Why do women want a deep emotional connection with a man so bably

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I feel like women care about that more than money or looks. Men like emotional connections as well but it seems like women want something deeper than what we like. I have seen women get jealous that her man has an emotional connection with his best home boy. Which as men we see that as our brother not every man gets that close. None the less I see women get jealous of the connection. Which make belive that women truly desire that... I could be wrong but that's my observation.
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I feel like women care about that more than money or looks. Men like emotional connections as well but it seems like women want something deeper than what we like. I have seen women get jealous that her man has an emotional connection with his best home boy. Which as men we see that as our brother not every man gets that close. None the less I see women get jealous of the connection. Which make belive that women truly desire that... I could be wrong but that's my observation.


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prob coz women have more options.

if you have varied selections, then you might as well pick one that's really worth the time. awkward thing to say when you always go for the most troubled dudes but hey they emotionally drive you.

if you don't feel much for someone, you prob won't feel the need to stay in touch with them or try to please them. hell most good-looking guy i dated was an aries but i was just not feeling it for some reason. so much so that i forget to text him. i didn't care enough. was it coz he was too available? 🤔🤔

such connections naturally lead to goodbyes.

dude can be ugly and abusive but if she feels enough for him, she can flood his phone all day 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
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Because we're retarded haha. Joking, the only retarded thing about us is the need for a deep connection with a shallow being called man. Honestly, after my experience a man who has a deep connection with his bro is a red flag 🚩 because it shows that he's a basic boy. If you value testosterone induced interests more than a pure union between two souls, thanks but you have nothing to offer except a meat dildo connected to a body.
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Why doesn’t a man want a deep connection with a woman he’s dating when he has them with his best friend?

It’s possible to have both, but jealousy seems to say the woman isn’t as important to you. Or at least that’s how she’s feeling.

well men would like to do that but most of the time it blows up in our face. As men we are supposed to be the leader in the relationship. All women are attracted to leadership qualities. Unfortunately being unemotional available is needed. I remember this old school player said once a women knows she has you emotionally it's over. And she is looking for her next victim. I didn't like that he said that, but I can't lie he was right lol. I have seen that with every guy I know. It's sad I'll wait for that unicorn lol.
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It's just the way the male and female DNA works. I feel men want something, go out and obtain it, and that is that. No need to keep confirming it, because it's already a thing that exists. Most women need a constant flux of emotional connection because it reassures everything is ok, and makes them feel like they are truly loved. That is the key word, makes them feel. Women need to feel on an emotional level or they get bored and might look for that type of connection elsewhere. That could be anything from raising a family, to getting lost in entertainment, or other people.

Now this is just my opinion when objectively looking at the basic male and female energy. I'm sure there are people from both sides who strongly disagree, and that is fine. On a basic human level and when it comes to the mass majority of the population, this issues occurs simply due to male and female energy being on different levels of wants and needs, and somewhat out of sync with one another. It's fascinating to see situations where the male and female energy work out for the long run, which is mainly due to deep leves of respect, and understanding of the others needs and wants.
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Why doesn’t a man want a deep connection with a woman he’s dating when he has them with his best friend?

It’s possible to have both, but jealousy seems to say the woman isn’t as important to you. Or at least that’s how she’s feeling.

well men would like to do that but most of the time it blows up in our face. As men we are supposed to be the leader in the relationship. All women are attracted to leadership qualities. Unfortunately being unemotional available is needed. I remember this old school player said once a women knows she has you emotionally it's over. And she is looking for her next victim. I didn't like that he said that, but I can't lie he was right lol. I have seen that with every guy I know. It's sad I'll wait for that unicorn lol.
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Not all women are like that. It is sad when people can’t be open enough to have that type of connection.. lol unicorns exist.
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Because we're retarded haha. Joking, the only retarded thing about us is the need for a deep connection with a shallow being called man. Honestly, after my experience a man who has a deep connection with his bro is a red flag 🚩 because it shows that he's a basic boy. If you value testosterone induced interests more than a pure union between two souls, thanks but you have nothing to offer except a meat dildo connected to a body.

Women be jealous of our abilty to form deep genuine friendships with our kin.
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Can't say that I'm jealous of something that reeks of latent homosexual tendencies. I just avoid such men. 🤷‍♀️ If I can't be your deep genuine friend, I am not interested.
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Because we're retarded haha. Joking, the only retarded thing about us is the need for a deep connection with a shallow being called man. Honestly, after my experience a man who has a deep connection with his bro is a red flag 🚩 because it shows that he's a basic boy. If you value testosterone induced interests more than a pure union between two souls, thanks but you have nothing to offer except a meat dildo connected to a body.

Women be jealous of our abilty to form deep genuine friendships with our kin.

Can't say that I'm jealous of something that reeks of latent homosexual tendencies. I just avoid such men. 🤷‍♀️ If I can't be your deep genuine friend, I am not interested.
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Lmao that's how men are, that are friends lol its a brotherhood it's not that deep pause.