Dating a virgo for 10 months. In beginning he was completely smitten, in love open etc. then did a ton of push and pulling, distancing etc. said he was not ready for relationship, very focused on his kid. Understandable. I'm a libra. But then he slowed down being so close still going in and out but still doing action once in awhile. Then yesterday told me he's sleeping around and again not ready for relationship. I was in tears but quickly got my together. He's in my heart but quickly I woke up and said I need to move forward. He always looks for my approval, still criticized me a lot, has gone in and out of playing games...I'm not sure what to think. It's clearly like he's told himself he can't be with me but then once in awhile he'll say powerful clear messages like "I'll catch you" or "I told you the truth" or leads me on for dinners etc. I feel like I failed somewhat bc I didn't in return distance myself enough or was too "easy" and not enough chase but feel like I'm too old for that. I believe he truly cares for me then doesn't display the proper care or treatment on a daily basis. He is special and clearly not ready to settle down. My question do I continue just to be friends even if he was so insensitive? Bc he was always honest with me. Or do I completely let him go? I usually have a clear cut answer and know to move on but something is telling me to just hang tight. Confused! Advice appreciated.
