ok we all know alot of women

love bad boys, (of course not all women, just a lot though)

but bad boys who have criminal, cruel intent?

earlier I was curious at this video game I posted, so I saw another video that fans created and made of him.

there wasn't a game forum so, it seemed appropriate since it's the powder room, and bad boys tiltilate a lot of women. lol

anyway this guy, I watched the video, and thought wow, they created a good reenactment of him...

and the comments, gosh a lot of women, even very pretty ladies commenting on how HOT he was. lol

do you ladies love criminal type of men, you know, the Mafia, the boss, the cruel sadistic guy like this?

is it because he dominates the other? this gives a feeling he can take care of you? instead of making you feel terrorized?





the weaker guys, (if you want to call them weaker, they always seem to be overlooked)

any confessions?

don't some give you terrorizing feelings,

like this guy..

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/weird-jimmy-6647142/?sort=desc

maybe it's just out there, not on dxp, but a lot of women I see love this.



if you were really with one, that'd be really scary.

Posted by Kilgore

Posted by lisabethur8
love bad boys, (of course not all women, just a lot though)

but bad boys who have criminal, cruel intent?

earlier I was curious at this video game I posted, so I saw another video that fans created and made of him.

there wasn't a game forum so, it seemed appropriate since it's the powder room, and bad boys tiltilate a lot of women. lol

anyway this guy, I watched the video, and thought wow, they created a good reenactment of him...

and the comments, gosh a lot of women, even very pretty ladies commenting on how HOT he was. lol

do you ladies love criminal type of men, you know, the Mafia, the boss, the cruel sadistic guy like this?

is it because he dominates the other? this gives a feeling he can take care of you? instead of making you feel terrorized?

the weaker guys, (if you want to call them weaker, they always seem to be overlooked)

any confessions?

I honestly never under why women like bad boys

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you should go read the comments, quite a handful of nice looking ladies saying how SEXY he is.

it's not scripted!!

Posted by Plagued
Such a good game series.

Sorry I had no better input.

lol that's cool.

I have never played it, it's my first time seeing it, so I was curious. and then I saw the re-enactment...

I thought it was a pretty damn good acting for that guy.

This has a lot to do with economical situation that has formed around the world. As well as many movies that have come out over the years.

I have seen this in the US more then ever. As social media has idolized bad boys and even more men's bodies more then ever. It is very primal to only have or see a visual attraction. I consider movies like refined sugar... Sugar was never the problem... but just how it was refined to be even more powerful. Just like complex carbs and grains where never ground so fine. Not only the guy sis bad boy but they are personal trainer body types. I can tell you know and most know if they seen my old pictures women seemed to love the idea of a great looking guy but want more fun relationships. For the first time there will be new record amounts of men leaving there woman because of lack of funds. Crime will go up and woman will have record number of single mother families. We have seen record amount of divorces in the states and it only rises. I honestly never thought I would say this but I am starting to consider going over seas. You find woman are more focus on the important things in life and have to work hard to get a good education. Woman here seem to think I can party until 27 with any guy and find some guy that will take me if I am just partly good looking... This myth is starting to unfold and will more as time passes. That is why the government I believe has put out a number of movies that have bad boy... and girls saving them. The theme that a bad boy can change... The bottom line is most don't. Partly due to our prison system and how many people are sentenced to jail... it has become a large business and in the US we have more prisoners then any other country. So with the Dem. in office there has been a push for these things... more and more... I also will say I am not a dem or rep. but think they are all in on it together. Woman will find themselves subject to new sets of conditions over the next few years... I don't know if I really want to be with a woman that has liberated herself with so many badboys before she found me.

Many woman want and lust for power and many of them find it though men... With the amount of money being printed it has made people want and think there is really more out there then there is. This time period is very closely like other times Saturn was In Sag. Most notably the flappers or times before 1929...

This is why as the political issues unwined people will be faced with a harsher reality. Just like in the 1920's or the raring 20's everyong saw a lot of money... Many illegal activities went un notices because there was just so much money in the system. This is how all the money printing has affected our economy.

PM

Posted by piscesmoon2
This has a lot to do with economical situation that has formed around the world. As well as many movies that have come out over the years.

I have seen this in the US more then ever. As social media has idolized bad boys and even more men's bodies more then ever. It is very primal to only have or see a visual attraction. I consider movies like refined sugar... Sugar was never the problem... but just how it was refined to be even more powerful. Just like complex carbs and grains where never ground so fine. Not only the guy sis bad boy but they are personal trainer body types. I can tell you know and most know if they seen my old pictures women seemed to love the idea of a great looking guy but want more fun relationships. For the first time there will be new record amounts of men leaving there woman because of lack of funds. Crime will go up and woman will have record number of single mother families. We have seen record amount of divorces in the states and it only rises. I honestly never thought I would say this but I am starting to consider going over seas. You find woman are more focus on the important things in life and have to work hard to get a good education. Woman here seem to think I can party until 27 with any guy and find some guy that will take me if I am just partly good looking... This myth is starting to unfold and will more as time passes. That is why the government I believe has put out a number of movies that have bad boy... and girls saving them. The theme that a bad boy can change... The bottom line is most don't. Partly due to our prison system and how many people are sentenced to jail... it has become a large business and in the US we have more prisoners then any other country. So with the Dem. in office there has been a push for these things... more and more... I also will say I am not a dem or rep. but think they are all in on it together. Woman will find themselves subject to new sets of conditions over the next few years... I don't know if I really want to be with a woman that has liberated herself with so many badboys before she found me.

Many woman want and lust for power and many of them find it though men... With the amount of money being printed it has made people want and think there is really more out there then there is. This time period is very closely like other times Saturn was In Sag. Most notably the flappers or times before 1929...

This is why as the political issues unwined people will be faced with a harsher reality. Just like in the 1920's or the raring 20's everyong saw a lot of money... Many illegal activities went un notices because there was just so much money in the system. This is how all the money printing has affected our economy.

PM

interesting, PM, that's a mouthful. I admit I like dominance, and leadership skills, but no criminal acts like that and

no cruelty.

the men who cower and weep seem not so attractive, but at the same time it's cruel to see them cower and weep. you're in the U.S, right? maybe it's just certain parts of the U.S. where there are women who party till they drop. I think too the media may play a huge role. I remember the huge statistics of prisoners growin in the U.S, that's really a shame. These young men should be out protecting the country (joining the military instead of being incarcerated) being a part of a productive workplace. it is very sad yes.

i am not attracted to bad boys.

a nice guy who looks like scarface is heaven lol (you know what i'm gonna say next i'm sure : like my scorp lol)

Posted by iCloud9
i am not attracted to bad boys.

a nice guy who looks like scarface is heaven lol (you know what i'm gonna say next i'm sure : like my scorp lol)

lol



sttaaaahhhhpppppppp! oh you. 😛 😆

Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Pointing out someone's attractiveness doesn't automatically mean they love them or want to be with them.

You have a very boxed in way of thinking.

my point was that they are attracted, it is an attractiveness.

they MAY or MAY not be with them.

but they are still drawn to that bad boy appeal, even if they are cruel as in the video.

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

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Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

I don't understand the appeal either. Danger of that kind more often than not puts the woman in danger too, even if it's just psychological abuse. I think it's a disturbed version of wanting someone who is protective. I can enjoy some movies with tough guys of various kinds, but I don't want to date that kind of person.

I've had friends who are fortunately alive after being involved with that type of person and will avoid them forever more because of the trauma. One of them was taken hostage under the threat that if she tried to escape, the guy would kill her family and friends. He claimed to have mafia ties, and that likely was made up, but that didn't make it less scary for her. She escaped thankfully.

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

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I can't deal with them either. I'm too scared. they scare the hell out of me. I would be like that girl in the video screaming and crying.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Pointing out someone's attractiveness doesn't automatically mean they love them or want to be with them.

You have a very boxed in way of thinking.

my point was that they are attracted, it is an attractiveness.

they MAY or MAY not be with them.

but they are still drawn to that bad boy appeal, even if they are cruel as in the video.

But you're missing my point which is just because they find him physically attractive does not automatically mean it's because he is a "bad boy".

It's called having eyeballs and recognizing an attractive person when you see one. If I'm physically attracted to a man who is a plumber for a living, does that automatically mean I have a thing for plumbers? No. It just means that I find him attractive and he happens to be a plumber.

You're assuming that the reason they think he's hot is because he's a bad boy. That's very close minded of you.

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but my premise is not would you be with one.

i'm talking about the attractiveness of a bad boy.

being with one especially that type is scary. but i'm sure there are women who wouldn't mind.

if anything you're being closed minded for not understanding me.

that plumber is just a PROFESSION you're talking about.

not really how he "acts"

Posted by lisabethur8
no cruelty.

the men who cower and weep seem not so attractive, but at the same time it's cruel to see them cower and weep. you're in the U.S, right? maybe it's just certain parts of the U.S. where there are women who party till they drop. I think too the media may play a huge role. I remember the huge statistics of prisoners growin in the U.S, that's really a shame. These young men should be out protecting the country (joining the military instead of being incarcerated) being a part of a productive workplace. it is very sad yes.

I agree but the cruelty is often how they show there dominance over others. I work in the construction industry... and I have long hair now these days. I would not say I am not super clean cut and have a ruff attitude at times but more firm. I am not a fighter but if I was backed into a corner I know how to handle myself... with a few years of MMA training and being an athlete.

Many guys look for a fight for this reason and yes as the economy takes a dives some girls will settle for this more and more to feel protected. Like they will never be messed with.

However if someone is respected in any community in some industries and also where you hang out they will not be singled out to be picked on.

Guys at bars in America almost always end in a fight if you are in a place passed 12pm... I personally just don't hang out later then that in place to "be seen." Many girls want that to be seen and envy... like the bachelor and bachelorette. Everyone is being told go after your dreams and don't settle. To a point I understand but to a point they need to be realistic about where they are at... as well the attitude of some of these guys that just go out with any attractive woman to bang her. There are many woman who often come after a catch but they would just as equally go have the same quality instead of person. People need to actually get to know people... right now as Saturn is in Sagg... it is like... The Earth sign of home and family is in hell and primal... 100% . Of course not all people are like this... I live in Hawaii a very liberal place. Many women here go with the bad boys and then with guy who can buy a house in Hawaii that is more of a sugar daddy that objectivities them just as a sex toy so to speak. Eventually one side or the other gets board and it does not work or they are not happy.

PM

Posted by CopperDove
I don't understand the appeal either. Danger of that kind more often than not puts the woman in danger too, even if it's just psychological abuse. I think it's a disturbed version of wanting someone who is protective. I can enjoy some movies with tough guys of various kinds, but I don't want to date that kind of person.

I've had friends who are fortunately alive after being involved with that type of person and will avoid them forever more because of the trauma. One of them was taken hostage under the threat that if she tried to escape, the guy would kill her family and friends. He claimed to have mafia ties, and that likely was made up, but that didn't make it less scary for her. She escaped thankfully.

but it's quite a lot of women that love that and go OMG he's HOT.

why? because of the way he leads, and his dominant?

it is very traumatic.

I think too that if you're too young and easy prey, you could be victimized. But then that's another topic because people will blame the girl as being the victim and victimizing herself You can't win or lose, it just happens in life.

that's unfortunate with your friends who were involved with mafia ties. it's good they are not with them anymore. it is very very scary and upsetting.

Posted by Kilgore

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

Good + thick

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Actually there's a much much bigger list of requirements.... Which is why I've been single for years!!! Lol ill wait forever for my sole mate

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by lisabethur8
no cruelty.

the men who cower and weep seem not so attractive, but at the same time it's cruel to see them cower and weep. you're in the U.S, right? maybe it's just certain parts of the U.S. where there are women who party till they drop. I think too the media may play a huge role. I remember the huge statistics of prisoners growin in the U.S, that's really a shame. These young men should be out protecting the country (joining the military instead of being incarcerated) being a part of a productive workplace. it is very sad yes.

I agree but the cruelty is often how they show there dominance over others. I work in the construction industry... and I have long hair now these days. I would not say I am not super clean cut and have a ruff attitude at times but more firm. I am not a fighter but if I was backed into a corner I know how to handle myself... with a few years of MMA training and being an athlete.

Many guys look for a fight for this reason and yes as the economy takes a dives some girls will settle for this more and more to feel protected. Like they will never be messed with.

However if someone is respected in any community in some industries and also where you hang out they will not be singled out to be picked on.

Guys at bars in America almost always end in a fight if you are in a place passed 12pm... I personally just don't hang out later then that in place to "be seen." Many girls want that to be seen and envy... like the bachelor and bachelorette. Everyone is being told go after your dreams and don't settle. To a point I understand but to a point they need to be realistic about where they are at... as well the attitude of some of these guys that just go out with any attractive woman to bang her. There are many woman who often come after a catch but they would just as equally go have the same quality instead of person. People need to actually get to know people... right now as Saturn is in Sagg... it is like... The Earth sign of home and family is in hell and primal... 100% . Of course not all people are like this... I live in Hawaii a very liberal place. Many women here go with the bad boys and then with guy who can buy a house in Hawaii that is more of a sugar daddy that objectivities them just as a sex toy so to speak. Eventually one side or the other gets board and it does not work or they are not happy.

PM

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lol I don't know, PM, you're going from bad boy who gets into fights and will protect them to sugar daddies who will buy young women houses in Hawaii. lol

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Kilgore

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

Good + thick

Actually there's a much much bigger list of requirements.... Which is why I've been single for years!!! Lol ill wait forever for my sole mate

Lol. I thought just the two - or those are the 2 deal breakers

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Lol well there's a lot of deal breakers too. I'm so damn picky lol

Posted by xEUx
Does having sex with another woman on my girlfriend's back while she's asleep make me a bad boy?

P S. I didn't watch the video. Sorry OP, trying to save on mobile data.

yes that's a bad boy and a sleezebag douchebag move of you to do. *tsk tsk* unless you are in an open relationship.

and ,it's ok, you can watch it later.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

I can't deal with them either. I'm too scared. they scare the hell out of me. I would be like that girl in the video screaming and crying.

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Lol yea I think it depends what makes the guy a bad boy!!

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

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this is where womens best years are from 18 to 27 after every year they become less ferial. Primal men find them less attractive... Men that are 42 are considered there prime as being fully able to provide for a family...

At the rip age of 32... It is hard for me to date girls that are now ready for a good guy when I know what they have been up too... It is like ok not that I let guys I would never consider marrying fuck me because mmm well it seemed cool now I am ready to settle down. Mind you I am an Aries and have a high sex drive... and I drive or have often faster trucks or cars.

There was a video I posted about this how a guy changed how he came off... He first was acting fun like a fuck boy... Teased girls called them sluts... said comments that where very sexual tried to touch them and so on. He slowly then turn the personality of a provider on... said he was a dentist and so on... girls rejected the dentist and wanted to be called a slut because they are not looking for a marriage type of relationship at the time. I find this to be very true and have even done this myself out at clubs when I was around 24. It shows how immature some woman are... Also what they are really attracted to and looking for... So women in other countries can't wait till there are old they are considered over the hill at 27. American men have been actually marrying more and more girls with better morals from other countries...

I am sorry I just don't go for the

//www.youtube.com/embed/vIk25NlP3o8

X sorority girl that will most likely say I work to much and fuck the pool guy as my kids go to good schools... lol

I am starting to think I will never marry on the basis I see though to much of the bs all the time.

PM

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Pointing out someone's attractiveness doesn't automatically mean they love them or want to be with them.

You have a very boxed in way of thinking.

my point was that they are attracted, it is an attractiveness.

they MAY or MAY not be with them.

but they are still drawn to that bad boy appeal, even if they are cruel as in the video.

But you're missing my point which is just because they find him physically attractive does not automatically mean it's because he is a "bad boy".

It's called having eyeballs and recognizing an attractive person when you see one. If I'm physically attracted to a man who is a plumber for a living, does that automatically mean I have a thing for plumbers? No. It just means that I find him attractive and he happens to be a plumber.

You're assuming that the reason they think he's hot is because he's a bad boy. That's very close minded of you.

but my premise is not would you be with one.

i'm talking about the attractiveness of a bad boy.

being with one especially that type is scary. but i'm sure there are women who wouldn't mind.

if anything you're being closed minded for not understanding me.

that plumber is just a PROFESSION you're talking about.

not really how he "acts"

Still missing the point Lisa. Whether it's a career or a way of life, simply noticing how attractive someone is does not automatically mean that you condone their life style , their way of thinking, or that you're turned on by any other aspects other than their appearance.

You've always been impossible to get through to I swear...

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uh, well a young woman sees a man who takes charge, is a bit sadistic and can make men follow him and even make men squeal and cower, sometimes those women feel ...ohhhhh my goodness he is soooo hot.

that is being TURNED on. you're not thinking clearly at all. The blood rushes to their stomach or their sexual organs and go...OHH la la!!!

their appearance? if he were to wear his hair all nice and geeky with geeky glasses, dress him up in a WALDO suit and ACT (both acting and dressing to give more emphasis on the appeal) women would not be going...ooooh laaa laa.

has any young woman gone....OH MY GOD WALDO is sooo hot!

Posted by Kilgore

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Kilgore

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Kilgore

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

Good + thick

Actually there's a much much bigger list of requirements.... Which is why I've been single for years!!! Lol ill wait forever for my sole mate

Lol. I thought just the two - or those are the 2 deal breakers

Lol well there's a lot of deal breakers too. I'm so damn picky lol

You're destined to wind up with a low paid freelancer with a sweet demeanor and skinny dick. Lol

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Lol.... If he's attractive then maybe I could handle that if he's ugly I wanna be alone with four cats

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Pointing out someone's attractiveness doesn't automatically mean they love them or want to be with them.

You have a very boxed in way of thinking.

my point was that they are attracted, it is an attractiveness.

they MAY or MAY not be with them.

but they are still drawn to that bad boy appeal, even if they are cruel as in the video.

But you're missing my point which is just because they find him physically attractive does not automatically mean it's because he is a "bad boy".

It's called having eyeballs and recognizing an attractive person when you see one. If I'm physically attracted to a man who is a plumber for a living, does that automatically mean I have a thing for plumbers? No. It just means that I find him attractive and he happens to be a plumber.

You're assuming that the reason they think he's hot is because he's a bad boy. That's very close minded of you.

but my premise is not would you be with one.

i'm talking about the attractiveness of a bad boy.

being with one especially that type is scary. but i'm sure there are women who wouldn't mind.

if anything you're being closed minded for not understanding me.

that plumber is just a PROFESSION you're talking about.

not really how he "acts"

Still missing the point Lisa. Whether it's a career or a way of life, simply noticing how attractive someone is does not automatically mean that you condone their life style , their way of thinking, or that you're turned on by any other aspects other than their appearance.

You've always been impossible to get through to I swear...

uh, well a young woman sees a man who takes charge, is a bit sadistic and can make men follow him and even make men squeal and cower, sometimes those women feel ...ohhhhh my goodness he is soooo hot.

that is being TURNED on. you're not thinking clearly at all. The blood rushes to their stomach or their sexual organs and go...OHH la la!!!

their appearance? if he were to wear his hair all nice and geeky with geeky glasses, dress him up in a WALDO suit and ACT (both acting and dressing to give more emphasis on the appeal) women would not be going...ooooh laaa laa.

.....what the fuck are you talking about?

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lol

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by pinkbird03
Bad boys are exciting. They get my adrenaline pumping. It's fun to be spontaneous when I'm with them because I'm usually the complete opposite.

thanks for being very honest about it. lol

so would you really be with one of these type of guys in real life?

if they wanted you back as an example?

Nope. I can deal with fast cars, but that's it!! I was hanging out with these guys for companionship. Now I'm dating for marriage. I still love a tall masculine dark haired hottie though! He just needs to be good! Lol

this is where womens best years are from 18 to 27 after every year they become less ferial. Primal men find them less attractive... Men that are 42 are considered there prime as being fully able to provide for a family...

At the rip age of 32... It is hard for me to date girls that are now ready for a good guy when I know what they have been up too... It is like ok not that I let guys I would never consider marrying fuck me because mmm well it seemed cool now I am ready to settle down. Mind you I am an Aries and have a high sex drive... and I drive or have often faster trucks or cars.

There was a video I posted about this how a guy changed how he came off... He first was acting fun like a fuck boy... Teased girls called them sluts... said comments that where very sexual tried to touch them and so on. He slowly then turn the personality of a provider on... said he was a dentist and so on... girls rejected the dentist and wanted to be called a slut because they are not looking for a marriage type of relationship at the time. I find this to be very true and have even done this myself out at clubs when I was around 24. It shows how immature some woman are... Also what they are really attracted to and looking for... So women in other countries can't wait till there are old they are considered over the hill at 27. American men have been actually marrying more and more girls with better morals from other countries...

I am sorry I just don't go for the

//www.youtube.com/embed/vIk25NlP3o8

X sorority girl that will most likely say I work to much and fuck the pool guy as my kids go to good schools... lol

I am starting to think I will never marry on the basis I see though to much of the bs all the time.

PM

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I had to watch her video for a moment. what about white girls?? 😕 are you connecting white girls going partying with being attracted to bad boys with criminal tendances?

pinkbird03

you seem like you have cancer influences... They often go for leo's super hard because of there leadership take charge attitude.

Of course so many women love leo's or think they do...

PM

and alyssa sharpe said in her video, she was told she acted like jenna marbles. I don't see it. lol

jenna marbles is all over the place.

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pinkbird03

you seem like you have cancer influences... They often go for leo's super hard because of there leadership take charge attitude.

Of course so many women love leo's or think they do...

PM

lol

the two leo sun women I know in real life who have cancer influences, are with good men who are far from "bad boy" appeal.

they have GOOD GUY appeal.

Posted by TerramineLight
I think the real issue girls don't grasp is. Unless the dude is a full on psychopath. There's no reason guys would be HEARTLESS. Most women don't realize that Bad Boys see the world for what it is. They know they're expected to just be mindless sacrificial drones en mass. They know that women don't really love them. That's why they're bad. Because they know the world is corrupt and that it doesn't give a shit about them. Women in particular being selfish, vindictive, etc.

Every bad boy is a good boy turned cold. What do you think made them turn cold? Is it the fact that the game is rigged so if they don't, they'll be left in the dust? Probably.

I consider myself the bad boy type... towards the public at large. You know, fuck the world and all it's bullshit. Rebel. But ultimately that's just how I am towards the world in general. It's not something for some "princess" to ride for funsies.

yes but you wouldn't do those criminal "acts", like go killing and just any MAFIA type criminal activity would you?

that's what I mean. these women KNOW that, but they are attracted to that appeal.

so what does that mean ultimately—

nice guys just can't win. (for the most part)

lisabethur8

In liberal states such as Hawaii and California... Yes many of these types are around. I am not going to move states I have to much going for me here...

I have actually dated girls from other states such as Texas and so on... of course she dated a guy for 8 years that refused to marry her after asking to times... His family was extremely wealthy and she was afraid of loosing a man she loved. She was a great woman but she was 25 when I met her... She gave up her best years to bad boys in long term relationship that would not work out. He was the typical surfer kid that his parents bought him a house... She wanted kids he did not...

Need less to say as beautiful as she was... and accomplished I had a hard time being like how now I am ready for a provider... Instead of a guy people think are cool in a social circle.

Both a bad boy and a hot woman give up all the attention and social circle once they are in a relationship... even more when married and then add kids...

This is why people actually should try to be friends as well as lovers... to many people just marry for looks or money and are not happy.

PM

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Posted by CopperDove
I don't understand the appeal either. Danger of that kind more often than not puts the woman in danger too, even if it's just psychological abuse. I think it's a disturbed version of wanting someone who is protective. I can enjoy some movies with tough guys of various kinds, but I don't want to date that kind of person.

I've had friends who are fortunately alive after being involved with that type of person and will avoid them forever more because of the trauma. One of them was taken hostage under the threat that if she tried to escape, the guy would kill her family and friends. He claimed to have mafia ties, and that likely was made up, but that didn't make it less scary for her. She escaped thankfully.

but it's quite a lot of women that love that and go OMG he's HOT.

why? because of the way he leads, and his dominant?

it is very traumatic.

I think too that if you're too young and easy prey, you could be victimized. But then that's another topic because people will blame the girl as being the victim and victimizing herself You can't win or lose, it just happens in life.

that's unfortunate with your friends who were involved with mafia ties. it's good they are not with them anymore. it is very very scary and upsetting.

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Yes, I can see why a young person might not understand how bad it can get because the bad boy type is often made into some kind of hero in the movies and on TV. Another friend, when quite young, was involved with a criminal and she was very naive at first and didn't realize that was what he was involved with, then later he was menacing toward her. With that, added to other things she had noticed over time, she finally understood what he was about and she cut ties.

I like strength of character with assertiveness, and physical strength, but not a personality that wields any of that in an aggressive way for the sake of seeming intimidating to everyone, unless it's in self defense in which case aggression might be needed to protect oneself or others in danger, of course.

Posted by piscesmoon2
lisabethur8

In liberal states such as Hawaii and California... Yes many of these types are around. I am not going to move states I have to much going for me here...

I have actually dated girls from other states such as Texas and so on... of course she dated a guy for 8 years that refused to marry her after asking to times... His family was extremely wealthy and she was afraid of loosing a man she loved. She was a great woman but she was 25 when I met her... She gave up her best years to bad boys in long term relationship that would not work out. He was the typical surfer kid that his parents bought him a house... She wanted kids he did not...

Need less to say as beautiful as she was... and accomplished I had a hard time being like how now I am ready for a provider... Instead of a guy people think are cool in a social circle.

Both a bad boy and a hot woman give up all the attention and social circle once they are in a relationship... even more when married and then add kids...

This is why people actually should try to be friends as well as lovers... to many people just marry for looks or money and are not happy.

PM

ok but you're PINING over a woman who has known this guy since her teens. and you said she loves him very much. Maybe you are embittered that she wants HIM and not you.

there are plenty of women who are single and looking for guys like you.

that is hers to deal with and heartache that this guy won't marry her, or have babies, ect. it's terrible, but it's a choice she made.

you can't save her.

Posted by piscesmoon2
lisabethur8

In liberal states such as Hawaii and California... Yes many of these types are around. I am not going to move states I have to much going for me here...

I have actually dated girls from other states such as Texas and so on... of course she dated a guy for 8 years that refused to marry her after asking to times... His family was extremely wealthy and she was afraid of loosing a man she loved. She was a great woman but she was 25 when I met her... She gave up her best years to bad boys in long term relationship that would not work out. He was the typical surfer kid that his parents bought him a house... She wanted kids he did not...

Need less to say as beautiful as she was... and accomplished I had a hard time being like how now I am ready for a provider... Instead of a guy people think are cool in a social circle.

Both a bad boy and a hot woman give up all the attention and social circle once they are in a relationship... even more when married and then add kids...

This is why people actually should try to be friends as well as lovers... to many people just marry for looks or money and are not happy.

PM

at least that's my first impression. but not really sure. it is a shame though.

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Posted by lisabethur8
yes but you wouldn't do those criminal "acts", like go killing and just any MAFIA type criminal activity would you?

that's what I mean. these women KNOW that, but they are attracted to that appeal.

so what does that mean ultimately—

nice guys just can't win. (for the most part)

Actually, I'm very unhinged as a person. I follow my own code book, nobody else's. So if I disagree with the law, I don't have any regard for it and yes. There is situations where I'd be down to beat someone's ass, strike mad vengeance, and ultimately take lives. Why? Because I'm trying to get a grip on this thing called reality without sticking to preconceptions and limiting myself.

But what I'm ultimately trying to say is. Think about it. Bad Boys don't give a shit about anyone. They don't love you, because nothing really matters to them. They just want to watch the world burn and get theirs and make off.

It's the good guy that puts so much dedication into a chick. It's the good guy that bends over backwards for her. And as pointed out here, that person loses. So Bad Boys are actually given the strongest incentive for not wanting to fuck around with bitches.

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well those types and that type of thinking will get them in trouble and in juvenile hall and then prison.

that's true about the good guys who put a lot of effort and time and love and care into a relationship with a woman.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by CopperDove
I don't understand the appeal either. Danger of that kind more often than not puts the woman in danger too, even if it's just psychological abuse. I think it's a disturbed version of wanting someone who is protective. I can enjoy some movies with tough guys of various kinds, but I don't want to date that kind of person.

I've had friends who are fortunately alive after being involved with that type of person and will avoid them forever more because of the trauma. One of them was taken hostage under the threat that if she tried to escape, the guy would kill her family and friends. He claimed to have mafia ties, and that likely was made up, but that didn't make it less scary for her. She escaped thankfully.

but it's quite a lot of women that love that and go OMG he's HOT.

why? because of the way he leads, and his dominant?

it is very traumatic.

I think too that if you're too young and easy prey, you could be victimized. But then that's another topic because people will blame the girl as being the victim and victimizing herself You can't win or lose, it just happens in life.

that's unfortunate with your friends who were involved with mafia ties. it's good they are not with them anymore. it is very very scary and upsetting.

Yes, I can see why a young person might not understand how bad it can get because the bad boy type is often made into some kind of hero in the movies and on TV. Another friend, when quite young, was involved with a criminal and she was very naive at first and didn't realize that was what he was involved with, then later he was menacing toward her. With that, added to other things she had noticed over time, she finally understood what he was about and she cut ties.

I like strength of character with assertiveness, and physical strength, but not a personality that wields any of that in an aggressive way for the sake of seeming intimidating to everyone, unless it's in self defense in which case aggression might be needed to protect oneself or others in danger, of course.

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yup!!! even if you watch that film, "Stranger things" the girl, who is the teenaged girl falls for the bad boy guy, who isn't a nice guy obviously. they obviously look very young, maybe 15, or 16.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by CopperDove
I don't understand the appeal either. Danger of that kind more often than not puts the woman in danger too, even if it's just psychological abuse. I think it's a disturbed version of wanting someone who is protective. I can enjoy some movies with tough guys of various kinds, but I don't want to date that kind of person.

I've had friends who are fortunately alive after being involved with that type of person and will avoid them forever more because of the trauma. One of them was taken hostage under the threat that if she tried to escape, the guy would kill her family and friends. He claimed to have mafia ties, and that likely was made up, but that didn't make it less scary for her. She escaped thankfully.

but it's quite a lot of women that love that and go OMG he's HOT.

why? because of the way he leads, and his dominant?

it is very traumatic.

I think too that if you're too young and easy prey, you could be victimized. But then that's another topic because people will blame the girl as being the victim and victimizing herself You can't win or lose, it just happens in life.

that's unfortunate with your friends who were involved with mafia ties. it's good they are not with them anymore. it is very very scary and upsetting.

Yes, I can see why a young person might not understand how bad it can get because the bad boy type is often made into some kind of hero in the movies and on TV. Another friend, when quite young, was involved with a criminal and she was very naive at first and didn't realize that was what he was involved with, then later he was menacing toward her. With that, added to other things she had noticed over time, she finally understood what he was about and she cut ties.

I like strength of character with assertiveness, and physical strength, but not a personality that wields any of that in an aggressive way for the sake of seeming intimidating to everyone, unless it's in self defense in which case aggression might be needed to protect oneself or others in danger, of course.

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I agree with you about strength of character too.

but I also understand where PM is coming from though, where young girls are watching the media...

but aren't they also watching SUPERHEROES??

this is the generation of superheros... this might be something producers /directors and writers are trying to put into young women too.

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Posted by lisabethur8
well those types and that type of thinking will get them in trouble and in juvenile hall and then prison.

that's true about the good guys who put a lot of effort and time and love and care into a relationship with a woman.

You should watch the show Rick and Morty. That may be true about prison but it's also how Kings rise to power.

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oh i'll check it out thanks!

Posted by lisabethur8
love bad boys, (of course not all women, just a lot though)

but bad boys who have criminal, cruel intent?

earlier I was curious at this video game I posted, so I saw another video that fans created and made of him.

there wasn't a game forum so, it seemed appropriate since it's the powder room, and bad boys tiltilate a lot of women. lol

anyway this guy, I watched the video, and thought wow, they created a good reenactment of him...

and the comments, gosh a lot of women, even very pretty ladies commenting on how HOT he was. lol

do you ladies love criminal type of men, you know, the Mafia, the boss, the cruel sadistic guy like this?

is it because he dominates the other? this gives a feeling he can take care of you? instead of making you feel terrorized?

the weaker guys, (if you want to call them weaker, they always seem to be overlooked)

any confessions?

Nope, no bad boys for me. I've dated one or two (no criminals) when younger. I think they're dumb tbh, when they try to act all hard all the time. It's so unnecessary to me.

I like responsible, gentleman, manly, strong with a sensitive side, but will put someone in their place on a need to basis. But walking around trying to act tough, lol, no thanks.

We know a lot of women love the bad boys and we also know they end up here a few years later as damaged goods

I'm more inclined to say that girls go for bad boys, not women. There's a serious maturity check here. It's not much different than a guy's attraction for wild and crazy girls. These people are exciting, don't take things very seriously, and are a lot of fun.

The attraction towards them can still be there after maturity sets in, but men and women looking for something more wholesome are going to be looking for other qualities in their partner that give relationships more longevity.

However, if you're a girl attracted to criminals, that's not a bad boy phase. That's something you seriously want to get checked out.

Hmm.. I don't know. But I never dated a man who wasn't some kind of thug or has had issues with the law or the very minimal some kind of alcohol or drug thing going on.

I don't go out seeking those types...its been my luck that I go after normal looking guys who have secret bad boy lives.

And I don't find out until after I've got my feelings invested in some way

you are a bit of an autist sometimes OP. No hard feelings.

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Posted by lisabethur8
love bad boys, (of course not all women, just a lot though)

but bad boys who have criminal, cruel intent?

earlier I was curious at this video game I posted, so I saw another video that fans created and made of him.

there wasn't a game forum so, it seemed appropriate since it's the powder room, and bad boys tiltilate a lot of women. lol

anyway this guy, I watched the video, and thought wow, they created a good reenactment of him...

and the comments, gosh a lot of women, even very pretty ladies commenting on how HOT he was. lol

do you ladies love criminal type of men, you know, the Mafia, the boss, the cruel sadistic guy like this?

is it because he dominates the other? this gives a feeling he can take care of you? instead of making you feel terrorized?

the weaker guys, (if you want to call them weaker, they always seem to be overlooked)

any confessions?

Nope, no bad boys for me. I've dated one or two (no criminals) when younger. I think they're dumb tbh, when they try to act all hard all the time. It's so unnecessary to me.

I like responsible, gentleman, manly, strong with a sensitive side, but will put someone in their place on a need to basis. But walking around trying to act tough, lol, no thanks.

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oh I agree with you. I don't like them, they scare me. that's why I was like, huh? RED FLAG. those guys are gonna end up killing you, not protecting you.