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Posted by Damnata
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Daddy boomboom is back to say hi. How have you all been?
Less daddy, more boomboom.

How's it going? One year with the Gem already?
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Hey you! not quite a daddy yet, though Im gonna be an uncle in February, for the first time 🙂 really excited about that. As for the Gem...well, we broke up two months ago, no nasty break up though but something that was kinda building up from sometime. I started dating a Libra recently, I never felt so spiritually connected to someone on a first date, as I did with her, things are progressing really nicely 🙂 how you been?
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Posted by Damnata
Damn it, Shaka.

I was rooting for you. You're going down Dyr's path I see.

It's good you guys had a civil one, apparently it doesn't happen on these boards.

I feel you on becoming an uncle, I was so excited the day my cousin was born.

Well you know..regular dxp fuckery.
Haha Dyr was nuts! I like to think Im not on his level 😛 My Libra has a cool chart though, moon in Taurus, merc in Libra, Venus in Scorpio (yummyy 😛), Mars in Cap and Jupiter in Cap. I wont lie, the breakup itself was very dramatic, but that only proved that we really loved each other. After the initial drama, shouting at each other, calming down...we had dinner together, cuddled up in bed watching our favourite series, had sex, spent the night together and then I left in the morning, that was it.
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Posted by BlackMamba
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Posted by Damnata
Damn it, Shaka.

I was rooting for you. You're going down Dyr's path I see.

It's good you guys had a civil one, apparently it doesn't happen on these boards.

I feel you on becoming an uncle, I was so excited the day my cousin was born.

Well you know..regular dxp fuckery.
Haha Dyr was nuts! I like to think Im not on his level 😛 My Libra has a cool chart though, moon in Taurus, merc in Libra, Venus in Scorpio (yummyy 😛), Mars in Cap and Jupiter in Cap. I wont lie, the breakup itself was very dramatic, but that only proved that we really loved each other. After the initial drama, shouting at each other, calming down...we had dinner together, cuddled up in bed watching our favourite series, had sex, spent the night together and then I left in the morning, that was it.
Sounds lovely so why the need to break up?
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Basically it came down to differences in lifestyles and plans/wishes for the future, we kinda became out of sync for the last few months of the relationship, she said she needs to figure out herself first, what she really wants out of life, what drives her, etc. My position on things was more flexible, I insisted many many times that we could go through this together, as a team. I think she just needs to be alone. She took like a month to think things through first before coming to a decision. I honestly was hoping for the best all along, so was really upset when she finally decided to walk alway. Still as I described the breakup in my previous post, we probably had the best breakup one could possibly have. We still check up on each other from time to time, at first I thought the best thing was just to disappear for good and never talk to her again. Then I realized life is too short to hold on to bad feelings, when you realily love someone you want to make the other person happy, and sometimes that happiness implies letting them go. So instead of denying that I still love her, I embrace it, its just a different kind of love now.
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Posted by BlackMamba
It's nice that you can intellectually break things down like that. Very pragmatic.

Europeans date alot and are way more pragmatic it seems.
Well its not as pragmatic as it seems, I was truly devastated for an entire month after the breakup, I think thats about the time it usually takes me to kind of move on from someone and start considering other people (1-2 months) then I just grow tired of feeling sorry for myself.
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Posted by BlackMamba
Oh ok nice to know you feel things. When you say devastated can you give me details of what that entails?
Its mostly a sense of not being able to imagine life without that person, so trying to come to grips with the 'loss', so lots of random crying, often at the most unexpected moments: when being at places you used to go with the person, hearing music you used to listen to together, even the tiniest details/memories/impressions and for a Virgo that cuts even deeper cause we have really strong, detailed memories of moments and places.

Then I just met her for coffee a month later and saw that she was doing great and looked happy....and thats when I truly understood it was a good thing we werent together anymore. When I realized I was truly happy for her that she feeling good, thats when I knew I was ready to let her go.
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Life is funny...10 years ago when I first joined dxp I was often posting mean stuff about Gems and Libras and saying how I would never date a Gemini or a Libra.


Look at me now...


(I also remember posting how I had this weird prophetic vision that I would end up marrying a Libra 😛)



Will that one come to pass as well? 😄
This website is very old.. How did I just now find it?
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Hi there! I remember seeing your name often, when I was doing my extensive "research" on my Virgo man, lol. Quite insightful stuff. I'm a Libra too. My Virgo and I connect mentally and spiritually as well. We like the same things, and can literally talk about everything from politics to America's eating habits. It's really amazing the connection that we have. But boy oh boy, Libra's lack patience sometimes with you guys emotionally. Anytime an emotional topic comes up, he shuts that down. But I can tell Virgos are worth the wait...so I'm waiting. Your Libra will probably connect with you much better because she has a Taurus moon. I'm a Pisces moon...I won't even lie that I'm hyper-sensitive and a drama queen...the Libra in me keeps that all in my head though, no one knows that about me. My friends think I'm so detached...when really I'm like a crying mess sometimes. Anywho, I'm babbling. Good luck with your new lady! :-)
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Life is funny...10 years ago when I first joined dxp I was often posting mean stuff about Gems and Libras and saying how I would never date a Gemini or a Libra.


Look at me now...


(I also remember posting how I had this weird prophetic vision that I would end up marrying a Libra 😛)



Will that one come to pass as well? 😄
I call that getting old.

GETTING OLD!

Hey I thought I'd never go out with a cancer back in the days.

WELP

welcome back bud
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Posted by aquasnoz
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Life is funny...10 years ago when I first joined dxp I was often posting mean stuff about Gems and Libras and saying how I would never date a Gemini or a Libra.


Look at me now...


(I also remember posting how I had this weird prophetic vision that I would end up marrying a Libra 😛)



Will that one come to pass as well? 😄
I call that getting old.

GETTING OLD!

Hey I thought I'd never go out with a cancer back in the days.

WELP

welcome back bud
you're dating one now. oh my god

what is it with crabs and robots?
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calm down cc, I said going out, I never said dating 😉
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Posted by Damnata
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Daddy boomboom is back to say hi. How have you all been?
Less daddy, more boomboom.

How's it going? One year with the Gem already?
Hey you! not quite a daddy yet, though Im gonna be an uncle in February, for the first time 🙂 really excited about that. As for the Gem...well, we broke up two months ago, no nasty break up though but something that was kinda building up from sometime. I started dating a Libra recently, I never felt so spiritually connected to someone on a first date, as I did with her, things are progressing really nicely 🙂 how you been?
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😆 How did I miss this?
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Posted by BlackMamba
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Posted by Damnata
Damn it, Shaka.

I was rooting for you. You're going down Dyr's path I see.

It's good you guys had a civil one, apparently it doesn't happen on these boards.

I feel you on becoming an uncle, I was so excited the day my cousin was born.

Well you know..regular dxp fuckery.
Haha Dyr was nuts! I like to think Im not on his level 😛 My Libra has a cool chart though, moon in Taurus, merc in Libra, Venus in Scorpio (yummyy 😛), Mars in Cap and Jupiter in Cap. I wont lie, the breakup itself was very dramatic, but that only proved that we really loved each other. After the initial drama, shouting at each other, calming down...we had dinner together, cuddled up in bed watching our favourite series, had sex, spent the night together and then I left in the morning, that was it.
Sounds lovely so why the need to break up?
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You know it's time to do his quarterly switch out. 😆