Lost my big girl pants...

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StingTailedLibra
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Bf has invited me to NY to meet his fam and friends. The only prob is, its a 20+hr journey and ALONE. Is it bad that I am seriously feeling like I cant do it? The longest journey I take on a plane is around 12 hours and im pooped, so its like getting off that flight and being told okay you have to do the same again, and now.

FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!
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Posted by meh
What is it about traveling alone that you find taxing?


I can do it I guess, I think it's just more enjoyable and take the edge off a near 24hr trip if we are in it together. Eating, laughing, movies, fall asleep drooling on his shoulder crouched up uncomfy the 2 of us LOL!

I just feel like *sigh* here I go on my own again, more airports, more planes, more journeys-solo. When I was younger I guess I saw it as more of an adventure and very liberating. Now i'm just over it. It was one of the things that I was looking forward to when i finally meet someone-something to share this kinda stuff with, long overdue.
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You can sleep a lot of the time ?

Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
I wish! Not at that earning potential yet 😉 Seriously considering dropping the cash for business class myself.
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May be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?
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You can sleep a lot of the time ?

Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
I wish! Not at that earning potential yet 😉 Seriously considering dropping the cash for business class myself.
May be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?
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3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)

Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Bf has invited me to NY to meet his fam and friends. The only prob is, its a 20+hr journey and ALONE. Is it bad that I am seriously feeling like I cant do it? The longest journey I take on a plane is around 12 hours and im pooped, so its like getting off that flight and being told okay you have to do the same again, and now.

FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!
Are you stupid or what?
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Bf has invited me to NY to meet his fam and friends. The only prob is, its a 20+hr journey and ALONE. Is it bad that I am seriously feeling like I cant do it? The longest journey I take on a plane is around 12 hours and im pooped, so its like getting off that flight and being told okay you have to do the same again, and now.

FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!
Are you stupid or what?
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Its questionable...depends on the time of the month? Whats up with your face? BF not left his wife yet? Anyway do proceed....
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OMG! I am imagining this marriage!

'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'

'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'

'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'

'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?

What a lucky fella!!' —
Ohhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.

^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
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OMG! I am imagining this marriage!

'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'

'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'

'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'

'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?

What a lucky fella!!' —
Ohhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.

^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
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Have you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!

'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'

'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'

'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'

'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?

What a lucky fella!!' —
Ohhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.

^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
Have you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?
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My weight is as constant as my decision making skills. ^^ see your own post.

"I cant go to the kitchen"-theres too many sweets

"I cant eat this sandwich" - theres not enough cheese

"I can't be pregnant" - Ill get fat

"I can't do anything"-because I want to eat everything.

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Gemitati
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!

'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'

'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'

'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'

'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?

What a lucky fella!!' —
Ohhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.

^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
Have you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?
My weight is as constant as my decision making skills. ^^ see your own post.

"I cant go to the kitchen"-theres too many sweets

"I cant eat this sandwich" - theres not enough cheese

"I can't be pregnant" - Ill get fat

"I can't do anything"-because I want to eat everything.

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Have i said you are stupid?
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StingTailedLibra
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Gemitati
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!

'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'

'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'

'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'

'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?

What a lucky fella!!' —
Ohhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.

^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
Have you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?
My weight is as constant as my decision making skills. ^^ see your own post.

"I cant go to the kitchen"-theres too many sweets

"I cant eat this sandwich" - theres not enough cheese

"I can't be pregnant" - Ill get fat

"I can't do anything"-because I want to eat everything.


Have i said you are stupid?
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No ma'am but I believe you asked...if that's the same thing as "saying" in your language.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
You can sleep a lot of the time ?

Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
I wish! Not at that earning potential yet 😉 Seriously considering dropping the cash for business class myself.
May be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?
3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)

Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!
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Has he offered to help you out with the fare, Libra ?
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by MyStarsShine
You can sleep a lot of the time ?

Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
I wish! Not at that earning potential yet 😉 Seriously considering dropping the cash for business class myself.
May be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?
3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)

Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!
Has he offered to help you out with the fare, Libra ?
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He has but I know his current financial situation, he is paying off student debt also, but he doesnt want to seem like he cant help me. He is offering but I know its not in his best interest to be out of that kind of money. I think ill take a back seat for this trip because we really cant afford now and again over Christmas, esp since we just had a pretty well travelled summer. I shall stay here and hold the fort, keep our plants alive lol!
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by MyStarsShine
You can sleep a lot of the time ?

Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
I wish! Not at that earning potential yet 😉 Seriously considering dropping the cash for business class myself.
May be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?
3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)

Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!
Has he offered to help you out with the fare, Libra ?
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So my Mr it turns out has received a bonus at work, and he wants to use it for me to come home with him