Virgo man after confusing breakup

I was seeing a Virgo man I’m a Taurus female and it was an amazing connection then one day he just went cold and said he didn’t want to see me anymore. I stupidly begged and then he said he actually wants to be friends with me and see where it goes and start again. In the mean time he was still being cold and avoided seeing me. After a month of this he says he doesn’t want to be friend anymore either because he will get feelings back. After that he was nothing but rude and his answers to my questions were short and vague. We haven’t spoken since. What’s going for this Virgo man? Will nc bring him back should I give space and then attempt to reach out?

Looking for some insight I’m so confused by the virgos behaviour.

Posted by Tgal996

I was seeing a Virgo man I’m a Taurus female and it was an amazing connection then one day he just went cold and said he didn’t want to see me anymore. I stupidly begged and then he said he actually wants to be friends with me and see where it goes and start again. In the mean time he was still being cold and avoided seeing me. After a month of this he says he doesn’t want to be friend anymore either because he will get feelings back. After that he was nothing but rude and his answers to my questions were short and vague. We haven’t spoken since. What’s going for this Virgo man? Will nc bring him back should I give space and then attempt to reach out?

Looking for some insight I’m so confused by the virgos behaviour.

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He's afraid to get hurt probably. Something about you might seem unsafe to him.

Are you easily flirting with other guys etc? Popular girl?

ewww, why you even want him back?

boy, the amount of disrespect people can deal with 😕

Or he has personal issues he hasnt told you about and doesn't want you to be bothered by

He is obviously not in a place to be in a relationship. It sucks, but you should respect his wishes. Move on and appreciate the good times you had. Dont try to understand whats in his head bc you probably wont. Just take all of the positives from the relationship and leave all of the negative. Sometimes people just grow apart. Its not fun but at least he was honest in his feelings and not just, idk like cheating on you but keeping you around. He sounds very straightforward so I understand the hurt but not the confusion.

Posted by Tgal996

I was seeing a Virgo man I’m a Taurus female and it was an amazing connection then one day he just went cold and said he didn’t want to see me anymore. I stupidly begged and then he said he actually wants to be friends with me and see where it goes and start again. In the mean time he was still being cold and avoided seeing me. After a month of this he says he doesn’t want to be friend anymore either because he will get feelings back. After that he was nothing but rude and his answers to my questions were short and vague. We haven’t spoken since. What’s going for this Virgo man? Will nc bring him back should I give space and then attempt to reach out?

Looking for some insight I’m so confused by the virgos behaviour.

Holy lord, this sounds like what happen with me and several virgo guys i had seen. They all just seem to "VANISH" one day.

The most significant one was a guy i was seeing for 7 months. He asked me to move in within 2 weeks of dating. Me being young and blinded by love...ehhh lust, did. One day in January of 2013 (back a long time ago) he took me out to a nice lunch, we went to an art supply store, he brought me tons of supplies for my art endevors and went home, watched out show and went to bed.

The next morning he told me he thinks i ahould go home to my moms for a few days. 2 days later he asked me to get my things and move out.

I was so confused and heart broken. Crying, begging carrying on.

Found out he has been sleeping with his ex and was considering giving her another chance (he never said this to me...just heard through the grape vine )

I went NC...he cane crawling back with his tail between his legs in march of that year.

I said" bye boi"

Moral of the story, dont let people treta you like that. Dont wish for him back. Move on and find better. There are much better "men" waiting for you...trust me.

He doesn't want you in his life.

Your being persistent. He answers your pestering with rudeness.

Read the writing on the wall. Its over.