
Sounds about right. He's comfortable with indirect communication and group situations but gets uneasy when you're alone together. Ask him out, or if you're feeling really naughty just grab him and kiss him. He'll love it 😉



Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
hehe... yeah you know the feeling I get is that he does like me, but I don't know why he's so shy when it's just me. Once he spent all day texting me flirty things and then when he saw me on the bus on the way home from work, he went bright bright bright red and then stammered a hello and then sat at the back of the bus. I thought maybe he likes me, maybe he is just flirting.
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Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
As a virgo guy, would you be turned off if a girl asked you out?
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
I would love to just kiss him, that would be more my style - to just sort it out then and there, but if someone is already that shy with you, maybe they will not like that.
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
If a girl you didn't like though kissed you, it would freak a virgo out right? You guys don't normally seem like flirty types, but this one is with me (indirectly).
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Posted by VirgoM20
No, I'd love it. I can't think of any bigger turn-on than a woman liking me so much that she'll discard the "man makes first move" rule! If a woman made me feel so desired and wanted that she asked me out I'd automatically like her more and respect her for her courage.

Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
I'm a pisces he's a virgo.
I started work in a new office about three weeks ago and met this guy. We send funny emails back and forth to each other joking and flirting during the day and then one or two text messages at night, still just joking and flirting. The thing is that in person, he's very shy and almost pretends I don't exist when we are alone. He becomes a lot more serious and reserved. When others are there he's more joking and outgoing.
I really like him a lot and I catch him looking at me all the time, but maybe I am just imagining it.
How do you know if a virgo likes you? Advice from any male or female virgos or those with experience would be helpful!
Also, what should I do? Should I text him to have coffee or dinner or lunch?

Posted by Cajunspirit
Wow another Pisces, this end of month is quite interesting.
You guys are being bombarded with the fishes...he he. 😉
I find Pisces girls to be rather uncomfortable and unsociable when caught one on one.
Really? I am very sociable. But actually when I was young (like your age...lol) I was shy and sometimes did have trouble talking to new people. Especially the opposite sex so I can see what you mean. I am sooo not shy anymore though..lol.
If he is shy around you, he obviously doesn't want to mess up.
When I like a girl, I tease them a lot. I go out of my way to help them, bring their favourite food, advise them and look out for their health. I'll always be trying to win their attention and make them laugh.

Posted by sortilege85
I give it from now to a month until he starts talking to you directly. Many virgos get choked up whenever they see the woman they desire. Usually it doesn't take long for them to make up a decision, but if you guide him he'll come to a quicker conclusion and you'll get the results wanted faster.
Virgo's just needs a guide because they are always in doubt whenever they feel like they are dealing with some one whom is extremely beautiful or has a great personality for they will feel that it is "TO GOOD TO BE TRUE".

Posted by VirgoM20Posted by sortilege85
I give it from now to a month until he starts talking to you directly. Many virgos get choked up whenever they see the woman they desire. Usually it doesn't take long for them to make up a decision, but if you guide him he'll come to a quicker conclusion and you'll get the results wanted faster.
Virgo's just needs a guide because they are always in doubt whenever they feel like they are dealing with some one whom is extremely beautiful or has a great personality for they will feel that it is "TO GOOD TO BE TRUE".
I agree 100% with all of that!click to expand

Posted by seavixen2
^ I think Virgos can actually be shyer than Pisces...

Posted by Stpatrickspisces
Thanks for putting up with the fishes especially since the new year! It's weird how many of us are having encounters with Virgos. :o)


Posted by Stpatrickspisces
You guys are being bombarded with the fishes...he he. 😉
Really? I am very sociable. But actually when I was young (like your age...lol) I was shy and sometimes did have trouble talking to new people. Especially the opposite sex so I can see what you mean. I am sooo not shy anymore though..lol.
What a great guy you are Cajun! I am sure that's true as well about him not wanting to mess up. With written word you can reread it and make sure it sounds good before you send it. With talking once you say it then it's out there and there's no taking it back. When I was really shy I do remember always feeling like I was afraid I would say the wrong thing and sound like an idiot.
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
Really? That's interesting, though possibly true. I am really a rather shy person at times too. This advice is great - thank you - yeah he teases me allll the time. He teases me about everything and is making a lot of jokes. You're completely spot-on. Yay! I just wish he would make a move.
How should I show him that I like him as more than a friend/colleague? Are virgos easily shocked? I don't want to freak him out.
Posted by seavixen2
^ I think Virgos can actually be shyer than Pisces...click to expand

Posted by VirgoM20Posted by Stpatrickspisces
Thanks for putting up with the fishes especially since the new year! It's weird how many of us are having encounters with Virgos. :o)
No need to thank us. I'm quite enjoying the influx of fishes! I rather think I'd like to have a closer encounter with one of you sexy pisces creatures!click to expand

Posted by Stpatrickspisces
As long as it's not one of the bottom feeders as I believe Seavixen put it! I prefer to be considered a rainbow fish or something exotic like that! "said with a little wink and a toss of the hair"


Posted by CajunspiritPosted by Stpatrickspisces
You guys are being bombarded with the fishes...he he. 😉
That's how it works on these boards. There is never one lone Fishie, always a School of them lol
Really? I am very sociable. But actually when I was young (like your age...lol) I was shy and sometimes did have trouble talking to new people. Especially the opposite sex so I can see what you mean. I am sooo not shy anymore though..lol.
Bingo, it's what I deal with all the time at this age.
What a great guy you are Cajun! I am sure that's true as well about him not wanting to mess up. With written word you can reread it and make sure it sounds good before you send it. With talking once you say it then it's out there and there's no taking it back. When I was really shy I do remember always feeling like I was afraid I would say the wrong thing and sound like an idiot.
Hahaha, thankies once again.
You pictures lead me to believe you are quite the neck breaker!!!
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
Really? That's interesting, though possibly true. I am really a rather shy person at times too. This advice is great - thank you - yeah he teases me allll the time. He teases me about everything and is making a lot of jokes. You're completely spot-on. Yay! I just wish he would make a move.
Like you said later in the thread, you're turn to make the move!
How should I show him that I like him as more than a friend/colleague? Are virgos easily shocked? I don't want to freak him out.
I don't normally like surprises, but a kiss is more than acceptable 😉
Posted by seavixen2
^ I think Virgos can actually be shyer than Pisces...
I know I used to be 🙂click to expand
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