brianafay
@brianafay
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Advice for weddding day
I get real blotchy and red when I cry too - it's super not cute
Even trying to pick a wedding song has me choking it back
Wtf is wrong with me ?
Wtf is wrong with me ?
Xanax makes you very sleepy! I take it to fall asleep on planes ✈️
Posted by DastardlyShould I post a pic of what my face looks like after I've had a cry?
Don't take xanax.
Be in the moment, it's your wedding. WTF.
Its no bueno
Posted by pinkbird03Yah but I've taken half of one to get through my senior project presentations and I was fine I just gave zero fucks - it was great
Xanax makes you very sleepy! I take it to fall asleep on planes ✈️
Posted by DastardlyPosted by brianafayStill.Posted by DastardlyShould I post a pic of what my face looks like after I've had a cry?
Don't take xanax.
Be in the moment, it's your wedding. WTF.
Its no bueno
Imagine being numb on the day of your wedding. That's like missing out on life.click to expand
I know!!! That's why I'm torn
Posted by GC01Yes also a good point
Plus xanax makes you not remember stuff. Isn't it supposed to be a day to remember?
I don't remember much from those presentations so that's troubling
But what's giving me anxiety is remembering a good friends' wedding I was maid of honor - she was like sobbing - couldn't even read her vows
I was so embarrassed for her ?
I was so embarrassed for her ?
Posted by GetMistedPosted by brianafayCocaine
100% serious - should I take a xanax on my wedding day ?
I don't want to not feel anything but I also don't want to be crying all day because that is not cute
I always tear up at other people's weddings so I know I'm going to like ugly cry at mine
What am I supposed to do?click to expand
?
It was my Scorpio coworker who suggested the xanax ...I was like "wow I never even considered that ..." probably because it was shitty advice like yours lmao
Posted by brianafayI don't know. Just make sure you set food aside for you and your husband. The bride and groom almost never get food. ?
100% serious - should I take a xanax on my wedding day ?
I don't want to not feel anything but I also don't want to be crying all day because that is not cute
I always tear up at other people's weddings so I know I'm going to like ugly cry at mine
What am I supposed to do?
Posted by Algol-RisingYeah for sure
I think you should probably test the dosage beforehand. You don't want to be sloppy at your own wedding. 😆
I'm over here thinking of picking a generic wedding song I hate just so I can keep it together
Posted by brianafayJust have one available in case.
100% serious - should I take a xanax on my wedding day ?
I don't want to not feel anything but I also don't want to be crying all day because that is not cute
I always tear up at other people's weddings so I know I'm going to like ugly cry at mine
What am I supposed to do?
Posted by GetMisted??that's just too muchPosted by brianafayGot ya covered...
I'm over here thinking of picking a generic wedding song I hate just so I can keep it together
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0xPd1hrZruhclick to expand
Posted by brianafayhmm... would a glass of wine relax you? i get happy and ruthless when i drink lol
100% serious - should I take a xanax on my wedding day ?
I don't want to not feel anything but I also don't want to be crying all day because that is not cute
I always tear up at other people's weddings so I know I'm going to like ugly cry at mine
What am I supposed to do?
yes don't get drunk at your own wedding!!! that'd be a nightmare lol
Posted by LePetitFiskIf I want to black out lol
Is there any type of liquor you like to sip? Like scotch or brandy? 2 fingers high, slow and steady to calm the nerves. Dont get loaded though. I dont want to be at fault for stuttering your vows.
Posted by nanobyte
What is it that you makes you cry at a wedding? What is so overwhelming?
I don't understand this feeling. Please explain.
When are you getting married?
Idk I can't explain it my mercury is in detriment ?
I guess I'm secretly really emotional ??
I think I just find the commitment really beautiful and it makes me tear up
Posted by MagicMonaI know it's so embarassing
STOP BEING SUCH A GIRL AND MAN UP AT THAT WEDDING, SON!!
Posted by GetMisted
Foreshadowing
Posted by SkyeThis OP... and maybe one glass of wine lol
Don't forget your waterproof mascara and liner.
Don't take anything though. You'll want to remember it! It's a beautiful thing.
Congrats!
Are you marrying a Libra? I think I remember that's the sign of your guy...
Posted by jane84Posted by SkyeThis OP... and maybe one glass of wine lol
Don't forget your waterproof mascara and liner.
Don't take anything though. You'll want to remember it! It's a beautiful thing.
Congrats!
Are you marrying a Libra? I think I remember that's the sign of your guy...
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Thank you , yep you remembered correctly ?
How long before the big day?
Posted by brianafayI would. Have it nearby just in case.
I get real blotchy and red when I cry too - it's super not cute
Good luck!
Posted by tizianiI am almost fainted at Juatice of the peace! If I had a real wedding - it would make me tons of money on YouTube!
Go through several practice wedding runs first. Get people to gather around and watch you while you make a speech or say your vows. Get it all out of your system so that you can turn up on the wedding day itself and marry like a pro.
Posted by MyStarsShineI have till December
How long before the big day?
I just like to really start panicking long before I have to
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Drink some mimosas while you're getting ready, remember to eat so you're not running off nervous fumes, waterproof makeup
You're going to tear up no matter what. Just go with it.
Thank you
I was hoping you'd come with advice as a recent survivor ?
Posted by MonkeyInTheMoonYes it has been a longggg road and that's why I'm afraid I will really lose it because I am so proud of us ?
I'm happy you and your libra found your way. It's been some years now, no? So... after all that time and struggles I remember I'd say enjoy your happy moment to the fullest. Say no to drugs.
And if you should cry... It's your wedding, after all!
Just be yourself 🙂
Posted by exo
i was oddly very chill on my wedding day. all the stress from the planning was gone. spent the morning with just my mom, had breakfast, got ready, said a prayer, then was out the door.
just breathe. 🙂
You're always chill though !
I'm always turnt all the way up ?
Posted by brianafayOh good 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI have till December
How long before the big day?
I just like to really start panicking long before I have toclick to expand
I was going to suggest some cognitive thinking therapy sessions....I sense it will help and you may only need a couple ?
Re the drug thing.....try and stay away from them, it is your special day and you want to remember every wonderful second
Let me know what you think ?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayOh good 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI have till December
How long before the big day?
I just like to really start panicking long before I have to
I was going to suggest some cognitive thinking therapy sessions....I sense it will help and you may only need a couple ?
Re the drug thing.....try and stay away from them, it is your special day and you want to remember every wonderful second
Let me know what you think ?
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I've never heard of that
I know I shouldn't even have considered drugs ...I knew that was horrible advice...I just need stranger's confirmation lol
Posted by brianafayPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayOh good 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI have till December
How long before the big day?
I just like to really start panicking long before I have to
I was going to suggest some cognitive thinking therapy sessions....I sense it will help and you may only need a couple ?
Re the drug thing.....try and stay away from them, it is your special day and you want to remember every wonderful second
Let me know what you think ?
I've never heard of that
I know I shouldn't even have considered drugs ...I knew that was horrible advice...I just need stranger's confirmation lol
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Yes of course......we all need reassurance at times.....
Take a look..I believe it's good for anxiety
https://www.verywell.com/what-is-cognitive-behavior-therapy-2795747
Posted by exoPosted by brianafaywalking down the aisle though and seeing him...girl, i was shaking lol. smiling all goofy and lip quivering. but i somehow kept it together. 🙂Posted by exo
i was oddly very chill on my wedding day. all the stress from the planning was gone. spent the morning with just my mom, had breakfast, got ready, said a prayer, then was out the door.
just breathe. 🙂
You're always chill though !
I'm always turnt all the way up ?
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Aww?
How is married life? Do you feel it changed anything ?
Posted by Lush
I haven't read the entire thread, so forgive me if I am asking a redundant question: when is the wedding? Do you have time to see a professional that can train you to use calming techniques?
I think it's best to just feel the emotions. It's human nature and crying at your wedding would be beautiful in my eyes.
December
And yeah but I think I'm beyond help haha
You wouldn't think it's beautiful if you saw it
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Yes- I don't think I'm using the correct terminology when I say this but I'm towards the end of the return
I think Saturn moves into Capricorn less than a month after we get married
Is that bad? I haven't even thought about that
Posted by brianafayNo it isn't bad at all 🙂Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Yes- I don't think I'm using the correct terminology when I say this but I'm towards the end of the return
I think Saturn moves into Capricorn less than a month after we get married
Is that bad? I haven't even thought about that
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It is a time of growing up and letting go of our youth
If you check your chart for the sign and degree Saturn was in at birth, i can tell you exactly when your return was/is
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayNo it isn't bad at all 🙂Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Yes- I don't think I'm using the correct terminology when I say this but I'm towards the end of the return
I think Saturn moves into Capricorn less than a month after we get married
Is that bad? I haven't even thought about that
It is a time of growing up and letting go of our youth
If you check your chart for the sign and degree Saturn was in at birth, i can tell you exactly when your return was/isclick to expand
Both of us have Saturn in Sagittarius (we're born the same year)
Mine is 22 degrees and his is 15 degrees
Posted by brianafayPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayNo it isn't bad at all 🙂Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Yes- I don't think I'm using the correct terminology when I say this but I'm towards the end of the return
I think Saturn moves into Capricorn less than a month after we get married
Is that bad? I haven't even thought about that
It is a time of growing up and letting go of our youth
If you check your chart for the sign and degree Saturn was in at birth, i can tell you exactly when your return was/is
Both of us have Saturn in Sagittarius (we're born the same year)
Mine is 22 degrees and his is 15 degrees
click to expand
You have both gone through it
You January this year and your man November 2016
🙂
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayNo it isn't bad at all 🙂Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Yes- I don't think I'm using the correct terminology when I say this but I'm towards the end of the return
I think Saturn moves into Capricorn less than a month after we get married
Is that bad? I haven't even thought about that
It is a time of growing up and letting go of our youth
If you check your chart for the sign and degree Saturn was in at birth, i can tell you exactly when your return was/is
Both of us have Saturn in Sagittarius (we're born the same year)
Mine is 22 degrees and his is 15 degrees
You have both gone through it
You January this year and your man November 2016
🙂
click to expand
He proposed right in the middle then December 2016
Astrology is funny
Posted by brianafayPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by brianafayNo it isn't bad at all 🙂Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you getting married around the time of your Saturn return brianafay?
Yes- I don't think I'm using the correct terminology when I say this but I'm towards the end of the return
I think Saturn moves into Capricorn less than a month after we get married
Is that bad? I haven't even thought about that
It is a time of growing up and letting go of our youth
If you check your chart for the sign and degree Saturn was in at birth, i can tell you exactly when your return was/is
Both of us have Saturn in Sagittarius (we're born the same year)
Mine is 22 degrees and his is 15 degrees
You have both gone through it
You January this year and your man November 2016
🙂
He proposed right in the middle then December 2016
Astrology is funny
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The perfect timing !
🙂
Erm, you already said you took half of one and were fine. Why not just take the same dose since you know how you operate with that?
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I don't want to not feel anything but I also don't want to be crying all day because that is not cute
I always tear up at other people's weddings so I know I'm going to like ugly cry at mine
What am I supposed to do?