Adreamuponwaking
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First time with new sexual partner. Would this turn you on or off?
if they whispered in your ear to go as far as pleasing yourself to orgasm in front on them
would you do it?
and then would you be into them trying to apply what they learned during the next round after your first orgasm?
would you do it?
and then would you be into them trying to apply what they learned during the next round after your first orgasm?
Why would this be a turnoff? Lol
Posted by Koniuchaawhat's you sun sign as well as your venus and mars?
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Posted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lol
Posted by AdreamuponwakingI would say...whatever is that I want to say at that moment! And if he is willing (and he will be or else) - he will follow the rules.
Hey Ladies,
if it was your first time with a new partner and he or she stopped after 15-20 minutes of good foreplay to ask you what you want or like to do in bed.......
would it be a turn on or off for you?
After all...he asked for it! Poor shmuck! L
Posted by Koniuchaathis makes sense.Posted by AdreamuponwakingScorpio sun, Virgo Venus, Sag MarsPosted by Koniuchaawhat's you sun sign as well as your venus and mars?
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
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WWHWD (What Would Harvey Weinstein Do)
Wrong time to ask questions, you better finish whatever you have started, we can have discussion later
Posted by rabidtalker🙈
WWHWD (What Would Harvey Weinstein Do)
Posted by Koniuchaalol i don't know what that meansPosted by AdreamuponwakingWell I also have Venus conjunct Saturn and Mars in my 12th house, conjunct NeptunePosted by Koniuchaathis makes sense.Posted by AdreamuponwakingScorpio sun, Virgo Venus, Sag MarsPosted by Koniuchaawhat's you sun sign as well as your venus and mars?
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
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what you says make sense because we are not sexually compatible
i asked you your sign make up to confirm that your venus and mars signs weren't compatible with mine
🙂
Posted by Wineaux15That's messed up..Posted by rabidtalker🙈
WWHWD (What Would Harvey Weinstein Do)
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what a boner killer.
Posted by KoniuchaaJust call! What do you have to lose! It's a free number...lmaoPosted by GemitatiNaaaahhh. Not about that anywaysPosted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lol
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Posted by GemitatiLine is busy since their dealing with your crazy.Posted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lolclick to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingWho's boner?Posted by Wineaux15That's messed up..Posted by rabidtalker🙈
WWHWD (What Would Harvey Weinstein Do)
what a boner killer.
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Posted by pisceanlovesso you would rather have this asked before you started making out or doing anything?
Wrong time to ask questions, you better finish whatever you have started, we can have discussion later
like maybe during a consent convo?
Posted by RooSagicorninteresting
First time no. When I’m more comfortable with you, yes.
state sun venus and mars?
Posted by LadyNeptuneThey told me I am second...so you must be the first. I am quitting. I will never get trough. Unless you just hang up because you know - no one can help you!Posted by GemitatiLine is busy since their dealing with your crazy.Posted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lol
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingNo I don't like that kind of questions at all. Not my favorite topic to be honest, I'll try to avoid it at any cost unless something goes terribly wrong lol. Guys pretty much know how to please girls so. Well I might give hints and that's itPosted by pisceanlovesso you would rather have this asked before you started making out or doing anything?
Wrong time to ask questions, you better finish whatever you have started, we can have discussion later
like maybe during a consent convo?click to expand
Posted by pisceanlovesinteresting. this is why i'm doing this poll.Posted by AdreamuponwakingNo I don't like that kind of questions at all. Not my favorite topic to be honest, I'll try to avoid it at any cost unless something goes terribly wrong lol. Guys pretty much know how to please girls so. Well I might give hints and that's itPosted by pisceanlovesso you would rather have this asked before you started making out or doing anything?
Wrong time to ask questions, you better finish whatever you have started, we can have discussion later
like maybe during a consent convo?click to expand
i knew there would be some women who wouldn't be into this...
i had guessed it would be those whom like more dominant and forceful play for example
Posted by RooSagicorngood to know.Posted by AdreamuponwakingSag Sun, Cap Venus, Cap MarsPosted by RooSagicorninteresting
First time no. When I’m more comfortable with you, yes.
state sun venus and mars?
It’s all about getting comfortable 😉click to expand
i'm a cap mars too.
taurus venus.
here's a follow up question:
how long would it take you to get that comfortable in which this would be okay?
Posted by Gemitatiharvey weinsteinPosted by AdreamuponwakingWho's boner?Posted by Wineaux15That's messed up..Posted by rabidtalker🙈
WWHWD (What Would Harvey Weinstein Do)
what a boner killer.
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingUgly isn't a sin!Posted by Gemitatiharvey weinsteinPosted by AdreamuponwakingWho's boner?Posted by Wineaux15That's messed up..Posted by rabidtalker🙈
WWHWD (What Would Harvey Weinstein Do)
what a boner killer.
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Lol
Posted by AdreamuponwakingNope I definitely don't like too dominant males lol and I'm not submissive type either. I guess I'm just too private person, won't discuss about that 😄Posted by pisceanlovesinteresting. this is why i'm doing this poll.Posted by AdreamuponwakingNo I don't like that kind of questions at all. Not my favorite topic to be honest, I'll try to avoid it at any cost unless something goes terribly wrong lol. Guys pretty much know how to please girls so. Well I might give hints and that's itPosted by pisceanlovesso you would rather have this asked before you started making out or doing anything?
Wrong time to ask questions, you better finish whatever you have started, we can have discussion later
like maybe during a consent convo?
i knew there would be some women who wouldn't be into this...
i had guessed it would be those whom like more dominant and forceful play for exampleclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicorni don't think i would do it every timePosted by AdreamuponwakingI’ve actually only had one guy ask me ever. It happens to be my current boyfriend. It was three or four months in when he asked the first time. And it’s always like that, in the middle of him doing oral & then he’ll ask & say please lol.Posted by RooSagicorngood to know.Posted by AdreamuponwakingSag Sun, Cap Venus, Cap MarsPosted by RooSagicorninteresting
First time no. When I’m more comfortable with you, yes.
state sun venus and mars?
It’s all about getting comfortable 😉
i'm a cap mars too.
taurus venus.
here's a follow up question:
how long would it take you to get that comfortable in which this would be okay?
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just in the beginning.
i'd use what i'd learned as a blue print and try to get that routine down really well before other explorations sessions in which i'd learn new things on my own about my lovers body
then i'd try to layer sensations by combining the things that i've learned using different rhythms or in different positions
Posted by GemitatiLmao you can't use the same exact burn as your come back. You fail.Posted by LadyNeptuneThey told me I am second...so you must be the first. I am quitting. I will never get trough. Unless you just hang up because you know - no one can help you!Posted by GemitatiLine is busy since their dealing with your crazy.Posted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lol
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Posted by LadyNeptuneIf I only gave a fk...specially about your opinion! I wish I did...Posted by GemitatiLmao you can't use the same exact burn as your come back. You fail.Posted by LadyNeptuneThey told me I am second...so you must be the first. I am quitting. I will never get trough. Unless you just hang up because you know - no one can help you!Posted by GemitatiLine is busy since their dealing with your crazy.Posted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lol
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No! You wish I did...
So how many 'matches' you find per decade on those sites? None?
Posted by Gemitati"Those sites"?? You've wondered off topic again. Come back granny.Posted by LadyNeptuneIf I only gave a fk...specially about your opinion! I wish I did...Posted by GemitatiLmao you can't use the same exact burn as your come back. You fail.Posted by LadyNeptuneThey told me I am second...so you must be the first. I am quitting. I will never get trough. Unless you just hang up because you know - no one can help you!Posted by GemitatiLine is busy since their dealing with your crazy.Posted by KoniuchaaYou need to call 1-800-mentalhelp girl!
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
Lol
No! You wish I did...
So how many 'matches' you find per decade on those sites? None?
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Posted by pisceanlovesLol!! I agree! I hate talking in bed...let’s start with that.
Wrong time to ask questions, you better finish whatever you have started, we can have discussion later
Posted by KoniuchaaI second this. Although I wouldnt stop the whole thing but masturbating in front of a new partner the very first time we are in bed? Hell naahhhh 😂 Way too shy for that.... maybe third or fourth time then I'd feel more comfortable doing so and then theres no holding back.
Pleasing my self in front of a new partner, definitely not. In fact, if they asked I would be very uncomfortable and would probably stop the whole thing
But my partner asking for my needs and desires is a big plus ALTHOUGH I prefer the first time to be less talk and more going with the flow. Thats when I see if chemistry in bed is there or not.
Aqua sun, cap venus, sag mars
Posted by RooSagicornHihi the third earth venus who states that she needs to get comfy first. Well it's true.. we don't have that "slut switch" that needs a little time 😎Posted by AdreamuponwakingSag Sun, Cap Venus, Cap MarsPosted by RooSagicorninteresting
First time no. When I’m more comfortable with you, yes.
state sun venus and mars?
It’s all about getting comfortable 😉click to expand
Definitely not asking in the beginning or middle of it. But if he whispers in my ear, and ask me, I will be happy to do as he wish
I don't want to be asked any questions while being intimate, but like pisceswoman said, maybe a whisper in the ear would be kinda sexy
Sun aries, mars libra, venus Aqua
Sun aries, mars libra, venus Aqua
Interesting topic.
From male perspective I don't think many asks first time. It's rather the discovery and it has its own excitement. Much more adventurous to discover myself, also it increases attention towards partner to connect and feel each other.
Asking directly a bit ruining the vibe
From male perspective I don't think many asks first time. It's rather the discovery and it has its own excitement. Much more adventurous to discover myself, also it increases attention towards partner to connect and feel each other.
Asking directly a bit ruining the vibe
I agree with this ☝️. Better not talk unless is dirty talk.
Posted by Sodapopwhat's your sun venus and mars?
NOT a turn off! What the hell!? It’s actually a fantasy. I’ve done it where we both masturbate together then have sex after. You become their porn!
Why can you not talk? You’re still two humans not old people at church where you can’t talk! As long as the talk isn’t about tax season, I think it’s fine.
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would it be a turn on or off for you?