Are you guys jealous?

fast moving possessive when in love... virgo...

If they care about you then they will get jealous. I have seen my virgo guy get jealous before. Then again I am Gemni sun with a Scorpio moon...sooo.. I like to make him jealous on purpose sometimes. Especially, if he makes me mad. He does the same thing to me. Childish..but true.

My Virgo husband was fast moving and possessive. He is still possessive, very possessive... and after all these many years.

If I'm in love and I see another guy hitting on my girl or get flirty, ofc I get jealous. When I get in those situations usually I just demonstrate higher value. And try to get the other guy to follow my lead. I can disarm him usually by overly exaggerated compliments to him. Like "wow omg yr such a cool guy, u must have all the girls u want yr so lucky!" This give him the player vibe, cheeky and un-natural.

If he throws a compliment banter to me back and says yr cool too, must have a bunch of girls attracted to u too. I say "u think so? Thank you. But I'm more the type that rather be with the 1 right girl then a 1000 wrong girls! Now what happens when she hears this he gets the player label I get a more boyfriend label. I'll only play this card if it gets into a situation when I'm with a girl that's special too me. It's better than trying to throw a hissy fit, or beat up someone. Even thou me being an Aries would love too.

beat em Aries! :-)

I think that was cool , but we sometimes want to see you guys beating someone's ass too! lol jk

Haha this makes me remember when I was seeing a Virgo guy a few months back. I was meeting him and I got held up for a few minutes with a member of staff I was talking to, then when I met up with him I apologised and joked "did you think I wasn't coming?" And he was like "I saw you come out and you were talking.............to some man......"

He said it like it stuck in his throat and I remember thinking at the time how weird his tone was lol like it was preposterous!

I'll only get possessive when the relationship is clearly established.


I won't tolerate any attempt at manipulation through jealousy in a relationship (any attempt at manipulation actually). First offense is a warning. Second one is a break up because if she's willing to make a second attempt after the warning she's willing to make many more after that.

I'll not be dealing with that shit.

they don't suffer in silence,, they are the most expressive earth sign than taurus or capricorn...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Cancer girl, slow your roll, this is what month 1....deal with a Virgo for a year, and come back to us.

thanks Clue .. yeah I'm careful , still learning and just enjoying till it stale

Posted by crabberries
but we sometimes want to see you guys beating someone's ass too! lol jk

umm..this really comes across wrong to me.

why would you put your partner in jeopardy to make a play for attention?

anyway, from the virgos I know..we are not jealous people and the first manipulation play on that sentiment will be your last. decent virgos will walk away, not decent virgos will stay and fuck with your mind from that point onwards. any realness/genuinity will be gone.

possessive..yes. but not in a "owning someone" kind of way.

I guess you are the most jealous earth sign.. and when you give freedom means you're not interested anymore?

Virgos are not naturally jealous but that switch is there with consequence mind you. So you girls flipping it on, on purpose tred lightly.

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Posted by crabberries
but we sometimes want to see you guys beating someone's ass too! lol jk

umm..this really comes across wrong to me.

why would you put your partner in jeopardy to make a play for attention?

anyway, from the virgos I know..we are not jealous people and the first manipulation play on that sentiment will be your last. decent virgos will walk away, not decent virgos will stay and fuck with your mind from that point onwards. any realness/genuinity will be gone.

possessive..yes. but not in a "owning someone" kind of way.

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True enough!....I have alot of planets in Virgo....and this type of manipulation play I have 0 tolerance for!

Posted by scorchedearth
in reality virgos are no different than anyone else. some are jealous. some are not. some can handle it AND stay. and some cannot. virgos are not special in that they are immune to emotions. they might not express them. but they feel them and then can deal or not deal the same as everyone else.

venus in leo used to talk about "green eyed monster" all the time. we almost always had someone else we were "talking" to though. her as a taurus moon was more prone to jealousy than i am. and i was oblivious to why she would even be jealous when i wasn't. until i got jealous. that changed things right quick. then she asked me to just not mention girls to her. which was fine. until it wasn't. she made a move right around the time i got with my first pisces ex because she had no clue i was involved with the pisces. that obviously didn't go well. which is why i had mentioned the other girls to her in the first place. but what do i know.

what's funny is that i think the person who is the love of this virgos life is a pisces. just like mine was. my taurus ex married a pisces also and moved to the same state i was in when i was with my first pisces ex. the virgos pisces was born the same year as i was. all of our outer planet chart stuff is exactly the same. from mars down. houses and everything. cuz she's also aqua rising. guess virgo has a type. lol.

i've only been lunatic please god kill this bitch and take her out of my misery jealous with one person. and that person i think intentionally triggered it because i told her and asked her to stop and she did what i asked her not to anyway. so on some level she must have liked it. i never tried to make her jealous. though i did compare her to a new friend of mine and said i'd be better off being interested in the friend than her. not that i was. just that it would be smarter of me. because the friend was a better fit in a lot of ways. but i'm a dumbass. and the heart wants what it wants.

Most Virgos I know do not react kindly to anything done to them with "malice intent"....especially in regards to purposely "attempting" to make them jealous. I usually find either 1 or the 2 responses.... they walk away (since ur right...we have no issues with separating sex from love and I'll take it one further....we can also separate YOU from our love for you)....or they're partner does not come out unscaved a

....and a valuable lesson is learned on behalf of the partner to never do crap like that to us again! Just my observation from the Virgos I personally know.