
E. M. Henderson
@Emhendo
8 Years1,000+ PostsCancer
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Posted by EmhendoPosted by topes
I was discussing this with an Aqua man yesterday. He believed that a lot of women are attracted to this kind of behaviour. Like there is a very fine line between what attracts them and what creeps them out. So men try to exploit this and sometimes fail their courting by crossing the creepy line.
It's a bit weird but what he said has some truth to it.
Me for example, I'm far too open and somewhat obvious and women are repelled by it, like it's the 'other side' of the creepy line.
We can't win lol.
The line is very thin, and that's what guys need to realize....
A woman decides in an INSTANT if she's attracted to you on or not... If she will fuck you, she likes you.. She can decide this in seconds..
So "courting", trying, and spitting game; You will know if it's gonna work or not, the same second she figures if she's attracted to you.
Basically, you'll know if she's interested, the moment she meets you.
And you will KNOW when a girl is interested, unless you're socially retarded ..Or you just wanna convince yourself that she's interested, or you THINK you can make her interested.. Which also socially retarded, in my opinion. You can't make people like you.
You know she's uninterested because she's curt, cold, and she's not engaged..
And that's why a lot of guys come off creepy to women...
Because they are fuckin socially retarded, or they think they can change the bitch's mind.
Trying is a turn off. Why you gotta prove yourself to a woman?
Women are smart.. They know when you're trying to prove yourself, and she's going to be subconsciously thinking "what is he trying to convince me of?" ... That might be seen as creepy..
That is weak behavior. You end up looking weak, and the harder you try.. The creepier you look.
Just move on, it's better if guys simply do just that..
Trying to chase a woman makes things worse, because you look weak.. Give her room for you to cross her mind.. She's gonna be like "whatever happened to that guy" ..She may end up feeling like she was wrong about that guy..
A guy should be out talking to other women anyway, not chasing one chick..
You are hindering yourself from having beautiful connections and possibly meeting someone better anyway...
....To keep it short, if a girl finds you creepy, you was chasing and trying too damn hard.. YOU we're definitely doing something to her..click to expand

Posted by EmhendoPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by NemDeux
two leo sun men have really creeped me out.
their MO was very similar! aggressive and persistent.
the more recent one working in the same company but thankfully unrelated departments. met at an internal seminar; afterwards he found me via the intranet and called so often it was embarrasing. secretary was eyeballing me already ..., i declined any and all invitations and the final straw was him sending me a box of cookies through the house postal department ....sent them back.
the other leo male was so pushy and such a weirdo; he actually twisted my wrist around when i told him off for trying to get too close and he realized nothing was gonna happen between us. that same evening he started calling me and cussing md out saying i'm not special, arrogant bitch ...whoaaa so glad i got away.
Maybe they have scorpio mars
Once i posted to ask how to estimate the mars sign in the leo board so i can avoid them
I will NEVER trust Scorpio mars.
You gotta squash them like the bugs they are.
FUCK Mars in Scorpio.click to expand

Posted by neves
Japanese (none can compare). The sign matters less.

Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by neves
Japanese (none can compare). The sign matters less.
Ok so i just came across this thread and digging..
No, neves. They are perverted weirdos but.. Have you ever came across Indian men? Exp in hk with friends. In SG i was alone in the subway, daytime and that guy followed me. Hk and SG arent their country and have strict laws.. can you imagine if you are a tourist in India? I want to travel there but better notclick to expand

Posted by nevesPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by neves
Japanese (none can compare). The sign matters less.
Ok so i just came across this thread and digging..
No, neves. They are perverted weirdos but.. Have you ever came across Indian men? Exp in hk with friends. In SG i was alone in the subway, daytime and that guy followed me. Hk and SG arent their country and have strict laws.. can you imagine if you are a tourist in India? I want to travel there but better not
Can't argue with that. This reminded of this...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2012_Delhi_gang_rape
And also the outcome of that incident from 2012: https://www.express.co.uk/news/world/800699/Indian-men-gang-raped-Jyoti-Singh-Pandey-on-bus-so-brutally-she-died-sentenced-to-death Apparently they were all sentenced to death (: justice served / they got what they deserved). Hopefully, this outcome was impactful enough - to discourage other savages alike. 😑
Japanese are famous for their weird/unusual shows (: both on TV and some of the porn they make) - and same goes for the way they dress (at least - some of them) - compared to the rest of the world. And that's what my referral was about. Cause on the other hand - they're also famous for showing a better education (well raised by their elders - as some would put it). The most respectful nation. As could be seen even recently - at the world cup - where many stayed behind to clean-up the mess. The only nation that did that. So yeah... something like that atrocious incident from Delhi - is probably the least likely to occur in a place like Japan. That's like - the opposite extreme. Can't say that i ever felt the urge to go to India (especially since i don't like the heat / same reason why Australia is not that appealing either), but i did yearn to visit Japan (more than any other place / had this fascination with Japan 😋).click to expand
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I will NEVER trust Scorpio mars.
You gotta squash them like the bugs they are.
FUCK Mars in Scorpio.