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Posted by MyStarsShine
Hello ladies πŸ™‚

I saw a woman this morning who is married to a man that is dependent on her for everything....she has no children and i think he may be her substitute child? He is able bodied but expects her to *look after him* as she would a kid. If he has a headache, he waits for her to remind him to take a headache tablet lol

Do any any of you ladies like to be in a relationship like this or would the thought of it turn your stomach?

Personally, i prefer a strong man that can look after himself, even though i enjoy giving, there is something weird about having a man in your life who you feel the need to treat like a baby

I saw my mother do it for my Dad......

Not for me ~ it has to be equal. I love being a mum but not to a grown man

Anyone?

*~x~*
Is he a Virgo? 😱

πŸ€— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Hello ladies πŸ™‚

I saw a woman this morning who is married to a man that is dependent on her for everything....she has no children and i think he may be her substitute child? He is able bodied but expects her to *look after him* as she would a kid. If he has a headache, he waits for her to remind him to take a headache tablet lol

Do any any of you ladies like to be in a relationship like this or would the thought of it turn your stomach?

Personally, i prefer a strong man that can look after himself, even though i enjoy giving, there is something weird about having a man in your life who you feel the need to treat like a baby

I saw my mother do it for my Dad......

Not for me ~ it has to be equal. I love being a mum but not to a grown man

Anyone?

*~x~*
Is he a Virgo? 😱

πŸ€— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Both the men I mentioned Eva were/are Aries
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
lol especially not one who looks and acts like the photo you used for the topic. πŸ˜†
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Haha....for sure

I mean the type that can't cook or expects the woman to look after him like his mother did 😱. Why do women raise boys to be useless....I think it must be a control thing....weird
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
lol especially not one who looks and acts like the photo you used for the topic. πŸ˜†


Haha....for sure

I mean the type that can't cook or expects the woman to look after him like his mother did 😱. Why do women raise boys to be useless....I think it must be a control thing....weird

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oohhh I love to cook and clean for my man. It's MY duty because i'm not working yet. so of course I will do EVERYTHING. cook, clean laundry running around, errands. you damn right. I love it too!! it's my favourite tasks.
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I don't think it's suitable for many women cause they get BORED easily at home. lol But I LOVE It so much. But I will still get a part time work, though. and I will still do my errands and running around. I really love it a lot. but working out there in the working field will also give me some outside influence a little and experience until senior years and I get retirement money and money saved away for my family and also help others (like my parents and other people)
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
lol especially not one who looks and acts like the photo you used for the topic. πŸ˜†


Haha....for sure

I mean the type that can't cook or expects the woman to look after him like his mother did 😱. Why do women raise boys to be useless....I think it must be a control thing....weird




oohhh I love to cook and clean for my man. It's MY duty because i'm not working yet. so of course I will do EVERYTHING. cook, clean laundry running around, errands. you damn right. I love it too!! it's my favourite tasks.

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I was talking about guys that are useless...that never learned those things.......remaining in the baby state. Big turn off...ugh

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That is terrible Lisa

I wonder why some people have difficulty in saying NO!
I've NEVER heard of man giving their paycheck to their mothers or mother in laws.

at least not after 18 or 21 years old. O_O



but son in lawβ€”

that son in law really wants to PLEASE...

and the video showed how bad it is.

oh wait. it says, it is her SON.

oh my god.

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I don't think it's suitable for many women cause they get BORED easily at home. lol But I LOVE It so much. But I will still get a part time work, though. and I will still do my errands and running around. I really love it a lot. but working out there in the working field will also give me some outside influence a little and experience until senior years and I get retirement money and money saved away for my family and also help others (like my parents and other people)


It's great you have found happiness Lisa.....good luck with the job seeking. πŸ™‚
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
lol especially not one who looks and acts like the photo you used for the topic. πŸ˜†


Haha....for sure

I mean the type that can't cook or expects the woman to look after him like his mother did 😱. Why do women raise boys to be useless....I think it must be a control thing....weird




oohhh I love to cook and clean for my man. It's MY duty because i'm not working yet. so of course I will do EVERYTHING. cook, clean laundry running around, errands. you damn right. I love it too!! it's my favourite tasks.


I was talking about guys that are useless...that never learned those things.......remaining in the baby state. Big turn off...ugh

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oh I know what you mean. Every guy I was with, the few, always knew how to do their own thing weirdly. very independent.

in the video the wife left the husband because the momma was interfering wayyyy too much. you should watch it. it's really bad.
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I don't think it's suitable for many women cause they get BORED easily at home. lol But I LOVE It so much. But I will still get a part time work, though. and I will still do my errands and running around. I really love it a lot. but working out there in the working field will also give me some outside influence a little and experience until senior years and I get retirement money and money saved away for my family and also help others (like my parents and other people)


It's great you have found happiness Lisa.....good luck with the job seeking. πŸ™‚

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thank you so much!!!!

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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
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Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐

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That is terrible Lisa

I wonder why some people have difficulty in saying NO!
I've NEVER heard of man giving their paycheck to their mothers or mother in laws.

at least not after 18 or 21 years old. O_O



but son in lawβ€”

that son in law really wants to PLEASE...

and the video showed how bad it is.

oh wait. it says, it is her SON.

oh my god.



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@star,

the video, btw takes a new turn at the end....

you'll see. it's really interesting.



I also wonder if mother in laws, or mothers feel USELESS because the NEED to feel of use you know??

so it's best if mothers and mother in laws who aren't married or with anyone, (cause in the video she is not with anyone) have a use in their life. because they will feel neglected and unloved.

that's why the son gave his paycheck and let his mother do whatever. The whole story was a twist!!

but as you get deeper...
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So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.

I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
Yes Teena, i think so

I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?

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That is what one would do for a child, even then, when a child is old enough, they learn to do so for themselves. This is what most would call, independence.

I am sorry she had to go through that, I hope otherwise it was still a loving relationship. πŸ™‚
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
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Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.

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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
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Oh ... him? 5 years? Who told you that.....it has been just over 3 years

Lots of men i know have mother issues...more than one would imagine....i still don't see your point. I have women talk to me about these men...it hasn't just affected me.. I am interested in what people say..i learn about myself through others...(loaded 7th)

Again...why are you so interested in what i have to say?

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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.

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I am not sure what he is trying to say, other than he is very hurt when someone mentions just the slightest comment about Aries men which isn't praising the ego?

Like i said before, i see Scorps getting a bashing and know some of it is true and i don't start getting hurt and wounded about it

Maybe i just blame the quincunx and immaturity...

?

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He treats her home like a hotel and she's the servant, a maid, a possible broodmare. It reminds me of all the married women who provide structure and live like a single parent where their husband is an infantile dependent.


She is to blame for tolerating that......I wouldn't, in a heartbeat


Definitely not, it's like expecting a positive return from nurturing a trashcan Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―
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Hah, a brilliant comment. πŸ˜†

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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


I am not sure what he is trying to say, other than he is very hurt when someone mentions just the slightest comment about Aries men which isn't praising the ego?

Like i said before, i see Scorps getting a bashing and know some of it is true and i don't start getting hurt and wounded about it

Maybe i just blame the quincunx and immaturity...

?

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I never understood what he goes on about either, when he embarks on his rants.

Ignore it and keep it moving.

He often goes off in irrelevant tangents.
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
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That is what you say every single time, as if you know better than anyone else.
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
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Lol

I can't argue with you when you are too vested in my life

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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
That is what you say every single time, as if you know better than anyone else.
So tell me...

What do you know about me and Star ?

I know her very well..she knows me also...

I am probably the one here that knows her the best...she can tell you if am wrong or not on this one.

Despite everything...she will allways be a good freind of mine.

You say i am being narrow minded..and assuming things...when yet again..you have no clue.
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As before with my interactions with you, I am done here.
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I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
That is what you say every single time, as if you know better than anyone else.
So tell me...

What do you know about me and Star ?

I know her very well..she knows me also...

I am probably the one here that knows her the best...she can tell you if am wrong or not on this one.

Despite everything...she will allways be a good freind of mine.

You say i am being narrow minded..and assuming things...when yet again..you have no clue.
As before with my interactions with you, I am done here.


You should have never stepped in...

But in the end, i guess that makes us even.

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But it's an open thread Ram....why do you say that?

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Hello ladies πŸ™‚

I saw a woman this morning who is married to a man that is dependent on her for everything....she has no children and i think he may be her substitute child? He is able bodied but expects her to *look after him* as she would a kid. If he has a headache, he waits for her to remind him to take a headache tablet lol

Do any any of you ladies like to be in a relationship like this or would the thought of it turn your stomach?

Personally, i prefer a strong man that can look after himself, even though i enjoy giving, there is something weird about having a man in your life who you feel the need to treat like a baby

I saw my mother do it for my Dad......

Not for me ~ it has to be equal. I love being a mum but not to a grown man

Anyone?

*~x~*
Is he a Virgo? 😱

πŸ€— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva




Both the men I mentioned Eva were/are Aries

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Eek! 😱

πŸ€— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
Lol

I can't argue with you when you are too vested in my life


Thats the thing Star...i am not...

I almost had to block you some months ago...

I even told you that you did say some things that did hurt me...you were my freind were you not?

But did i press the issue ? Didnt i move on ? Didnt i decided to still be your freind ?

We allways gave a chance on both still being a freind...so i guess i had to do it one last time.

So going to the start...when i posted here today was really as a freind trying to open your eyes.

Dont turn this into something that it wasnt.
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But i don't need my eyes opening by a young man.....

I can open for them by myself thankyou

There is no need to worry about me....fully grown woman and all that

πŸ™‚



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Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
That is what you say every single time, as if you know better than anyone else.
So tell me...

What do you know about me and Star ?

I know her very well..she knows me also...

I am probably the one here that knows her the best...she can tell you if am wrong or not on this one.

Despite everything...she will allways be a good freind of mine.

You say i am being narrow minded..and assuming things...when yet again..you have no clue.
As before with my interactions with you, I am done here.


You should have never stepped in...

But in the end, i guess that makes us even.

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I could do as I please and will not have to tolerate you, having to tell me what I should or should not do.

My post was referenced to her, it was never referenced to you.

You took it upon yourself to step in, that is your issue and not my own.

Deal with it.
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Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
Lol

I can't argue with you when you are too vested in my life


Thats the thing Star...i am not...

I almost had to block you some months ago...

I even told you that you did say some things that did hurt me...you were my freind were you not?

But did i press the issue ? Didnt i move on ? Didnt i decided to still be your freind ?

We allways gave a chance on both still being a freind...so i guess i had to do it one last time.

So going to the start...when i posted here today was really as a freind trying to open your eyes.

Dont turn this into something that it wasnt.
But i don't need my eyes opening by a young man.....

I can open for them by myself thankyou

There is no need to worry about me....fully grown woman and all that

πŸ™‚


I can almost taste that poison πŸ˜‰

But, i will do the Young Man thing here and just leave it at that ^^

Take Care Star.
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No poison here.....at all

I have no issue with you, like you do with me

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Posted by lisabethur8
would the topic of Momma's boy be the same as babying a man??




Ooooh good point Lisa.......what do you think?

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i was going to make a topic on it. cause it seems a bit different than your topic.

it was inspired by the video i posted cause i started watching it while drinking my coffee and eating my sandwich.

i'm just shocked at those types of men who give their paycheck to their mothers. it's as if the mother is their wife.

i can't wrap my mind around it. lol

but this is real life true story, that there are men like that. who allow their mothers to control them in every way possible.
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Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would never be attracted to a mammy 's boy Lisa
Hence why from time to time you feel the need to bash or create a thread that specificly aims on hitting the Aries man...

Strange how the human mind works...it desperatly try to find ways to sooth the anguish *we* feel by seeing the flaws on others..."its their fault..not mine..i dont want this..i dont..i dont..."

But in the end...*you* are just lying to *yourself*...it never fades... unless *you* realise...its also, or mostly, *your* fault.

Move on Star, its been 5 years πŸ™‚

Just let it go πŸ™‚
Someone needs to fix their ego

It wasn't about Aries men.......I was asked if the guy was a Virgo and I told the lady they were Aries

What is your problem with me? I take loads of Scrop bashing and join in sometimes lol. Why can't you admit your failings too?

Grow up man....

😐


See what i mean ? πŸ™‚

I am the first one to admit my failings...allways did this here...and dont assume i fall on that category...by doing that...you are only giving me reason πŸ™‚

But this is not about me..in fact..i am trying to open your eyes..so you can finaly move on..

5 years since you ended with your last Aries guy that you allways claimed he had momy issues πŸ™‚

Can i ask you something about this topic Star?

Maybe you will finally see things on a diferent (and the real) perspective regarding you saying he had "momy issues".
Never mind him @MyStarsShine, this Ram has a very backwards mentality of what a woman and man should do and be.

It is insulting, if not degrading. I have been on the end of his, seeming rants as if he knows better than any other woman and we need to be put in our place, by men.


You have absolutly no idea what i am talking about..

In fact i am here doing...the oposite of what you are saying...

Doesnt make sense does it?...Why?...

Because you have no idea...
That is what you say every single time, as if you know better than anyone else.
So tell me...

What do you know about me and Star ?

I know her very well..she knows me also...

I am probably the one here that knows her the best...she can tell you if am wrong or not on this one.

Despite everything...she will allways be a good freind of mine.

You say i am being narrow minded..and assuming things...when yet again..you have no clue.
As before with my interactions with you, I am done here.


You should have never stepped in...

But in the end, i guess that makes us even.


But it's an open thread Ram....why do you say that?

😐
Thats bettween me and her..

It got nothing to do with this topic.

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Nothing was said between me and you, the conversation was between me and Star. Get out of your delusional mindset for heavens sake.

Stop thrusting what you believe we, as women should, or should not do. It is insulting.

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Anyway.....will i do a poll that shows which sign prefers to be babied the most



Joke!!

Lol
sounds good!!!!


You are a baaaaaaad woman Lisa

πŸ˜›

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lol theres'so many topics here that are so bad anyway. it's a BAD BAD NAUGHTY site. πŸ˜›

always picking on all 12 sun signs. lol

heehee.
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can you imagine marrying or bein with a guy and his mother controls everything??

and you are left with tending the babies and his money goes to the mother so you have to worry about what the mother buys you for food and household goods. You are dependent on the mother.


I would run, and be gone in a blink of an eye. πŸ˜†