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Why are women so bad at following the "sister code"?
The sag was a classmate, not a friend. That's completely fair game.
Posted by BloopGirl code is real.
I was just reading this post below from a girl whose sag friend started feeling the hots for her photograohy teacher when she confessed her feelings to her.
I have seen many other cases like this.
Why cant many girls conform to the most basic rules of friendship?
I have never seen much internet rants about a guy messing with another guy's love life.
If we are in the bathroom together and I need a tampon, hairtye, teeth check or booger check.. I expect you to do your job.
But women get weird with their heart.
All is fair in love and war? Or no?
My bestest friend, a gem chick, never went after my guy. But the Taurus friend did, the Aries friend did... it's weird.
Woman code is to be cherished, polished and worshipped. We have enough to worry about as it is. May as well team up as sisters. I sound like a feminist and I might be one.
Key word here GIRLS. Women are too busy building each other up and kicking life's ass.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
This is one of the main reasons I resent the fact that I am a woman at times.
No unity. No loyalty. Just a bunch of catty, vindictive, bitches who are constantly trying to one up each other.
This is why most of my friends are male. I have no drama in my life.
My guy friends have the most drama. I have to take breaks.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXOh man they are in their 40s and 30s! 2 Sags, Libra and an Aqua. 😆 Such catty dorks! Last night some gossip was busted and I thought I stumbled upon a Telenovela! 😄Posted by kissmygritsReally??Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
This is one of the main reasons I resent the fact that I am a woman at times.
No unity. No loyalty. Just a bunch of catty, vindictive, bitches who are constantly trying to one up each other.
This is why most of my friends are male. I have no drama in my life.
My guy friends have the most drama. I have to take breaks.
How old are they? What are their signs?click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXUntil your guy friend wants to spread them legs.
This is one of the main reasons I resent the fact that I am a woman at times.
No unity. No loyalty. Just a bunch of catty, vindictive, bitches who are constantly trying to one up each other.
This is why most of my friends are male. I have no drama in my life.
Yes he's not talking to me now because I was dating that Virgo. He's really weird.
Posted by AnarchoScorpioHow creepy.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXUntil your guy friend wants to spread them legs.
This is one of the main reasons I resent the fact that I am a woman at times.
No unity. No loyalty. Just a bunch of catty, vindictive, bitches who are constantly trying to one up each other.
This is why most of my friends are male. I have no drama in my life.
click to expand
Posted by sadpopcornU mean if thr were more women team sports and thy were popular, sis code would have been propagated and thy would have learnt valuable lessons?
the lack of team sports growing up
not to say that individual sport athletes suck at codes
or women that actually did will be better friends
i'm saying it's not put on a pedestal in the same way
just look at this sausage party
Posted by ImTheRamWomen have a sex drive eight fold that of a man.
LOL
The irony.....Sister Code!
When their own (blood) sisters can't follow the code...there is not much to say.
I usualy say this.."give a woman 2 months without sex...and she will do anything to get it...anything..."
Just a generalisation...but the longer it gets...it's even worse...
🙂
Opening this thread like
Posted by ImpulsvThat's because the interest actually was there before but now there's a threat. A person may not feel the need to take as much action to court someone if they think they're the only one interested. It's just simple psychology. Has nothing to do with females in particular or taking interest in someone due to competition. If you feel like your crush may be taken away by someone else of course you're going to up your game. Or walk away. But most would probably keep trying to courtPosted by Scenic
The sag was a classmate, not a friend. That's completely fair game.
Sure but what I find odd is interest is there now when it wasn't there before
It's a competition
Someone worth is derived by taking anothers interestclick to expand
Why cant many girls conform to the most basic rules of friendship?I've heard many stories of guys messing with another guy's "love life" though.
I have never seen much internet rants about a guy messing with another guy's love life.
Posted by blessyouPosted by SalamanderCandynot as much as females.. definitely not as much. but i got friends that dont really fucked niggas bitches you know? if a nigga fucked my bitch, i aint gon be mad at the nigga.. imma be mad at the bitch cause she the one who spread her legs open, she wasn't raped so...Why cant many girls conform to the most basic rules of friendship?I've heard many stories of guys messing with another guy's "love life" though.
I have never seen much internet rants about a guy messing with another guy's love life.click to expand
Hm..I'd beg to differ, but since we're both so sure of what we've seen, I'll just leave it at that. Also, you know that "nigga" has the same willpower right..? It's not like he can't control himself.
Posted by starloverYou're not "blessed," you're fortunate. Going around, touting how much you're blessed is pompous and arrogant. You are not holy. You are not conscecrated. You are also not dead.
I must be blessed.....all my friends are women.....all wonderful
You are fortunate to have your friends, health, family, and whatever else you keep deeming that makes you "blessed" around here.
This is why I'm careful with what I divulge to friends about my relationships/sex life. There's always the fear that if I'm estatic about the dudes game they might decide to check it out for themselves.
The only female I can be 100 with is my sister.
The only female I can be 100 with is my sister.
Because our society pits both genders against women. We perpetually create insecure individuals who go around doing this batshit crazy stuff.
Her esteem is so piss poor that ANY form of attention makes her feel valued, stealing another man makes her oh so desirable, which is something else society dictates as a woman's primary goal in life.
Insecure, silly bitches do this garbage and aren't worthy of anyone's friendship until they can get their shit together. Until then, they flock together and should be avoided at all costs.
When I was in my late teens, my Sag bff at the time decided she was going to go flirt around with a guy I had a crush on. ..in front of me. Because you know how some Sags tend to roll- thinking with their vag and all that bs.
Needless to say, further down the road, our friendship crumbled. That wasn't the main reason, but it was the first crack in that foundation. Why did she do it? Because she was insecure as fuck and had no tact whatsoever.
Flip it around- recently, my Gem friend went apeshit on me and accused ME of doing shit like this. Why? Insecure as fuck. She was so neurotic about the idea of her husband cheating and constantly was accusing him of it. Because I wouldn't help feed her neuroses and violate his privacy and choose to spy for her (I was friends with both), she immediately figured I was the one he was supposedly cheating with.
It took a total fantasy in her head for her to not only destroy her marriage, but she also had no problem destroying our friendship because of that lunacy.
I see a lot of crazy fuck shit at work too since I work in a place where the 1950s mentality is the norm amongst the female gender there. Makes me want to fucking gag and I barely associate with them. I stick with the normal girls and most of the guys. Like Alicia pointed out- it's probably the masculine energy. I just seriously cannot deal with all that stupid fuck shit.
Let these bitches be total assholes. Nobody ain't got time for that. As soon as someone proves they're one of these low life whores, I distance myself immediately and don't really bother with them.
Her esteem is so piss poor that ANY form of attention makes her feel valued, stealing another man makes her oh so desirable, which is something else society dictates as a woman's primary goal in life.
Insecure, silly bitches do this garbage and aren't worthy of anyone's friendship until they can get their shit together. Until then, they flock together and should be avoided at all costs.
When I was in my late teens, my Sag bff at the time decided she was going to go flirt around with a guy I had a crush on. ..in front of me. Because you know how some Sags tend to roll- thinking with their vag and all that bs.
Needless to say, further down the road, our friendship crumbled. That wasn't the main reason, but it was the first crack in that foundation. Why did she do it? Because she was insecure as fuck and had no tact whatsoever.
Flip it around- recently, my Gem friend went apeshit on me and accused ME of doing shit like this. Why? Insecure as fuck. She was so neurotic about the idea of her husband cheating and constantly was accusing him of it. Because I wouldn't help feed her neuroses and violate his privacy and choose to spy for her (I was friends with both), she immediately figured I was the one he was supposedly cheating with.
It took a total fantasy in her head for her to not only destroy her marriage, but she also had no problem destroying our friendship because of that lunacy.
I see a lot of crazy fuck shit at work too since I work in a place where the 1950s mentality is the norm amongst the female gender there. Makes me want to fucking gag and I barely associate with them. I stick with the normal girls and most of the guys. Like Alicia pointed out- it's probably the masculine energy. I just seriously cannot deal with all that stupid fuck shit.
Let these bitches be total assholes. Nobody ain't got time for that. As soon as someone proves they're one of these low life whores, I distance myself immediately and don't really bother with them.
Of course blessyou is all over this thread.
Get off our nuts dude.
Get off our nuts dude.
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Why cant many girls conform to the most basic rules of friendship?
I have never seen much internet rants about a guy messing with another guy's love life.