2 Virgo men confusing me. Help?!

Seeing a Virgo man. We met at a sporting event via friends. Perfect.

Things were going great (He said I was perfect, lots of compliments, etc). At times he even put getting together with me over priorities.

Then - suddenly we should take a break. We didn't really hang out for several weeks! But we kept in touch.

Then he tells me he can't stay away. He needs to be with me. We get together. Back to full on passion and tells me "I really, really missed you, baby." — So confusing?! What does he want??

2) A colleague strictly a friend - Virgo - married and seeing another girl we work with (different floor of our tall office building)!!! WTH? I thought they are loyal?? He tells me he is happy in his marriage when I grill him - but he says he just really likes this chick.

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So confused with both!!

Any insight would be appreciated. Thanks.

Kaine what type of an escape they are looking for?

So w/the 1st guy, it's not that he perhaps felt deeper feelings for me and freaked out...came back because he didn't want to lose what we had?

The 2nd guy isn't hitting on me...we are just friends. It just shocked me to hear he would do that given he's "happy" and married with 2 children! Obviously he can't be that happy?!