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One thing is ceratin, she is well known and popular!! 😄
This is my first thread/posts since I joined last week so I am just making my way around here
but it seems to be about the same as any other board except more tightly knit and the PA factor is kind of a new thing..
Usually there isn't a pitbull @ the door, they only surface during specific flamings, etc. but not as a meet & greet.
I do like the zodiac hierarchy though, it adds an element other forums lack.

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Kevin,

You'll meet a fair share of lowlives in here who's goal is to start trouble, just laugh or "block" em, it's there for a reason. 🙂 Have you spoken/expressed your thoughts to your Gem? Even as a good friend to a Virgo, he is very critical towards me and we're just friends. Being a Gem, as long as you're not being unreasonably critical, we will try to understand where you're coming from and thus, work with you. Be wary though when you start crossing the line, we will become resistant and that will be the end of it all.
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Hey Kevinflynn,that's exact same greeting I got from pa,re my first posting.I have many theories on this....she's got Virgo Envy,wishing that she was one of Demeters' Daughters.Several have wondered if she was being paid to"go there".
I like Gem Gals,always have something cooking.They always have a long term plan tucked under the light show.My cousin stopped all her dangerous flirting when she settled into domestic bliss,she re-channeled all that energy into her home and family.Tha's just her though.

@VV,that's a good question.
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Yeah everyone has been awesome. It's a shame that the bad press gets the louder word...
It seems after further digging, yes Gemini are, *achem* let's just say free spirited when it comes to their men (yes plural) and for that you get hated on a lot and accused of quite a bit... sure a portion of it is earned.. but what isn't published as prominantly is that Gems are just as loyal as a Virgo. They REALLY have to feel "he's the one" for her to pull off the market... The flirting may or may not stop but since you dwell in the social realm so much (and so easily) you truly CAN flirt w/o consequence... this is an equation that Virgos simply cannot resolve. We must apply logic..
"but wait, why would you flirt? there's only one reason. To score. Why try to score if you have a man?" and so on...
In fact I am willing to bet that when Gems have "cheated" in their minds they didn't because "I was really never "with" him to begin with!!" but for the man that they truly settle down with, the flirting slows to a hault or a safe crawl..

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Either way, in hindsight and after the amazing weekend we had, (and I mean that from a standpoint of our conversation as much as the physical), I realized she is truly into me and it's not just a ploy. She literally was reading up on Virgos and figuring out how to ensure my trust,etc. She didn't freak out about the emails and even volunteered some txts to show she's got nothing to hide. (I can't see the txts unless she shows me) and clearly yeah it was somthing I would consider out of line but we are notoriously conventional with that sort of thing... It's like my older track days, when I'd race WERA... I take a friend on a car to the race track and we'd pile towards a turn at about 80mph and they'd white knuckle the dash.. I would literally be crying with laughter hysterically.. I was MAJORLY taking it easy. They were near death.. so it's the same here. Gems are in their comfort zone when they are "owning" a would-be pursuer and really DO have things under control... a Virgo sees this as ONLY leading to one thing and doesn't understand it can be only for fun.

What her and I have is much more than locker talk level when it comes to that arena.. So I've reflected and realize she needs to be sensative to my sensative nature about other guys..I told her "Look, I might have a situation where I could play the flirt game or a girl makes it obvious she's into me, but I make it CLEAR you are in my life and that I am off limits." She responded with "You're right and I can see the message it would send if I welcomed advances.. I will try to be more sensative"

Afterwhich I promised to give her my trust, stop with the email peeking (which she actually thought was cute because it made her feel wanted, which I don't get but I will take it!) and back WAY the hell off with my worry and such about the flirting.. she promised to take it down a bit too...

The fact we can talk like that and reach even newer and closer ground as a couple (through our friendship) shows we are in it FOR each other and we have one another's back.. besides, she's really hot and can't be blamed for all the attention she gets from men.. I'm average so let's see how perfect I am should I be put to the test... I really can't hold the heat to her feet too much... I am only in the clear because women don't beat down my door like the guys do to her..
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I just have to thank all the Gem females in here really giving me the straight and showing me that if he means enough and he satisfies ALL of your needs, not just the sexual ones or just the intellectual ones, or the creative (something new daily) ones... but on all fronts.. I guess you've probably had your share and can realize the rareity of ONE MAN being able to keep your interest genuinely without it being a front or an effort that is out of their character and eventually will fade when they go back to themselves... my true natural resting point has her covered and I am SOOOO lucky for that...
I think it's because I am older and she never really got to have her fun because she married right out of highschool to her HS sweetheart and had only been with 4 men (including hubby) before me... I was out of the house at 18 and self-supporting since and had an embarassing amount of... well you get the point..She sees me like an amusement park I suppose and I see her as this absolute diamond of a woman. Someone I've been trying to find.. keeps me on my toes, intrigues my mind, ignites my deepest desires (oh and yeah, another female with us is something she CONSTANTLY drives at.. WOW) I mean looking back at the start of this post.. WHERE WAS MY HEAD AT.. She will let another women join us and I am sweating beers with aholes that have ZERO game? phhft!! Definitely going to chill about that shiznit..

Okay I gotta stop gushing now.. ugh... I can be a real sap sometimes but she again thinks that's adorable..
Did I mention we were soul mates? 😄


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Oh and the PA thing is really just sad, honestly. because if it is that she's old and bitter.. Getting old is a GOOD thing.. you get to get off the ride. Take a breath... have an iced tea on the porch...........

WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE... this can only mean she didn't end up with her Mr. Right.. It sucks she feels the need to take it out on other people. She told TyDyed "Actually I am very happy, hubby and I are perfect and we love each other. I just do this for fun and to fuck with people" I really really want to believe that confession but quite honestly, I don't see me or my wife in our pre-retirement years wasting what has to be a large chunk of time on the net trolling for targets to harass and belittle... it doesn't add up because eventually after a 6 month period TOPS, the novelty and amusement would certainly wear off... are Pisces THAT easy to entertain? Are they THAT simple minded? She comes off as God's step daughter and is all seeing and all knowing but when you attempt to scratch the surface, it's like cardboard cutout of a celebrity.. slightly convincing in a photo but clearly not the real thing... WTF? I hope she really is happy or that she figures out a way to be less pathetic with her time...Shit if I were 52 and miserable... had fewer years ahead of me than behind me, I

SURE
AS
FUCK

wouldn't squander it on you dick wads! 😛 bahahah!
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Posted by kevinflynn

So I've reflected and realize she needs to be sensative to my sensative nature about other guys





Awe, good thing that reflections exist ... but, it is sad that only one side of the partnership is able to do it without being told, like the below .....



Posted by kevinflynn

..I told her "Look, I might have a situation where I could play the flirt game or a girl makes it obvious she's into me, but I make it CLEAR you are in my life and that I am off limits." She responded with "You're right and I can see the message it would send if I welcomed advances.. I will try to be more sensative"





Aren't you the lucky one that she understood without having to explain any further !!!

Again, it's a shame that only one side of a partnership can get the respect/consideration thing and has to tell the other one ...


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Afterwhich I promised to give her my trust, stop with the email peeking (which she actually thought was cute because it made her feel wanted, which I don't get but I will take it!) and back WAY the hell off with my worry and such about the flirting.. she promised to take it down a bit too...





Stop your worrying, she promised to take her flirting with other men down a notch ... and you did the right thing in vowing to her that you would back WAY the hell off about her flirting because afterall, look how hot she is !!! You'd be a fool to do anything to jeapordize being able to ride that !!!

Of course you don't understand what that meant, for if you did, you wouldn't be there. It's a blessing in disguise to you that you don't 'get' what's going on .. because look at the reward of being ignorant !!!!

You get to fuck a hot chick ... fuck integrity, who needs that crap, anyway ?


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.. besides, she's really hot and can't be blamed for all the attention she gets from men.. I'm average so let's see how perfect I am should I be put to the test... I really can't hold the heat to her feet too much... I am only in the clear because women don't beat down my door like the guys do to her..
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Look how easily you can be trained ... you will make a fine idiot-
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So do all women get to look forward to being 52 like this?
Presuming that sex is the end-all, beat-all for men? What a cage this little fishy lives in...
Someone call in the Sharks..time for some feeding.

HEY JAWS I've got some prime 52y/o chum for ya..

Haha I love how you dissect these posts with what is total B.S.
Remember PA, just because you post it doesn't make it truth...

Here's something you will never do and can never do with your pea sized fish brain...
LOOK AT YOURSELF...

Never one post do you admit any faults, talk about YOU or apologize for being dead wrong or possibly rude...
You're so imprisoned... I found this while trying to give you the benefit of the doubt...
instead it only served to expose you for the poseur, fraud, wannabe that you truly have PROVEN in print to be...

"Her scathing tongue will become loose once in a while only. In case you have found the opposite characteristics profile in a Piscean woman, chances are that she SUFFERED EXTREMELY HARSH TREATMENT at a very YOUNG AGE and the BITTERNESS will be a result of that trauma only. She has certain subtleness around her and may also become a little deceptive at times."

Whether your ATTEMPTING to kick my teeth in (unsucessfully I might add) because of some trauma or because you just hate on ppl for fun... One thing remains unchanged.. your mind, your path, your posts...

You are limited and incapable of self reflection. A major show of your blatant insecurities...
Admit fault? Have I done of aught else? I can look at myself. I can admit some of the valid points you've made. (really onle one. I gave myself away too easily. but in hind sight it was to a wonderful person)

You're wreched and people who don't know me and know you well are only confirming the ugliness you exude..
You make me a lesser person for having to retort to your baseless accusations and remarks.. You subtract from this planet..
Enjoy the no-longer-amusing posts.. there's a check being cashed at the Karma bank and your name is on it. 😉

Ref. to my Pisces quote:
http://www.iloveindia.com/astrology/sun-signs/pisces/woman.html<BR>
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Just know that repeating yourself isn't a victory. Lying out loud in public isn't a victory, not going away isn't a victory...

Proving my diagnosis of you wrong..the only path you have left.
You'll never take it because fish are bound for the frying pan my dear... your brain isn't capable of self-control..
You're not flexing a muscle in here, you are tearing your own wounds open...

either way you posted about how "I get to fuck a hot chick"

Frankly that's how you see the world...
I mentioned her being hot to explain that even if she chooses not to flirt, men will STILL flirt with her..
I am not about looks, go raid my other posts.

YOU posted in another thread about how stupid trunk virgos can't think and it's this OR that. black OR white..no grey.
You went bragging on about how awesome pisces are at "knowing" the universe and that all is everything.. DUALITY.. and how good can be bad and how we escape the meaning or concept of duality...
you've just completely sank your own ship on that one.. here's me not knowing duality and you owning the topic...

You make that statement about hot chick...

Can't someone who's hot be of worth at the same time? (duality)
Do you feel women are nothing more than their appearance? Are you that shallow to your own gender?
If I had a snatch and boobs I'd knock you the fuck out for being sexist again my gender...
you hate hot women and think they are bad and so I am shallow and without "integrity" because I am choosing looks over substance.. Read aboutt the Virgo you profess in these posts to know so well...
WE HATE SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW... looks won't get you a ticket.... brains, substance, integrity, virtue will...
We had the friendship first, discovered the person inside, then the attraction and then the romance & physical...
Really my personal joy is none of your business anyhow and you like many fish have to FEED off the bottom....

Enjoy YOUR fantasy... oh I am dilusional— here's another clip:
http://fantasyworld.wordpress.com/pisces-women/<BR> "She likes to be in a dream world than to be in reality. She is weak and sensitive when it's come to —Love??.
I think Love is a foreign concept to you which is why you suck so bad at trashing my love.. 😄

Peace Oscar the Grouch.

Kevin.



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Posted by kevinflynn
So do all women get to look forward to being 52 like this?
Presuming that sex is the end-all, beat-all for men? What a cage this little fishy lives in...
Someone call in the Sharks..time for some feeding.

HEY JAWS I've got some prime 52y/o chum for ya..

Haha I love how you dissect these posts with what is total B.S.
Remember PA, just because you post it doesn't make it truth...

Here's something you will never do and can never do with your pea sized fish brain...
LOOK AT YOURSELF...

Never one post do you admit any faults, talk about YOU or apologize for being dead wrong or possibly rude...
You're so imprisoned... I found this while trying to give you the benefit of the doubt...
instead it only served to expose you for the poseur, fraud, wannabe that you truly have PROVEN in print to be...

"Her scathing tongue will become loose once in a while only. In case you have found the opposite characteristics profile in a Piscean woman, chances are that she SUFFERED EXTREMELY HARSH TREATMENT at a very YOUNG AGE and the BITTERNESS will be a result of that trauma only. She has certain subtleness around her and may also become a little deceptive at times."

Whether your ATTEMPTING to kick my teeth in (unsucessfully I might add) because of some trauma or because you just hate on ppl for fun... One thing remains unchanged.. your mind, your path, your posts...

You are limited and incapable of self reflection. A major show of your blatant insecurities...
Admit fault? Have I done of aught else? I can look at myself. I can admit some of the valid points you've made. (really onle one. I gave myself away too easily. but in hind sight it was to a wonderful person)

You're wreched and people who don't know me and know you well are only confirming the ugliness you exude..
You make me a lesser person for having to retort to your baseless accusations and remarks.. You subtract from this planet..
Enjoy the no-longer-amusing posts.. there's a check being cashed at the Karma bank and your name is on it. 😉

Ref. to my Pisces quote:
http://www.iloveindia.com/astrology/sun-signs/pisces/woman.html<BR>



She supposedly is with a Virgo. Nobody loves her, that's all, not even herself. She's an idiot incapable of self reflection. You are wasting your time with this dummy. You're still 100% right though. :/
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Meh, to me she is P01X.. not quite a P90 workout but a fun punching bag nonetheless...
Whether for her it's harmless fun or real hate, I just don't tolerate cruel or cruel with a spoon of sugar.. ESPECIALLY if it's on someone else...

I witnessed my share of bullying to other people in school and I've never jibed well with a bully and she's just a 5th grade playground push fight starter...I play ice hockey on their asses...

Let 'em lie to themselves... the damage is being done in that act alone...
I don't need to punch, they do it to themselves... through lack of happy.. which stems from lack of brain, lack of truth...etc.. and on.. we all know the drill at this point I presume...

For the sake of everyone though I will just let it roll and no longer respond because I have a feeling she's not going to stop and if I don't respond she has no target and therefore we get some peace (and maturity) in here..
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Don't worry .... as time wears on, and the joy of the sexual weekend with her wears off .... your mind will start to weave doubt towards her again because of the simple fact that you don't trust her. You have to tell yourself not to probe her cell phone, and you have to tell yourself not to be suspicious of her = mistrust.

And as this begins to formulate in you again after this passage of time .. you will no longer have a need to differ from me, here or even in your mind ... because you will again find yourself entrenched in protecting that in which binds you.


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Do keep looking around, though .. and don't look for what I say because that would be dumb as fuck .. look for the truth.


Thank you asdfghjkl
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Posted by kevinflynn
Meh, to me she is P01X.. not quite a P90 workout but a fun punching bag nonetheless...
Whether for her it's harmless fun or real hate, I just don't tolerate cruel or cruel with a spoon of sugar.. ESPECIALLY if it's on someone else...

I witnessed my share of bullying to other people in school and I've never jibed well with a bully and she's just a 5th grade playground push fight starter...I play ice hockey on their asses...

Let 'em lie to themselves... the damage is being done in that act alone...
I don't need to punch, they do it to themselves... through lack of happy.. which stems from lack of brain, lack of truth...etc.. and on.. we all know the drill at this point I presume...

For the sake of everyone though I will just let it roll and no longer respond because I have a feeling she's not going to stop and if I don't respond she has no target and therefore we get some peace (and maturity) in here..



Well said.
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Last one.. promise.

"Awe, good thing that reflections exist ... but, it is sad that only one side of the partnership is able to do it without being told, like the below ....."

So she's high maintenance.. she doesn't feel the need to lift a finger for anyone, even her soulmate..it's ME ME ME..
Man you are fucking it up even for the pisces! They'd look better w/o you in the gene pool! 🙂


"Aren't you the lucky one that she understood without having to explain any further !!!

Again, it's a shame that only one side of a partnership can get the respect/consideration thing and has to tell the other one ... "

Now I know where the term "Cold Fish" stems from.. She is incapable of love, if she were she would applaud this selflessness not shun it...I would gouge my eyes out, fuck my mom and kill my father if I couldn't love.. Oh wait, that's been done...

"Stop your worrying, she promised to take her flirting with other men down a notch ... and you did the right thing in vowing to her that you would back WAY the hell off about her flirting because afterall, look how hot she is !!! You'd be a fool to do anything to jeapordize being able to ride that !!!"

Gonne glove-off here.. BITCH, you have no idea how bad you just made yourself look here...
hahah.. I've lost more than you will ever get and it has made me a better man... If you stay out of love for sake of your own ass or "ooh I don't want to get hurt" then it's YOU who are blissfully ignorant.. You gotta take the bad along with the good... Without the bitter part of love, the sweet just ain't as sweet... This explains EVERYTHING about you...
I no longer pity you, I am disgusted by you, because you KNOW it's there but are too chicken shit to put someone else first and put YOU at risk... You'll never get the trophy in a race if possibly "wrecking out" is keeping you off the pavement...

Hence SPECTATOR FOR LIFE FISHY...

okay truly done. that is a promise.

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By the way, in respect to the last 24hrs, I had to do a DRP migration and I am working on 2hrs of sleep in the past 30..
So sorry if I wouldn't let this one go until just now... I get grumpy when I've not had my sleep...
(DRP migration for non-I.T. geeks is basically taking a bunch of servers and de-staging them and then physically moving them to another location, and then setting them up, and then testing the failover capability at the new site.. PAIN)
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Sun don't think so. So I played her game. She lost at her own game so it doesn't bode well for Pisces in the least.
I chalk it up as a lesson for PA. I've demonstrated that a Virgo can hold their own, and Gemini who are supposed to be these awful people came to my aid... hardly a piss poor testiment for our signs.. at all...

She drew back this tree's stump and got the bee's nest... Then the twins came in for a quick one-two combo shot...
It's poetic to me because it's a sheer demonstration of our ability to work together and see eye to eye on a PROBLEM like the whole flirt thing or in this case PA being the PROBLEM.. but please I made a promise and I am keeping it..
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Interesting how water signs (not all, but many) will force you through passive aggression (mostly) to look within yourself for issues that they themselves are also afflicted with (but would deny to the high heavens if confronted), and would then tenaciously set out to punish and manipulate you should you decide they don't have a lesson to teach.

Don't mind me. Just ramblings in my head.
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I'm so glad that I'm not a water sign. They know what you say is true VV, which is obvious to me that PA embarrasses herself with her hypocrisy and projection. I wouldn't have thought that one person could be so blind and stupid until I came across her. She feeds off of the pain and suffering of others, which makes her a Vampire that needs a stake through the heart. I think that only a Mercurian can give her the torture that she deserves. Words hurt her, especially if they are ugly truths. Gotta feel sorry for a child that she had anything to do with their upbringing though. 😢
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GM,

I KNOW you can wrap your mind around what I'm about to say:

Folks like this can actually be of good use but they HAVE TO BE open to healing for themselves first. How in the devil can you presume to be someone's therapist if you are mirroring the very issues that you are so desperately trying to deliver them from in the first place?

Therapy 101: Deal with your own baggage first before you venture to deal with someone else's.

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Posted by VulcanLass
Hey Kevinflynn,that's exact same greeting I got from pa,re my first posting.I have many theories on this....she's got Virgo Envy,wishing that she was one of Demeters' Daughters.Several have wondered if she was being paid to"go there".
I like Gem Gals,always have something cooking.They always have a long term plan tucked under the light show.My cousin stopped all her dangerous flirting when she settled into domestic bliss,she re-channeled all that energy into her home and family.Tha's just her though.

@VV,that's a good question.



I wouldn't want to see it though, VL.
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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
GM,

I KNOW you can wrap your mind around what I'm about to say:

Folks like this can actually be of good use but they HAVE TO BE open to healing for themselves first. How in the devil can you presume to be someone's therapist if you are mirroring the very issues that you are so desperately trying to deliver them from in the first place?

Therapy 101: Deal with your own baggage first before you venture to deal with someone else's.



I'm with you 100% ! Certain people should never try to be therapeutic if they need the same therapy themselves. It's like the blind leading the blind. You just end up running into walls and falling off cliffs and shit. Common practice though considering who the parties are.
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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
GM,

I KNOW you can wrap your mind around what I'm about to say:

Folks like this can actually be of good use but they HAVE TO BE open to healing for themselves first. How in the devil can you presume to be someone's therapist if you are mirroring the very issues that you are so desperately trying to deliver them from in the first place?

Therapy 101: Deal with your own baggage first before you venture to deal with someone else's.



I'm with you 100% ! Certain people should never try to be therapeutic if they need the same therapy themselves. It's like the blind leading the blind. You just end up running into walls and falling off cliffs and shit. Common practice though considering who the parties are.
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LOL @ falling off cliffs and shit.

And this is why some folks come here, ask a question, or come for help/advice, and leave even more frustrated than when they came in because it's obvious the person 'helping out' needs more CBT, Talk Therapy, psychodynamic psychotherapy, benzodiazpines, TCAs than them! Shit!

Oh, we're all a lil crazy?...off?...a little neuroses for everyone?...nah?...aaaahhh...that's another thread. 😉

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GM,

I KNOW you can wrap your mind around what I'm about to say:

Folks like this can actually be of good use but they HAVE TO BE open to healing for themselves first. How in the devil can you presume to be someone's therapist if you are mirroring the very issues that you are so desperately trying to deliver them from in the first place?

Therapy 101: Deal with your own baggage first before you venture to deal with someone else's.



I'm with you 100% ! Certain people should never try to be therapeutic if they need the same therapy themselves. It's like the blind leading the blind. You just end up running into walls and falling off cliffs and shit. Common practice though considering who the parties are.



LOL @ falling off cliffs and shit.

And this is why some folks come here, ask a question, or come for help/advice, and leave even more frustrated than when they came in because it's obvious the person 'helping out' needs more CBT, Talk Therapy, psychodynamic psychotherapy, benzodiazpines, TCAs than them! Shit!

Oh, we're all a lil crazy?...off?...a little neuroses for everyone?...nah?...aaaahhh...that's another thread. 😉

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There are actually a lot of vicious people in here. I've witnessed many people asking for help and the only responses they get are cruel spitefulness and nasty interjections. I don't understand this, these people are hurt, they want help, not hate. UGH! I detest aholes.
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Posted by GeminiMind
I'm so glad that I'm not a water sign. They know what you say is true VV, which is obvious to me that PA embarrasses herself with her hypocrisy and projection. I wouldn't have thought that one person could be so blind and stupid until I came across her. She feeds off of the pain and suffering of others, which makes her a Vampire that needs a stake through the heart. I think that only a Mercurian can give her the torture that she deserves. Words hurt her, especially if they are ugly truths. Gotta feel sorry for a child that she had anything to do with their upbringing though. 😢



Not all of us water signs are crazy 😉 Just a little tidal-wavy sometimes.

I used to run a message board and there was this one gal who drove everyone crazy. I had "known" her for years on another forum, and she followed when I started mine. She could be totally interesting & sane for a bit, then she'd lose it and just go crazy bitch on people. A real-life friend of mine in her area befriended her and it turned out she had all kinds of issues. Basically wasn't socialized properly & was a fear biter; on some kind of disability so not working, staying with parents. She wanted people to recognize her smarts (she was a medical doctor) but was so abrasive she pissed everyone off. She completely latched on to the real life friend to the point of it being a problem.

Everyone wanted to feel sorry for her and be nice to her, but she was so damn unpleasant she drove everyone off. Vicious cycle. People on the forum kept asking me to banish her....

The internets does weird things to people with issues. Just have to be vigilant with the delete/ignore button.

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kevinflynn
@kevinflynn
14 Years

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Yeah I suppose this newfound topic (forums and the people in it) is what my original point was the very first time this went from 1 page to .... It's that being in I.T. I've actually ran BBS towers (really old $ h1t) and I can say that any person, including myself will be different in here with complete anonymity. To what degree? That will vary. As well it begs the question "Are we [different] in here or since there's nobody watching, are we our true selves?"

Either way, Around 96~98 I really decided to stop putting stock into the things I read or that are said TO me online..
How can you really? Besides, just as you can't BE hurt online, you can't HURT anyone either.. so really it's like PA and I would be metaphorically fighting with holographic weapons... there's a continual stalemate..

One thing is for sure, this thread and any other, is it's own entity. I've found that there are people, (not too far removed from PA) that really enjoy throwing a piece of txt into a thread to see how it affects the outcome, etc. The problem with flaming is although it's a net based action, it does tread on a basic human emotional root area. Rudeness. It's about the last thing in this country that shows we are still better than apes. We've eroded a lot and it's starting to encroach upon the 11 year old area. Before it was 17 makeup, jewelry boys.. then 14.. now..?? But Rude STILL pisses people off... When we all get like NYC, where Rude is a WAY of living.. then I will $ h1t myself as to what we've become...

SO, as long as the PA people cause issues, I won't be upset about it.. It's when the try and NOBODY responds... hide the kids...It might just get biblical in the US...

I think if anyone wants to become wealthy you can start an online.. (oh wait, lemme try it first, if I fail then I will tell you)
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P-Angel
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Posted by kevinflynn

.... I really really don't want to lose this girl.

Mainly for fear of the concrete I will hit once I fall after the breakup ....






This raises the issue I've addressed over and over, time and again in here ....


Virgos pride themselves on not letting emotions get the better of them, and will also make threads to pat themselves on the back for it, by means of pushing feelings away so they can think them into order.

They "think" emotions are messy, chaotic .....


But, then once the time comes that they have to deal with feelings .. they don't know how to deal with them, because they lack experience, they've never grown any emotional intelligence or maturity ... so we find Kevin here, so would embrace ignorance of what his Gem is doing in terms of disrespecting him because he wouldn't know how to emotionally handle a break-up.

He would have no clue ... he actually said that it would be a hit to the concrete ... and this is misconception is typical of the Virgo. We have Wag who was so broken up over an Aries that after time and time passed, he couldn't move on because he didn't have the ability to emotionally handle the break-up ......

.. because he, like Kevin here, like all of them ... never deal with emotions, so they therefore don't know how to when life hands them emotional situations.


They think they can think all of life.
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GeminiMind
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I've NEVER met a Pisces that could handle emotions, EVER. If anything a Virgo is exactly like a Pisces (opposites on the Zodiac wheel), except that Virgos try to be responsible and controlled with their emotions, whereas the Pisces use emotions as tools. Virgos feel like Gemini's in that people who lose control of their emotions don't have control in their lives, which makes those people very dangerous (See the rat above). People like that tend to get involved in abusive relationships because when you use those emotions as tools/weapons, you tend to get your ass beat in one way or another. Deservedly so. It is about controlling those emotions, not using them willy nilly like a Pisces does. Grow up! At least a Virgo is willing to face their fears. Pisces? No. They'll lie to themselves and try to sell you on the bullshit that they ARE facing them. Never do however. Fear is a motherfucker of an emotion. Fear is what rules ALL Pisces. It's just a question of whether or not they choose to confront them. Highly unlikely, too weak. So a Pisces who has the audacity to pontificate on the subject of emotion and Virgos, considering that she can't face her own fears, stupidity and has the gall to be involved with a Virgo is rich, rich indeed. P-"Angel"'s credibility is like trusting a pedophile to watch your kids. Her hypocrisy and projection is infinite, and she's stuck on stupid. pfffft...
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kevinflynn
@kevinflynn
14 Years

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Just to clarify, and I do not consider this a violation since it's not flame continuation. (besides, PA for the first time just despensed advice rather than anger)

There's a seemingly two-sided approach to posting on here. One that applies to your sign (or anothers) and then one that applies to the person directly. After all we are individuals and we each to ourselves have unique traits that may or may not identify with our sign. I think from what I can gather that's why the "chart" reference because it gives more detail? I know nothing about atrology/zodiac other than what the 12 signs are and what they are most known for.. I am sure if you ask a Gemini about a cancer versus a Taurus, you will get different responses on the "like" factor, etc.

When painting a picture of someone or someone's sign, if you like that someone or their sign, you will accentuate the positive and reverse for those that dislike it. PA for example dislikes and does not deny this, virgos... so she isn't going to probably offer anything positive, but other signs might discount a "flaw" and accentuate a redeeming quality.

Either way, I don't know what it says about virgos (in regards to emotions) although I get the impression most people feel they LACK feeling.. So I don't see if that's the case how my emiotions could get the best of me.. but we aren't talking about an emotion. We are talking about love. That's a lot different to me. Now if to "me" means virgo to some and Kevin to others, so be it, but it's NOT an emotion to me. Besides, anyone who breathes save the sociopaths and similar have emotions. It's what they do or react to those emotions that defines a lot of them. I will never deny that the "thinking" through life as it has been put is an action I am guilty of. I call this logic. Thought without purpose however isn't logic. Either way, in matters of the heart, logic is completely out the window. (And I should hope for anyone)

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P-Angel
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Posted by kevinflynn

besides, PA for the first time just despensed ....







And you're an idiot if you think, after being a member for 2 weeks, or less that you know they dynamics of any person in here, and what they do.

Just like the typical Virgo ... completely self-asborbed .. the only reality they know is their own, and in this reality, they are the only people who matter.



You're a fool.
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kevinflynn
@kevinflynn
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My statement about the concrete is saying I am very much in love with her. Heavily invested, etc.
We love deep and are loyal... so perhaps my unwillingness to lose is akin to that? I don't know...
Either way I wanted to offer some clarity to that statement because whether she's right or not, and I promised not to contest any of her statements towards me, I will leave it to anyone here including PA to either presume that take on my sentance or apply this knowledge of my thinking, feeling, etc. and maybe see otherwise.

Rather than try to "defend" and say "No, that's not true, this is how I am" which obviously just perpetuates things..

Although I have to say, based on what she posted this time and the much more conversative tone (rather than confrontational) it would be a better environment to "discuss" rather than argue...

Either way, take what you will from my ramblings.