Describe you ideal partner!!!

I seen a post earlier about how some female and males weren't satisfied with their lover....
So if you had a chance to do things differently.... What would your ideal partner look like, act like, think like, etc.....

This should be interesting....

Posted by lovinglioness1115
Are you sure you want to risk getting freakishly long descriptions? 😛 Just warning you before I respond!

Yea... Hahaha... I'm curious to see the different responses... So I welcome LONG LONG response... Hahaa

simplicity - in all ways - inside out - of the mind/heart/actions/thoughts/attitude!
Realistic in all ways!
Responsible in all ways!

Posted by DollyLuxe
All I ever ask for is loyalty.

Even if his bad for you. As long as he reach home every day. Shout with you, beats you, treats you worst than a dog.
You'll keep loving him because his loyal? uau.... what a woman.

Posted by nando2002

Posted by DollyLuxe
All I ever ask for is loyalty.

Even if his bad for you. As long as he reach home every day. Shout with you, beats you, treats you worst than a dog.
You'll keep loving him because his loyal? uau.... what a woman.

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Hahahaha... I don't know why I find this to be so funny... Hahaha....

Posted by RumiL
simplicity - in all ways - inside out - of the mind/heart/actions/thoughts/attitude!
Realistic in all ways!
Responsible in all ways!

Interesting....I agree Responbile is a MUST as well as realistic... What about physically?

Posted by DollyLuxe
All I ever ask for is loyalty.

What about physically? How would you prefer them to look?

A partner to me must be my right arm. At least she's trying. 😄
That's why I keeps with her.

Anyway... roles must be separated. Any one of us knows where we fit.
It's not love after all. It's partnership. Love are like waves in an ocean of feelings. But if you have a meaning for life and find someone that follow your idea of life, then you find your partner.
Love will follow as long as you keep together and stitch to the plan traced for life.

emotional
empathetic
deep
thoughtful
intelligent
fun/can go with the flow
honest/upfront
witty
open

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by RumiL
simplicity - in all ways - inside out - of the mind/heart/actions/thoughts/attitude!
Realistic in all ways!
Responsible in all ways!

Interesting....I agree Responbile is a MUST as well as realistic... What about physically?

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No physical ideal (:

Posted by nando2002
A partner to me must be my right arm. At least she's trying. 😄
That's why I keeps with her.

Anyway... roles must be separated. Any one of us knows where we fit.
It's not love after all. It's partnership. Love are like waves in an ocean of feelings. But if you have a meaning for life and find someone that follow your idea of life, then you find your partner.
Love will follow as long as you keep together and stitch to the plan traced for life.

LOVE LOVE LOVE this response..... Omg ..... "Partnership" took the words right out my head.... This is why I love air signs because it's not completely about "love and reassuring that you love them".... It's more about building a foundation and being partners for life....

Posted by Scorpico
emotional
empathetic
deep
thoughtful
intelligent
fun/can go with the flow
honest/upfront
witty
open

& physically?

Posted by RumiL

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by RumiL
simplicity - in all ways - inside out - of the mind/heart/actions/thoughts/attitude!
Realistic in all ways!
Responsible in all ways!

Interesting....I agree Responbile is a MUST as well as realistic... What about physically?

No physical ideal (:

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Seriously? ŠŠŠŠŠ..... Well you did say simplicity... So I seee

I agree with nando..

It's partnership! I want one that will partner up with me to deal with life, support each other - give easy companionship to each other. Incase we have an argument or any problem we face - approach it with simplicity. It's the attitude and approach towards everything and himself that matters the most.

Love romance etc...they just ..they'll fall into place. Not a big deal. Real problems and headaches come with the way one leads life, and deals with their own selves. We would be having a child too - so their character/persona would affect the entire life of another human......

Posted by RumiL
I agree with nando..

It's partnership! I want one that will partner up with me to deal with life, support each other - give easy companionship to each other. Incase we have an argument or any problem we face - approach it with simplicity. It's the attitude and approach towards everything and himself that matters the most.

Love romance etc...they just ..they'll fall into place. Not a big deal. Real problems and headaches come with the way one leads life, and deals with their own selves. We would be having a child too - so their character/persona would affect the entire life of another human......

LOVE LOVE LOVE this response as wellllll.... You basically put the icing on @nando cake.. I agree.... ‰‰‰

Posted by Explicit
I want us to share our first kiss under the sunset listening to this:

I want us to take long walks on the beach admiring eachother

I want him to dedicate "Hero" by Enrique Iglesias to me

I want us to hold hands and run on the beautiful green grass in slow motion

I want us to share ice cream together and giggle glazing into eachothers eyes

I want us to have a dramatic break-up and then 2 months later I find out he's moving to another country by one of his friends. And then I'm like, "oh my God, what?!" So then I quickly get into a taxi to get to the airport and it's pouring rain outside and the traffic is horrible. So mid-way through the ride I get out of the taxi and run in the pouring rain. I finally get to the airport and run through security, the plane is leaving in 2 minutes and the security is running after me. I finally see him and our eyes meet and he starts mumbling trying to explain himself while I'm soaking wet and I push my index finger on his lip and be like, "shhhh. I love you. You're the only one I've ever loved." Then a really dramatic instrumental somehow starts playing in the airport and we just start kissing. Then the security and everyone in the airport starts clapping and cheering. And we live happily ever after.

*giggles*

Hahahahaha... ‚‚‚‚‚... Basically something like a very very romantic movie..... Hahaha oh How I loved the detail....

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by Scorpico
emotional
empathetic
deep
thoughtful
intelligent
fun/can go with the flow
honest/upfront
witty
open

& physically?

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I've dated all shapes and sizes. I don't care about the physical appearance if they have the inner beauty. Cheesy, I know, but I think about how our physical beauty can be taken away from us (i.e. an accident, time/aging, I could go blind). These seem dramatic but they happen everyday.

…but if I HAD to say…I'd say tall with a beard.

Posted by Scorpico

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by Scorpico
emotional
empathetic
deep
thoughtful
intelligent
fun/can go with the flow
honest/upfront
witty
open

& physically?

I've dated all shapes and sizes. I don't care about the physical appearance if they have the inner beauty. Cheesy, I know, but I think about how our physical beauty can be taken away from us (i.e. an accident, time/aging, I could go blind). These seem dramatic but they happen everyday.

…but if I HAD to say…I'd say tall with a beard.

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Interesting... I like the realistic view on how beauty can be taken away.. So it's not an "extremely important" thing to you

If you're looking for someone ideal he/she's not your man/woman already.

Posted by lovinglioness1115
Physically:
1. Strong
2. Visibly muscular (doesn't have to have bodybuilder-like muscles, but I wanna see that muscles definition!)
3. Dark skin (my favorite guy I've dated is from India and I'm in love with his dark skin)
4. Dark hair
5. Dark eyes
6. Noticeably taller than me
7. Clean and neat appearance (i.e. clothes aren't disheveled or anything like that)
8. Smooth skin (I'm not a fan of acne...)

On the inside...
1. Confident
2. Generous
3. Possessive (but not to an extreme, obviously)
4. Devoted
5. Responsible
6. Ambitious
7. Intelligent
8. Flexible
9. Quiet
10. Reflective (likes to talk about "deep" subjects)
11. Loyal
12. GENUINE
13. A bunch more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now

Your physical description is VERYYYYYYY similar to mines... I'm a sucker for muscular, tall, & dark..... & intresting to see.... Sounds good

Posted by Libra82
A magician that can make all my dreams come true. 😆

:o) :o) :o) ... I had a magician but he disappeared lol !

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Posted by Libra82
A magician that can make all my dreams come true. 😆

:o) :o) :o) ... I had a magician but he disappeared lol !

Did you make him disappear? Maybe you're the real magician. 😄

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lol - no, well now I guess that was a play on words so it could have been me - no it was him lololol - we dated for like 6 months, went on a cruise, and then he just dropped off the face of the earth after we got back - said he needed some alone time - wanted to come back like 4 months later - lol - ha - NFW!

Posted by lovinglioness1115
Physically:
1. Strong
2. Visibly muscular (doesn't have to have bodybuilder-like muscles, but I wanna see that muscles definition!)
3. Dark skin (my favorite guy I've dated is from India and I'm in love with his dark skin)
4. Dark hair
5. Dark eyes
6. Noticeably taller than me
7. Clean and neat appearance (i.e. clothes aren't disheveled or anything like that)
8. Smooth skin (I'm not a fan of acne...)

On the inside...
1. Confident
2. Generous
3. Possessive (but not to an extreme, obviously)
4. Devoted
5. Responsible
6. Ambitious
7. Intelligent
8. Flexible
9. Quiet
10. Reflective (likes to talk about "deep" subjects)
11. Loyal
12. GENUINE
13. A bunch more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now

Wonderful robot.

Posted by Explicit
I want him to dedicate "Hero" by Enrique Iglesias to me

lmao.

that would be a red flag to me, not even joking.

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by DollyLuxe
All I ever ask for is loyalty.

What about physically? How would you prefer them to look?

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Tall, Dark & handsome. Black hair, brown eyes. About 6ft tall and fit. He would have be the shy sensitive type with an interest in music, dance and the beach.
Be a good listener.

Olive skin. Dark hair. Eye color doesn't matter. Smooshy lips. No man bun. Someone I look up to. Someone to motivate me more than I even motivate myself. Muscles. Trust. Trust. Amazing sex. Amazing sex. Taller than me. Reliable. Gives me the space I need. Responsible. Likes to party here & there. No psychos allowed. Foodie. Not on me like white on rice. - I can keep going ...Damn you Virgo Rising & your pickiness & your details

Posted by lovinglioness1115
Physically:
1. Strong
2. Visibly muscular (doesn't have to have bodybuilder-like muscles, but I wanna see that muscle definition!)
3. Dark skin (my favorite guy I've dated is from India and I'm in love with his dark skin)
4. Dark hair
5. Dark eyes
6. Noticeably taller than me
7. Clean and neat appearance (i.e. clothes aren't disheveled or anything like that)
8. Smooth skin (I'm not a fan of acne...)

On the inside...
1. Confident
2. Generous
3. Possessive (but not to an extreme, obviously)
4. Devoted
5. Responsible
6. Ambitious
7. Intelligent
8. Flexible
9. Quiet
10. Reflective (likes to talk about "deep" subjects)
11. Loyal
12. GENUINE
13. A bunch more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now

Nice. I'll take one of those too. Just kidding.

Mine will appear wealthy because he IS wealthy. We will share common interests and be friends as well as lovers and maybe even business partners if we decide that would be right for us. He'll take care of his body. He'll be fit. He'll be artistic enough to appreciate my artsiness. We will challenge and inspire one another and grow together. He'll be even tempered and a good communicator.Physically, he'll be taller than me, with hair like a Leo, eyes like a Taurus and a dreamy expression like a Pisces but with the sharp, enterprising, pioneer mindset of an Aries..

Posted by SofiaV87
Trust. Thrust.

I think I just reduced my list to 2 main things.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by SofiaV87
Trust. Thrust.

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I think I just reduced my list to 2 main things.

Mayday mayday, we have an error! Meant to say Trust twice since it's extremely important in a relationship. Emphasis on trust LOL

Posted by SofiaV87
Olive skin. Dark hair. Eye color doesn't matter. Smooshy lips. No man bun. Someone I look up to. Someone to motivate me more than I even motivate myself. Muscles. Trust. Trust. Amazing sex. Amazing sex. Taller than me. Reliable. Gives me the space I need. Responsible. Likes to party here & there. No psychos allowed. Foodie. Not on me like white on rice. - I can keep going ...Damn you Virgo Rising & your pickiness & your details

I haven't seen anyone mention anything about sex yet.... Sooo LOVEEEE that you did... I think my ideal partner MUST BE GREAT WITH ME SEXUALLY as well... I'm the type of person to leave a relationship b/c of wack/boring sex ©©©.. & that's not even Virgo rising... That's simply Scorpio rising.....

But I love the pickiness ŠŠŠŠ... Thanks Virgo rising for the amazing answer Hahahaha

Posted by Season

Posted by lovinglioness1115
Physically:
1. Strong
2. Visibly muscular (doesn't have to have bodybuilder-like muscles, but I wanna see that muscle definition!)
3. Dark skin (my favorite guy I've dated is from India and I'm in love with his dark skin)
4. Dark hair
5. Dark eyes
6. Noticeably taller than me
7. Clean and neat appearance (i.e. clothes aren't disheveled or anything like that)
8. Smooth skin (I'm not a fan of acne...)

On the inside...
1. Confident
2. Generous
3. Possessive (but not to an extreme, obviously)
4. Devoted
5. Responsible
6. Ambitious
7. Intelligent
8. Flexible
9. Quiet
10. Reflective (likes to talk about "deep" subjects)
11. Loyal
12. GENUINE
13. A bunch more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now

Nice. I'll take one of those too. Just kidding.

Mine will appear wealthy because he IS wealthy. We will share common interests and be friends as well as lovers and maybe even business partners if we decide that would be right for us. He'll take care of his body. He'll be fit. He'll be artistic enough to appreciate my artsiness. We will challenge and inspire one another and grow together. He'll be even tempered and a good communicator.Physically, he'll be taller than me, with hair like a Leo, eyes like a Taurus and a dreamy expression like a Pisces but with the sharp, enterprising, pioneer mindset of an Aries..

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Hahahaha.... Yes I think loving lioness hit in the nail... & I LOVE how you touched on wealth... Because no matter how much love and sexiness your partner may have... That same love and sexiness doesn't pay BILLS.... Hahaha

Posted by Pisco
Perhaps like a minute meal; Comparable to a minute man, but it's food, so it'll last longer and make me happier.

Hahahahaha...... This really made me laugh.... Awww

Someone who isn't more attached to friends them the relationship.

Someone who isn't too arrogant or high and mighty, yet still has the ability to bring out my strong dominate side.

Someone who can balance between taking the driver and passenger side.

Someone who can understand the worst side of me doesn't last longer then a few hours, and can ride through the tides.

Someone who is loyal, genuine, and respectful to the relationship.

Someone who can balance between being selfish and selfless

Someone who isn't weak and manipulated by a boss, society, or friends

Someone who can take my alcoholic party animal parents with a grain of salt.

Someone who likes to balance between adventure, family time, and simply kicking back and chilling

Some one who likes nature and the deeper meaning and the bigger picture of existence and life.

Someone I can hold, cherish, love, respect, and protect.

Best teammate ever, me and him against the world. When it comes down to it and you have to face alot of the shit life has to throw at you this is what will keep you both going. Homie, lover, friend :-P mutual respect. Good sex. Sorted.

Dear Life Partner Applicant,

You should have a dirty sense of humor, a playfulness that will never age, a love of food, music and sunshine, and have the urge to keep me bent over different pieces of furniture in our home.

It doesn't matter to me if your income is modest, whether or not you are considered fashionably "handsome", "Do you you lift bruh" or if your ambition is ambiguous.

Posted by Gennie
Dear Life Partner Applicant,

You should have a dirty sense of humor, a playfulness that will never age, a love of food, music and sunshine, and have the urge to keep me bent over different pieces of furniture in our home.

It doesn't matter to me if your income is modest, whether or not you are considered fashionably "handsome", "Do you you lift bruh" or if your ambition is ambiguous.

Love how you "wrote a letter to your ideal"... Hahahaha..

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Posted by SofiaV87
Olive skin. Dark hair. Eye color doesn't matter. Smooshy lips. No man bun. Someone I look up to. Someone to motivate me more than I even motivate myself. Muscles. Trust. Trust. Amazing sex. Amazing sex. Taller than me. Reliable. Gives me the space I need. Responsible. Likes to party here & there. No psychos allowed. Foodie. Not on me like white on rice. - I can keep going ...Damn you Natural Selection & your pickiness & your details

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Fixed? Why does it say natural selection . I didn't write that. I wrote Damn you Virgo Rising lol

Posted by dayspa
the more you people make these types of threads the more they will never come. i know you must have read the secret and believe in the power of positive thinking but this is dxp and the rule states the longer time you spend on heremaking relationship threads the more single you shall stay.

lol

Posted by Soul
Someone who isn't more attached to friends them the relationship.

Someone who isn't too arrogant or high and mighty, yet still has the ability to bring out my strong dominate side.

Someone who can balance between taking the driver and passenger side.

Someone who can understand the worst side of me doesn't last longer then a few hours, and can ride through the tides.

Someone who is loyal, genuine, and respectful to the relationship.

Someone who can balance between being selfish and selfless

Someone who isn't weak and manipulated by a boss, society, or friends

Someone who can take my alcoholic party animal parents with a grain of salt.

Someone who likes to balance between adventure, family time, and simply kicking back and chilling

Some one who likes nature and the deeper meaning and the bigger picture of existence and life.

Someone I can hold, cherish, love, respect, and protect.

that's a lot to want, Soul.

you have a tall order. 😛

Hillary Clinton....... After shooting myself in the foot and having nothing to lose.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Soul
Someone who isn't more attached to friends them the relationship.

Someone who isn't too arrogant or high and mighty, yet still has the ability to bring out my strong dominate side.

Someone who can balance between taking the driver and passenger side.

Someone who can understand the worst side of me doesn't last longer then a few hours, and can ride through the tides.

Someone who is loyal, genuine, and respectful to the relationship.

Someone who can balance between being selfish and selfless

Someone who isn't weak and manipulated by a boss, society, or friends

Someone who can take my alcoholic party animal parents with a grain of salt.

Someone who likes to balance between adventure, family time, and simply kicking back and chilling

Some one who likes nature and the deeper meaning and the bigger picture of existence and life.

Someone I can hold, cherish, love, respect, and protect.

that's a lot to want, Soul.

you have a tall order. 😛

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It doesn't have to be all of those, but a handful.

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Posted by SofiaV87

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Posted by SofiaV87
Olive skin. Dark hair. Eye color doesn't matter. Smooshy lips. No man bun. Someone I look up to. Someone to motivate me more than I even motivate myself. Muscles. Trust. Trust. Amazing sex. Amazing sex. Taller than me. Reliable. Gives me the space I need. Responsible. Likes to party here & there. No psychos allowed. Foodie. Not on me like white on rice. - I can keep going ...Damn you Natural Selection & your pickiness & your details

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Fixed? Why does it say natural selection . I didn't write that. I wrote Damn you Virgo Rising lol

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I don't get it lol 👀

I want my partner to be my sidekick*

*conditions apply = My and only my sidekick.

Like that bonnie and clyde.

And he must have a bit of Gemini in him. Otherwise its all just a bore.

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Posted by SofiaV87
Olive skin. Dark hair. Eye color doesn't matter. Smooshy lips. No man bun. Someone I look up to. Someone to motivate me more than I even motivate myself. Muscles. Trust. Trust. Amazing sex. Amazing sex. Taller than me. Reliable. Gives me the space I need. Responsible. Likes to party here & there. No psychos allowed. Foodie. Not on me like white on rice. - I can keep going ...Damn you Natural Selection & your pickiness & your details

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Fixed? Why does it say natural selection . I didn't write that. I wrote Damn you Virgo Rising lol

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I don't get it lol 👀

There is not much to get. It's pretty cringy now that I think about it.
I made it look like natural selection is the actual(biological) reason for your pickiness.

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Oh I see. What do you mean by cringy?