Does a third decan Virgo guy like a lot of space?

I'm a third decan Taurus female and just got into a relationship with a third decan Virgo guy. Being quite independent, I love my space and freedom a lot. Just wondering if he'll need much attention or be happier with lots of space. For instance, will he be satisfied with going out on dates once in a week or so? As a side note, we've been purely platonic friends for a long time before taking our relationship to the next level. Even so, I'm not sure about his romantic needs and kind of clueless about how much space is too much. Someone please help. Thanks! 😉

I don't know about all of them, but this one does. I like enough space to breathe, but still enough contact for us to pick up where we last stopped without much hesitation or awkwardness.

Third Decan here also and I like a healthy balance of both.
Dont make me feel guilty for wanting time for myself and I ill be one happy Virgo.

As far as romantic needs, well you say you have known him for a while now, he must have dropped some clues.
And why would you want all the answers, isnt it more fun having to explore and find out what his needs are?

Take me for example, if you are my "friend" you will at some point learn about my appreciation for oral.
So try to remember what he said when you asked him what is his perfect valentines day, etc.

3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras. 1st decans are best left alone 😛 they cant deal with their own nervous energy let alone with someone else lol

OP: Ask him directly. If you try and guess at his needs, he might end up misinterpreting yours.
Keep in mind that these things can vary - people can get caught up with projects and lose sight of their relationships for a while. You just need to communicate.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras.

The third decan is ruled by Taurus, which happens to share Venus with Libra, so perhaps that's why you see them as "almost Libras". I can't say that it wouldn't be useful to have more Libran influences on our sign, though, as most of us Virgos could always do with little more tact and social grace.

The association with Venus is the reason third decans are often seen as artistic. I haven't heard anything about being "flighty" or "unreliable", but I'd imagine that having a Taurean influence on one's sign would tend to do the exact opposite.

Dude, Ive been into astrology for almost 10 years now so I know all of that.

Perfect, glad to see that we're in agreement now. I was worried that you'd be difficult to convince. :3

Posted by Lochinvar
OP: Ask him directly. If you try and guess at his needs, he might end up misinterpreting yours.
Keep in mind that these things can vary - people can get caught up with projects and lose sight of their relationships for a while. You just need to communicate.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras.

The third decan is ruled by Taurus, which happens to share Venus with Libra, so perhaps that's why you see them as "almost Libras". I can't say that it wouldn't be useful to have more Libran influences on our sign, though, as most of us Virgos could always do with little more tact and social grace.

The association with Venus is the reason third decans are often seen as artistic. I haven't heard anything about being "flighty" or "unreliable", but I'd imagine that having a Taurean influence on one's sign would tend to do the exact opposite.

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I have to agree. Im a Third Decan and I tell you what, if i could pass one value to my children, if i had any, it would reliability.
Being able to be counted on.
Shit, thats one of my biggest virtues next to my patience.

But Shaka is also right cause we can be so different.
And yes I would definately say that the third decans are artistic. Im attracted to anything creative and attention grabbing. I love the arts. I wish i could earn a living doing something creative.

Posted by Virg916
I don't know about all of them, but this one does. I like enough space to breathe, but still enough contact for us to pick up where we last stopped without much hesitation or awkwardness.

I'm relieved to know that b/c that's what I want too 😛

Posted by wgamador2
Third Decan here also and I like a healthy balance of both.
Dont make me feel guilty for wanting time for myself and I ill be one happy Virgo.

As far as romantic needs, well you say you have known him for a while now, he must have dropped some clues.
And why would you want all the answers, isnt it more fun having to explore and find out what his needs are?

Take me for example, if you are my "friend" you will at some point learn about my appreciation for oral.
So try to remember what he said when you asked him what is his perfect valentines day, etc.

In fact, we've known each other since mid school. Even though the laughter and fun we had together was amazing, I was unaware about what he wanted in love, considering he never talked about his romantic needs and it never occurred to me to dig into it.
Anyway, shortly after asking me out, he confided in me that he has a long list of things he want from a g/f and that I fulfill the list perfectly 😄. ofc I was flattered by his words but they got me apprehensive as well :/ Now I'd rather have all the answers than take chances lol -.-

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras. 1st decans are best left alone 😛 they cant deal with their own nervous energy let alone with someone else lol

lol

Posted by Lochinvar
OP: Ask him directly. If you try and guess at his needs, he might end up misinterpreting yours.
Keep in mind that these things can vary - people can get caught up with projects and lose sight of their relationships for a while. You just need to communicate.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras.

The third decan is ruled by Taurus, which happens to share Venus with Libra, so perhaps that's why you see them as "almost Libras". I can't say that it wouldn't be useful to have more Libran influences on our sign, though, as most of us Virgos could always do with little more tact and social grace.

The association with Venus is the reason third decans are often seen as artistic. I haven't heard anything about being "flighty" or "unreliable", but I'd imagine that having a Taurean influence on one's sign would tend to do the exact opposite.

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True. Well I did think of asking him directly at first but got somewhat shy lol.

Posted by LoversInLove3
I'd say so...

One I dated had a Pisces moon (total nutcase...sweet but alot of issues to deal with) and he loved his space but didn't WANT space. CONFUSING.

lol confusing indeed. Oh well, I checked my guy's birth chart today and found out he has a Capricorn moon.

Sounds like this dude probably likes his space then. Especially if he has a Capricorn moon. Even if he doesn't he's gotta be at least double realistic in his expectations of other people with a Virgo Sun and a Capricorn moon.

Posted by OProserpina
Sounds like this dude probably likes his space then. Especially if he has a Capricorn moon. Even if he doesn't he's gotta be at least double realistic in his expectations of other people with a Virgo Sun and a Capricorn moon.

I see 😄

The virgo i like is a 3rd decan. He is only flighty and unreliable if he hasn't prioritized you. Even then, i've been there when he "forgot" his bestie's show. He went to a party instead. He definitely loves his space but is also strongly influenced by his cancer moon.

Posted by OProserpina
Sounds like this dude probably likes his space then. Especially if he has a Capricorn moon.

Well, as a third decan Virgo who (oddly) happens to have a Capricorn moon, I can say that I for one rather enjoy having my space encroached on from time to time (depending on the nature of the relationship, of course). The Capricorn moon just makes it occasionally awkward when trying to express your emotions - it doesn't necessarily have to make a guy aloof. Besides, some Mars and Venus placements do tend to push you towards taking/wishing for a more demonstrative approach towards relationships (like Mars-Venus conjunct Leos, for example). It really can vary.

OP: My point being, please do ask him about his preferences, rather than trying to guess it out of his natal chart. You probably have pretty good rapport from your earlier platonic relationship with him after all, so there's really no reason to be shy about asking. : P

Posted by ninjamu
The virgo i like is a 3rd decan. He is only flighty and unreliable if he hasn't prioritized you. Even then, i've been there when he "forgot" his bestie's show. He went to a party instead. He definitely loves his space but is also strongly influenced by his cancer moon.

I'm new to astrology and quite amazed at how someone's moon sign can influence his personality 😄

Posted by Let*It*Be
Third decan Virgos are the best! They are not as anal, more relaxed and secure and love to have a damn good time. I wish you the best with this guy. I wouldn't fret about losing your "me time"...these guys go with the flow. My favorites!! 🙂

Thank you so much 🙂 he's the only guy I know that's a 3rd decan Virgo but he totally rocks my world 😄

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Posted by OProserpina
Sounds like this dude probably likes his space then. Especially if he has a Capricorn moon.

Well, as a third decan Virgo who (oddly) happens to have a Capricorn moon, I can say that I for one rather enjoy having my space encroached on from time to time (depending on the nature of the relationship, of course). The Capricorn moon just makes it occasionally awkward when trying to express your emotions - it doesn't necessarily have to make a guy aloof. Besides, some Mars and Venus placements do tend to push you towards taking/wishing for a more demonstrative approach towards relationships (like Mars-Venus conjunct Leos, for example). It really can vary.

OP: My point being, please do ask him about his preferences, rather than trying to guess it out of his natal chart. You probably have pretty good rapport from your earlier platonic relationship with him after all, so there's really no reason to be shy about asking. : P

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I wouldn't mind encroaching his space occasionally if he'd enjoy that lol. And yes you're right about the Capricorn moon thing. Apparently, it took him ages to ask me out since it's quite hard for him to express his (romantic)feelings. In any case, I'll have to start asking him about his preferences as soon as I get rid of this sudden and needless awkwardness that's come over me 😄