Does this virgo guy I work with like me?

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Wow another Pisces, this end of month is quite interesting.

I find Pisces girls to be rather uncomfortable and unsociable when caught one on one.

If he is shy around you, he obviously doesn't want to mess up.
When I like a girl, I tease them a lot. I go out of my way to help them, bring their favourite food, advise them and look out for their health. I'll always be trying to win their attention and make them laugh.
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Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius

hehe... yeah you know the feeling I get is that he does like me, but I don't know why he's so shy when it's just me. Once he spent all day texting me flirty things and then when he saw me on the bus on the way home from work, he went bright bright bright red and then stammered a hello and then sat at the back of the bus. I thought maybe he likes me, maybe he is just flirting.
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He's nervous because he likes you, and he's shy because it isn't "just you", as you put it. To him it's WOW GORGEOUS PISCES BABE! As for the texting and stuff... Virgos find it much easier to write things than to say things. What he writes is a better indication of what he is actually feeling than the way he acts around you. I knew an Aries girl for a short while. Nothing happened because I was too shy and she expected the man to make the first move, but we used to text each other complete filth and I did really fancy her!!!!!

Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius

As a virgo guy, would you be turned off if a girl asked you out?



No, I'd love it. I can't think of any bigger turn-on than a woman liking me so much that she'll discard the "man makes first move" rule! If a woman made me feel so desired and wanted that she asked me out I'd automatically like her more and respect her for her courage.

Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius

I would love to just kiss him, that would be more my style - to just sort it out then and there, but if someone is already that shy with you, maybe they will not like that.



If he likes you then he'll like it. His shyness is more a measure of his lack of confidence than any lack of liking for you.

Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius

If a girl you didn't like though kissed you, it would freak a virgo out right? You guys don't normally seem like flirty types, but this one is with me (indirectly).
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Well, yes, it would be difficult if someone I didn't like kissed me, but I get a feeling this guy does like you, and remember, fortune favors the brave!
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Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius
I'm a pisces he's a virgo.

I started work in a new office about three weeks ago and met this guy. We send funny emails back and forth to each other joking and flirting during the day and then one or two text messages at night, still just joking and flirting. The thing is that in person, he's very shy and almost pretends I don't exist when we are alone. He becomes a lot more serious and reserved. When others are there he's more joking and outgoing.

I really like him a lot and I catch him looking at me all the time, but maybe I am just imagining it.

How do you know if a virgo likes you? Advice from any male or female virgos or those with experience would be helpful!

Also, what should I do? Should I text him to have coffee or dinner or lunch?
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Posted by Cajunspirit
Wow another Pisces, this end of month is quite interesting.

You guys are being bombarded with the fishes...he he. 😉

I find Pisces girls to be rather uncomfortable and unsociable when caught one on one.

Really? I am very sociable. But actually when I was young (like your age...lol) I was shy and sometimes did have trouble talking to new people. Especially the opposite sex so I can see what you mean. I am sooo not shy anymore though..lol.

If he is shy around you, he obviously doesn't want to mess up.
When I like a girl, I tease them a lot. I go out of my way to help them, bring their favourite food, advise them and look out for their health. I'll always be trying to win their attention and make them laugh.



What a great guy you are Cajun! I am sure that's true as well about him not wanting to mess up. With written word you can reread it and make sure it sounds good before you send it. With talking once you say it then it's out there and there's no taking it back. When I was really shy I do remember always feeling like I was afraid I would say the wrong thing and sound like an idiot.
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Posted by sortilege85
I give it from now to a month until he starts talking to you directly. Many virgos get choked up whenever they see the woman they desire. Usually it doesn't take long for them to make up a decision, but if you guide him he'll come to a quicker conclusion and you'll get the results wanted faster.

Virgo's just needs a guide because they are always in doubt whenever they feel like they are dealing with some one whom is extremely beautiful or has a great personality for they will feel that it is "TO GOOD TO BE TRUE".


I agree 100% with all of that!
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Posted by sortilege85
I give it from now to a month until he starts talking to you directly. Many virgos get choked up whenever they see the woman they desire. Usually it doesn't take long for them to make up a decision, but if you guide him he'll come to a quicker conclusion and you'll get the results wanted faster.

Virgo's just needs a guide because they are always in doubt whenever they feel like they are dealing with some one whom is extremely beautiful or has a great personality for they will feel that it is "TO GOOD TO BE TRUE".


I agree 100% with all of that!
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VirgoM20, you gave great advice as well. All of you are so helpful and you really do give great advice and it is ever so helpful especially when we fishes are swimming in unknown waters. I really appreciate it for myself and I am sure PiscesLeoAquarius agrees!!! Thanks for putting up with the fishes especially since the new year! It's weird how many of us are having encounters with Virgos. :o)
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^ I think Virgos can actually be shyer than Pisces...



I know I used to be soooo shy growing up but now I know no strangers. I just found out my ascending sign is Leo and my moon is Sagittarius so I don't know astrology to know how big a part that plays. I know from the reading I've done on here that it definitely affects who you are. I just love people no matter what signs we are b/c as we have already mentioned about us evolved fishes that there are people that are evolved in all the signs and there is always common ground if we choose to investigate it! I haven't really exchanged with shaks or some of the other Virgos but the ones I have on here have been very honest and helpful and I always appreciate honesty if it's tempered with sensitivity to the poster.

I don't know about you Seavixen but working in the medical field actually helped me get over my extreme shyness. You have to talk to the patients no matter what and that is one of the areas that I am truly happy being a Pisces b/c I can use that intuitiveness and empathy that our sign is known for.

Shout out to all the DXP Virgos!!!!! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!
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Posted by Stpatrickspisces

You guys are being bombarded with the fishes...he he. 😉



That's how it works on these boards. There is never one lone Fishie, always a School of them lol

Really? I am very sociable. But actually when I was young (like your age...lol) I was shy and sometimes did have trouble talking to new people. Especially the opposite sex so I can see what you mean. I am sooo not shy anymore though..lol.



Bingo, it's what I deal with all the time at this age.

What a great guy you are Cajun! I am sure that's true as well about him not wanting to mess up. With written word you can reread it and make sure it sounds good before you send it. With talking once you say it then it's out there and there's no taking it back. When I was really shy I do remember always feeling like I was afraid I would say the wrong thing and sound like an idiot.



Hahaha, thankies once again.
You pictures lead me to believe you are quite the neck breaker!!!

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Really? That's interesting, though possibly true. I am really a rather shy person at times too. This advice is great - thank you - yeah he teases me allll the time. He teases me about everything and is making a lot of jokes. You're completely spot-on. Yay! I just wish he would make a move.



Like you said later in the thread, you're turn to make the move!

How should I show him that I like him as more than a friend/colleague? Are virgos easily shocked? I don't want to freak him out.



I don't normally like surprises, but a kiss is more than acceptable 😉

Posted by seavixen2
^ I think Virgos can actually be shyer than Pisces...
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I know I used to be 🙂
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Thanks for putting up with the fishes especially since the new year! It's weird how many of us are having encounters with Virgos. :o)


No need to thank us. I'm quite enjoying the influx of fishes! I rather think I'd like to have a closer encounter with one of you sexy pisces creatures!
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Aaaawww...that's sweet to hear! We aren't so bad..eh? I think we all should just throw a monkey wrench into the astrology thinking that Virgos/Pisces is a hard match and prove it CAN be done...lol. As long as it's not one of the bottom feeders as I believe Seavixen put it! I prefer to be considered a rainbow fish or something exotic like that! "said with a little wink and a toss of the hair"
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Hello fellow pisces lovely lady!

Thanks for your great advice. It's nice to hear from another pisces crushing on a virgo. I dated one virgo before - but a long long time ago - when I was eighteen. Now I'm twenty eight, so there had been a bit ten year gap. With the first virgo I had no idea at all that he liked me until one day about a year into our friendship he just came out and said it. I was completely sho



Why heeeellllloooo! We will definitely have to keep each other posted about our situations. :-) I definitely think you should ask him out to lunch/coffee...something. I know it can be hard especially if you are a bit shy but it may be just what's needed to go further. Otherwise I have been told by these wonderful Virgos on here that you have to have a lot of patience when dealing with Virgos and I know that is a hard thing for this Pisces gal! I still am having to exercise patience with the Virgo I am seeing and he is definitely harder for me to read than other men I have been with unless I come right out and ask him about something he doesn't necessarily volunteer a lot of informations. Don't be afraid to ask the questions when you guys do get together. I have found that if I just start out the conversation then he will start to get going. 😄 Good luck!!!!
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You guys are being bombarded with the fishes...he he. 😉



That's how it works on these boards. There is never one lone Fishie, always a School of them lol

Really? I am very sociable. But actually when I was young (like your age...lol) I was shy and sometimes did have trouble talking to new people. Especially the opposite sex so I can see what you mean. I am sooo not shy anymore though..lol.



Bingo, it's what I deal with all the time at this age.

What a great guy you are Cajun! I am sure that's true as well about him not wanting to mess up. With written word you can reread it and make sure it sounds good before you send it. With talking once you say it then it's out there and there's no taking it back. When I was really shy I do remember always feeling like I was afraid I would say the wrong thing and sound like an idiot.



Hahaha, thankies once again.
You pictures lead me to believe you are quite the neck breaker!!!

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Really? That's interesting, though possibly true. I am really a rather shy person at times too. This advice is great - thank you - yeah he teases me allll the time. He teases me about everything and is making a lot of jokes. You're completely spot-on. Yay! I just wish he would make a move.



Like you said later in the thread, you're turn to make the move!

How should I show him that I like him as more than a friend/colleague? Are virgos easily shocked? I don't want to freak him out.



I don't normally like surprises, but a kiss is more than acceptable 😉

Posted by seavixen2
^ I think Virgos can actually be shyer than Pisces...



I know I used to be 🙂
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Thank you for the compliment Cajun! Too sweet! We do swim in schools don't we?...lol