Ex sent me a follow request on IG

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It’d been almost 3 months since we last spoke to each other and the last msgs exchanged weren’t so great as well. She had to decided to block me on everything also.

Though the communication had stopped, she frequently visited my blog almost everyday. Some days she’d pay multiple visits.

Man, I’ve been doing ok the past month, meditating everyday and finding solace in yoga. I’m only starting to get my mojo back. I was only starting to reach the point of indifference when it came to my ex.

I’m worried she might try to f••k things up. I don’t know what she wants. If she wants to offer friendship, reconcile, or if she’s sent the follow request to check up on me?

Virgos weren’t supposed to come back so I wanna know why now.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Idk where people get this idea that Virgos don't come back...unless you did something completely fucked up then yeah, but over something petty-ish, normal break up stuff....you'll most likely hear from us again lol.


I guess the chances of them coming back is not very often🤪Virgos do after all, can tolerate so much. What would be your motive for coming back?
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Idk where people get this idea that Virgos don't come back...unless you did something completely fucked up then yeah, but over something petty-ish, normal break up stuff....you'll most likely hear from us again lol.

I guess the chances of them coming back is not very often🤪Virgos do after all, can tolerate so much. What would be your motive for coming back?
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Depends on the day really lol.

Stalk, want to make amends etc. If I really liked you and the break up was stupid and I had time to process everything... possibly to try again.

You wont know unless you ask or they come right out with it.
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Dude, starsign got nothing to do with this. She’s come back cos you ignored her. Why did you break up? It ended for a reason, don’t forget that. Maybe she’s sorry or something who knows. But it’s like you say, you’re getting you shit back in order and if you message her back now it could mean you have to restart the healing process all over again. Giving up and ex is like giving up an addiction, you don’t want to relapse now and message them, even if they message you.

My ex messaged me a couple of weeks ago, but I’m pretty sure she wants money for drugs. So why do you think your ex messaged you, you must be able to guess her intentions a little bit? But don’t think about it too long, cos that’s what she wants, the more you think, the more you wonder why, then the more likely you are to message back.

I will tell you this though, there always a better woman round the corner, there’s always someone a better fit for who you are, and you only find them if you move on completely.
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Posted by AriesJo

Dude, starsign got nothing to do with this. She’s come back cos you ignored her. Why did you break up? It ended for a reason, don’t forget that. Maybe she’s sorry or something who knows. But it’s like you say, you’re getting you shit back in order and if you message her back now it could mean you have to restart the healing process all over again. Giving up and ex is like giving up an addiction, you don’t want to relapse now and message them, even if they message you.

My ex messaged me a couple of weeks ago, but I’m pretty sure she wants money for drugs. So why do you think your ex messaged you, you must be able to guess her intentions a little bit? But don’t think about it too long, cos that’s what she wants, the more you think, the more you wonder why, then the more likely you are to message back.

I will tell you this though, there always a better woman round the corner, there’s always someone a better fit for who you are, and you only find them if you move on completely.


I’m sorry AriesJo but I’m a Pisces and you bet your ass astrology has everything to do with it😂

No, I’m looking for insight, not answers.

There’s obviously valid reasons why your last relationship failed. However mine had nothing to do with drugs, money, cheating or whatever. And I’m sure you know, ex’s getting back together is quite common.😜
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Posted by iamlanaxxx

It’d been almost 3 months since we last spoke to each other and the last msgs exchanged weren’t so great as well. She had to decided to block me on everything also.

Though the communication had stopped, she frequently visited my blog almost everyday. Some days she’d pay multiple visits.

Man, I’ve been doing ok the past month, meditating everyday and finding solace in yoga. I’m only starting to get my mojo back. I was only starting to reach the point of indifference when it came to my ex.

I’m worried she might try to f••k things up. I don’t know what she wants. If she wants to offer friendship, reconcile, or if she’s sent the follow request to check up on me?

Virgos weren’t supposed to come back so I wanna know why now.


She pregnant?
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Posted by sweetpea2977

If she is toxic and you're hesitant, why not just DECLINE her request? Seems like a no-brainer to me.

She’s not toxic. The reason why she blocked me on everything was because we were both emotionally charged after the break up and we just said a lot of shitty things to each other. However she did say before blocking me that there was no chance we’d ever get back together🤷🏽‍♀️
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Posted by iamlanaxxx

It’d been almost 3 months since we last spoke to each other and the last msgs exchanged weren’t so great as well. She had to decided to block me on everything also.

Though the communication had stopped, she frequently visited my blog almost everyday. Some days she’d pay multiple visits.

Man, I’ve been doing ok the past month, meditating everyday and finding solace in yoga. I’m only starting to get my mojo back. I was only starting to reach the point of indifference when it came to my ex.

I’m worried she might try to f••k things up. I don’t know what she wants. If she wants to offer friendship, reconcile, or if she’s sent the follow request to check up on me?

Virgos weren’t supposed to come back so I wanna know why now.

She pregnant?
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Same sex relationship unless some dude knocked her up🤪
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Posted by iamlanaxxx

It’d been almost 3 months since we last spoke to each other and the last msgs exchanged weren’t so great as well. She had to decided to block me on everything also.

Though the communication had stopped, she frequently visited my blog almost everyday. Some days she’d pay multiple visits.

Man, I’ve been doing ok the past month, meditating everyday and finding solace in yoga. I’m only starting to get my mojo back. I was only starting to reach the point of indifference when it came to my ex.

I’m worried she might try to f••k things up. I don’t know what she wants. If she wants to offer friendship, reconcile, or if she’s sent the follow request to check up on me?

Virgos weren’t supposed to come back so I wanna know why now.

She pregnant?

Same sex relationship unless some dude knocked her up🤪
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LOL

Well, social media seems to be a way to soothe boredom but the immediate gratification also cultivates boredom.

Something about the ability to display or activate every nuance of life just makes it all a bore.
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Was the sex good?

Yes. It was outta this world for both of us. She’s a virgo sun, scorp moon

Oooh I'm seeing a Virgo sun Scorp moon as well. What are your placements?
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Pisces sun

Virgo moon

Pisces mercury

Aries venus

Gemini mars

Leo jupiter

Aquarius saturn

Capricorn uranus

Capricorn neptune

Scorpio pluto

Pisces AS

Sadge MC
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Posted by iamlanaxxx
Posted by SeaLion
Posted by iamlanaxxx
Posted by SeaLion

Was the sex good?

Yes. It was outta this world for both of us. She’s a virgo sun, scorp moon

Oooh I'm seeing a Virgo sun Scorp moon as well. What are your placements?

Pisces sun

Virgo moon

Pisces mercury

Aries venus

Gemini mars

Leo jupiter

Aquarius saturn

Capricorn uranus

Capricorn neptune

Scorpio pluto

Pisces AS

Sadge MC
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virgo moon and aries venus?

hot

what is wrong with this virgo
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This is really starting to bug me (maybe my virgo moon is going into super analytical mode)

So, i never accepted her follow request on IG, instead i sent out a follow request to her to which she declined and then she cancelled the request she sent to me, went back to blocking me and she even changed her username.

On a side note btw — she had also sent me a request on a fake insta account, she cancelled that and changed the username for that also. She changed it to “aiglatson” which is nostalgia backwards which she knows is my fave word. Dunno, maybe she was feeling nostalgic herself🤷🏽‍♀️

So she never actually came forward to say anything. She just likes to visit my blog daily.

Sometimes i wanna reach out but it’s a bit hard since she’s blocked me on every damn thing.

I don’t really like to stalk ex’s but decide to pay a visit to a few of her friends insta accounts. I noticed she still wears the ear rings i gave her, the watch my sister gave her and the necklace my mother gave her which i’m kinda like oh you better take those off before i put a spell on you and haunt you for life, unless she comes back that is🤪🤪
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Posted by SeaLion

Was the sex good?

Yes. It was outta this world for both of us. She’s a virgo sun, scorp moon

Oooh I'm seeing a Virgo sun Scorp moon as well. What are your placements?

Pisces sun

Virgo moon

Pisces mercury

Aries venus

Gemini mars

Leo jupiter

Aquarius saturn

Capricorn uranus

Capricorn neptune

Scorpio pluto

Pisces AS

Sadge MC

virgo moon and aries venus?

hot

what is wrong with this virgo
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I don’t know, maybe something’s off in her chart but she does my head in even without communication/interaction