lisabeth
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what do you think men make mistakes in relationships?
For me 1 and 3 are huge. I need both for sure in a relationship
Posted by Delilahoney
Not showing empathy is the worst
that goes hand in hand with not listening well..
but sexual incompatibility sucks too
both are horrible.
can you imagine?
Posted by pisceswoman123i totally need cuddles.
For me 1 and 3 are huge. I need both for sure in a relationship
i feel so alone and lonely if i dont get it every night. that's why i wait till me and my husband go to bed together. i wait on him lol and only i get super tired that i go to sleep first before him but that's not often.
if i dont feel tired, he will demand we sleep together.
he tells me, 'are you my wife or what?" lol he can be so mean but sweet. i love him for being demanding.
Posted by lisabethur8That is sweet. You seem really in love with each other.Posted by pisceswoman123i totally need cuddles.
For me 1 and 3 are huge. I need both for sure in a relationship
i feel so alone and lonely if i dont get it every night. that's why i wait till me and my husband go to bed together. i wait on him lol and only i get super tired that i go to sleep first before him but that's not often.
if i dont feel tired, he will demand we sleep together.
he tells me, 'are you my wife or what?" lol he can be so mean but sweet. i love him for being demanding.click to expand
I need lots of physical contact in relationships. But not only from cuddles 😂
What sign was your husband again?
Posted by DelilahoneyNot showing empathy it’s a deal breaker for me.
Not showing empathy is the worst
that goes hand in hand with not listening well..
but sexual incompatibility sucks too
Posted by Delilahoney
Lisa, u seem like a really loyal & wonderful wife & ur gorgeous. I wanna be like that when I'm a wife one day! :33
lol thanks but that's another aquarius sun i use on my avatar: mackenzie philips (oops ...not philips...that's another woman from another generation) lol it's porter..
Posted by pisceswoman123i would hate that.Posted by DelilahoneyNot showing empathy it’s a deal breaker for me.
Not showing empathy is the worst
that goes hand in hand with not listening well..
but sexual incompatibility sucks tooclick to expand
my man always say sorry and huggle me if he knows he done wrong.
he has never abused me horribly. or taken me for granted.
hope you ladies find a good man too someday.
Posted by Delilahoneyill PM you a small photo of me.
Lisa, u seem like a really loyal & wonderful wife & ur gorgeous. I wanna be like that when I'm a wife one day! :33
is that you in your avatar?
these are good examples you can watch in acting. lol
he's so argumentative and lazy and she's too nagging about it. terrible match.
to be honest......if you watch closely in both those videos.. they NEED a hire a maid!!!!
cause they both work and too damned tired and yelling at eachother all the time.
just freaking HIRE a maid. she will do everything for you and you both can relax. jeeez.
Posted by lisabethur8Elisabeth, do you think that's the reason why Brannifer split up? 😢
these are good examples you can watch in acting. lol
he's so argumentative and lazy and she's too nagging about it. terrible match.
to be honest......if you watch closely in both those videos.. they NEED a hire a maid!!!!
cause they both work and too damned tired and yelling at eachother all the time.
just freaking HIRE a maid. she will do everything for you and you both can relax. jeeez.
Cause she was nagging and he wasn't doing anything at all? I feel so ashamed for Brad, IF that was the case.
I am following this thread in order to learn and prevent making mistakes with women.
Rule 1: Always listen carefully when She talks, even if it's about lemons!
If a woman says she doesn't like flowers then she wants flowers and probably new shoes as well!
So excited for rule 2! 🙂
Posted by TheSaguh it's just a film. lol but it's a good insight on how people communicate badly in a relationship.Posted by lisabethur8Elisabeth, do you think that's the reason why Brannifer split up? 😢
these are good examples you can watch in acting. lol
he's so argumentative and lazy and she's too nagging about it. terrible match.
to be honest......if you watch closely in both those videos.. they NEED a hire a maid!!!!
cause they both work and too damned tired and yelling at eachother all the time.
just freaking HIRE a maid. she will do everything for you and you both can relax. jeeez.
Cause she was nagging and he wasn't doing anything at all? I feel so ashamed for Brad, IF that was the case.
I am following this thread in order to learn and prevent making mistakes with women.
Rule 1: Always listen carefully when She talks, even if it's about lemons!
If a woman says she doesn't like flowers then she wants flowers and probably new shoes as well!
So excited for rule 2! 🙂click to expand
Posted by Leo188881are you doing ok financially though? not struggling to make ends meets?
I think all of those are important and you need compatibility in all of them.
I couldn't handle being ignored. I would probably die if i didn't get attention. My Aqua lacks empathy sometimes but he never ignores me so that makes up for it and he listens and understands if i explain.
Spending within your means doesn't bother me. Struggling to make ends meet would.
Selfish lovers who roll over and sleep once they're satisfied is a deal breaker for me. That makes me feel used.
Listening and communication is a huge one. I think most things can be resolved if you have that and relationships breakdown when that is lacking.
Opening up is something we need to work on. We can feel feelings for each other so they don't need to be said so much but maybe it's something that happens naturally as the relationship delvelops. We haven't said i love you yet and i don't know if or when that will happen
With dominance, I don't like being told what i can and can't do and I don't tell him what he can and can't do. That's something we discussed in the beginning so that comes down to trusting each other to make the right choices.
empathy in a relationship is very very important, if you dont have that together, it doesn't last
http://www.innovateus.net/innopedia/what-does-lack-empathy-mean
"Empathy is the basis for any relationship to survive and thrive. Problems start in relationships when there is lack of empathy as communication is the key to the growth of a relationship. It would be presumptuous to assume that others can understand your emotions without you expressing them out. Lack of empathy in a marriage arises when the partners lack understanding and trust for each other. Lack of empathy in partners can percolate down to children who start developing similar patterns of behavior.
A psychopath is called so as he suffers from lack of empathy. He cannot and does not empathize with people around him. He is spurred to action only by his self-interest and in a sense is socially dysfunctional. Similarly a narcissist suffers from lack of empathy when he focuses on his own pleasure and goes to any extent of manipulation even with family and friends just to gratify his needs."
Posted by Raakaclol all the family secrets.
Best part of break-up movie. lol skip to 1:28
Posted by lisabethur8that's what I thought, Elisabeth 🙂Posted by TheSaguh it's just a film. lol but it's a good insight on how people communicate badly in a relationship.Posted by lisabethur8Elisabeth, do you think that's the reason why Brannifer split up? 😢
these are good examples you can watch in acting. lol
he's so argumentative and lazy and she's too nagging about it. terrible match.
to be honest......if you watch closely in both those videos.. they NEED a hire a maid!!!!
cause they both work and too damned tired and yelling at eachother all the time.
just freaking HIRE a maid. she will do everything for you and you both can relax. jeeez.
Cause she was nagging and he wasn't doing anything at all? I feel so ashamed for Brad, IF that was the case.
I am following this thread in order to learn and prevent making mistakes with women.
Rule 1: Always listen carefully when She talks, even if it's about lemons!
If a woman says she doesn't like flowers then she wants flowers and probably new shoes as well!
So excited for rule 2! 🙂
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Rule 2: Men communicate badly!
Posted by Leo188881oh no i understand.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Leo188881are you doing ok financially though? not struggling to make ends meets?
I think all of those are important and you need compatibility in all of them.
I couldn't handle being ignored. I would probably die if i didn't get attention. My Aqua lacks empathy sometimes but he never ignores me so that makes up for it and he listens and understands if i explain.
Spending within your means doesn't bother me. Struggling to make ends meet would.
Selfish lovers who roll over and sleep once they're satisfied is a deal breaker for me. That makes me feel used.
Listening and communication is a huge one. I think most things can be resolved if you have that and relationships breakdown when that is lacking.
Opening up is something we need to work on. We can feel feelings for each other so they don't need to be said so much but maybe it's something that happens naturally as the relationship delvelops. We haven't said i love you yet and i don't know if or when that will happen
With dominance, I don't like being told what i can and can't do and I don't tell him what he can and can't do. That's something we discussed in the beginning so that comes down to trusting each other to make the right choices.
empathy in a relationship is very very important, if you dont have that together, it doesn't last
http://www.innovateus.net/innopedia/what-does-lack-empathy-mean
"Empathy is the basis for any relationship to survive and thrive. Problems start in relationships when there is lack of empathy as communication is the key to the growth of a relationship. It would be presumptuous to assume that others can understand your emotions without you expressing them out. Lack of empathy in a marriage arises when the partners lack understanding and trust for each other. Lack of empathy in partners can percolate down to children who start developing similar patterns of behavior.
A psychopath is called so as he suffers from lack of empathy. He cannot and does not empathize with people around him. He is spurred to action only by his self-interest and in a sense is socially dysfunctional. Similarly a narcissist suffers from lack of empathy when he focuses on his own pleasure and goes to any extent of manipulation even with family and friends just to gratify his needs."
We're both financially stable enough to be independent of someone else and both manage to save money. He spends more than I do. I think his Leo moon costs more than my Leo sun.
He is empathetic if I'm sad or stressed. Just not if it's because he did something to upset me. I have to explain how it made me feel so he understands instead of just knowing it upset me. He just thinks I'm mad and that i need space when really I'm hurt and just want a hug. That sounds kind of silly out loud.
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men have very very expensive hobbies that's for sure. lol
be thankful he doesn't take up golf.....those golf clubs and material costs are expensive...
better if he took up fishing. lol
Is there a women version of this?
Posted by Leo188881i looked it up.
@lisabethur8 unrelated, but do you know what signs Lynda Carter's husbands were?
She has the same sun moon venus and mars as me. But her husbands wiki details don't have date of birth
http://www.astrosage.com/celebrity-horoscope/robert-altman-horoscope.asp
he's an aqua/pisces cusper, on the pisces side, by a day and he's got aquarius influence too,
with Aquarius venus and aquarius mercury. His moon is in Capricorn & Jupiter are in capricorn too.
strong aqua/cap energy with pisces sun.
interesting.
is your aqua also have similar placements where he's got some pisces and an aqua venus or something?
cap moon?
i think you linked me his chart but all i saw were spinning wheels.
Posted by AerialViewwhy yes. lol
Is there a women version of this?
and guess what is No. 1—
1) trying to change your partner. lol
http://www.womansday.com/relationships/dating-marriage/advice/a2967/8-common-relationship-mistakes-19151/
oh dear...
lol this is another one.
http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/12-biggest-relationship-mistakes/
lol this is another one.
http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/12-biggest-relationship-mistakes/
It’s all changing with years passing by...
You can’t predict! You just live and see
You can’t predict! You just live and see
Posted by Leo188881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Leo188881i looked it up.
@lisabethur8 unrelated, but do you know what signs Lynda Carter's husbands were?
She has the same sun moon venus and mars as me. But her husbands wiki details don't have date of birth
http://www.astrosage.com/celebrity-horoscope/robert-altman-horoscope.asp
he's an aqua/pisces cusper, on the pisces side, by a day and he's got aquarius influence too,
with Aquarius venus and aquarius mercury. His moon is in Capricorn & Jupiter are in capricorn too.
strong aqua/cap energy with pisces sun.
interesting.
is your aqua also have similar placements where he's got some pisces and an aqua venus or something?
cap moon?
i think you linked me his chart but all i saw were spinning wheels.
Different Robert Altman. Her husband was born in 1947 not 1925. I don't think he's on that site. But thank you for trying 💖
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i thought...he looked much older. lol i also saw this, and they're BOTh pisces sun, so most likely similar placements just different person/year ect.
http://www.whosdatedwho.com/dating/robert-altman
both men are successful and powerful men. =)
wow lynda carter is a cusper. 1 degree leo sun, with her rising in libra.
and she has a stellium in cancer placements, including her cancer mars.
aries moon.
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Lynda_Carter
you really do have similar placements. she's got an 11th house venus so most likely her man has some aqua there. neptune in 12th gives off some neptunian energies. lol and cancer stellium trines the pisces in her hsuband.
Posted by Leo188881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Leo188881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Leo188881i looked it up.
@lisabethur8 unrelated, but do you know what signs Lynda Carter's husbands were?
She has the same sun moon venus and mars as me. But her husbands wiki details don't have date of birth
http://www.astrosage.com/celebrity-horoscope/robert-altman-horoscope.asp
he's an aqua/pisces cusper, on the pisces side, by a day and he's got aquarius influence too,
with Aquarius venus and aquarius mercury. His moon is in Capricorn & Jupiter are in capricorn too.
strong aqua/cap energy with pisces sun.
interesting.
is your aqua also have similar placements where he's got some pisces and an aqua venus or something?
cap moon?
i think you linked me his chart but all i saw were spinning wheels.
Different Robert Altman. Her husband was born in 1947 not 1925. I don't think he's on that site. But thank you for trying 💖
i thought...he looked much older. lol i also saw this, and they're BOTh pisces sun, so most likely similar placements just different person/year ect.
http://www.whosdatedwho.com/dating/robert-altman
both men are successful and powerful men. =)
wow lynda carter is a cusper. 1 degree leo sun, with her rising in libra.
and she has a stellium in cancer placements, including her cancer mars.
aries moon.
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Lynda_Carter
you really do have similar placements. she's got an 11th house venus so most likely her man has some aqua there. neptune in 12th gives off some neptunian energies. lol and cancer stellium trines the pisces in her hsuband.
Thank you again.
His zodiac says Pisces and date of birth is in Sagittarius 30 Nov. Lol.
I don't think we're supposed to know 😂
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i wonder how they got it in the first place and made him a pisces 😕
yeah many professional profiles wont show it.
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the list here is short but powerful. lol
1) not showin empathy to your partner.
if your wife feels ignored or needy, you need to pay attention. Or you're just incompatible so why are you with them?
2) spending sprees.
sometimes you both have two full time jobs or two part time work and you stil get $ $ from the government for extra help, and fees.
but you go on spending spree and you are over budget, this can break your relationship.
soon, you have 5 credit cards that are way over due and you are thinking about bankruptcy.
Also, you buy a big purchase like a car, and you dont tell your partner.
is that a big no no or what?
3) sexual incompatibiliy.
he just jumps on you and humps you and then he's done. you feel used and want more, you feel needy.
or he doesn't touch you for years.
(see, the tv series......from Denmark or the US version) he never gave her any cuddles or sex or anything...so she needs more.... she wants sex!!! and wants a divorce but they are sharing household and children ..
4) listening the wrong way.
he says one thing and you say another, incompatibility. she keeps telling you to listen to her chat and chat and nag ...and you dont wanna hear it and leave the house.
this is huge incompatible. and can be super annoying for both.
5) putting your feelings away, and you dont open up.
women want to hear your feelings about stuff. if he doesn't ..then incompatible.
6) being the dominant in the relationship.
weird list from the site, i just kind of shortened it.
what are your other lists? are you easy going and dont really demand much from a guy?