Have you ever waited

To break up with someone until you've made sure they've gotten back on their feet? Is that a thing? Do you suspect they can feel that vibe? Do you feel this is 'wrong?' How did things go? And have you ever stayed with someone coz it's taking them longer to get to a 'good place' in life?

What placements do you have?

What if they will never get back on their feet?

If your partner has a terminal illness and you are miserable in the relationship do you stay cause they are dying? Or live your life and try to not feel guilty.

How insulting

I rather leave them at their worst and most vulnerable. That way they have to prove to themselves and life as a whole they are worthy all on their own. Imo there is no bad karma for leaving a person who is at rock bottom, unless you were the cause for them being there in the first place. Imo if you tried your best, yet leave them regardless of how low they happen to be, that is a karmatic life lesson they need to learn. They will either learn and become better, or become a victim to life and fail. It's not your place you decide what path they take. Unless you want to play the role of karma and try to change their path for better or worse yourself. At that point you open your own personal life to the wrath of karma.

With that being said regardless of how badly you want to fix or help some people, there is no rule that says good people won't be used and changed for the worst. Those who take advantage of a kind heart might eventually get what's coming, but by then it's too late. A pure heart turns cold, and a optimistic personality turns pessimistic.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

Your duty as a partner is to provide comfort when something bad happens to them. Or shall I say your duty of a human being….One should be ashamed of themselves if they dumped someone when sick, just lost a parent or their job, or were in distress for other reasons.

People who do this are weak, cowardly or narcissistic. They lie to themselves that they made up their mind just before shit happened to their partner, when in fact they did it mainly because of the shit. Narcissists don’t view people as a whole, a mixture of good and less good attributes, like every human has. For them, their SO could have been 95% of the time good, but now they are all bad because they suffer, or are preoccupied with something, so they don’t provide the narcissistic fuel.

Posted by Undine

Your duty as a partner is to provide comfort when something bad happens to them. Or shall I say your duty of a human being….One should be ashamed of themselves if they dumped someone when sick, just lost a parent or their job, or were in distress for other reasons.

People who do this are weak, cowardly or narcissistic. They lie to themselves that they made up their mind just before shit happened to their partner, when in fact they did it mainly because of the shit. Narcissists don’t view people as a whole, a mixture of good and less good attributes, like every human has. For them, their SO could have been 95% of the time good, but now they are all bad because they suffer, or are preoccupied with something, so they don’t provide the narcissistic fuel.

i absolutely agree ♥️

Posted by virgoOPPP

To break up with someone until you've made sure they've gotten back on their feet? Is that a thing? Do you suspect they can feel that vibe? Do you feel this is 'wrong?' How did things go? And have you ever stayed with someone coz it's taking them longer to get to a 'good place' in life?

Nope.

So I hear.

Depends. I don't have a good fake the vibe "face" though, so you know when I'm no longer feeling it/you.

Eh. No judgement. Doesn't work for me though. Why drag sh*t out? Time is too precious.

As anything would go when one wants out and the other doesn't.

Nope.