Cancer Girl and Virgo Man. Any success stories??

I have been seeing this virgo guy for a month. I like him a lot. Sex is great and he loves it a lot! He is also very affectionate and holds my hand, kisses my forehead and talks sweet to me. I can't complain. However, I am worried he is not being completely honest with me. I met him online and talked a lot before meeting with him. He seemed very honest and he said he even liked me a lot before meeting me in person. Since I started seeing him I closed my account on the website I met him but he still have his active. He even added a lot more pictures.. which it makes me doubt about his intentions. I haven't bring this out to him but I am afraid he is just using me for sex. He keeps making plans with me: movie dates, dinner, etc. We also had a little argument the other day bcs he thought I was interested on the topic he was talking about, but I was a valid point on why I didnt want to talk about it. He seemed a little frustrated about it but apologized. Is he still analyzing me? I dont initiate things with him, but I make sure I make time to see him when he want to me. Any experiences with Virgos out there? I know they take their time to make up their minds, how long? How to know if he is just playing around with me?

Thanks for the honest reply. It is so weird to me to think he would do something like that. I used to date a cancer guy who I met online as well. And he turn off his profile without me asking him to do it. We were together for 2 years. Now i meet this Virgo guy and they are known to be very honest men and he wont even do it! I am not saying we have a relationship now but definitely something that bothers me a lot!

All good advice.
He's dating you, you are not his girlfriend.
He is also looking to date others.

Kissing on the forehead and having sex doesn't mean you are in an exclusive relationship.
Don't make assumptions because x, y and z happened.

Reactivate your account and post new pictures.
Proceed to live your life and keep looking for a guy who will communicate with you that you are what he wants.
If you want to see more of him, initiate contact instead of waiting for him to contact him.
Remember you are dating, he is not your man.
Don't get attached to soon because of good feelings.

Good luck, I hope you find a compatible partner.

very well said by lunar maiden . get on with yourself, strap your heels on, and do you cuz he damn sho doing him. i currently date a cancergirl, and she continuesly remind me how emotional, and insecure she is...Sheesh! can a Virgo ride a different ride instead of the emotional merry-go-round?...dont get me wrong i tend to her needs emotionaly, but everyday is exahusting...sorry i kinda made about me for a moment....what we Virgos like is assertiveness, so if you willing to pursue go for it, if not lose his number, and belive you cant find it anywhere...nuff said.

Posted by cobielc9466
very well said by lunar maiden . get on with yourself, strap your heels on, and do you cuz he damn sho doing him. i currently date a cancergirl, and she continuesly remind me how emotional, and insecure she is...Sheesh! can a Virgo ride a different ride instead of the emotional merry-go-round?...dont get me wrong i tend to her needs emotionaly, but everyday is exahusting...sorry i kinda made about me for a moment....what we Virgos like is assertiveness, so if you willing to pursue go for it, if not lose his number, and belive you cant find it anywhere...nuff said.

thanks!! Yeah I totally agree! I am a cancer with Sun in Cancer Moon in Cancer and Venus in Cancer .. what else can you think of me!??! I am such an emotional being!! I will take your advice it is hard feeling that he might just spending sometime with me right now but I will just enjoy it as much as I can and try not to go crazy about it! I hope i have good updates soon!

Hey, how is your communication? I don't mean communication like talking heavy about relationships...I mean, having conversations about anything - current events, music interests, personal stories, etc.
It's very important for Virgos to have a partner they can have a mental, not just emotional, connection with - particularly if his moon or mercury is an Air sign. It's true that Virgos take a while to make up their mind and commit, and he's probably testing the waters (no pun intended for the water sign haha) , and this includes whether you are compatible on a basic conversation level. Because considering commitment, for a Virgo, means considering the practical growth of a relationship; i.e, will we support each others' ideas on the long run? are our ideas realistic to sustain us?

Since you two met online and built something from online chatting I'd imagine you do have a mental rapport. If you have a habit of having him make the first move, make sure it's not translating over to your conversations. Bring up your interests. Be yourself and talk about what you want. He will most likely appreciate your individuality and input. (If he doesn't, screw him! lol).

The good news is I know a very happily married Cancer/Virgo couple. Both signs are family and home oriented. I know a Cancer guy and had I not moved far away, I think something great could have happened between us. Of all the earth signs, I believe Virgo is the most compatible with water signs - they enjoy being the ones to supply logic and grounding and helpfulness to their dreamy water partner!

But I agree with the other posts. Take it easy for now. 🙂 Good luck

-Virgo female

Posted by Mayze22
Hey, how is your communication? I don't mean communication like talking heavy about relationships...I mean, having conversations about anything - current events, music interests, personal stories, etc.
It's very important for Virgos to have a partner they can have a mental, not just emotional, connection with - particularly if his moon or mercury is an Air sign. It's true that Virgos take a while to make up their mind and commit, and he's probably testing the waters (no pun intended for the water sign haha) , and this includes whether you are compatible on a basic conversation level. Because considering commitment, for a Virgo, means considering the practical growth of a relationship; i.e, will we support each others' ideas on the long run? are our ideas realistic to sustain us?

Since you two met online and built something from online chatting I'd imagine you do have a mental rapport. If you have a habit of having him make the first move, make sure it's not translating over to your conversations. Bring up your interests. Be yourself and talk about what you want. He will most likely appreciate your individuality and input. (If he doesn't, screw him! lol).

The good news is I know a very happily married Cancer/Virgo couple. Both signs are family and home oriented. I know a Cancer guy and had I not moved far away, I think something great could have happened between us. Of all the earth signs, I believe Virgo is the most compatible with water signs - they enjoy being the ones to supply logic and grounding and helpfulness to their dreamy water partner!

But I agree with the other posts. Take it easy for now. 🙂 Good luck

-Virgo female

thanks Mayze22!! We can talk for hours however we had a little tiny argument which it seemed to bothered him a lot. Besides that we always have these very intellectual conversations. We both have similar educational backgrounds so that's a common ground. I really like him and I want to see him more often but I am not that kind of girl that texts all the time all call him a lot. I only wait patiently until he makes the first move. I havent heard in a few days now.... I wonder if this strategy will work!

Nope.

Firstly, a profile on a dating website doesn't mean anything. I'm involved with someone and I keep a profile on a dating website. Unless he is on it for hours on a daily basis, I wouldn't worry about that.
And you can always directly ask him about what status you guys have, that's your right and his obligation to answer. If he doesn't want to answer then that is your answer right there. No need to be confrontational about it, just clear.

Posted by Mayze22
Hey, how is your communication? I don't mean communication like talking heavy about relationships...I mean, having conversations about anything - current events, music interests, personal stories, etc.
It's very important for Virgos to have a partner they can have a mental, not just emotional, connection with - particularly if his moon or mercury is an Air sign. It's true that Virgos take a while to make up their mind and commit, and he's probably testing the waters (no pun intended for the water sign haha) , and this includes whether you are compatible on a basic conversation level. Because considering commitment, for a Virgo, means considering the practical growth of a relationship; i.e, will we support each others' ideas on the long run? are our ideas realistic to sustain us?

Since you two met online and built something from online chatting I'd imagine you do have a mental rapport. If you have a habit of having him make the first move, make sure it's not translating over to your conversations. Bring up your interests. Be yourself and talk about what you want. He will most likely appreciate your individuality and input. (If he doesn't, screw him! lol).

The good news is I know a very happily married Cancer/Virgo couple. Both signs are family and home oriented. I know a Cancer guy and had I not moved far away, I think something great could have happened between us. Of all the earth signs, I believe Virgo is the most compatible with water signs - they enjoy being the ones to supply logic and grounding and helpfulness to their dreamy water partner!

But I agree with the other posts. Take it easy for now. 🙂 Good luck

-Virgo female

please go on . What conversations do you usually hold. I'm a Taurus woman n Virgo ex.. We had great conversations and he never get bored off me . Just about anything and everything. I make him laugh and he neve get bored of him. I tease him wih his perfectionist all the time n very patient with his critical self . I am not a perfectionist and often a little ignorant wih thifs ! I'm asking this because I wanna have a bit of insights in what virgos look for in a wife . Does she need to be as neat n perfectionist as him ? Asking because he's in the process of making his mind up whether he wants me as a wife Or not !

Posted by VirgoFlirt
YOur a wisdomic taurus.....talk about history..how easy was that?

BTW: No Air Moon here and I can talk your head off.

This is becoming very interesting. English isn't my first language so please excuse me if my words don't make sense !

Wisdomic taurus ! i kind of understand what you mean by being a wisdomic taurus ! plz explain deeper 🙂 and NO i DO NOT like talking about history ! history is plain boring to me !

my virgo is a smart man who loves reading economics/history books and where i'm a very laid back / chiill / person... a little bit ignorant at times ...however i'm still waiting for a present from him...a BOOK as he likes to encourage me to read..!

I often told my virgo to find a girl who he can hold a conversation with him about politics or economics n etc as i feel i don't hold much interest in that ! he often denied it and says that will get way too boring and he loves talking to me cause we agree on almost anything... healthy life style s/ career progression/ saving money... etc .. he was also seeing a cancer girl who he finds her to be way too shy ..and most of the time he has to start a conversation...he brought that point up without me asking so i think COMMUNICATIon is a BIG key to virgo's heart !
.she doesn't make him smile or doesn't make him laugh ! ... i think he loves the fact that i can make him laugh all the time and being a virgo as he is ! that is a big + ! ...do you agree virgos ? 🙂

..My venus is gemini n his venus is libra ! This is a lively combination in which communication doesn't just flow, it bounce and leaps. Together, you will enjoy some fabulous conversations. You will certainly fill your partner's need for communication, as he/she thrives on feedback. There can be considerable respect between you. You enjoy plenty of social and mental stimulation—the more variety, the better— and so does your Venusian Libra partner!

this is NOT in the topic but now that explains why OUR conversation just flows. and cooperating with each other is a piece of cake!!! interesting !

Posted by saweetz1988
..My venus is gemini n his venus is libra ! This is a lively combination in which communication doesn't just flow, it bounce and leaps. Together, you will enjoy some fabulous conversations. You will certainly fill your partner's need for communication, as he/she thrives on feedback. There can be considerable respect between you. You enjoy plenty of social and mental stimulation—the more variety, the better— and so does your Venusian Libra partner!

this is NOT in the topic but now that explains why OUR conversation just flows. and cooperating with each other is a piece of cake!!! interesting !

saweetz1988,

Just to add what everybody had said about the how important conversation is to Virgo. We will talk for hours until we were ready for bed. I am a cancer and found my way to keep him interested. Yes I am shy but I love watching the news, reading and watch historical shows. So I have tons of things to talk about. One thing my Virgo said to me: He really needs someone to keep his intellectual self active but she also needs to be hot! Lol they want the whole nine yards!!! Perfection is what they seek!!! I am not perfect but somehow I worked my way to his heart. Now he just "disappeared" and I havent heard from him in more than a week. This is something Virgos do often, at least thats what Ive heard!! I hope to hear back from him bcs I like him but I ma definitely not chasing him! I am definitely enjoying the attention of other men right now... so if he doesnt make up his mind is his loss! 🙂

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Posted by saweetz1988
..My venus is gemini n his venus is libra ! This is a lively combination in which communication doesn't just flow, it bounce and leaps. Together, you will enjoy some fabulous conversations. You will certainly fill your partner's need for communication, as he/she thrives on feedback. There can be considerable respect between you. You enjoy plenty of social and mental stimulation—the more variety, the better— and so does your Venusian Libra partner!

this is NOT in the topic but now that explains why OUR conversation just flows. and cooperating with each other is a piece of cake!!! interesting !

saweetz1988,

Just to add what everybody had said about the how important conversation is to Virgo. We will talk for hours until we were ready for bed. I am a cancer and found my way to keep him interested. Yes I am shy but I love watching the news, reading and watch historical shows. So I have tons of things to talk about. One thing my Virgo said to me: He really needs someone to keep his intellectual self active but she also needs to be hot! Lol they want the whole nine yards!!! Perfection is what they seek!!! I am not perfect but somehow I worked my way to his heart. Now he just "disappeared" and I havent heard from him in more than a week. This is something Virgos do often, at least thats what Ive heard!! I hope to hear back from him bcs I like him but I ma definitely not chasing him! I am definitely enjoying the attention of other men right now... so if he doesnt make up his mind is his loss! 🙂

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maybe my virgo isn't very typical as he claimed having a girl who enjoys the same interest like news, political , history and stuff is way too boring for him as he likes the fun in the relationship and talking about those things only tense him up..he gets to do that when he watches news, read, his work and his family !

However he could just be saying that to make me feel better about myself because my english is a second language. HIs whole family is very smart and nerdy in a way so i often feel a little left out because most of the times i don't even know what they are talking about . ! again he doesn't care ( he claims)

my virgo never once disappeared on me ...i tried to avoid him many times but he finds his way back to me ! maybe he's no

maybe its because his venus is in libra so that explains his sensitivity and him needing to be with someone all the time...🙂

once again i could be wrong. I do question him many times how important it is for him to find a girl who holds the same interests as he does and he claims he DOESN"T want that girl because he finds it way too similar to his own..and opposite attracts.. 🙂 i could be wrong

Interesting! English is my second language as well I guess he finds that somewhat aamusing 😉 but he likes it At least yhat what he said. he works in the advertisment business and I work in the technology business so totally different worlds! So we always have different thing to talk about. I guess it is opposite to your situation I am the nerd and he is the fun and social person! It is my firsy experience qith a virgo so I am still trying to figure him out! Seems you really want to be with this guy!!!