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Posted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why 🤔click to expand
This sounds like you assume all married men cheat. That is not true. But going after married men, and tempting them to cheat is an issue. Someone being open to it , they don’t care about what their wife thinks & will cheat regardless, is a different story. Still depending on the wife, it can still be a dangerous situation. You’re in deep denial if you don’t understand that.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why 🤔click to expand
Take advantage of that, make some money while also having fun, at the wife (and childrens) expense.
Morals are a personal preference until they affect those who didn’t choose to participate.
Posted by alexscaries
Not putting to finer point on it some people are just physically and mentally built for promiscuity. It just in their nature. No judgement from me.
So you wouldn’t judge a woman or man who knowingly had sex with someone who was married with kids and could possibly hurt/break up a family?
Posted by rotiPosted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why 🤔
Take advantage of that, make some money while also having fun, at the wife (and childrens) expense.
Morals are a personal preference until they start affecting others who didn’t choose to participate.click to expand
Exactly 👌🏻
Posted by PuzzlePieces
This sounds like you assume all married men cheat. That is not true. But going after married men, and tempting them to cheat is an issue. Someone being open to it , they don’t care about what their wife thinks & will cheat regardless, is a different story. Still depending on the wife, it can still be a dangerous situation. You’re in deep denial if you don’t understand that.
As stated earlier, I don’t see a married man and say “oh I gotta flip him”.
The hotties I’ve approached at my workplace don’t wear wedding rings (I was even surprised to hear the sag this thread is about it married because he definitely seemed single).
I only go after the married men who give me the green light. If they mind their own business or explicitly tell me they are not interested (as was the case with this sag when I asked for his number and he initially said he couldn’t because he is married, I forgot about him until the notes. Since he initiated the notes, that’s my green light. If he would never have left notes and stayed in his married lane) I would just continue on and be happy with my current buffet.
So again, to reiterate, I’m not intentionally chasing married men trying to tempt them; if they initiate something with me, I will play along and go as far as they let it. For me, that’s part of providing the best experience to them because everyone has a negative experience if they’re pressured into something before they’re ready.
Notice this thread wasn’t even about asking how to make this current one sleep with me; it was about will he even sleep with me or are my charms better invested in some of my other on-the-fence admirers.
Posted by alexscaries
Not putting to finer point on it some people are just physically and mentally built for promiscuity. It just in their nature. No judgement from me.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: if you got a Ferrari, you ain’t gon just keep it parked in the garage and cherish it for yourself. You’re going to take it out and show off around town.
My face is hot, my body is snatched, my pussy grips, and I can mentally stimulate just about anyone. I will feel like my talents are wasting away if I only share myself with one person for the rest of my life, and stop profiting off of what I’ve been blessed with.
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Antiphates
One or two eternities.
Could you say more please
To what?click to expand
Your comment
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Antiphates
One or two eternities.
Could you say more please
To what?
Your comment
We slow.click to expand
What is this, an identity crisis with taurus? Sag acts fast!!! Taurus acts slow.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I don't follow up with the crowd and double-triple team on you. Just go with your gut feeling. Like Mr.Nobody said, goodluck.
Even if it hurts other people?click to expand
Who is she harming?
Ok I went back on the 1st page and reread her original post. Like how do we know the dude marriage isn't falling apart? That could be a possibility.
I'm not the type to butt in others affairs or whatever yall wanna call this and keep derailing a thread on this particular subject. If(and not just the op but anybody) want to take a married man or woman that's on them. I couldn't care less one way or the other myself. What I'm seeing is a young girl who just wants to have some fun.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I don't follow up with the crowd and double-triple team on you. Just go with your gut feeling. Like Mr.Nobody said, goodluck.
Even if it hurts other people?
Who is she harming?
Ok I went back on the 1st page and reread her original post. Like how do we know the dude marriage isn't falling apart? That could be a possibility.
I'm not the type to butt in others affairs or whatever yall wanna call this and keep derailing a thread on this particular subject. If(and not just the op but anybody) want to take a married man or woman that's on them. I couldn't care less one way or the other myself. What I'm seeing is a young girl who just wants to have some fun.click to expand
She could be harming someone’s wife and kids by having sex with their husband/father...
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Who is she harming?
Ok I went back on the 1st page and reread her original post. Like how do we know the dude marriage isn't falling apart? That could be a possibility.
I'm not the type to butt in others affairs or whatever yall wanna call this and keep derailing a thread on this particular subject. If(and not just the op but anybody) want to take a married man or woman that's on them. I couldn't care less one way or the other myself. What I'm seeing is a young girl who just wants to have some fun.
Thank you 4 the support. Gemini is my favorite sign on men
Posted by alexscaries
I think you might be the female version of me. Only much more full on.
I wouldn’t say I’m full-on in real life. I keep these philosophies to myself and fall into the laps I feel destined to fall into (*cough* the laps that belong to men with money and/or super hot men *cough*).
I will say my confidence is full-on IRL though. I am satisfied with the current line up of sex partners I have, so I don’t stress too much when I’m rejected (especially because I know men will always circle back after they reject you). I flaunt what I got, but I never act out of desperation because I know I’m the puppet master.
You the same? If yes, do you think we may be twins separated at birth?
Posted by WhorpioPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Who is she harming?
Ok I went back on the 1st page and reread her original post. Like how do we know the dude marriage isn't falling apart? That could be a possibility.
I'm not the type to butt in others affairs or whatever yall wanna call this and keep derailing a thread on this particular subject. If(and not just the op but anybody) want to take a married man or woman that's on them. I couldn't care less one way or the other myself. What I'm seeing is a young girl who just wants to have some fun.
Thank you 4 the support. Gemini is my favorite sign on menclick to expand
I've had my fair share of this in the past. Been there done that already. But my sichation was a lot worse. I done got caught cheating while in an affair. Just don't be like me and make that same mistake. That's all I got.
Posted by MyStarsShineShe could be harming someone’s wife and kids by having sex with their husband/father...
You speak as if the wife and kids are soooooo fragile.
The human psyche is a lot stronger than you seem to believe. Everything happens for a reason; a wife discovering an affair, children finding nudes of a woman who isn’t their mom in their dads phone. The universe creates those situations for a reason.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShineShe could be harming someone’s wife and kids by having sex with their husband/father...
You speak as if the wife and kids are soooooo fragile.
The human psyche is a lot stronger than you seem to believe. Everything happens for a reason; a wife discovering an affair, children finding nudes of a woman who isn’t their mom in their dads phone. The universe creates those situations for a reason.click to expand
And some women and especially children are very fragile
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShineShe could be harming someone’s wife and kids by having sex with their husband/father...
You speak as if the wife and kids are soooooo fragile.
The human psyche is a lot stronger than you seem to believe. Everything happens for a reason; a wife discovering an affair, children finding nudes of a woman who isn’t their mom in their dads phone. The universe creates those situations for a reason.click to expand
Mmm nope you create it not the universe
Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed that message was hidden. It was either an insult or a sizzler.
It was a hot 🥵 offer. You finally met your dxp perfect match, lol.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscaries
Disappointed that message was hidden. It was either an insult or a sizzler.
It was a hot 🥵 offer. You finally met your dxp perfect match, lol.
Not much I say no to these days.click to expand
Things are that rough on your end?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscaries
Disappointed that message was hidden. It was either an insult or a sizzler.
It was a hot 🥵 offer. You finally met your dxp perfect match, lol.
Not much I say no to these days.
Things are that rough on your end?
I'm a very loving and giving person and my libido is sky high since I started lifting again.click to expand
A nice guy who is always in the mood.
Posted by TruemaraPosted by Whorpio
The human psyche is a lot stronger than you seem to believe. Everything happens for a reason; a wife discovering an affair, children finding nudes of a woman who isn’t their mom in their dads phone. The universe creates those situations for a reason.
Mmm nope you create it not the universeclick to expand
Nope. What a wife does to discover an affair is completely out of my hands. A kid stumbling upon the evidence is not my doing either.
The only person I have contact with is the husband. The only person who knows I exist is the husband (unless things come to light). I play no part in the affair coming to light; I don’t expect or wish for affairs I’m involved in to come to light.
I simply participate when I’m asked to participate.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShineShe could be harming someone’s wife and kids by having sex with their husband/father...
You speak as if the wife and kids are soooooo fragile.
The human psyche is a lot stronger than you seem to believe. Everything happens for a reason; a wife discovering an affair, children finding nudes of a woman who isn’t their mom in their dads phone. The universe creates those situations for a reason.
And some women and especially children are very fragile
Men aren't much better. I've known men who are a mess after a break up. One guy is an alcoholic.click to expand
Yes being cheated on can devastate both men and women
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscaries
Disappointed that message was hidden. It was either an insult or a sizzler.
It was a hot 🥵 offer. You finally met your dxp perfect match, lol.
Not much I say no to these days.click to expand
Pulse and a skirt? 😂🥴
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscaries
Disappointed that message was hidden. It was either an insult or a sizzler.
It was a hot 🥵 offer. You finally met your dxp perfect match, lol.
Not much I say no to these days.
Pulse and a skirt? 😂🥴
Just stockings will do.click to expand
Stockings and no pulse it is then
Posted by alexscaries I'm a very loving and giving person and my libido is sky high since I started lifting again.
Omg we really are the same 🤣🤣 Except my libido was high even before weight lifting 🙃
P.S. I wear stockings and heels to work. My favorite stockings are Cubans 😉
Posted by WhorpioPosted by alexscaries I'm a very loving and giving person and my libido is sky high since I started lifting again.
Omg we really are the same 🤣🤣 Except my libido was high even before weight lifting 🙃
P.S. I wear stockings and heels to work. My favorite stockings are Cubans 😉click to expand
Do you dress like a hooker? Or more like a classy escort?
Posted by WhorpioPosted by alexscaries I'm a very loving and giving person and my libido is sky high since I started lifting again.
Omg we really are the same 🤣🤣 Except my libido was high even before weight lifting 🙃
P.S. I wear stockings and heels to work. My favorite stockings are Cubans 😉click to expand
You guys should get to know each other better =)
Posted by borednbeautiful
Do you dress like a hooker? Or more like a classy escort?
I like to think I dress like a classy escort. The only thing that says “prostitute” is some of the heels I wear since I’ve recycled them from a stage career. I don’t break those ones out often though.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by WhorpioPosted by alexscaries I'm a very loving and giving person and my libido is sky high since I started lifting again.
Omg we really are the same 🤣🤣 Except my libido was high even before weight lifting 🙃
P.S. I wear stockings and heels to work. My favorite stockings are Cubans 😉
You guys should get to know each other better =)click to expand
Lmao I feel like this is sarcasm and I’m absolutely living for it 🤣🤣
Posted by WhorpioPosted by borednbeautiful
Do you dress like a hooker? Or more like a classy escort?
I like to think I dress like a classy escort. The only thing that says “prostitute” is some of the heels I wear since I’ve recycled them from a stage career. I don’t break those ones out often though.click to expand
Wait a minute. You had a career in this type of stuff?
Did you make a lot of money doing it?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Wait a minute. You had a career in this type of stuff?
Did you make a lot of money doing it?
Today, I feel bashful speaking about my past so I am just going to respond with a gif. I apologize for not answering your questions.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by WhorpioPosted by borednbeautiful
Do you dress like a hooker? Or more like a classy escort?
I like to think I dress like a classy escort. The only thing that says “prostitute” is some of the heels I wear since I’ve recycled them from a stage career. I don’t break those ones out often though.
Wait a minute. You had a career in this type of stuff?
Did you make a lot of money doing it?
You thinking of a switch? Me too.click to expand
I beg your pardon? What do you mean?
Posted by WhorpioPosted by borednbeautiful
Wait a minute. You had a career in this type of stuff?
Did you make a lot of money doing it?
Today, I feel bashful speaking about my past so I am just going to respond with a gif. I apologize for not answering your questions.
https://64.media.tumblr.com/7d1177278c17b8324645d610c8a02865/tumblr_ne6dhfREvx1tsi9o3o1_500.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Don’t worry! You are a good sport. I appreciate your candid answers 🙂
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by WhorpioPosted by borednbeautiful
Do you dress like a hooker? Or more like a classy escort?
I like to think I dress like a classy escort. The only thing that says “prostitute” is some of the heels I wear since I’ve recycled them from a stage career. I don’t break those ones out often though.
Wait a minute. You had a career in this type of stuff?
Did you make a lot of money doing it?
You thinking of a switch? Me too.
I beg your pardon? What do you mean?
You switching jobs, plus a double meaning for switch for those that know.click to expand
Maybe. That’s all I am going to say tonight.
Posted by rotiPosted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why 🤔
Take advantage of that, make some money while also having fun, at the wife (and childrens) expense.
Morals are a personal preference until they start affecting others who didn’t choose to participate.click to expand
nothing is taboo or off limits for people with narc tendencies....the world is their amusement park, including unsuspecting people’s lives. (wife, children etc)
you could tell them “stealing and murdering are wrong”
these people will say “ but who decided that ?”
and you will say “human morality and the law “
and they will respond
“but who decided human morality and the law?”
and on and on it goes ....the mental gymnastics of narcs knows no bounds....
“I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse. “
you can tell from this line of hers that she believes having morals is stupid to begin with.
so there’s no talking “sense” into them because they don’t believe in morality to begin with.
I’m not a believer of karma (karma is just something we *want* to believe in because injustice in an unbearable thought for most of us. sadly though, many will get away with doing dubious things)
If the wife finds out, it will be a blessing for her.
She can find out her husband’s true nature and free herself to find a different man (or who knows, maybe he has already cheated before in the marriage and she knows about it)
Posted by serenidadPosted by rotiPosted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why 🤔
Take advantage of that, make some money while also having fun, at the wife (and childrens) expense.
Morals are a personal preference until they start affecting others who didn’t choose to participate.
nothing is taboo or off limits for people with narc tendencies....the world is their amusement park, including unsuspecting people’s lives. (wife, children etc)
you could tell them “stealing and murdering are wrong”
these people will say “ but who decided that ?”
and you will say “human morality and the law “
and they will respond
“but who decided human morality and the law?”
and on and on it goes ....the mental gymnastics of narcs knows no bounds....
“I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse. “
you can tell from this line of hers that she believes having morals is stupid to begin with.
so there’s no talking “sense” into them because they don’t believe in morality to begin with.
I’m not a believer of karma (karma is just something we *want* to believe in because injustice in an unbearable thought for most of us. sadly though, many will get away with doing dubious things)
If the wife finds out, it will be a blessing for her.
She can find out her husband’s true nature and free herself to find a different man (or who knows, maybe he has already cheated before in the marriage and she knows about it)click to expand
Is that narcissistic or psychopathic behaviour?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Is that narcissistic or psychopathic behaviour?
The irony of you being the one to post this question is not lost on me 🤣🤣🤣
Didn’t the old group of scorpio bullies used to call you a narcissist?
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
Is that narcissistic or psychopathic behaviour?
The irony of you being the one to post this question is not lost on me 🤣🤣🤣
Didn’t the old group of scorpio bullies used to call you a narcissist?click to expand
No I’ve never been called that
Posted by MyStarsShine
No I’ve never been called that
Hmm okay. I didn’t pay attention to much of the drama, but I remember there was a group that was following you around and attacking everything you wrote. I never agreed with them though 😇
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
No I’ve never been called that
Hmm okay. I didn’t pay attention to much of the drama, but I remember there was a group that was following you around and attacking everything you wrote. I never agreed with them though 😇click to expand
I can only remember one or two bkokes taking a pop at me lol but I ignored them as they were trolls🥴. I never agreed with them either
Thanks anyway...
Posted by serenidad
nothing is taboo or off limits for people with narc tendencies....the world is their amusement park, including unsuspecting people’s lives. (wife, children etc)
you could tell them “stealing and murdering are wrong”
these people will say “ but who decided that ?”
and you will say “human morality and the law “
and they will respond
“but who decided human morality and the law?”
and on and on it goes ....the mental gymnastics of narcs knows no bounds....
“I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse. “
you can tell from this line of hers that she believes having morals is stupid to begin with.
so there’s no talking “sense” into them because they don’t believe in morality to begin with.
I’m not a believer of karma (karma is just something we *want* to believe in because injustice in an unbearable thought for most of us. sadly though, many will get away with doing dubious things)
If the wife finds out, it will be a blessing for her.
She can find out her husband’s true nature and free herself to find a different man (or who knows, maybe he has already cheated before in the marriage and she knows about it)
I’m not a narcissist.
I have depression, ADHD, PTSD, possibly aspergers, and limited emotional resources.
I’d rather invest my emotional resources in people I do know and topics that are guaranteed, as opposed to people I do not know and situations that likely won’t happen (a woman discovering her husbands affair with me, a man leaving flirtatious notes without the intent of going any further, etc).
Posted by alexscaries
Or maybe you're just bored and horny. 🤔
Now that your girlfriend is asleep, would you like to be bored and horny…together?
Posted by alexscaries
Is your girlfriend asleep. I don't want to ruffle any feathers.
She’s in the shower; we have about 15 minutes 😈
Posted by alexscaries
Enough time for a quickie.
Wow, that was amaaaaaaazing
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MyStarsShine
I think its the ultimate betrayal for a woman to have sex with a man that is married, if he’s not in an open rship that is
I don’t know how it can be justified tbh. The fallout can be devastating for the wife and kids
There are plenty of marriages in which marriage itself is devastating to wife and kids without man of the family being unfaithful.
Like drinking, unemployment, drugs, plain being a shitty person and not valuing his family and it continuing until death do them part. The choice of divorce isn't crossing nobody's mind because this is a rot they stuck in and familiar with. And frankly used to it. And I think those are many more than those where one partner is unfaithful. Mostly probably because none of spouses are attractive enough or too depressed to look for 'fun' or way out.click to expand
True, but being cheated on ain’t adding any brownie points to the scenario or instilling confidence in the marriage
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by MonaLisa26Posted by MyStarsShine
I think its the ultimate betrayal for a woman to have sex with a man that is married, if he’s not in an open rship that is
I don’t know how it can be justified tbh. The fallout can be devastating for the wife and kids
There are plenty of marriages in which marriage itself is devastating to wife and kids without man of the family being unfaithful.
Like drinking, unemployment, drugs, plain being a shitty person and not valuing his family and it continuing until death do them part. The choice of divorce isn't crossing nobody's mind because this is a rot they stuck in and familiar with. And frankly used to it. And I think those are many more than those where one partner is unfaithful. Mostly probably because none of spouses are attractive enough or too depressed to look for 'fun' or way out.
True, but being cheated on ain’t adding any brownie points to the scenario or instilling confidence in the marriage
Wouldn't sober providing respectful husband damage family less than what i said above?click to expand
This is true. Cheating is many times is a symptom of problems in a marriage. Not all marriages are like that, and not all people cheat to deal with the problem though. Some people leave.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WhorpioPosted by PoshChickenLove1111
Wow. When cheating and thottery have been normalized, you know the world has gone to shit.
Actually, in ancient times it was normal for upper class men to have “concubines”, which in todays world is the equivalent of a mistress. Polyamory spans centuries; religious institutions have just brainwashed generations of people to think it’s abnormal.
I guess it’s okay if the wife is into poly? Otherwise it may not be okay. Some wives don’t want their husbands and father of their children to have a mistress whilst she’s at home looking after their kids. Also in ancient times, women were prob treated badly. Hopefully we’ve moved forward since then....
Well, we don't have to go as far as ancient times. ALL wealthy men have mistresses and this is going on and will be going on and will never change. Remember when Robert De Niro said 'this is the mouth my wife kissing my children with'
It was a comedy but up until now this 'custom' exist and wives know and they getting paid handsomely for 'inconvenience' by their husbands.
I am not married. I am too possessive. But I see these ladies daily and they do not seem deprived of any bit in their lives.
I guess at some point they just getting used to convenience and respect their husbands showing them in public and family gatherings and what they doing is not getting discussed. Not even between friends.
And it is not a few. They are a legion.click to expand
I bet they ain’t Scorpio women 😂🤣
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Whorpio So that goes back to what I was saying about conditioning kids from a young age. Why do they want mom and dad to be faithful? It wouldn’t possibly be because what movies, TV, and books paint as “romance”, would it?
What if we instead taught them that mommy and daddy are both human, and humans instinctually are attracted to several people throughout their life times?
Maybe we don’t
Right, continue on the path we’ve currently been on so we continue to create false expectations and ideals. Perfect plan 👍
Just realise that we’ve all got the choice to take as many partners as we choose but to be mindful of how it affects others ie wives and kids. I can’t see that changing. Children need to feel secure.
You and I are coming from different places...I’m a mum so it’s a whole different ball game. I also saw you write that your desires come above others and I don’t think that at all. I always try to consider others feelings
We are very different Scorpios 😃.
My friend was bringing home different men and her son was suffering. Her psycotherapist says to her “your love life has nothing to do with your children”. I totally agree...it’s hard enough growing up without the complication of involving them in your sex life
I am SO on the middle of your search for the truth in this conversation. I am however not ready to tell my children that mommy and daddy liking other people is way to go.
Thought of the muslin families entered my mind and I went - HERE! We have this model of harem. Old as a world. However I do not have data on happiness and quality of a childhood over there. If anybody does please chime in.
I will stop here now because world IS changing in every aspect of life and I am sure traditional ways are going to continue for at least end of this century. But this subject is very engaging today.click to expand
I’m just remembering how I felt as a child and I wanted two secure parents that were loyal to each other. That always made me feel stable. I think the idea of my dad or mum screwing others would have been repulsive and that was before I was aware of any conditioning....
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
I’m just going by what I’ve seen which is kids finding out their dads or mums have cheated and the fallout from that. It can screw up a child or teen. I know that’s due to conditioning but even so most kids deep down want their mum and dad to be faithful to each other ... rightly or wrongly?
So that goes back to what I was saying about conditioning kids from a young age. Why do they want mom and dad to be faithful? It wouldn’t possibly be because what movies, TV, and books paint as “romance”, would it?
What if we instead taught them that mommy and daddy are both human, and humans instinctually are attracted to several people throughout their life times?click to expand
There are too many outside influences in the world for this to work.
Haven't you seen how damaged men can be when they grow up with a mom who had a constant flow of men coming in and out of her bedroom and the kid saw it? Some of these guys grow up hating women, and have no respect for women because of how their mother acted.
When kids are involved, this type of behavior is iffy. There would still need to be some sort of stability, like a poly relationship, where all of them are loving and committed.
Many partners coming and going isn't love, it's just sex, and anyone can have that. That doesn't teach a child anything, just that their mom is horny and likes sex.
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