In love with virgo male - should I break up with h (Page 4)

Seriously though .. I'll go back and read it. YOu said it was enlightening .. so, it must be a must read. 🙂

VIRGO VIRGO VIRGO!!!!
So much of it, already!!!

Is there any other bussiness in life for VIRGOS to do, instead of writing endless description about self?

virgo.. virgo ...virgo..
think about others too, instead of self!!!!

so much of it... now it is getting BORING!!!

I don't know whether what this thread implies is a good thing or bad thing, fs ... good for people to know that they aren't alone in this plight .. bad because to be in it feels like being alone.

You're right, though .. there's a lot of valuable information in here for women seeking insight who are dealing with this same issue.

It was interesting how women who were involved with virgos got these pull push treatment.
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FS:

I plan to read this long thread sometimes over laborday weekend. At the moment,we are headed out for a short vacation..

Yes- I agree, about the push pull game V's play with others. I played the same with him in the intial phase as was too much for me to be in hanging situation. At once, I had completely given up thinking I will never see him pulling me towards him. When I least expected he showed up again, and I gave him a good 3 months of push dance, no pull towards me...

So you need to make these V people bit worried and play the same cards with them, they do with you..

They are famous for this push-pull DANCE!!

I've never know myself if I was doing the push-pull dance. As far as I know, I am right now being pushed-pulled, became the victim instead of the criminal. I myself as a virgo man, I am pretty open to people suggestions/critics as long as you tell me in a non-offensive manner. I do feel hurt a bit when being critiqued, but it's for my own good and I appreciate people who told straight to my face instead of bad-mouthing me from behind.

I thought in every relationship, communication is the key. I am not an expert of mind reading (thou, sometimes I can read people reaction/emotion), but if you could be so kind to tell me about what's in me bothering you, I think things will get easier on my side and for the relationship, don't you think so?

Well, if your virgo disappear when being confronted, then he is probably just another type of virgo, not all virgo in general. I won't say that I am 100% different then your virgo though. This is only from my own perspective of myself, but who knows what other people's perspective of me, It could be the same as yours 🙂

I am Virgo Guy married to Aries

I cant believe we as Virgo have such a scary reputation. Its true that we expect a lot from our partner and are elusive at times, but with that comes its benefits. We give you your space to grow and achieve your goals. We can help you achieve things that most cant even dream of achieving. What frustrates me most is that when we know how to do something, why cant you just trust us and follow. Why do you want to spend months or even years to learn something we already know?

Will write more later...

Wow! I just came across this old thread and it is the same type of things I have been recently seeking the advice of others on here recently! Sooo eye opening and I am actually feeling better now that I have read it. I am newly involved with a Virgo that I am quite smitten with and I am happy just to know that's just them. I actually don't want a really involved relationship that entails spending inordinate amounts of time together. I would just like a beautiful and exciting night once a week or every other week. I have so many things I am now doing with friends and for myself including school half time with a full time job that I don't have a lot of time to commit to someone. He is in the same boat and is VERY serious about his band and their rehearsals and performances that he doesn't have a lot of time to invest either with working a regular job as well. I would love for him to show me the same attention he did in the beginning and the same level of intensity of flirting and texting but now I see that's just how they seem to roll. I think I can get used to that as long as I know he is monogamous with me and that we have already talked about. Almost every woman I know would like to feel ultra special and have a lot of attention poured out on them but if I want to weigh his other attributes against that and have to choose, I think I would choose to continue to see him and just go with the flow because of where I am at in my life. I just became single almost a year ago and my ex was a very possessive and jealous Scorpio (not anything against Scorpios b/c I have many as friends and seem to attract them and like them) but he was to the extreme!!! I am now getting to do the things that bring me joy again and rediscovering me and what I am about! I am not sitting around doing nothing and waiting for his calls so I just might be in a perfect situation for a Virgo relationship...lol.