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a man can cheat on a woman multiple times and she'd be reasonably upset

but her female friend does one small harmless thing and you'd never see her angrier

why are women so emotionally triggered by each other?

repressed homosexual urges?

strong Uranus placement?

The power of dick is stronger than the bond with your chick.

Because the bond is stronger between women, so therefore the reaction is stronger....

Posted by _Dazed

The power of dick is stronger than the bond with your chick.

dick too strong

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

Maybe we just have higher expectations for our friends than we do for our lovers.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

Oooh, you mean casual friends and online friends. Yeah, you can't tease most women, unfortunately. I've noticed that everyone online likes me more when they assume I'm a man. That happens once in a while if I don't say what I am.

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i am an old man from now on

life is easier that way

you are evidence that i'm right

Please find something else to talk about besides relationships. It's a sign ur not mature enough to be in a healthy one.

Posted by PurplePassion38

Posted by Whorpio

Maybe we just have higher expectations for our friends than we do for our lovers.

Probably this for most women. Though fir me I tend to give friends more passes than boyfriends.

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Samesies. It’s harder to find friends than dicks, to the point I’m actually desperate for female friends 😖

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by PurplePassion38

Posted by Whorpio

Maybe we just have higher expectations for our friends than we do for our lovers.

Probably this for most women. Though fir me I tend to give friends more passes than boyfriends.

Samesies. It’s harder to find friends than dicks, to the point I’m actually desperate for female friends 😖

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my BFF is a gay Aquarius man

not sure what that says about me

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

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nobody LOLZ at trolls except other trolls.

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

nobody LOLZ at trolls except other trolls.

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observe the reaction of females and how it always favors men

be it in life or over the internet

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

nobody LOLZ at trolls except other trolls.

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observe the reaction of females and how it always favors men

be it in life or over the internet

Posted by virgoOPPP



why are women so emotionally triggered by each other?

Let me explain to you human nature.

Female friendships do have boundaries, male friendships don't. So who is more real?

Example:

Women are like "aaaw honey you loook so great, so beautiful, you are the best, you deserve the best". But they don't really mean it.

Males are like "eeew look at you, you fat ugly dumbass loser porn addict". But they don't really mean it.

So in reality men express their feelings towards each other a lot better than women could ever do. 🙂

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by PurplePassion38

Posted by Whorpio

Maybe we just have higher expectations for our friends than we do for our lovers.

Probably this for most women. Though fir me I tend to give friends more passes than boyfriends.

Samesies. It’s harder to find friends than dicks, to the point I’m actually desperate for female friends 😖

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They are my priority.....worth their weight in gold 🌟

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

nobody LOLZ at trolls except other trolls.

observe the reaction of females and how it always favors men

be it in life or over the internet

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Not for me. It's so easy to get sex, but not so much to sustain a genuine friendship with women.

There's no competition for me. I've seen what happens when women put men before all else in their lives, I've seen women put men before their children and friends...it's quite disgusting and really weak

😐👎🏻

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by _Dazed

The power of dick is stronger than the bond with your chick.

dick too strong

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See? You knew THAT! 🤣😂

Posted by GemLover

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

don't seem to be the general case for most women

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as male and she LOLZ

you try trolling a female while you're tagged as a female and she BLOCKS



BAhahah

nobody LOLZ at trolls except other trolls.

observe the reaction of females and how it always favors men

be it in life or over the internet

Not for me. It's so easy to get sex, but not so much to sustain a genuine friendship with women.

There's no competition for me. I've seen what happens when women put men before all else in their lives, I've seen women put men before their children and friends...it's quite disgusting and really weak

😐👎🏻

Thank you. Enough said right here. I've seen out of my own eyes that some women put their man ahead of their kids and DSS take their kids all away from them.

I hope the op doesn't have any kids for her own sake.

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I've seen a friend do it....three different men in her bed with her young son in the next room and him probably thinking "who will be my next daddy" 😥

Gross and no wonder the son now aged 21 is still clinging to his mother and can't separate from her...

I can't relate. I trash both equally. I do prefer to be friends with guys over women because women are weird af, too emotional and dramatic for me

Posted by SassyKiwi

I can't relate. I trash both equally. I do prefer to be friends with guys over women because women are weird af, too emotional and dramatic for me

my BFF is a gay Aquarius man

gives me a lot of space

never had genuine friendship with straight men coz sex

i'd prefer female friendships but i'm too self-centered to keep it going

While younger I had valued my female friends because my motto was...if man dumps you whom are you going to tell and cry on their shoulder? Your BFF! So there!

I am not sure anymore. My BFFs are still married and living stagnant lives and don’t want to change shit.

So they DONT UNDERSTAND how had I had a nerve to end my marriage and where did I found that man? 👀...at MY age?

If I told them I also smoke pot...😂😂

I will. Later. To make their juices boiling.

How can I explain that I am living upside down now? Whatever they had done at 26 I am doing at 52...

But I am thinking at 52 it’s more fun.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Posted by Gemitati

While younger I had valued my female friends because my motto was...if man dumps you whom are you going to tell and cry on their shoulder? Your BFF! So there!

I am not sure anymore. My BFFs are still married and living stagnant lives and don’t want to change shit.

So they DONT UNDERSTAND how had I had a nerve to end my marriage and where did I found that man? 👀...at MY age?

If I told them I also smoke pot...😂😂

I will. Later. To make their juices boiling.

How can I explain that I am living upside down now? Whatever they had done at 26 I am doing at 52...

But I am thinking at 52 it’s more fun.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

you seem happy

it's weird, i feel myself distancing from friends as i mature

i'm turning 26 this year and got a fully formed brain

and the only friendship i'm trying to keep is with a gay man

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by SassyKiwi

I can't relate. I trash both equally. I do prefer to be friends with guys over women because women are weird af, too emotional and dramatic for me

my BFF is a gay Aquarius man

gives me a lot of space

never had genuine friendship with straight men coz sex

i'd prefer female friendships but i'm too self-centered to keep it going

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Yeah I lose my straight male friends because of feels being caught.

I also wish I had more female friends but they would have to have lots of masculine, grounded energy. They can't have significant water or fire energy.

I find it strange when women criticise women or don't bond with them...it's. as though they are denying their feminity or a big part of themselves?

When you have a child, it's really important to have good women in your life.....

I'm eccentric, detached, and often misunderstood. So, when I build a friendship, it means alot to me whether male or female. My partners have to be friends as well.

So, I'm not speaking in judgement or hypotheticals...

I did not take offense to my bff finding us attractive (but hubby did), I did not take offense when a gay male friend finds hubby attractive nor when my bi girlfriend wanted to have sex. I maintained my friendships with the exception of my bff that was in love with us. Virgo hubby was offended. He was offended by bi girlfriend too but for some reason when I enforced boundaries, he was totally fine and liked her. Hubby runs off all male friends sometimes with the exception of gay. He doesn't play with nobody. He didn't want me staying with my married girlfriend and her hubby either. He does this because he is very strong in boundaries vs. me...

Commitment is commitment...and breaking a commitment is a severe offense to those committed. So, my friends are not involved in my commited relationships nor held to such standards.

Virgo said just the other day I make excuses for everybody except him. He gets no slack. He was angry, Lol. It's true... I expect the world from him.

So, I cannot speak on hetero woman-woman relationships within context presented as my friendships vary alot...

Posted by MyStarsShine

I find it strange when women criticise women or don't bond with them...it's. as though they are denying their feminity or a big part of themselves?

When you have a child, it's really important to have good women in your life.....

i find it weird too.

there's just something about men that just doesn't emotionally fulfill me as much as women but they are so much easier to deal with (except straights coz sex distracts).

focusing on my Aqua male gay friend is just me choosing convenience like always.

Aquas both male and female don't put too much pressure on me, they're supportive friends and they always give me enough space. generous who equally loves my generosity.

Posted by MyStarsShine

I find it strange when women criticise women or don't bond with them...it's. as though they are denying their feminity or a big part of themselves?

When you have a child, it's really important to have good women in your life.....

i find it weird too.

there's just something about men that just doesn't emotionally fulfill me as much as women but they are so much easier to deal with (except straights coz sex distracts).

focusing on my Aqua male gay friend is just me choosing convenience like always.

Aquas both male and female don't put too much pressure on me, they're supportive friends and they always give me enough space. generous who equally loves my generosity.

Posted by virgoOPPP

a man can cheat on a woman multiple times and she'd be reasonably upset

but her female friend does one small harmless thing and you'd never see her angrier

why are women so emotionally triggered by each other?

repressed homosexual urges?

strong Uranus placement?

Without clear details of the situation, I asses that your friend now feels threatened by you. Whatever you did, there is now something opposing or at complete odds in her view of you and whatever commonality she thought existed.

People are usually triggered by behaviors or views that oppose their paradigm.

Humans often choose friends who share a commonality. The more commonality percieved, the closer the friendship. When that perception is broken...

Sometimes one or both in the frienship choose to maintain perceptions of the other, sometimes unknowingly.

Posted by VenusAquarius

I'm eccentric, detached, and often misunderstood. So, when I build a friendship, it means alot to me whether male or female. My partners have to be friends as well.

So, I'm not speaking in judgement or hypotheticals...

I did not take offense to my bff finding us attractive (but hubby did), I did not take offense when a gay male friend finds hubby attractive nor when my bi girlfriend wanted to have sex. I maintained my friendships with the exception of my bff that was in love with us. Virgo hubby was offended. He was offended by bi girlfriend too but for some reason when I enforced boundaries, he was totally fine and liked her. Hubby runs off all male friends sometimes with the exception of gay. He doesn't play with nobody. He didn't want me staying with my married girlfriend and her hubby either. He does this because he is very strong in boundaries vs. me...

Commitment is commitment...and breaking a commitment is a severe offense to those committed. So, my friends are not involved in my commited relationships nor held to such standards.

Virgo said just the other day I make excuses for everybody except him. He gets no slack. He was angry, Lol. It's true... I expect the world from him.

So, I cannot speak on hetero woman-woman relationships within context presented as my friendships vary alot...

I fall more in love with you every day. No homo

I see this all the time.

Its cause she's not done with the dude so she can't release her full anger on him, instead she misdirects to the other woman.

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by VenusAquarius

I'm eccentric, detached, and often misunderstood. So, when I build a friendship, it means alot to me whether male or female. My partners have to be friends as well.

So, I'm not speaking in judgement or hypotheticals...

I did not take offense to my bff finding us attractive (but hubby did), I did not take offense when a gay male friend finds hubby attractive nor when my bi girlfriend wanted to have sex. I maintained my friendships with the exception of my bff that was in love with us. Virgo hubby was offended. He was offended by bi girlfriend too but for some reason when I enforced boundaries, he was totally fine and liked her. Hubby runs off all male friends sometimes with the exception of gay. He doesn't play with nobody. He didn't want me staying with my married girlfriend and her hubby either. He does this because he is very strong in boundaries vs. me...

Commitment is commitment...and breaking a commitment is a severe offense to those committed. So, my friends are not involved in my commited relationships nor held to such standards.

Virgo said just the other day I make excuses for everybody except him. He gets no slack. He was angry, Lol. It's true... I expect the world from him.

So, I cannot speak on hetero woman-woman relationships within context presented as my friendships vary alot...

I fall more in love with you every day. No homo

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LLLOL

We expect you guys to be a fuck up every now and then

We understand our friends essentially will sometimes too.

It just stings a bit more because we share common ground as women, we have the same struggles and arguably, fears. Not to mention a friendship is more likely to be founded on true unconditional basis than romantic relationships are. So when your female friend betrays you, it really is seriously unfortunate.

Also, your man might be heavily tied into your life if you guys are in a serious commitment. Its usually harder/less practical to drop your SO on the spot because of all you share.

I'm assuming we're talking about some real life shit though because i can't remember the last time I fell out with a really close girlfriend lol.

They are few and far between 😂

I legit have like 4 and we're way too strong in our bonds to ever dismantle them by doing something reckless.

Posted by LethalFantasia

This has already been mentioned but you would lowkey expect a man to kind of betray you but you would never expect your girl bff

Mmm-mmm, I expect, experiences, and accept the opposite.... down to my momma, my kids...and pets. Especially my kids... I birth them and know that they will be their own person with their own beliefs, lives, spouses, and family. I know that there may come a time where there beliefs, choices in spouse, conduct or life style may feel like a betrayal. I vowed to love them through it all.

My life partner, meaning for life, to death... I expect all things required to death... Look how much time we spend with each other...25 years. We even have the same timing in digestion from eating at the same time with each other.

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Posted by Ellygant

I always find it weird, female competitiveness/jealousy. I live in a world where I literally don’t acknowledge it.

To me friendship is straight forward. You care. They care. You handle you business. They handle theirs. When they ask or wanna see you, you go. Vice versa.

I’m not friends with drama or needy people or people who ask for free shit. We stay cool. But if your messy, you’re not my vibe. No need to share my life.

It’s very rare I get mad with friends. I resort to feeling hurt before angry. The few times I have become mad I ended the friendship then and there on my own. No talking it out. No answering messages. Not ghost, cause I just delete the person and move on. Anger is the emotion I detest most (except maybe jealousy) cause with me it normally boils down to petty ego or that I gave away control and personal freedom to someone. Neither are useful. So I cut my lossses and bounce.

You know that thread about people who changed your mind about signs? Your vibe is so bright and open, not dark and calculating, like the stereotype about Scorpios.

I never believed the stereotypes to begin with, which is why I didn't post in that thread, but yeah, you seem really cool.

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I hate how we're stereotyped lol

Like I need to have a conversation with the person who started this trend. Who hurt you bro? 😂

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I can't relate. I bend over backward for my female friends and rarely get mad at them for anything. I think the last time was 2009. No shit.

As long as you don't bend over backward for their mans lol

I learned my lesson on this one early on.

Don't brag about your mans dick game to your female friends. Don't gush too much over how great he is. Bitches be shady and will move in on that.

And obviously if your man takes the bait you have 2 pieces of trash to remove from your life.

Posted by virgoOPPP

a man can cheat on a woman multiple times and she'd be reasonably upset

but her female friend does one small harmless thing and you'd never see her angrier

why are women so emotionally triggered by each other?

repressed homosexual urges?

strong Uranus placement?

Girllll I tell my friends this all the time. They say I forgive my female friends too much or too quickly. Mind you my friends don’t do egregious things. I find them to be small things in the grand scheme of things. As long

As betrayal or lying isn’t involved I can get past it. I don’t forgive men that easily but they do. I tell them just like y’all forgive ninjas for anything.

I get mad at both parties equally and I would never forgive cheating either. My temper isn't gender specific