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P. Again, what good would come out of trying to fool you or anyone else on this forum. I dont know you people from a hole in a wall. I have no reason to try to fool you or anyone else. Nor do I think that you or anyone else on the forum has to fool me. I received a personal message from a Virgo male on the forum who responded to my initial thread via PM. SIMPLE AS THAT. I did not say how they responded on the forum. I said they chimed in and did not say the same things that you and Nefer said. Why must this be a debate. You guys said what you said and they said what they said. If you do not beleive it, fine. But it is the truth.
Good grief. Can we graciously move on?
Good grief. Can we graciously move on?
Looks like you and I still have questions about virgo men, huh natural ^_^.
The crazy thing about me is the fact that, I've known a ton virgos and I still need questions answered.
Funny thing that is.
The crazy thing about me is the fact that, I've known a ton virgos and I still need questions answered.
Funny thing that is.
Posted by cappysweetie
Looks like you and I still have questions about virgo men, huh natural ^_^.
The crazy thing about me is the fact that, I've known a ton virgos and I still need questions answered.
Funny thing that is.
Stop analyzing and trying to figure us out!
Just submit, get naked, and say come to bed! (You too Natural!)
I PROMISE you this works wonders lol
Posted by cappysweetie
Looks like you and I still have questions about virgo men, huh natural ^_^.
The crazy thing about me is the fact that, I've known a ton virgos and I still need questions answered.
Funny thing that is.
Lol. Oh Cappy you have no idea! But this thread was not dedicated to dear ole' Virguy. It was jsut a general thread that I created.
But YES, most definitely, I have questions. And yes, no matter how many other Virgos you know, it will never explain the Virgo's (in question) behavior. I know my father like the back of my hand, but when it comes to the guy who I am dating (sometimes) I feel so confused. But I must admit there are times when I GET him. When i know what he is thinknig or what he is going to say before he says it, dam it feels good! The moments of confussion are the times that SUCK!
Posted by VirgoHeroPosted by cappysweetie
Stop analyzing and trying to figure us out!
Just submit, get naked, and say come to bed! (You too Natural!)
I PROMISE you this works wonders lol
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Lol @ VH. I am currelty trying to stop analyzing, hard task for a Scorp. But the second suggestion wont work b/c him and I recently decided not to have sex again until (if) we get married. Or, at least hold out as long as possible. This decision was made after we got out of church a few Saturdays ago. He is really trying to become spiritually closer to God and I respect that. So, that wont work. 😢 i would not tempt him like that. Lol.
Posted by Shaks
Two things...
A virgo can "know" a woman is the one very quickly
This however is no guarantee that he's going to start behaving accordingly towards you (right away or at all), he may not be aware enough (or mature enough) to trust his feelings/instincts and instead will allow his head to take control of his decisions.
This is so true, its unreal ...
Posted by cappysweetiePosted by Shaks
Two things...
A virgo can "know" a woman is the one very quickly
This however is no guarantee that he's going to start behaving accordingly towards you (right away or at all), he may not be aware enough (or mature enough) to trust his feelings/instincts and instead will allow his head to take control of his decisions.
This is so true, its unreal ...click to expand
How did I miss this comment from Shaks. Very insightful. Yes, I suppose maturity does play a mjor role in this as well. I know a few Virgo men. they are all pretty serious people. Eventhe Virgo women I know are pretty serious. I have to make sure not get seriousness confused with maturity. They are not the same thing.
Virgo??s mind no matter the gender is very active both in visual and intellectual range constantly scanning the value of the information received in any kind of relationships with the others.
Like I said a billions of times before, the key to the Virgo??s heart is the —mental connections?? not the romantic, sexual, dreamy, fantasy stuff. Don't waste your time with the —stupid theories??; if the minds —click?? then there will be no problem at all no matter how you look or what ever life standards you??ve got.
If you want to keep your relationship alive with the Virgos, then be smart and find out what he/she is up to (in their mind and interest).
All other naggings are plain bullshits ??_!
Like I said a billions of times before, the key to the Virgo??s heart is the —mental connections?? not the romantic, sexual, dreamy, fantasy stuff. Don't waste your time with the —stupid theories??; if the minds —click?? then there will be no problem at all no matter how you look or what ever life standards you??ve got.
If you want to keep your relationship alive with the Virgos, then be smart and find out what he/she is up to (in their mind and interest).
All other naggings are plain bullshits ??_!
Try to understand ??_
Virgo??s mind can not deal with what if only what is and what will be plain and simple.
Virgo??s mind can not deal with what if only what is and what will be plain and simple.
Qbone, I completely agree!
Posted by P-Angel
To answer your question AGAIN ..... within a month, when we moved house together.
Actually, it was first night .... we fucked first date, and have been together ever since.
Don't try this at home though ... because you aren't a Pisces.
You say you know about human behavior? I am an actual PHD student and you could say that I have a masters on human behavior. It is not "normal" to move in with someone after a month, it CAN happen but it is NOT by any means psychologically normal. Do you want to know when a Virgo really knows you are the one? This occurs after several years. This has to do with a mix of astrology and human psychology. Virgos are one of the slowest people in the zodiac, and as any normal human being, their feelings tend to slowly develop into love over time. I know Virgos that may "say" they were in love with someone after one day, but then they cheat/leave their partner for other sex partners/ or end up disrespected and used. That is not love. REAL Virgo love, which I have seen with my own eyes, is when a Virgo will never commit to anyone else due to the everlasting loyalty they feel to the one they have loved and lost (which is also, not always, but often, the case). This love however, happens over time. This happens when the ever analyzing photographic memory brain of the Virgo simply can not remove a single memory from the many that have stayed happily and snuggly stored in the subconscious after a couple of years. This TENDS to NOT happen, whatsoever after some one night stand that leads to some crazy decision to cut the cost of rent with someone you barely know. You may be thinking, "she doesn't know what she's talking about." I personally know Virgos that have moved in with VARIOUS partners throughout their live time, and do you want to know what that means? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. They can simply move out and forget about you just as easily. The astrological consensus seems to be that when a Virgo really loves you they care enough to weigh the consequences of their actions rather than jumping into something as if it's a wild ride. Want a wild ride forever? Look for a water sign, they will move in with you and love you as long as you love them. However this is not a COMMON Virgo not to mention, earth sign, trait. Remember Virgo's aren't helpless romantics that stand at your door to serenade, and if they do you should be absolute
Remember Virgo's aren't helpless romantics that stand at your door to serenade, and if they do you should be absolutely concerned, because they want something...it's not you (it's probably your money). If you find them criticizing you every 5 minutes, picking the lint of your shirt, challenging you, spending their valuable time on you and this is a BIG ONE, wasting their valuable money on you even if it's a nickel, and *keyword* UNCONDITIONALLY (meaning you repaid them with maybe a smile or thank you but nothing else.) then you know that they care and that in time you may be the one. Honestly, this is one of the reasons why I do tend to have a reasonable amount of respect for Virgo men. They don't think with their penis, eyes or even their heart??_they actually use their brain.
I have a male Virgo friend who had a GF that he was crazy in love with but did not tell her the whole two years they were together - however he was, by his actions very attentive and thoughtful (always gave the perfect gift). She was very social-quick witted/funny, very smart(PA)and she made him laugh-never saw him not smiling or laughing when they were together - he tends to be very serious. She was also a few years older than him and wanted to get married (both in their twenties). He was worried about this. First because he was in the marines and would be leaving for Iraq within the year and did not think it was fair to ask her to wait for him even though he wanted to. One evening they were to go to a Marine officers banquet - formal affair and she gets a bit tipsy - noticeably so, looses her balance falls down in front of his men and superiors. He takes her home - takes care of her - meets her the next day at a nice DC restaurant and breaks up with her. She apologizes over and over again - calls him every few weeks to say hi - he won't budge - He said that night of the incident he was furious - hated being embarrassed in public and was angry and hurt - he stayed up all night trying to figure out why she had done this - and what if he did marry her and she behaved this way. If you didn't know him you would have never known he was upset. So he goes to Iraq - she write occasionally and right before he comes home on leave she write that she wants to see him but depending on when his flight arrives she may miss him because she's vacationing in Fl. with friends - He right away figures it's with someone new she has met (she always named names). They do end up missing each other - his leave was delayed. While here I ask him how he felt about her possibly having a new BF - he smiles and says, "If that's what she wants" and laughs about it-no big deal-Goes back to Iraq and a few months later she write that she's engaged - Well now he is feeling the hurt and e-mails his Dad (another Virgo) and asks for advice - Tells his Dad that he always saw them together and married after he was out of the marines - Thought he had time--She has always been THE ONE - no one else. His Dad tells him to write telling her how he feels otherwise he'll always regret it. He also tells him never omit tell the women you adore and love how you feel about her or you will surely loose her. He writes the letter explaining everything! She replies that she wishes he had told her soone
She replies that she wishes he had told her sooner - she would have waited for him no matter how long it took but now it was to late. He comes back from Iraq - she gets married and after 3 months he decides not to get out of the marines and goes back to Iraq - he is there now and has never mentioned her again. But I think he has learned his lesson in loving someone and forgiveness.
So Shak spot on.
So Shak spot on.
After 27 years of marriage, sweat.lioness ..... your words are just useless babble learned from school where no real life-experience is in practice.
Yeah, I just skimmed through posts and found out that you were dumped by a Virgo ..... I guess now since your a Leo, which means your ego is bigger than Texas .... you think it's because a Virgo cannot love quickly, which would excuse you from not being woman enough to keep him on your own merits.
Yeah, good luck with that ... meantime, I have an another anniversary to plan for.
Bye.
Yeah, good luck with that ... meantime, I have an another anniversary to plan for.
Bye.
PALEO: Thank you for sharing that story! It was very sad. But I guess that is how things work out sometimes. They obviously were not meant to be...at least not right now. Hmmm....
I guess I feel that if someone is truly THE ONE a man will not let her go. He will hold on tight and they will be. If they do not make it, then it was not meant to be to begin with. Not at least FOREVER. Maybe the time being? Maybe they were placed in one another's lives for a season for a specific purpose and now that season has eneded.
I guess I feel that if someone is truly THE ONE a man will not let her go. He will hold on tight and they will be. If they do not make it, then it was not meant to be to begin with. Not at least FOREVER. Maybe the time being? Maybe they were placed in one another's lives for a season for a specific purpose and now that season has eneded.
P-Angel obviously after years of experience you do not know how to read. But then again, maybe it's because you are not a Virgo. I was never dumped by a Virgo. My parent is a Virgo, my best friend is a Virgo, my boyfriend is a Virgo, my moon is in Virgo, 3 of my other close male friends, FOR YEARS, are Virgos. So the one babbling insignificant nonsense is you. You are right about one thing, I do have the ego of texas especially because it's something that I can firmly back up. Btw my uncle was married 27 years, he cheated on her numerous times and it ended in divorce. I guess that would explain why you spend so much time, anger, and energy online wouldn't it? 🙂 It's ok to think you can project your internalized fear onto others, you just end up slipping, like you just did. Most Virgos read your comments and laugh. Honestly they are hilarious for a woman your age.
BTW I agree with Natural, awesome story Paleo.
Posted by No1delete2
natural [to P-Angel]: Why must this be a debate.
Because she MUST win. It's ironic, Angelina will scold others for taking this shit seriously, and then will dig her heels in over some posts until the writer cries "Uncle!" to end the debate...
Oh well! She's never boring!
well said, Dyar! Except for the boring part. I find Pee repetetive and uninspiringly boring. One can ALWAYS expect a negative count aimed at her personal egotistical contentment.
natural -- virgos are undeniably irresistable. As much as I admire Virgo men, I also know their big flaws when it comes to making choices for partners. We all make mistakes and the knitpicking Virgo is no exception. For you I see that you pull yourself away from Virgo man until he decides what he wants. Someone who truly loves you, will know right away; at least in a short period of time (which is not to be more than 6 months). If he starts getting flickery, stay away. Allow him to make a decision. If he comes back to you -- but not with friendly gesture... I am talking with serious intentions, then he can be yours. Him seeing you having a future with you, doesnt mean a thing. He has to come up with
a) I love you
b) I want to marry you
This goes for any guy, not only virgo.
Reading of the photo incidence, I first thought that we all may forget photos standing in one of our corner for years, but if he has put it there intentionally after moving to his new place 5 months ago, that means he is not available for you OR for anyone else.
Best wishes.
a) I love you
b) I want to marry you
This goes for any guy, not only virgo.
Reading of the photo incidence, I first thought that we all may forget photos standing in one of our corner for years, but if he has put it there intentionally after moving to his new place 5 months ago, that means he is not available for you OR for anyone else.
Best wishes.
: Definate Agree! ^_^
Posted by hikoroPosted by FUMRedFairy_tales
Him seeing you having a future with you, doesnt mean a thing. He has to come up with
a) I love you
b) I want to marry you
This goes for any guy, not only virgo.
Very true. This is where women and men are different and unfortunately, not too many women realize this.
When a woman falls in love with a man, she fantasizes about him becoming her husband and father of her children right away. On the other hand, a man can fall in love with a woman, date her for many years and still not consider her as marriage-material or the future mother of his children.
As a matter of fact, he can quickly break-up with her and marry another woman in a blink of an eye.
The man takes it step by step. The woman has everything planned since the first date. 😛
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Well, there you have it, Natural .. the peanut gallery has spoken and consenus would insinuate that he's fucking with you because he does this on purpose and it is unacceptable to believe that it was anything else.
I suppose they would have you back away from him .. go cold on him and wait to see if he allows himself to be baited.
I suppose they would have you back away from him .. go cold on him and wait to see if he allows himself to be baited.
I think they "know" very fast. My Virguy knew I was the "one for him"
right away but he says
I'm the one who doesn't want him...
(because I did not accept the ring BEFORE we were a couple! and refused
to elope last weekend.. hahah)
it's not true but I don't want to indicate otherwise or he
might throw me in the trunk and take me away in a flash! lol ... literally
His dad is also Virgo.. very very Virgo.. very funny man.. but still scary
somehow.. I knowww he's looking at me @_@
Anyway, judging from his recollection of how him and his wife (my virguys mother)
got together.. it sounded like he "knew" right away... or more virgo-appropriate "targeted her"
right away and they did wed very quickly. Nice family they are.
I would assume that the reason why they settle on a mate so quickly is because
they judge people very quickly.. pretty accurately.. and don't waste much time
being indecisive if what they sniffed out was good 🙂
Fumred, than kyou for your comments. Makes perfect sense. But this thread is not necesarily for me and the Virgo who I am dating. It was just a general post. But thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🙂
Lol @ PA. PA and Dyr, The Virog and I resolved the picture issued two weeks ago (a few days after it happpend. It's all good in the hood now. 🙂
Lol @ PA. PA and Dyr, The Virog and I resolved the picture issued two weeks ago (a few days after it happpend. It's all good in the hood now. 🙂
Glad you got some resolution here. For what it is worth I agree with DY about the picture, both in his perception of the act itself, and in his wise assumption that giving your Virgo a chance to act on it would garner positive results.
I also agree that mature Virgos know what they want, and even if they did not dream it beforehand they can certainly recognize it after finding it.
Also for what it's worth some Virgo's can be hugely romantic, I know I am.
Random may not be in my vocabulary, but serenade is, just depends on how much he thinks of you in terms of what he'll risk to have you.
I also agree that mature Virgos know what they want, and even if they did not dream it beforehand they can certainly recognize it after finding it.
Also for what it's worth some Virgo's can be hugely romantic, I know I am.
Random may not be in my vocabulary, but serenade is, just depends on how much he thinks of you in terms of what he'll risk to have you.
Posted by CluelessCancer
You can go from mrs. Right to mrs. Wrong pretty quickly. The longer your together the worst...So make sure you get that ring ASAP...before he starts disliking you.
He asked to move together within two weeks. I was not for it of course. I believe in living independently of a man until your married. I don't need to be around someone 24/7 unless im forced too by law.
First, thank you CC for bringing up this thread.
But, umm, your thinking doesn't make sense.
How would "getting a ring" cause a guy to keep liking you, if, after knowing you longer, he falls into dislike?
And if you want to marry someone, implying you want to at least live with them, where are you being "forced by law" to do so?
What law says married couples have to live in the same household?
And, while living together certainly changes your daily routines and life style , most couples do not spend every minute of every day physically together, though they may do so in their minds.
Title: How soon do virgo men know when she's THE ONEc ....... August 17, 2009
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Funny as shit here, now look ... I went into history, and found that on December 1, 2009, which was like a mere 6 weeks later, Natural was making a thread about a Libra guy she has fallen for.
People are so fucked up in the head .... they would even want to try to convince a person of something they are not (in the case, the person they are not is The One) .... and they wouldn't even have any self awareness to be able to comprehend who they even are, much less to be able to convince someone else.
She had no clue that she wasn't the one, she had a clue that she was in want ... so therefore fully believed that her presence in his life had more value than it did. There's no doubt that to this very day, where ever she is ... that she still believes herself to be more, based on nothing except one-sided feelings = because that's what deluded women do.
Fact: the One is, not was
Well, this old thread was quite an interesting read! lol!
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Then what would be the point of using that ^^^^^^ with Nefer, for scoring?
You used that phrase when talking to her to make the suggestion .... isn't it funny how all the Virgo men in here who have commented about this feels completely different about how they think about this, then the two girls, Nefer and P .. which caused a Virgo to pick up on this power of suggestion to make comment, on cue ...... so why would you use someone for the sake of arguement that is hidden if you expect it to have value to drive your point across?
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Don't piss on my foot and tell me it's raining ...... I'll never be that stupid.