New Virgo Woman Boss (Page 2)

She would throw some weird ass statement about behavior that she dislikes and likes. Unintentionally, Intentionally talking about me. But then she would say "oh but im not talking about you"

Id cut her off and say "no, i am a professional. I know when theres work to be done and how to do it."

End of story. Lets not get it twisted. If you dont like something im doing, speak up. Quit it with this passive aggressive behavior, these antics, these games.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Just do your job! You're not there for anything else! Too bad she's such a bad boss.

Scaring her employees. Smh zero leadership qualities!

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Posted by Rambunctious76
She's testing loyalty.

Agreed.
She's testing y'all.
Virgos are even better than Scorpios at manipulating.
Real talk.

and the purpose would be? lol they're manipulative, but not that bright


its the epitome of idiot icy to behave like this in the workplace

You would have to ask her. I just know they plot and plan things out 24/7. And do things on purpose. Leave booby traps and shit.

I swear she did this to me the other day.

Shes good

Carly Fioroni is a pathological liar and Virgo!

Watch out. This chick will lie herself out of things.

Master? Looooool. Aren't there any Caps or crabs in your office? How are they handling her?

Caps don't lie much ..crabs do

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Oh we can lie our asses off, but.it's more for protecting or for business purposes. I'll play the game, and act like your doing a great job for me, but in the meantime I know exactly what you're up to and watching, giving you enough rope to hang yourself. Caps don't play.

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She would throw some weird ass statement about behavior that she dislikes and likes. Unintentionally, Intentionally talking about me. But then she would say "oh but im not talking about you"

Id cut her off and say "no, i am a professional. I know when theres work to be done and how to do it."

End of story. Lets not get it twisted. If you dont like something im doing, speak up. Quit it with this passive aggressive behavior, these antics, these games.

Omg She can't separate her actual personality from what's needed at work. My ex would exhibit similar behavior, but I know he would never display his true nature at work.

Manipulation is changing yourself to get something! She's being herself! Completely idiotic.

The manipulative part is when she changes like a chameleon in front of her boss!

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She is finding where she fits in the group..not just that but.who fits in with her amd can turn into a mole. Buddy buddy.

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She would throw some weird ass statement about behavior that she dislikes and likes. Unintentionally, Intentionally talking about me. But then she would say "oh but im not talking about you"

Id cut her off and say "no, i am a professional. I know when theres work to be done and how to do it."

End of story. Lets not get it twisted. If you dont like something im doing, speak up. Quit it with this passive aggressive behavior, these antics, these games.

She doesn't sound like a BOSS! I guess my crab boss is so professional that this is really awkward for me to read.

I mean she doesn't sound like she knows what she's doing or is composed! Also she's not direct! That's weak

She sounds chaotic

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Ive never had a boss talk to me about the performance of another employee.

Ever

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She would throw some weird ass statement about behavior that she dislikes and likes. Unintentionally, Intentionally talking about me. But then she would say "oh but im not talking about you"

Id cut her off and say "no, i am a professional. I know when theres work to be done and how to do it."

End of story. Lets not get it twisted. If you dont like something im doing, speak up. Quit it with this passive aggressive behavior, these antics, these games.

Omg She can't separate her actual personality from what's needed at work. My ex would exhibit similar behavior, but I know he would never display his true nature at work.

Manipulation is changing yourself to get something! She's being herself! Completely idiotic.

The manipulative part is when she changes like a chameleon in front of her boss!

She is finding where she fits in the group..not just that but.who fits in with her amd can turn into a mole. Buddy buddy.

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Yeah i wants no part of that role.

They pay me to work not to be a rat

Does the Cap you work with have a good repore with the main boss?

Posted by Greentea
Does the Cap you work with have a good repore with the main boss?

I guess. I cant say for sure or not.

Me and the cap are friends and however there has always been an unspoken bond to not really go into specifics with office politics with each other. Its just cleaner.

You're still here talking about her?

sounds like the office gossip is YOU


eight pages of you talking about someone behind her back .....

Posted by P-Angel

You're still here talking about her?

sounds like the office gossip is YOU


eight pages of you talking about someone behind her back .....

yep still talking about her. I cant think things out and get a handle on the situation if i dont talk.

please feel free to exit if im boring or frustrating you 🙂

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Does the Cap you work with have a good repore with the main boss?

I guess. I cant say for sure or not.

Me and the cap are friends and however there has always been an unspoken bond to not really go into specifics with office politics with each other. Its just cleaner.

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It's smart. Stick with the Cap, when sh!t goes down, I wouldn't be surprised if the top boss goes to her for clarity. Just do your job. I'm sure the Cap has a good repore with the boss.

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She's testing loyalty.

interesting way of doing that by talking smack about everyone, knowing we're all friends.

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Not a very intelligent way of going about it either, very underhanded and catty.

Even if you were to give her the benefit of the doubt it would be best to keep your head low, nod and listen but always refrain from voicing your opinions or responding.

DMV, let her play her political head games but keep her at a safe enough distance therefore she will not be able to drag you down if any drama should arise.

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Does the Cap you work with have a good repore with the main boss?

I guess. I cant say for sure or not.

Me and the cap are friends and however there has always been an unspoken bond to not really go into specifics with office politics with each other. Its just cleaner.

It's smart. Stick with the Cap, when sh!t goes down, I wouldn't be surprised if the top boss goes to her for clarity. Just do your job. I'm sure the Cap has a good repore with the boss.

why cause' she's a CAP

you give CAPS way too much credit

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Yes, and from what she said or hasn't said..the Cap is the one minding her own business and just doing her job.

So do you want me to tell her to get in the middle of the drama or create one? That woukd not be smart, so DMV stick with the Cap.

Posted by DMV
So, Im just wondering if i have any cause for concern.

She has a nice personality, very talkative, smart yet when i have meetings with her, she always talks smack about other ppl and she is always saying "lets keep this between us"

The first time i heard it, my alarms went off. Because usually, ppl who say that are talking shit about everyone behind their back. Also, ive been told by my coworkers that... she also tells them things and then famously says "lets just keep this between us."

So what do you think her motives are?

Is she inadvertently putting herself in the middle of drama?

Is she trying to see whose loyal and who isnt?

Do you think she's talking about me behind my back and others arent saying anything me—

I think you're already doing too much. More than this requires. Your alarms went off, so you already know it doesn't sit right with you regardless of her motives. Does it even matter? If you're not about that, then keep your distance. What could she possible say about you that would have any bearing if you have a strong work ethic, developed strong working relationships and keep it professional in the office? If you don't, or you've opened up about things you shouldn't, get it sorted.

Meh, you're giving her too much energy. People like this always unravel all on their own. You're only job should be to figure out what snacks would best suit the occasion when she finally does.

I want DMV to be my boss

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Posted by Rambunctious76
She's testing loyalty.

interesting way of doing that by talking smack about everyone, knowing we're all friends.

Not a very intelligent way of going about it either, very underhanded and catty.

Even if you were to give her the benefit of the doubt it would be best to keep your head low, nod and listen but always refrain from voicing your opinions or responding.

DMV, let her play her political head games but keep her at a safe enough distance therefore she will not be able to drag you down if any drama should arise.

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I agree. Im just considering alot of things.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I want DMV to be my boss

Lol.

I wonder if its saturn just creating more work for me.

All this just makes me work harder in my acting classes.

Im outgrowing this office life.

She may just be the catalyst i need to really take it to the next level.

Posted by DMV
So, Im just wondering if i have any cause for concern.

She has a nice personality, very talkative, smart yet when i have meetings with her, she always talks smack about other ppl and she is always saying "lets keep this between us."

The first time i heard it, my alarms went off. Because usually, ppl who say that are talking shit about everyone behind their back. Also, ive been told by my coworkers that she also tells them things and then famously says "lets just keep this between us."

So what do you think her motives are?

Is she inadvertently putting herself in the middle of drama?

Is she trying to see whose loyal and who isnt?

Do you think she's talking about me behind my back and others arent saying anything me—

She's not looking to insert herself into drama...she's looking for security and stability through aliiances. Hence why she says what she says. Yeah, it's a shitty way to make friends but once she's gotten comfortable...she'll change. As for you, do not give her personal info and keep it professional.

I could see her wanting to make friends, get n the mix. Find someone to trust.

I knew i wasnt crazy...

The last time i had a private meeting with the virgo, she told me that i was prohibited from emailing the director in canada who i had been working closely with for months. Everything had to flow through her.

The director happens to be the taurus i spoke of here.

I was really bothered by that but my hands were tied. Then the communication kinda halted with the taurus. And i just felt something was off. Had she said something to him?

Then he called me up and said that he had heard of some things and i told him the same but that wed talk face2face.

He came down and really dropped some bombs. Apparently she had sent a nasty email telling him that he could no longer email me directly. He took the letter to his boss and refused to comply.

This virgo is tremendously insecure. He told me that she had some choice words abot me. Unbelievable.

I did share with him how i felt and that i was looking for a new job. I didnt want him to feel blindsided. He agreed and understood where i was coming from.

I just cant believe im going through this again. Leaving another job over a bad boss.

Sorry but i need to vent....

This lady is just really rubbing me the wrong way. I swear, there is seriously something always wrong with the potato salad with her.

I just had a meeting with her, again closed door. Now before the meeting, I stayed late for a few days last week and worked on the weekend to get an assignment done.

I get in a meeting with her today and she puts all her faults as a manager on me! The fact that she doesnt take notes is somehow my fault.

I really couldnt believe what i was listening to.

Non stop criticism.

Im calling on the name of Jesus right now.

Posted by DMV
Sorry but i need to vent....

This lady is just really rubbing me the wrong way. I swear, there is seriously something always wrong with the potato salad with her.

I just had a meeting with her, again closed door. Now before the meeting, I stayed late for a few days last week and worked on the weekend to get an assignment done.

I get in a meeting with her today and she puts all her faults as a manager on me! The fact that she doesnt take notes is somehow my fault.

I really couldnt believe what i was listening to.

Non stop criticism.

Im calling on the name of Jesus right now.

Have.you called her out, or are you just sitting there taking it?

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Posted by DMV
Sorry but i need to vent....

This lady is just really rubbing me the wrong way. I swear, there is seriously something always wrong with the potato salad with her.

I just had a meeting with her, again closed door. Now before the meeting, I stayed late for a few days last week and worked on the weekend to get an assignment done.

I get in a meeting with her today and she puts all her faults as a manager on me! The fact that she doesnt take notes is somehow my fault.

I really couldnt believe what i was listening to.

Non stop criticism.

Im calling on the name of Jesus right now.

Have.you called her out, or are you just sitting there taking it?

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Call her out? How so?

I try to show her a different side of things but she just cuts me off mid sentence and just keepa talking.

Ive just had enough. Its like she enjoys being condescending.

Its like she penalizes me for being a good worker when she is still learning. Does that make any sense?

When one of the directors gave me a great compliment about my work ethic, she didnt even agree. Acted like it never even happened. I knew i was going to get taken down a peg the minute the director finished her sentence.

When the tauris boss came down, we clicked. He invited me to lunch with other VPs. She didnt like that one bit. I could just tell that she was going to ding me eventually and when i least expect it. But fuck it why should i be scared of her jealousy and perceived disapproval.

Im just having a FUCK kinda moment.

Im really sorry. Im just so sick of this.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo25
Time to roll up?

I actually had the foresight to quit weed. Since Dec i havent smoked.

Something just told me to take a break and im glad i did.

I plan to take a piss tests very soon.

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Sorry but i need to vent....

This lady is just really rubbing me the wrong way. I swear, there is seriously something always wrong with the potato salad with her.

I just had a meeting with her, again closed door. Now before the meeting, I stayed late for a few days last week and worked on the weekend to get an assignment done.

I get in a meeting with her today and she puts all her faults as a manager on me! The fact that she doesnt take notes is somehow my fault.

I really couldnt believe what i was listening to.

Non stop criticism.

Im calling on the name of Jesus right now.

Have.you called her out, or are you just sitting there taking it?

Call her out? How so?

I try to show her a different side of things but she just cuts me off mid sentence and just keepa talking.

Ive just had enough. Its like she enjoys being condescending.

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She's insecure so she puts the blame on you, bcuz you allow her to not take responsibility on her fuk ups, like with the note taking. I would've called her out on that. A good manager doesn't blame others, they help others to become better by being am example. You have to let her know how she and you can work better together.

Posted by DMV
Sorry but i need to vent....

This lady is just really rubbing me the wrong way. I swear, there is seriously something always wrong with the potato salad with her.

I just had a meeting with her, again closed door. Now before the meeting, I stayed late for a few days last week and worked on the weekend to get an assignment done.

I get in a meeting with her today and she puts all her faults as a manager on me! The fact that she doesnt take notes is somehow my fault.

I really couldnt believe what i was listening to.

Non stop criticism.

Im calling on the name of Jesus right now.

Ask to have someone else present during your meetings, or let her know beforehand you will be recording them.. for "learning" and "retention" purposes and so you can review/transcribe them later. Much like stenographers do during depositions

Sounds like she doesn't have what it takes to lead.

You gotta ex-nay these 'private', one on one meetings. Post haste.

I'm shocked and saddened your Scorp moon didn't kick in earlier and insist on having a paper trail. None of this her word against mine BS. Email or a witness all the way.

When she brought up that note stuff i told her that her predecessor took notes during the meeting. And how she did them.

She cut me off and went on another tangent. Its funny how i just finished telling her that ppl need to take the time and learn instead of going to me for fast solutions. She agreed and then went to me for a fast solution.


You have no idea the laundry list she gave me of things to work on.

And im thinking to myself, lady you are batshit nuts. You cant be serious right now.

Plus shes totally different towards me around other ppl. She loses the condescending tone and turns into a mute.

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Posted by DMV
Sorry but i need to vent....

This lady is just really rubbing me the wrong way. I swear, there is seriously something always wrong with the potato salad with her.

I just had a meeting with her, again closed door. Now before the meeting, I stayed late for a few days last week and worked on the weekend to get an assignment done.

I get in a meeting with her today and she puts all her faults as a manager on me! The fact that she doesnt take notes is somehow my fault.

I really couldnt believe what i was listening to.

Non stop criticism.

Im calling on the name of Jesus right now.

Ask to have someone else present during your meetings, or let her know beforehand you will be recording them.. for "learning" and "retention" purposes and so you can review/transcribe them later. Much like stenographers do during depositions

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Ive seriously considered that. I have a few things im thinking about on how to handle this

Posted by Andalusia
You gotta ex-nay these 'private', one on one meetings. Post haste.

I'm shocked and saddened your Scorp moon didn't kick in earlier and insist on having a paper trail. None of this her word against mine BS. Email or a witness all the way.

Please dont go there with me.

Youe insults will be a waste of my time and yours.

Posted by DMV
When she brought up that note stuff i told her that her predecessor took notes during the meeting. And how she did them.

She cut me off and went on another tangent. Its funny how i just finished telling her that ppl need to take the time and learn instead of going to me for fast solutions. She agreed and then went to me for a fast solution.


You have no idea the laundry list she gave me of things to work on.

And im thinking to myself, lady you are batshit nuts. You cant be serious right now.

Plus shes totally different towards me around other ppl. She loses the condescending tone and turns into a mute.

But isn't looking for another job after only having worked with this lady for a month the fast solution as well?

Not trying to bust your balls, just hopefully offering some food for thought.

Posted by DMV
When she brought up that note stuff i told her that her predecessor took notes during the meeting. And how she did them.

She cut me off and went on another tangent. Its funny how i just finished telling her that ppl need to take the time and learn instead of going to me for fast solutions. She agreed and then went to me for a fast solution.


You have no idea the laundry list she gave me of things to work on.

And im thinking to myself, lady you are batshit nuts. You cant be serious right now.

Plus shes totally different towards me around other ppl. She loses the condescending tone and turns into a mute.

Does this list consume of things SHE'S supposed to be doing?

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Posted by Andalusia
You gotta ex-nay these 'private', one on one meetings. Post haste.

I'm shocked and saddened your Scorp moon didn't kick in earlier and insist on having a paper trail. None of this her word against mine BS. Email or a witness all the way.

Please dont go there with me.

Youe insults will be a waste of my time and yours.

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I'm not insulting you. I'm being completely serious. Ask to have someone else in the room or back up your condos with an email/paper trail.

Posted by Imarollin
Is something going on with sag suns & work? Is Saturn trying to pump the back door with no lube or something? I've been pissed too.

Vent woman, vent!


And your boss is a control freak.

Know how to stick it to a virgo? I do. Do your job better than requested and do it happily, just because you can.

Yes!!

Thats been my motto. Keep putting out stellar work.

Shes the only person who has a problem with me. Everyone else is very appreciative.

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Posted by DMV
When she brought up that note stuff i told her that her predecessor took notes during the meeting. And how she did them.

She cut me off and went on another tangent. Its funny how i just finished telling her that ppl need to take the time and learn instead of going to me for fast solutions. She agreed and then went to me for a fast solution.


You have no idea the laundry list she gave me of things to work on.

And im thinking to myself, lady you are batshit nuts. You cant be serious right now.

Plus shes totally different towards me around other ppl. She loses the condescending tone and turns into a mute.

Does this list consume of things SHE'S supposed to be doing?

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Hell naw

The list is petty AF.

i was just thinking to myself as she goes on and on, that shes grasping at straws.

If i have so much room for improvement how the hell am i still here??

I was just awarded Employee of the Month

Posted by Imarollin
The time to make a stance will come, but u til you have your ducks in a row on the way, work more than expected and keep your nose to the grindstone. Blindside that bitch.

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You gotta ex-nay these 'private', one on one meetings. Post haste.

I'm shocked and saddened your Scorp moon didn't kick in earlier and insist on having a paper trail. None of this her word against mine BS. Email or a witness all the way.

Please dont go there with me.

Youe insults will be a waste of my time and yours.

I'm not insulting you. I'm being completely serious. Ask to have someone else in the room or back up your condos with an email/paper trail.

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I've been in this situation before with clients or opposing counsel. We (my boss, me, and them) all have a meeting and reach an agreement, then they turn around and twist the words until they no longer remotely represent what was originally agreed upon.

It left such a bad taste in my mouth, I don't even like talking on the phone/reaching verbal arrangements with clients/customers, etc. Everything through email. Or verbal conversations are immediately followed up with an email "per our conversation today @ such-and-such a time....."

Posted by Imarollin
The time to make a stance will come, but u til you have your ducks in a row on the way, work more than expected and keep your nose to the grindstone. Blindside that bitch.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Wow you're a trooper!

You're all apologetic and sheet

I would have shanked her already


I can't do private sector

Shes a mess. She is unpredictably predictable.

One second shes says im doing a great job and in the next breath i need all this room for improvement.

Im learning a big lesson in self control.

BUMP

So its been an interesting full moon.

The virgo approached me today and she actually apologized for her the way she had been acting. I really felt like she understood how her actions were making me feel. i really do feel like we bridged the gap in just a lil ol 5 minute conversation.

However, i know in the business world...people are really good at masking and telling you want you want to hear.

Can she be trusted as a boss? only time will tell, i know. A conversation is all words and actions will have to back it up.

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Posted by Andalusia
You gotta ex-nay these 'private', one on one meetings. Post haste.

I'm shocked and saddened your Scorp moon didn't kick in earlier and insist on having a paper trail. None of this her word against mine BS. Email or a witness all the way.

Please dont go there with me.

Youe insults will be a waste of my time and yours.

I'm not insulting you. I'm being completely serious. Ask to have someone else in the room or back up your condos with an email/paper trail.

I've been in this situation before with clients or opposing counsel. We (my boss, me, and them) all have a meeting and reach an agreement, then they turn around and twist the words until they no longer remotely represent what was originally agreed upon.

It left such a bad taste in my mouth, I don't even like talking on the phone/reaching verbal arrangements with clients/customers, etc. Everything through email. Or verbal conversations are immediately followed up with an email "per our conversation today @ such-and-such a time....."

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THIS.

I have a couple of people who are all verbal

in their exchanges, and I ask them to either

confirm via email or I send one myself and

ask for read receipt (cc supervisor).

And witnesses for everything... I'm printing out

a record now of the paper trail for one customer

because some woman at corporate emailed MY

supervisor saying she hadn't been copied.

She was of course and so was he... silly woman.

lol

Posted by DMV
So its been an interesting full moon.

The virgo approached me today and she actually apologized for her the way she had been acting. I really felt like she understood how her actions were making me feel. i really do feel like we bridged the gap in just a lil ol 5 minute conversation.

However, i know in the business world...people are really good at masking and telling you want you want to hear.

Can she be trusted as a boss? only time will tell, i know. A conversation is all words and actions will have to back it up.

Good call to proceed with caution.

She may have understood that all along.

You know where her moon is?

I do not know her chart. Usually im not hesistant to ask someones age. But it would be too weird for her.

Posted by DMV
So, Im just wondering if i have any cause for concern.

She has a nice personality, very talkative, smart yet when i have meetings with her, she always talks smack about other ppl and she is always saying "lets keep this between us."

The first time i heard it, my alarms went off. Because usually, ppl who say that are talking shit about everyone behind their back. Also, ive been told by my coworkers that she also tells them things and then famously says "lets just keep this between us."

So what do you think her motives are?

Is she inadvertently putting herself in the middle of drama?

Is she trying to see whose loyal and who isnt?

Do you think she's talking about me behind my back and others arent saying anything me—

My experience with virgo women is don't tell them anything you don't want repeated. They may keep the secret for a long time, but if you ever get cross ways, they will blab.
I don't mean any disrespect to virgo women, I get along well with them, but we have to admit some of them are drama queens.

Posted by DMV
So its been an interesting full moon.

The virgo approached me today and she actually apologized for her the way she had been acting. I really felt like she understood how her actions were making me feel. i really do feel like we bridged the gap in just a lil ol 5 minute conversation.

However, i know in the business world...people are really good at masking and telling you want you want to hear.

Can she be trusted as a boss? only time will tell, i know. A conversation is all words and actions will have to back it up.

Keep that Moon on point.

If's she's genuine, you will see it at every turn.