be successful. But nothing to show for it. Wasn't the best looking guy, but I had good physical qualities to compensate for it. No girl would give me the time of day. No matter how funny I was, no matter how good I was with words.

I would just sit there and watch them date bad boy after bad boy while I had to go home and jerk off every night. The only girlfriend I could get at the time had a kid and basically just used me as a "father figure" in her kid's life until I got tired of being used and ended it.



Fast forward to now, I'm pushing 30. Run a successful side business in the mobile game development realm and have a solid job as a principle consultant for a Tech firm. And now most of the same girls are adding me and Facebook and starting conversations to "catch up". I think it's worth mentioning that prior to this, I had never even had a conversation with half of these girls. Their stories are all the same. They got with a guy, he pumped and dumped them. They have kids and no father. Or it's a situation where the husband was abusive and now they are single with about 3 kids.

They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?

Posted by EvatheDiva
They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?

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Posted by EvatheDiva
They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?

Dear Teddybear (I've never replied back to an OP like this before! I feel like "Dear Abby" LOL) 😆,

Dump them! They don't even deserve your time. Since they friended you on FB you can always block them. You're NOT second choice for any of these "walruses". They see you as "single", successful, maybe "The one that got away" or "Man! I should have given him a chance, etc, etc, etc!". You're too good for them! Keep, uh, jacking off. Someone will come your way and will appreciate you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Capri-sun
OP just out of curiosity, were you ready to settle down when these same girls were passing you up in your younger years? Do you want kids or are you enjoying the life you're living? If they hadn't passed you up where would you be at now compared to where you're actually at?