Can't just be me dealing

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longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts

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Why does a guy's need for a constant stream of ego stroking so reminiscent of a fading hollywood star or a neglected housewife's need for validation? These dudes just why.

You can do your own thing as a woman and have all the hobbies in the world, respect their privacy, time and schedule; give them all the space they could ever want; be as independent as you can be; let them dictate your bedtimes and keep track of your phone and online activities; defend them from friends and family who tell you that you deserve better.

never a bad word from you, no demands, no phone checking, no gps tracking, no controlling your comings and goings, no financial expectations. but their need for validation is bottomless.

like why? sad is life when you're not a clingy, codependent drama-stirring gold digger which is what i wanna be in the next life. mah one true dream.

Pisces sun/Cap moon: "What if I like another girl? You should fight for me." **uhh bruh it's been 2 weeks i'm not really sure i'm even 'there' yet

Cap sun/Pisces moon: "Two women sent me nudes and trying to have sex with me. What are you doing right now?!" **angrily asks me over the phone while i'm just cleaning the apartment just coz i text back too slow like am i cheating coz i don't get jealous?

Pisces sun/Libra moon: "There was this girl back in my village who would bring me cake when I was sick." **then says he lost his wallet so can't afford meal 🤣😂

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Libra4rmTX
@Libra4rmTX
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No.1 you made the most virgo woman post of all time. Yall are naturally submissve YET naturally choosy. Something about these dudes that you're choosing. What phase in life are you at? And what are looking for? Free ya self from your expectations and standards. Being a virgo isnt about being discriminatory....its about swift thinking. Think on ya feet. Then eliminate. Or....do the other virgo thing. The mutable earth mercury ruled thing that requires honesty. Within that you'll find ya answer
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longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
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Posted by Cocosugar
Posted by virgoOPPP
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“defend them from friends and family who tell you that you deserve better.”

If you have to always defend them, they’re not good for you. You know it, you deserve better.

Some dudes just want a headache.

coz pAsSiOn?

Yeah it kills the vibe, honestly.
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no girl wants to feel like a middle-aged man in a failing marriage.

wonder why i'm attracted to these people at first 🤔🤔
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longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
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Posted by Libra4rmTX

No.1 you made the most virgo woman post of all time. Yall are naturally submissve YET naturally choosy. Something about these dudes that you're choosing. What phase in life are you at? And what are looking for? Free ya self from your expectations and standards. Being a virgo isnt about being discriminatory....its about swift thinking. Think on ya feet. Then eliminate. Or....do the other virgo thing. The mutable earth mercury ruled thing that requires honesty. Within that you'll find ya answer

i'm 28 and just want a boring, chill, normal dude who doesn't hoe around without this 'make me feel attractive' vibe. so disappointed that capricorn energy is not the cardboard that i ordered.

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Cocosugar
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Cocosugar
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Cocosugar

“defend them from friends and family who tell you that you deserve better.”

If you have to always defend them, they’re not good for you. You know it, you deserve better.

Some dudes just want a headache.

coz pAsSiOn?

Yeah it kills the vibe, honestly.

no girl wants to feel like a middle-aged man in a failing marriage.

wonder why i'm attracted to these people at first 🤔🤔
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You have to find out why and help yourself heal from that. 💯
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Libra4rmTX
@Libra4rmTX
4 Years500+ Posts

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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Libra4rmTX

No.1 you made the most virgo woman post of all time. Yall are naturally submissve YET naturally choosy. Something about these dudes that you're choosing. What phase in life are you at? And what are looking for? Free ya self from your expectations and standards. Being a virgo isnt about being discriminatory....its about swift thinking. Think on ya feet. Then eliminate. Or....do the other virgo thing. The mutable earth mercury ruled thing that requires honesty. Within that you'll find ya answer

i'm 28 and just want a boring, chill, normal dude who doesn't hoe around without this 'make me feel attractive' vibe. so disappointed that capricorn energy is not the cardboard that i ordered.

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Just dont ever settle. If he was up to par ya virgo senses wouldn't be going off