StubbornTaurus
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Emotionally unavailable Virgo man
Did you know this about him before you married him?
😂🤭
Posted by StubbornTaurus
But are Virgo men really sooooo emotionally unavailable? That when you cry, they just don't care?
Only towards people they don't give a toss about...
How do you even establish a connection & a relationship, let alone a marriage, when you haven't lived together even for 5 minutes?
If he isn't replying to you and going long hours with no contact; then just back off and don't bother him. Let him come to you when he's ready. In the meantime find other things to do and other people to do them with.
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Did you know this about him before you married him?
No. Before the marriage he used to ask me about how I'm feeling. He used to seem concerned about my feelings. Although we used to have this pull and push, teasing and a lot of flirting kind of relationship. Never had the situation to talk about painful or emotional stuff. It was extremely fun and light.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by StubbornTaurus
But are Virgo men really sooooo emotionally unavailable? That when you cry, they just don't care?
Only towards people they don't give a toss about...
How do you even establish a connection & a relationship, let alone a marriage, when you haven't lived together even for 5 minutes?click to expand
That's the point. And exactly the reason I'm having anxiety attacks when he doesn't give a damn about when I'm worked up missing him. And crying my eyes out. He either listens calmly or if it's by texts, then straight up ignore by not reading my texts for hour's when I start to tell him about how this distance is working me up.
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by DonnaLibra
If he isn't replying to you and going long hours with no contact; then just back off and don't bother him. Let him come to you when he's ready. In the meantime find other things to do and other people to do them with.
This...
He m-a-r-r-I-e-d you. I think that’s proof positive there’s love there. You have too much time on your hands. Practice some patience...it’s not like he’s not there on purpose right?click to expand
I hope you are right. Because I'm crying even right now while typing this. I really love him. True, there's a reason we aren't together yet. But I only wished, he could relate or understand why I get so emotional about the distance. I really miss him too much, and when he doesn't respond it just makes it even more worse for me.
Nope it's you.
Why are you so thirsty? Why do you need so much attention in this kind of situation. If I sound harsh I understand but that is not my intention. Very very serious question.
@stubborntaurus
Do you have abandonment issues?
Why are you so thirsty? Why do you need so much attention in this kind of situation. If I sound harsh I understand but that is not my intention. Very very serious question.
@stubborntaurus
Do you have abandonment issues?
Try fucking yourself.
wow you're annoying
"I have cried to him, I have thrown tantrums I have done all that most women are guilty of when they miss their man."
No, that's not what most women do. That's what most TODDLERS to get attention from their mummy.
No, that's not what most women do. That's what most TODDLERS to get attention from their mummy.
Posted by Timon
What are your and his moon sign? You seem to demand a lot emotionally and he seems the opposite. I mean his answer "when he fucks you it will calm you down" looooolll. Sorry for laughing but that answer was one of a kind. 🤣
I was laughing too.
I don't know if I'd be offended or turned on by that comment if I were in the OP's shoes. 🤣
You did long distance for 2 years but only now it's bothering you?
How did you last doing the long distance thing? Seems like not much has change except your neediness now.
I think he’s absolutely right about you calming down one the sex comes back.
Did you know your marriage would remain distant?
Seems like wasted emotions on him, yes your feelings and loneliness are valid, but you should busy yourself, so you won’t feel so needy.
I think he’s absolutely right about you calming down one the sex comes back.
Did you know your marriage would remain distant?
Seems like wasted emotions on him, yes your feelings and loneliness are valid, but you should busy yourself, so you won’t feel so needy.
Everything about this story sounds like some bullshit
Posted by Lostthoughts
Nope it's you.
Why are you so thirsty? Why do you need so much attention in this kind of situation. If I sound harsh I understand but that is not my intention. Very very serious question.
@stubborntaurus
Do you have abandonment issues?
No, not taking it offensive.
Abandonment issues? Maybe, maybe not! But I have a tendency to be little clingy towards my love interest. May be I'm thirsty and overly romantic.
Few of you who are responding to my thread is simply being mean, nasty and jumping to conclusions. And doubting the integrity of my situation.
To set few thing's right, we both come from a strict Muslim background. We don't usually do girlfriend boyfriend as openly as most of you. We try to keep it as low as possible until we married. And that's what happened in my case. We met, we had a chat, we liked each other, we told our families and got married. Without being touchy feely or going on dates together.
So yeah! Earlier the distance didn't feel so bad. But now that we are married, my horny hormones are jumping right out for him. Along with all those emotions I had kept inside while patiently waiting for us to get married.
I'm here only because, I believe in astrology and sun signs and all that, although my religion doesn't believe. So Im here to ask a few questions on Virgo men. Only to understand his behavior to an extent. I know it can't be all true!!! But I'm still inquisitive to know more about the signs and their behavior.
If you can't be nice, please refrain from saying anything nasty at least. Thank you. And for those who have shared a few good thing's, I thank you, and I'm trying to understand and also change a few things to see if that works in my current situation.
To set few thing's right, we both come from a strict Muslim background. We don't usually do girlfriend boyfriend as openly as most of you. We try to keep it as low as possible until we married. And that's what happened in my case. We met, we had a chat, we liked each other, we told our families and got married. Without being touchy feely or going on dates together.
So yeah! Earlier the distance didn't feel so bad. But now that we are married, my horny hormones are jumping right out for him. Along with all those emotions I had kept inside while patiently waiting for us to get married.
I'm here only because, I believe in astrology and sun signs and all that, although my religion doesn't believe. So Im here to ask a few questions on Virgo men. Only to understand his behavior to an extent. I know it can't be all true!!! But I'm still inquisitive to know more about the signs and their behavior.
If you can't be nice, please refrain from saying anything nasty at least. Thank you. And for those who have shared a few good thing's, I thank you, and I'm trying to understand and also change a few things to see if that works in my current situation.
Posted by Aria1Posted by Timon
What are your and his moon sign? You seem to demand a lot emotionally and he seems the opposite. I mean his answer "when he fucks you it will calm you down" looooolll. Sorry for laughing but that answer was one of a kind. 🤣
I was laughing too.
I don't know if I'd be offended or turned on by that comment if I were in the OP's shoes. 🤣click to expand
Honestly. Even I didn't know if I should laugh or cry. And I was speechless.
I don’t think your crazy or needy for wanting to be with your husband. But certain world events are out of your control at this moment. Perhaps it would be best to steer conversations to discuss a plan to get back under the same roof. Focus on that positive momentum instead of bemoaning things he is powerless to change and will only further make him feel like a failure when it comes to keeping his new wife happy.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I don’t think your crazy or needy for wanting to be with your husband. But certain world events are out of your control at this moment. Perhaps it would be best to steer conversations to discuss a plan to get back under the same roof. Focus on that positive momentum instead of bemoaning things he is powerless to change and will only further make him feel like a failure when it comes to keeping his new wife happy.
This. 💯
Posted by Timon
What are your and his moon sign? You seem to demand a lot emotionally and he seems the opposite. I mean his answer "when he fucks you it will calm you down" looooolll. Sorry for laughing but that answer was one of a kind. 🤣
My moon is in Aries. And his is in Leo
Ok... Well I'm just going to say that I agree with a couple of those quotes here, but as a Virgo Man I'll just tell you, it was a long distance relationship initially. Why is it bothering you to be away from him so much?? Granted you're newly weds, but this is the beginning of something. Not the tell all. Relax...
You're married now. Tell him you want to go shopping and to send you some money. Facetime him every now and again. Decorate the home. Make the home yours. He's seeing who his wife really is. Who you are should either match him or at least be able to stand in who you are. Pick yourself up woman. You're not weak. Master your environment and when he comes home, he will see the confident self assured woman he married. He will always try to be your hero, but sometimes you have to be strong on your own.
You're married now. Tell him you want to go shopping and to send you some money. Facetime him every now and again. Decorate the home. Make the home yours. He's seeing who his wife really is. Who you are should either match him or at least be able to stand in who you are. Pick yourself up woman. You're not weak. Master your environment and when he comes home, he will see the confident self assured woman he married. He will always try to be your hero, but sometimes you have to be strong on your own.
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