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I think I might have messed up that chart as people have pointed out there is no cancer in there 😛.
What site would you guys recommend for an astro chart, and how off will it be if you don't know your exact birth time?
What site would you guys recommend for an astro chart, and how off will it be if you don't know your exact birth time?
Ok I probably entered the data wrong I was tired when I did that...I am def a Cancer 7/11/84...smack dab in the middle of cancer-i-ness let me use one of those and I will post up the results now that I am functional 😛
Ok correct info is entered except the time I just went with 12 pm as they said to do if I didn't know...here we gooooo!
And actually I can agree with this general reading where as I could kinda flex things around a bit to get the last one I posted to work, this one seems more acceptable 😛
July 11 1984
12:00 PM Time Zone is EDT
Stamford, CT
(INFO IS THERE TO DOUBLE CHECK IF YA WANT I MIGHT HAVE MESSED UP AGAIN WHO KNOWS 😛)
Rising Sign is in 04 Degrees Libra
Sun is in 19 Degrees Cancer.
Moon is in 02 Degrees Capricorn.
Mercury is in 08 Degrees Leo.
Venus is in 26 Degrees Cancer.
Mars is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Jupiter is in 06 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 29 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 05 Degrees Gemini. (weird I fucking hate gossip and shows like "Extra News" make me want to punt kittens off cliffs....and I love kittens)
And actually I can agree with this general reading where as I could kinda flex things around a bit to get the last one I posted to work, this one seems more acceptable 😛
July 11 1984
12:00 PM Time Zone is EDT
Stamford, CT
(INFO IS THERE TO DOUBLE CHECK IF YA WANT I MIGHT HAVE MESSED UP AGAIN WHO KNOWS 😛)
Rising Sign is in 04 Degrees Libra
Sun is in 19 Degrees Cancer.
Moon is in 02 Degrees Capricorn.
Mercury is in 08 Degrees Leo.
Venus is in 26 Degrees Cancer.
Mars is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Jupiter is in 06 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 29 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 05 Degrees Gemini. (weird I fucking hate gossip and shows like "Extra News" make me want to punt kittens off cliffs....and I love kittens)
Welp ummm....I think I'm officially in you amazingly helpful and awesome gals can let me know 🙂. She mentioned her 10 year astrological forecast sighting that things have been chaotic but they will start to get much better in every aspect of her life and well....she made a direct correlation of that with meeting me. For a logic based sign that is um...a pretty emotional and hope driven statement to make...what do you all think?
hey, just following your thread. i dated a cancer guy for a while. and i am talking to one right now too (long distance situation). i think she is opening up to you, which is great! we don't tend to send clear signals when it comes to saying how we feel sometimes, but little hints are huge, because it mean we are moving forward and when we move forward, we move forward, maybe slowly, but defenitely surely, meaning, our focus is in you and who you are and mean for us more and more.
good luck with everything!
🙂
good luck with everything!
🙂
hah thanks for the support, this being my 1st virgo dating experience it is like I need a support group 😛. You guys have all been pretty awesome and ya the hints are being dropped left and right and we are moving forward at a pretty nice pace, she is one of the few, well actually only the 2nd, girl that moving forward like this isn't making me want to bail. Oh and good luck with your crab, we are tricky but well worth the effort...just like a virgo 🙂.
Posted by aujra
I think I might have messed up that chart as people have pointed out there is no cancer in there 😛.
What site would you guys recommend for an astro chart, and how off will it be if you don't know your exact birth time?
Try astrodienst.com. Put in all of your birth info (time/place etc) and it will generate a pretty accurate and complete chart for ya.
Posted by aujra
I think I might have messed up that chart as people have pointed out there is no cancer in there 😛.
What site would you guys recommend for an astro chart, and how off will it be if you don't know your exact birth time?
Don't tell me your ass is really a Gem but has been up in this piece posing as a Cancer the whole time— LOL. If you are a Gem, I wouldn't even put it past you as Gems tend to be such tricksters! hahahahahahaaa!
Posted by aujra
Ok correct info is entered except the time I just went with 12 pm as they said to do if I didn't know...here we gooooo!
And actually I can agree with this general reading where as I could kinda flex things around a bit to get the last one I posted to work, this one seems more acceptable 😛
July 11 1984
12:00 PM Time Zone is EDT
Stamford, CT
(INFO IS THERE TO DOUBLE CHECK IF YA WANT I MIGHT HAVE MESSED UP AGAIN WHO KNOWS 😛)
Rising Sign is in 04 Degrees Libra
Sun is in 19 Degrees Cancer.
Moon is in 02 Degrees Capricorn.
Mercury is in 08 Degrees Leo.
Venus is in 26 Degrees Cancer.
Mars is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Jupiter is in 06 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 09 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 29 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 05 Degrees Gemini. (weird I fucking hate gossip and shows like "Extra News" make me want to punt kittens off cliffs....and I love kittens)
Whew...this is much better. Don't you ever scare me like that again. When I saw that first chart with all of that Gemini influence (especially Gemini in Venus) I knew there was no hope! All I kept thinking was "that poor poor girl" LOL. I'm sorry and no offense to gems but, a Cancer man with quite a bit of Gemini in his chart = bad news to me.
Posted by PandorasBox
Vixx: Is there anythin in that book for VirgoF & Libra M?? 😛
Cancer dude: You should put your worries aside.. If she didn't like you she wouldn't give you the time of day.. Not everyone expresses the way they feel in the same way (referrin to what you said bout the scorp chick throwin herself at you when she saw u frm across the room) Trust me, we WANT to be able to do that but the physical aspect of a relationship is built and comes with/from trust.
When you guys are on a date walkin somewhere.. Ask her if you can hold her hand 🙂 or somethin cute like that to break that touch barrier 😉 Plus it'll let her know that you're interested enough to show you don't wanna make her uneasy by askin first.. And she'll prolly be endeared hehe
Hey PB!
No problem. I will post VW/LM from "Signmates" sometime later this evening (have to get the book back from my sister) but for now, I found something else that you might like. It's a bit long but here goes:
It is such a relief when these two find each other. In a world of over-statement, indulgence and superfluity, her are two humble, plain-spoken people with integrity who value rationality and balance. It is not surprising that they glom on to each other right away and never let go.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Libra Man: Nothing could be easier. One whiff of your beautiful manners, superb planning, soothing charm and social skills, and she will beg for more. It will be such a relief for her to be so well cared for with none of the excesses she finds troublesome. This is a lady who is upset by the large proportions they serve at the restaurant because they are so wasteful and inefficient. Imagine how stressed she is assessing the world at large. You, Mr. Libra, represent a pocket of fantasy, a calm space in a chaotic, messed-up reality. The fact that you are logical is magic to her. Bring it on!
Continued from above
How to Attract a Libra Man as a Virgo Woman: Virgo women are among the most desirable of the zodiac, so it's usually just a matter of your picking someone out of a lineup. You can signal your interest by respectfully paying attention to him -- as you are inclined to do -- while indicating in some way that he's a notch above. Let's suppose, for example, he texts you the day after you meet. Text back "I'm in a meeting and I usually don't interrupt my meetings to text but considering it's you, I'm making an exception."
Degree of Romance: There's such a soft, private side to this relationship that it's a unique type of romanticism. It is better left hinted at than stated. Suffice it to say these two will find common ground for courtship and intimacy that will be very beautiful Get Her To Notice You and charming though not conventional. Hopefully these two will recognize their relationship for how precious it really is.
Degree of Passion: Passion does not appeal to either Virgo or Libra. It's messy and wastes energy.
Degree of Friendship: There is so much mutual respect between the two of you that it can easily pass as a friendship, but neither one of you is inclined to do keep it at that level. Each of you wants to make the other one very special because, of all the signs, you are the two most likely to treat everyone exactly the same as a matter of principle.
How to Attract a Libra Man as a Virgo Woman: Virgo women are among the most desirable of the zodiac, so it's usually just a matter of your picking someone out of a lineup. You can signal your interest by respectfully paying attention to him -- as you are inclined to do -- while indicating in some way that he's a notch above. Let's suppose, for example, he texts you the day after you meet. Text back "I'm in a meeting and I usually don't interrupt my meetings to text but considering it's you, I'm making an exception."
Degree of Romance: There's such a soft, private side to this relationship that it's a unique type of romanticism. It is better left hinted at than stated. Suffice it to say these two will find common ground for courtship and intimacy that will be very beautiful Get Her To Notice You and charming though not conventional. Hopefully these two will recognize their relationship for how precious it really is.
Degree of Passion: Passion does not appeal to either Virgo or Libra. It's messy and wastes energy.
Degree of Friendship: There is so much mutual respect between the two of you that it can easily pass as a friendship, but neither one of you is inclined to do keep it at that level. Each of you wants to make the other one very special because, of all the signs, you are the two most likely to treat everyone exactly the same as a matter of principle.
Continued from above
Degree of Marriage: If the right Libra man finds the right Virgo woman, it is a match made in heaven. You can count on a peaceful, harmonious and gentle relationsh9ip, predictable but not boring, with engaging intellectual content. You will talk about some very worthwhile things and probably be exemplars in the community. You will be known for your good advice to others; your children will be mannerly and well-behaved, model-citizens for the 21dst century; and you will probably even manage to always live within your budget.
Progression of Relationship: Tiny but sure steps on the path to fulfillment here, bite-sized pieces of heaven. All parts converging to make a whole. If this sounds Zen, it is.
Sex: Sex is a particularly private affair between these two. The guidelines and parameters will be worked out with great mutual respect and a spiritual content lacking in most couples?? negotiations. You both have so much integrity and are able to put your whole self into the act, that it takes on the characteristic of ritual and is especially fulfilling. It will definitely be quality, not quantity.
When It's Over: If it becomes necessary to unwind, you will cooperate as beautifully on that as you do on everything else. You will end it peacefully, honor it always, and cherish it totally, even if it becomes necessary to move on.
Our Rating: 10/10
Degree of Marriage: If the right Libra man finds the right Virgo woman, it is a match made in heaven. You can count on a peaceful, harmonious and gentle relationsh9ip, predictable but not boring, with engaging intellectual content. You will talk about some very worthwhile things and probably be exemplars in the community. You will be known for your good advice to others; your children will be mannerly and well-behaved, model-citizens for the 21dst century; and you will probably even manage to always live within your budget.
Progression of Relationship: Tiny but sure steps on the path to fulfillment here, bite-sized pieces of heaven. All parts converging to make a whole. If this sounds Zen, it is.
Sex: Sex is a particularly private affair between these two. The guidelines and parameters will be worked out with great mutual respect and a spiritual content lacking in most couples?? negotiations. You both have so much integrity and are able to put your whole self into the act, that it takes on the characteristic of ritual and is especially fulfilling. It will definitely be quality, not quantity.
When It's Over: If it becomes necessary to unwind, you will cooperate as beautifully on that as you do on everything else. You will end it peacefully, honor it always, and cherish it totally, even if it becomes necessary to move on.
Our Rating: 10/10
I knew i couldn't have that much gem in me, even if I am just hooking up with someone I need to convince myself there is some kind of emotional connection made. Guess my super ADD explains my need to fidget with everything 😛. Still working on figure out wtf that whole "I'm just wondering about the future" thing was about. She even said, "I'm not looking into it with skeptic views, I'm not worry about it, just wondering"....weird ass girl lol.
You Virgos are just as bad as us Cancers at being back and forth, why didn't you warn me about that 😛. Well I put together a gift for her as a thanks for being brave enough to open up to let her know I appreciate and respect it...cause her ass seems like it clammed up a bit 😛.
Got her a the Full Metal Alchemist series on Dvd, she said she loved that show on our first date. just wanted to show her that I am listening and I don't just want to get her anything like anybody can.
Hm. This is how it went with my cancer man.
First off, he's very typical in a lot of ways. A family man, a lover, can be moody, food freak, etc. He is divorced. He falls in love (I personally believe he had a difficult time distinguishing love from infatuation) easily and is hurt just as easily. After his divorce he never gave up on love but he was wracked with the pain from his marriage. One couldn't tell on the surface just how closely he guarded his heart. He continued to be a sweet and caring man but he was wary of giving his heart away again.
He and I hit it off instantly over a year ago. I was in a transitional phase from living a single, celibate life that lasted about a year and a half following the break-up from my son's father. I was in dating mode which I had never done and so was he. I was intent on not being serious and he went along for the ride. We became instant friends and stayed that way for some months. He made his move one night last winter and that's how I knew of his real intentions. Other than that he gave no obvious sign that he was into me in a romantic way. Even after establishing a physical connection we remained more or less on friendly terms.
We started spending a lot more time in each other's company around March. Then in June my son left for the east coast to visit his dad's side of the family for a month and that's when things really went down. I ended up spending the entire month at his place. We naturally fell into the harmonious routine of domesticated life with ease and eagerly so. July was probably our tumultuous month of emotional outbursts and a barrage of questions. We were both realizing we'd fallen for each other. I was starting to become frustrated because he pulled a minor push/pull behavior on me. I think he was frustrated too because. We never fought or argued but there was tension at times. We were both standing on the brink of allowing ourselves to "go there" but neither of us was taking the leap to make it official.
We went on an overnight camping trip just a few weeks ago. After voicing all my concerns in July, and calming down in the first weeks of August, he came back to me. He was sappily sweet and showed his affection toward me openly that night. It was wonderful that was followed up with a night of outstanding sex! The next morning, as I was rousing from my sleep, I guess I asked him where he was going since he got up first. In my half-woken state I let it slip. (To be Cont)
First off, he's very typical in a lot of ways. A family man, a lover, can be moody, food freak, etc. He is divorced. He falls in love (I personally believe he had a difficult time distinguishing love from infatuation) easily and is hurt just as easily. After his divorce he never gave up on love but he was wracked with the pain from his marriage. One couldn't tell on the surface just how closely he guarded his heart. He continued to be a sweet and caring man but he was wary of giving his heart away again.
He and I hit it off instantly over a year ago. I was in a transitional phase from living a single, celibate life that lasted about a year and a half following the break-up from my son's father. I was in dating mode which I had never done and so was he. I was intent on not being serious and he went along for the ride. We became instant friends and stayed that way for some months. He made his move one night last winter and that's how I knew of his real intentions. Other than that he gave no obvious sign that he was into me in a romantic way. Even after establishing a physical connection we remained more or less on friendly terms.
We started spending a lot more time in each other's company around March. Then in June my son left for the east coast to visit his dad's side of the family for a month and that's when things really went down. I ended up spending the entire month at his place. We naturally fell into the harmonious routine of domesticated life with ease and eagerly so. July was probably our tumultuous month of emotional outbursts and a barrage of questions. We were both realizing we'd fallen for each other. I was starting to become frustrated because he pulled a minor push/pull behavior on me. I think he was frustrated too because. We never fought or argued but there was tension at times. We were both standing on the brink of allowing ourselves to "go there" but neither of us was taking the leap to make it official.
We went on an overnight camping trip just a few weeks ago. After voicing all my concerns in July, and calming down in the first weeks of August, he came back to me. He was sappily sweet and showed his affection toward me openly that night. It was wonderful that was followed up with a night of outstanding sex! The next morning, as I was rousing from my sleep, I guess I asked him where he was going since he got up first. In my half-woken state I let it slip. (To be Cont)
I told him not to leave and that I loved him. He turned to me, hovered over me, gently stroked my face and hair, said he loved me too, then kissed my forehead.
Ever since then, the wishy-washy, somewhat confusing behavior from him ceased almost instantly. He felt comfortable. He felt secure. He confessed to me why he had been holding back. He was afraid to love that deeply again. He admitted that the pain he had suffered was nearly impossible to bear and that he didn't trust himself anymore. He became infatuated with a couple of others before me but they hurt him too. Not as badly as his ex-wife but he started to question his judgement in character. He does tend to have a knack for attracting the crazy types. Not always but usually (yeah, says something about me, right? ha!). So when he realized that we both had similar love style s and the same capacity to give and receive love he semi shut down. He staved himself from falling too hard by repeatedly telling himself that I, and our connection, was too good to be true and convinced himself that it must be.
When his antics stopped I was able to pour myself in to him. It was all about security in the end. He wanted a sure thing before he would let himself fall. He needed to know of my investment in the relationship. In my experience with a cancer male it pays to be genuine and expressive. I don't smother him but the affection is constant and consistent. In turn he makes me feel secure too. I am a leo after all and I do like to be #1 in the eyes of my significant other. I like to feel special and adored. I don't want someone grovelling at my feet or a doormat to cater to my every whim (believe it!) but it seems like if I feel I'm your queen then you are my god. Ah, you know what I'm getting at...
Ever since then, the wishy-washy, somewhat confusing behavior from him ceased almost instantly. He felt comfortable. He felt secure. He confessed to me why he had been holding back. He was afraid to love that deeply again. He admitted that the pain he had suffered was nearly impossible to bear and that he didn't trust himself anymore. He became infatuated with a couple of others before me but they hurt him too. Not as badly as his ex-wife but he started to question his judgement in character. He does tend to have a knack for attracting the crazy types. Not always but usually (yeah, says something about me, right? ha!). So when he realized that we both had similar love style s and the same capacity to give and receive love he semi shut down. He staved himself from falling too hard by repeatedly telling himself that I, and our connection, was too good to be true and convinced himself that it must be.
When his antics stopped I was able to pour myself in to him. It was all about security in the end. He wanted a sure thing before he would let himself fall. He needed to know of my investment in the relationship. In my experience with a cancer male it pays to be genuine and expressive. I don't smother him but the affection is constant and consistent. In turn he makes me feel secure too. I am a leo after all and I do like to be #1 in the eyes of my significant other. I like to feel special and adored. I don't want someone grovelling at my feet or a doormat to cater to my every whim (believe it!) but it seems like if I feel I'm your queen then you are my god. Ah, you know what I'm getting at...
Posted by PandorasBox
Lol.. What you get her?
Hehe just bein nosey 😛
N yes.. Our push/pull can come as a surprise sometimes.. It's the doubts that do it for me and I flip w/ anger.. Lol (i have alotta fire in my chart). Just be consistant, we trust action and results a whooole lot more than just mere words.
VIXX: Thanks 😄!! 10/10 huh? Wow... That's kinda odd 😛
I know. I was a bit shocked about that too. Libras are pretty alright in my book. Can kind of take 'em or leave 'em but, a '10' rating? That's a bit odd to me.
Hi Everybody! fantastic forum you have here 😉
I am also your A-Typical Cancer. when i care for someone i also like to lavish them with affection and find myself always thinking of new nice things to do for that person and ways to make them happy and smile 🙂
i would love a little advice from anyone who can understand my situation......
i am friends online with a virgo woman and things between us are not great right now because she cannot let go of something that happened in the past which i have tried, seemingly in vein, to assure her it was nowhere near as bad as she thought.
i met her a year ago online and over 10 months we gradually built up a wonderful friendship. we spoke/chatted all day every day and the more time i spent with her the more i found myself developing feelings for her and i knew that i meant a lot to her as well. everything was wonderful between us, she withheld her emotions after a small incident back in march, up until then she was very openly affectionate toward me but then one night, for no apparent reason, she stopped talking to me and would not respond to my messages, i didn't hound her, i simply messaged her occasionally letting her know i was still there but got no response but she did leave me good morning messages on 2 mornings and later on the second day she went away for the weekend so she couldn't leave me anymore morning messages. on the following tuesday she spoke to me and told me that she had not been feeling well and when she feels like that she kind of slips away into the background as she thinks she's not very good company when she's not feeling too well. i know it could possibly be her way of saying it's her TOM and obviously i am very understanding of this but when she stopped talking to me i asked one of her friends if they had seen or heard from her as i was worried about her and she didn't like that and after that time i noticed that she was very different with me. she was no longer openly affectionate with me, talking to me the same way she spoke to everybody but our friendship continued to flourish and we remained close until almost 3 months ago.
2.5 months ago, one wednesday night, i had a bit of an argument with a fmaily member and i was still online and had just said goodnight to my virgo woman and i decided to also say goodnight to her on her profile page and so i navigated ot her prof page and as it loaded i saw that a guy had sent her a heart gift and she had thanked him for it in her u
I am also your A-Typical Cancer. when i care for someone i also like to lavish them with affection and find myself always thinking of new nice things to do for that person and ways to make them happy and smile 🙂
i would love a little advice from anyone who can understand my situation......
i am friends online with a virgo woman and things between us are not great right now because she cannot let go of something that happened in the past which i have tried, seemingly in vein, to assure her it was nowhere near as bad as she thought.
i met her a year ago online and over 10 months we gradually built up a wonderful friendship. we spoke/chatted all day every day and the more time i spent with her the more i found myself developing feelings for her and i knew that i meant a lot to her as well. everything was wonderful between us, she withheld her emotions after a small incident back in march, up until then she was very openly affectionate toward me but then one night, for no apparent reason, she stopped talking to me and would not respond to my messages, i didn't hound her, i simply messaged her occasionally letting her know i was still there but got no response but she did leave me good morning messages on 2 mornings and later on the second day she went away for the weekend so she couldn't leave me anymore morning messages. on the following tuesday she spoke to me and told me that she had not been feeling well and when she feels like that she kind of slips away into the background as she thinks she's not very good company when she's not feeling too well. i know it could possibly be her way of saying it's her TOM and obviously i am very understanding of this but when she stopped talking to me i asked one of her friends if they had seen or heard from her as i was worried about her and she didn't like that and after that time i noticed that she was very different with me. she was no longer openly affectionate with me, talking to me the same way she spoke to everybody but our friendship continued to flourish and we remained close until almost 3 months ago.
2.5 months ago, one wednesday night, i had a bit of an argument with a fmaily member and i was still online and had just said goodnight to my virgo woman and i decided to also say goodnight to her on her profile page and so i navigated ot her prof page and as it loaded i saw that a guy had sent her a heart gift and she had thanked him for it in her u
usual caring way, i had sent her many golden hearts but she never, ever acknowledged them or thanked me for them but i had noticed that she had thanked this other guy EVERY time he sent her a heart, i didn't really mind that much because she was with me all day every day in chat and messages so i knew i was getting most of her time but because i was still in a bit of a mood from my argument with the family member i asked her why she never thanked me for mine and said to her that she should either thank everybody or nobody and not just some people because that's not nice and makes the others feel unappreciated which i think is a very fair comment but she didn't like it. she stopped talking to me again and 3 days later, on the saturday night, i was sending her gifts by way of an apology and i noticed suddenly i was no longer her friend. if you haven't worked it out yet btw i am referring to facebook 😉 she had removed me from her friends and i'm sire it took her 3 days to bring herself to remove me because she cares for me more than she's ever let on. before she removed me as a friend she did a couple of sweet little things for me, she helped me with 2 application requests and then for about a week and a half she was very quiet and then i noticed she was helping me again in my games which she did for about 2 weeks and then suddenly stopped again and hasn't helped me since. she has remained in contact, she logs in and watched the videos i leave her in which i have tried to explain many times that on the evening i was angry with somebody else and not her but she seems to not want to believe it. she is still logging in and watching my videos. i gave ger my log in details because i have always trusted her and it was the only way she could watch my videos as we are not currently friends.
she is maintaining a healthy distance right now and won't talk to me or tell me anything but i started to think we were starting to make progress last week when she unblocked me from her arena page to allow me to make her a beautiful birthday wall which she loved and she spoke ot me and left me a lovely sweet thank you and, for the first time in 2 months,she showed a little emotion when she thanked me for the birthday card i sent her, even blew me 3 x's 🙂 last saturday she went to a funeral and i let her know i was thinking of her all day, messaged her regularly during the day to show her she was never out of my thoughts and i sent her a sympathy e-card which she thanked me f
she is maintaining a healthy distance right now and won't talk to me or tell me anything but i started to think we were starting to make progress last week when she unblocked me from her arena page to allow me to make her a beautiful birthday wall which she loved and she spoke ot me and left me a lovely sweet thank you and, for the first time in 2 months,she showed a little emotion when she thanked me for the birthday card i sent her, even blew me 3 x's 🙂 last saturday she went to a funeral and i let her know i was thinking of her all day, messaged her regularly during the day to show her she was never out of my thoughts and i sent her a sympathy e-card which she thanked me f
for but i didn't know she had thanked me for until yesterday when i found the email and in sunday night i left her an angey message, i don't usually get angry and have never been angry with her before but i got annoyed with her over the weekend because i asked her who had died as i didn't know but she wouldn't tell me. she had asked me questions and practically demanded answers and i graciously did answer but she refused to answer mine and that upset me because i had been good enough to answer her questions so i got upset and left her a message kinda shouting at her telling her i had had enough of her and her moods because she was fine with me during the week but seemed to be angry with me again over the weekend, and i told her after everything i had done for her (over the 10 months i had done nice things for her every day, most days she'd wake up and log online to find a sweet gift or good morning greeting waiting for her and i made her new walls in arena at least twice every week, i took wonderful care of her basically 😉 ) i deserved to be shown a little appreciation. yesterday morning i logged on to find she'd left me a message on my arena page basically saying goodbye, she was very angry with me and finally blocked me completely but she knew i had another account and i used that account to send her a message telling her why i had been upset with her resulting in my leaving her an angry message, i didn't like doing it anf felt terrible afterwards but i thought she hadn't thanked me for my sympathy card and was upset she wouldn't answer my questions but yesterday i found an email from the ecard site telling me she had left me a thank you message and when i reead the message my heart shot up into my throat and i felt terrible.
even after blocking my normal account completely she hasn't blocked my other account and still continues to log in to my account and watch the videos i record for her which i do because despite all this i care for her a great deal and she means the world to me. i just need to know if any of you can guess what's going on in her mind and if you agree that she obviously cares for me or she would have blocked me completely a long time ago and would certainly not still be logging in to watch my videos after saying goodbye to me yesterday? seems to me she can no easier let me go than i can let her go 🙂
what are your thoughts??
even after blocking my normal account completely she hasn't blocked my other account and still continues to log in to my account and watch the videos i record for her which i do because despite all this i care for her a great deal and she means the world to me. i just need to know if any of you can guess what's going on in her mind and if you agree that she obviously cares for me or she would have blocked me completely a long time ago and would certainly not still be logging in to watch my videos after saying goodbye to me yesterday? seems to me she can no easier let me go than i can let her go 🙂
what are your thoughts??
Howdy Gunstar!
Glad you like the thread. I read your sweet story (the way you feel about her and all) and just couldn't pass up the opportunity to try and help you make some sense of your situation.
I don't know if you read through the entire thread but as you can see the OP has been experiencing some confusion of his own in reference to his Virgo woman's feelings for him (hey there aujra...hope everything is alright...hell are ya!)
As we (myself and some of the other Virgo women on this site) told aujra, Cancers and Virgos have a habit of confusing one another like nobody's business. It can be a really sad sad thing if the two don't proactively work to sort out what's really going on underneath.
Your Virgo woman definitely cares for you because if she didn't, trust and believe that she wouldn't spend most of her time communicating with you the way that she does. Honestly, Cancer men make Virgo women feel all sorts of things that we thought we could never feel. We do have emotions and they do run deep but, I can't stress to you enough, that 'thing' that you Cancer men seem to do to us that seemingly no other sign in the zodiac can. Our own emotions and feelings can really scare us especially if they are very strong and we are maybe not ready to act on them.
I'm not saying that I exactly know what's going on in her head but if she is shutting down and being 'on and off' with you, my suggestion would be to gently confront her. Be straight on with her and ask her direct questions like "do you care for me?" "Do you want to be with me?" "Do you see a future with me?". We are pretty direct and it may not be a risk that you're willing to take(?) but if you really want to get an answer and clear up your confusion, someone's going to have to be brave enough to come forth and ask the tough questions first.
Glad you like the thread. I read your sweet story (the way you feel about her and all) and just couldn't pass up the opportunity to try and help you make some sense of your situation.
I don't know if you read through the entire thread but as you can see the OP has been experiencing some confusion of his own in reference to his Virgo woman's feelings for him (hey there aujra...hope everything is alright...hell are ya!)
As we (myself and some of the other Virgo women on this site) told aujra, Cancers and Virgos have a habit of confusing one another like nobody's business. It can be a really sad sad thing if the two don't proactively work to sort out what's really going on underneath.
Your Virgo woman definitely cares for you because if she didn't, trust and believe that she wouldn't spend most of her time communicating with you the way that she does. Honestly, Cancer men make Virgo women feel all sorts of things that we thought we could never feel. We do have emotions and they do run deep but, I can't stress to you enough, that 'thing' that you Cancer men seem to do to us that seemingly no other sign in the zodiac can. Our own emotions and feelings can really scare us especially if they are very strong and we are maybe not ready to act on them.
I'm not saying that I exactly know what's going on in her head but if she is shutting down and being 'on and off' with you, my suggestion would be to gently confront her. Be straight on with her and ask her direct questions like "do you care for me?" "Do you want to be with me?" "Do you see a future with me?". We are pretty direct and it may not be a risk that you're willing to take(?) but if you really want to get an answer and clear up your confusion, someone's going to have to be brave enough to come forth and ask the tough questions first.
Please don't give up on her. Cancers and Virgos make wonderful mates for one another. She may be overwhelmed with all that she feels and may be running away for fear that this connection is too good to be true or ousomething she may not be able to handle. However, the only way you will know for sure is if you get it from the horse's mouth. The fact that she still signs on to watch your videos is good thing. It means that she is not ready to let you go completely yet. Trust your gut and take it easy and hurry up and post back so that we can enroll you in our "Cancer Man Therapy Program 101" LoL. Joking. Seriously however, be of good faith and good courage and good luck to you and we WILL speak to you soon.
Questions: have you two ever met face to face? If not, how far away are you two from one another? Have you ever discussed the possibility of meeting up? Have you talked about actually being in a relationship? What are your future plans?
Questions: have you two ever met face to face? If not, how far away are you two from one another? Have you ever discussed the possibility of meeting up? Have you talked about actually being in a relationship? What are your future plans?
Gunstar37 hey dude whats up, I'm a Cancer too right in the middle of the cycle too 7/11 b-day. Virgos are just like us, they are super guarded of their emotions but while we get threatened or scared and scamper off they just give "maybes" and then feel it out. A maybe is more of a yes but not right now with Virgos it seems, they want to feel things out and see how everything develops. If you can get a maybe from a Virgo than you are pretty much already in. I wouldn't worry too much about it, if she is still talking to you, being affectionate, and maybe even flirty over the phone you are fine, she is just still feeling things out. Oh and hey VV whats good?
What's good A? Hell have you been? Any updates? How are things with the VG?
Ya she is ok busy as hell so we can't see each other often but man I did a bad thing....slept with the Scorp ex and agreed to be fuck buddies with her....you gotta understand she's really fucking hot and good in bed😛. I'm gonna keep in touch with the Virgo ex and keep my feelings for the Scorp ex under control which I can easily do since I hate dating her, but I'll continue to impress the VirGal and let her know what is going on and let her decide if she wants to continue herself.
Posted by aujra
Ya she is ok busy as hell so we can't see each other often but man I did a bad thing....slept with the Scorp ex and agreed to be fuck buddies with her....you gotta understand she's really fucking hot and good in bed😛. I'm gonna keep in touch with the Virgo ex and keep my feelings for the Scorp ex under control which I can easily do since I hate dating her, but I'll continue to impress the VirGal and let her know what is going on and let her decide if she wants to continue herself.
Damn you! How the hell did I know you were gonna do that? LOL. You Cancer men and your past flames. Never can let them bitches go and wait for a good Virgo woman can ya?! Horny bastards!
Hey, are you gonna tell Virgal about scorp chick? Good luck with that if you do. LOL.
Hey VV Thank you so much, you've given me a deeper understanding of her mind and right now i am biding my time. damn moon's in cancer right now and it's hell for me being in this situation not knowing what the hell's happening. she's gone quiet on me again. she logged in 2 nights ago to watch a video and i didn't realise i had deleted the wrong video so there wasn't a new one there for her lol but she hasn't logged back in since. she hasn't blocked the account i am using to talk to her either and the communication is still all one way. god there are times i wish she wasn't worth waiting for 😉
Oh i forgot to answer your questions VV.......we've never met face to face but she knows i want to go to her. i'm in England and she is in South Africa. we've never actually discussed being in a relationship either.....
What the hell happened there, this site was closed down this morning, had a notice up saying the domain had been put up for sale :s
You're very quiet there VV 🙂
well, a quick update for you, as i said in the previous message she went quiet on me again. last weds evening she logged in to my account as usual to watch a video i left her and because i had deleted the wrong video there was no new video there for her to watch so i left her a message telling her i realised i'd deleted the wrong one and the replacement would be ready in the morning but she didn't log in, i wasn't too bothered cos i thought it may have been her day off and she might have been getting up later ut the end of the day came and she still hadn't logged in and to date, still hasn't. she still hasn't blocked the account that i am using to talk to her which is still one way communication right now, god i wish i had her mobile number. she's blocked me again from her arena page and so i am more confused than ever. in a way it looks like she's finished with me and doesn't want anything to do with me but on the other hand, why has she not blocked the account i am using to talk to her?? if i try to talk to her in arena using a different account ie my mother's account she blocks me so why is she not blocking the normal FB account i am using to talk to her?? i am pretty sure she has a trust issue with me, i'm pretty sure she believes i have been spying on her online which i can assure you i have not. i'm not that lonely, sad and desperate to know everything she does lol but she seems to be convinced that i have been and still am spying on her.
any ideas that may help un-confuse me lol??
well, a quick update for you, as i said in the previous message she went quiet on me again. last weds evening she logged in to my account as usual to watch a video i left her and because i had deleted the wrong video there was no new video there for her to watch so i left her a message telling her i realised i'd deleted the wrong one and the replacement would be ready in the morning but she didn't log in, i wasn't too bothered cos i thought it may have been her day off and she might have been getting up later ut the end of the day came and she still hadn't logged in and to date, still hasn't. she still hasn't blocked the account that i am using to talk to her which is still one way communication right now, god i wish i had her mobile number. she's blocked me again from her arena page and so i am more confused than ever. in a way it looks like she's finished with me and doesn't want anything to do with me but on the other hand, why has she not blocked the account i am using to talk to her?? if i try to talk to her in arena using a different account ie my mother's account she blocks me so why is she not blocking the normal FB account i am using to talk to her?? i am pretty sure she has a trust issue with me, i'm pretty sure she believes i have been spying on her online which i can assure you i have not. i'm not that lonely, sad and desperate to know everything she does lol but she seems to be convinced that i have been and still am spying on her.
any ideas that may help un-confuse me lol??
Hey G37!
Haven't forgotten about you. Sorry for the late response but just know that I'm not on this shit everyday...'cause I do have a life outside of DXP, thank you very much. LOL. I'm quite tied up right now but I promise to get back to you before close of day with my thoughts.
Haven't forgotten about you. Sorry for the late response but just know that I'm not on this shit everyday...'cause I do have a life outside of DXP, thank you very much. LOL. I'm quite tied up right now but I promise to get back to you before close of day with my thoughts.
i know VV and i do appreciate your wisdom very much 😉
Hey welp it was a bad call and I got my ass hurt again...I'm lucky that the Virgal knew about it and said I would get screwed and she was right but we are still talking.
Socrp girl, came over and we had our fun and then threw up. Emailed me two days later saying she was sorry she didn't stay over but she didn't enjoy things like she used to with me, she didn't want the sex, to talk, or anything with me cause it didn't feel right she had a knot in her stomach the whole time even during the sex. So she got to break my heart twice and I am done with her and all other girls. I will chat with this Virgal but she isn't getting in, no way in hell.
Socrp girl, came over and we had our fun and then threw up. Emailed me two days later saying she was sorry she didn't stay over but she didn't enjoy things like she used to with me, she didn't want the sex, to talk, or anything with me cause it didn't feel right she had a knot in her stomach the whole time even during the sex. So she got to break my heart twice and I am done with her and all other girls. I will chat with this Virgal but she isn't getting in, no way in hell.
Hey there G37!
Sorry about yesterday. I got caught up at work and then had to go right home because I wasn't feeling very well.
I think that you should express your feelings to her one last time and tell her what you want from this relationship and then leave it as so. Why? Because you've done so much initiating/pursuing/apologizing thus far and I think that it is now her turn to really express to you how she feels. Yes, you may have done some things that rubbed her the wrong way but, if she has a heart and if she really cares for you, it's about time that she "show and prove". I say send her one last heartfelt message (only the way a cancerian can) and leave the rest up to her. I know that this might be a hard thing for you to do to get the truth but, it's not fair for her to keep you in this guessing game. If she is still logging on to your account to watch your videos then rest assured that all is not lost but, why the long silence? She needs to start talking, and fast. I always tell people that relationships should be about reciprocity. Right now it seems as though this relationship is a bit one-way and you deserve to be treated better. If she needs space or if someone else has caught her interest, then the least she can do is respect you enough to tell you so that you can move on with your life. I'm pretty sure that she would be none too happy if the shoe were on the other foot so now what you need to do is put YOUR foot down and nip this in the bud once and for all. I'm not telling you to give up on her but what I am saying is that your emotional well-being comes first and if that means cutting her off (maybe what she needs is that good swift kick up the arse. LOL) to see what transpires, then so be it. If you decide to follow my advice and send her one last message, leave it at that and if she really cares, let her make the next move. I hope that this made sense. Good luck and please keep me posted.
vv
Sorry about yesterday. I got caught up at work and then had to go right home because I wasn't feeling very well.
I think that you should express your feelings to her one last time and tell her what you want from this relationship and then leave it as so. Why? Because you've done so much initiating/pursuing/apologizing thus far and I think that it is now her turn to really express to you how she feels. Yes, you may have done some things that rubbed her the wrong way but, if she has a heart and if she really cares for you, it's about time that she "show and prove". I say send her one last heartfelt message (only the way a cancerian can) and leave the rest up to her. I know that this might be a hard thing for you to do to get the truth but, it's not fair for her to keep you in this guessing game. If she is still logging on to your account to watch your videos then rest assured that all is not lost but, why the long silence? She needs to start talking, and fast. I always tell people that relationships should be about reciprocity. Right now it seems as though this relationship is a bit one-way and you deserve to be treated better. If she needs space or if someone else has caught her interest, then the least she can do is respect you enough to tell you so that you can move on with your life. I'm pretty sure that she would be none too happy if the shoe were on the other foot so now what you need to do is put YOUR foot down and nip this in the bud once and for all. I'm not telling you to give up on her but what I am saying is that your emotional well-being comes first and if that means cutting her off (maybe what she needs is that good swift kick up the arse. LOL) to see what transpires, then so be it. If you decide to follow my advice and send her one last message, leave it at that and if she really cares, let her make the next move. I hope that this made sense. Good luck and please keep me posted.
vv
Posted by aujra
Hey welp it was a bad call and I got my ass hurt again...I'm lucky that the Virgal knew about it and said I would get screwed and she was right but we are still talking.
Socrp girl, came over and we had our fun and then threw up. Emailed me two days later saying she was sorry she didn't stay over but she didn't enjoy things like she used to with me, she didn't want the sex, to talk, or anything with me cause it didn't feel right she had a knot in her stomach the whole time even during the sex. So she got to break my heart twice and I am done with her and all other girls. I will chat with this Virgal but she isn't getting in, no way in hell.
Hey aujra!
I'm on Double duty with you and G37 tonight! LOL.
I'm so sorry to hear about what happened with your scorp ex. When you look at the big picture, it's probably best that she told you upfront how she really felt and just ended it completely instead of continuing to sleep with you knowing that she was no longer 'invested'. I know that your heart is broken but please use this as an opportunity to move forward and an onwards to newer and better things. You mentioned that you didn't like dating her anyway...no? Perhaps her admission to not wanting to be in the relationship anymore is what you really needed in order to start over clean and fresh with someone else. I think the FWB idea is kind of whacked because as much as both parties agree to have sex with no strings attached, eventually one starts to have feelings for the other and it just complicates everything. Not to mention, in a case like yours where you two were actually an item sometime ago, I really couldn't see how the two of you could continue to sleep together without one of you still being emotionally attached in some way (you?)
I know that the cancerian need for love, sex, affection and to be in relation with someone is very strong but maybe you should use this 'alone' time to heal and to really come to grips with the experience. I find that the best way to get over a painful experience is to actually face it and allow yourself to just feel all of the hurt that comes along with it (and I know as a cancerian you know how to do that!) The universe could be preparing something so much better for you in someone else to come along but you need a purged heart, free of baggage and damage to be able to openly accept when she appears. If you con
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If you continue to take every bit of baggage from every past relationship straight into the next (including flings and short-term relationships), without submitting to the healing process (time) then you will continue to sour every relationship right out of the gate.
I know that this is easier said than done but, a little time to think things through and to committ yourself to being healthy can't hurt. Cancerians more than anything, want love so I don't believe you when you say that you will not let another girl in because when the right one comes along (and she will) you'll be singing a whole different song and dance. LOL.
The hardest lessons tend to be the most beautiful ones. Maybe the universe is trying to teach you 'patience'. I completely understand your pain regarding your heartbreak from your scorp ex but I would encourage you not to give up on love because love is out there and exists for all of us. It is nice to know that you are still in contact with your VG and although she is quite busy right now, still hang in there and see what comes of it. Take it one day at a time. No need to rush. The universe makes no mistakes and things happen when they are supposed to.
I hope that you are doing well and holla back.
VV
If you continue to take every bit of baggage from every past relationship straight into the next (including flings and short-term relationships), without submitting to the healing process (time) then you will continue to sour every relationship right out of the gate.
I know that this is easier said than done but, a little time to think things through and to committ yourself to being healthy can't hurt. Cancerians more than anything, want love so I don't believe you when you say that you will not let another girl in because when the right one comes along (and she will) you'll be singing a whole different song and dance. LOL.
The hardest lessons tend to be the most beautiful ones. Maybe the universe is trying to teach you 'patience'. I completely understand your pain regarding your heartbreak from your scorp ex but I would encourage you not to give up on love because love is out there and exists for all of us. It is nice to know that you are still in contact with your VG and although she is quite busy right now, still hang in there and see what comes of it. Take it one day at a time. No need to rush. The universe makes no mistakes and things happen when they are supposed to.
I hope that you are doing well and holla back.
VV
Hey VV, thank you for your thoughts, most appreciated. as i said. she WAS logging in, she sent me an angry message last monday after i sent her an angry (well, more frustrated really) message because she was driving me mad not answering my questions. she was asking me questions and if i didn't reply she'd write again saying things like "well are you going to tell me or it it top secret" but she would not answer any of my questions and when i sent her that frustrated message she replied and said "i don't have to explain anything to you" and that pissed me off because i had done nothing to her and i had answered EVERY question she asked me so in my mind she should have shown me the same respect and courtesy and answered my questions.
well, after she sent that message and blocked my main account completely she continued logging in for 2 days until the wednesday, a week ago, and when she logged in on the weds there was no video for her cos i deleted the wrong video (think i mentioned that in the last message lol 😉 ) i recorded a replacement video and left her a message telling her it was there but she hasn't logged in since and i have sent her messages from my backup account to which she has not yet replied.
i wish i could understand the workings of her mind, i wish i could understand why she changes so much so often, one minute she's telling me my birthday card and gift wall left her speechless "am lost for words" she said and she was logging into her email to read my greeting ecards i was sending but now she's not doing that either, it's like she suddenly decided that night, what am i doing? i said goodbye to him so why am i still logging in and watching his videos and even talking to him at all?
maybe she hasn't blocked my backup account because she feels that in blocking my main account she has made her point!
god i've never been so confused and emotionally drained in my life......lol.
well, after she sent that message and blocked my main account completely she continued logging in for 2 days until the wednesday, a week ago, and when she logged in on the weds there was no video for her cos i deleted the wrong video (think i mentioned that in the last message lol 😉 ) i recorded a replacement video and left her a message telling her it was there but she hasn't logged in since and i have sent her messages from my backup account to which she has not yet replied.
i wish i could understand the workings of her mind, i wish i could understand why she changes so much so often, one minute she's telling me my birthday card and gift wall left her speechless "am lost for words" she said and she was logging into her email to read my greeting ecards i was sending but now she's not doing that either, it's like she suddenly decided that night, what am i doing? i said goodbye to him so why am i still logging in and watching his videos and even talking to him at all?
maybe she hasn't blocked my backup account because she feels that in blocking my main account she has made her point!
god i've never been so confused and emotionally drained in my life......lol.
Hey VV thanks the advice is spot on. Yeah I got my heart broken and it blows, and the sex was great but she was a pretty unmotivated and ugly person. I've steered clear of even mentioning her to the Virgal even though I do want to bitch about it. Virgal and I are just on the same old path of chatting and not really getting into anything, just learning and enjoying finding out new things. I have to admit I'm not really letting her in and we have reverted back to idle banter with the occasional hint at something important but I am kinda happy with that. I'm still a bit hurt and I am trying not to think about hte Scorp ex but it's kinda hard and it stings a bit everyday so far. I'm sure I'll get over it but us Cancers have a long ass healing process which I hate. I've also learned by being called "overwhelming" by the ex that I need to know when to be romantic. I want to impress people and do go overboard so I need to rein that in which I have been doing with the Virgal, I kinda need to control my excitement, TAKE THAT TO HEART GUNSTAR I KNOW YOU DO IT TOO. It sucks that since I am hurt I really am craving some affection and something to help me heal but I know I'm gonna have to grit my teeth and just deal with this for a bit. I am taking to heart that I don't want to "overwhelm" this Virgal so I am trying to keep it as toned down as I am and I am a bit more scared and nervous than usual considering I am in my "waiting to get hurt" mode. I'm not going to shut her out completely but I know it is going to be difficult to let her in right now, I'm just doin my best.
Hugs for Aujra —
I think it's a good idea to take your time with the Virgo. She needs to go slow and in the process she might get cold feet once or twice and back off. When this happens stay where you are and don't chase. We are just slow to open up. If you are patient you can have what you want. My cancer was very overwhelming for me in the beginning and we had lots of misunderstandings.
It won't be an experience like the one with your Scorpio where things get intense fast and end even faster. It will be the opposite. It will be a slow start but in the end it will last (If you have enough patience)
I think it's a good idea to take your time with the Virgo. She needs to go slow and in the process she might get cold feet once or twice and back off. When this happens stay where you are and don't chase. We are just slow to open up. If you are patient you can have what you want. My cancer was very overwhelming for me in the beginning and we had lots of misunderstandings.
It won't be an experience like the one with your Scorpio where things get intense fast and end even faster. It will be the opposite. It will be a slow start but in the end it will last (If you have enough patience)
Hopefully, I love intensity and passion and for things to just be like a huge explosion but those things always end fast and I end up feeling horrible. Honestly that this point I've been left so messed up I'm not even looking and it seems like that will end up being used to my advantage.
Aujra, I have a question for you. About this sex thing... How long would you wait for your Virgo to make love to her? This love making waiting... how do you feel about that?
Posted by Gunstar37
Hey VV, thank you for your thoughts, most appreciated. as i said. she WAS logging in, she sent me an angry message last monday after i sent her an angry (well, more frustrated really) message because she was driving me mad not answering my questions. she was asking me questions and if i didn't reply she'd write again saying things like "well are you going to tell me or it it top secret" but she would not answer any of my questions and when i sent her that frustrated message she replied and said "i don't have to explain anything to you" and that pissed me off because i had done nothing to her and i had answered EVERY question she asked me so in my mind she should have shown me the same respect and courtesy and answered my questions.
well, after she sent that message and blocked my main account completely she continued logging in for 2 days until the wednesday, a week ago, and when she logged in on the weds there was no video for her cos i deleted the wrong video (think i mentioned that in the last message lol 😉 ) i recorded a replacement video and left her a message telling her it was there but she hasn't logged in since and i have sent her messages from my backup account to which she has not yet replied.
i wish i could understand the workings of her mind, i wish i could understand why she changes so much so often, one minute she's telling me my birthday card and gift wall left her speechless "am lost for words" she said and she was logging into her email to read my greeting ecards i was sending but now she's not doing that either, it's like she suddenly decided that night, what am i doing? i said goodbye to him so why am i still logging in and watching his videos and even talking to him at all?
maybe she hasn't blocked my backup account because she feels that in blocking my main account she has made her point!
god i've never been so confused and emotionally drained in my life......lol.
Hey GS!
Sorry for the late post. How's everything going? Any updates? Did you ask her to be upfront with you and explain to you what is going on in her mind? Explanation for her behavior?
Posted by PandorasBox
Well, apparently not long enough lol.. I kid.
But dude... Question is, would you be bothered if your Virgette went off n slept w/ her ex while you guys were trying to get close? Don't answer this w/ bias n be like "naaw I wouldn't care" just because you've already done it w/ your ex...
Well, you got yours... How long did *that* last? I hope it was worth it.. And as far as the ex goes... Let that hobag go. It seems like she just did it to make sure she was over you, and you did it in hopes that there might be more... :/
LOL @ "hobag"
Posted by aujra
Hey VV thanks the advice is spot on. Yeah I got my heart broken and it blows, and the sex was great but she was a pretty unmotivated and ugly person. I've steered clear of even mentioning her to the Virgal even though I do want to bitch about it. Virgal and I are just on the same old path of chatting and not really getting into anything, just learning and enjoying finding out new things. I have to admit I'm not really letting her in and we have reverted back to idle banter with the occasional hint at something important but I am kinda happy with that. I'm still a bit hurt and I am trying not to think about hte Scorp ex but it's kinda hard and it stings a bit everyday so far. I'm sure I'll get over it but us Cancers have a long ass healing process which I hate. I've also learned by being called "overwhelming" by the ex that I need to know when to be romantic. I want to impress people and do go overboard so I need to rein that in which I have been doing with the Virgal, I kinda need to control my excitement, TAKE THAT TO HEART GUNSTAR I KNOW YOU DO IT TOO. It sucks that since I am hurt I really am craving some affection and something to help me heal but I know I'm gonna have to grit my teeth and just deal with this for a bit. I am taking to heart that I don't want to "overwhelm" this Virgal so I am trying to keep it as toned down as I am and I am a bit more scared and nervous than usual considering I am in my "waiting to get hurt" mode. I'm not going to shut her out completely but I know it is going to be difficult to let her in right now, I'm just doin my best.
What's up Aujra? What's the update? How are things with your VG?
Yeah I've been doing what needs to be done but I haven't heard from her in a week, sent 1 text and called once about 4 days ago and I'm just going to let it sit, if she wants to talk to me then she will if not then oh well life goes on. There have been no fights or arguments or anything to bring this on, I dunno.
I see. Well, I think it's good that you are just taking it slow. I'm sure she'll contact you soon. Hope everything else is well with you and keep us posted.
lol, this is an old thread but I really do love this combo. It's funny hearing the crabcakes say they can't figure us out 'cause that's exactly the way we feel about them!
Is it silly to only want to date guys from one particular sign? Ha! eh, might make an exception for a Scorp or Taurus.
I do want to marry one. I think they make the perfect family men (when their asses aren't cheating that is.) Not right now though. In a few years or so. Want to put some more things in place first.
Was just thinking of my experience with a crab a few years ago....aaaahhhhh...
I'll send my prayer to the universe. 🙂
Is it silly to only want to date guys from one particular sign? Ha! eh, might make an exception for a Scorp or Taurus.
I do want to marry one. I think they make the perfect family men (when their asses aren't cheating that is.) Not right now though. In a few years or so. Want to put some more things in place first.
Was just thinking of my experience with a crab a few years ago....aaaahhhhh...
I'll send my prayer to the universe. 🙂
Ugh reading this made me sick...at first I was like OK, yayy getting some good insight into a cancer males mind and learning more about the virgo/cancer relationship, than BAM... he goes and fucks his ex :/
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Rising Sign is in 11 Degrees Virgo
Sun is in 20 Degrees Gemini.
Moon is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 19 Degrees Gemini.
Mars is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.
Jupiter is in 10 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 10 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 00 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 29 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 06 Degrees Gemini.
So very very much gemini and scorpio...no wonder I can be passionate to the point people think I am going nuts and can't stay still for anything 😛