The Master Vanishing Act explained (Page 2)

i've learned enough.

I DISAPPEAR!!

There you go..! You'll disappear when you know that you don't really love that person..!

Pretty normal actions..! any other signs can do it too? but why Virgos are in focus..??

Q you sound just like the Virgo guy i knew/liked/loved whatever.... he would say things like: it's all about me; i don't care if people like me -- if i like me then i'm happy and all is right... or: if i don't see you again it won't kill me or i won't die.....

but having that kind of outlook on life doesn't that mean that you rarely truly let people 'in' and aren't you kinda lonely....

or maybe virgos are supposed to be alone cuz i think that is where they are truly happiest....

even if they are "immature", branh?

Lindawin


Yes of course.. like I said.. if I am not around to love you, to appreciate who you are. Then are you still loveable..??

This mature things again...

What it really means..?? to be adult..?? grown up..?? be sophisticated..?? have philosophical approach to the concept.??....


Blah?.

aren't you kinda lonely....

No, certainly I am NOT.. like I said it before, love relationship is about giving and receiving? its not a charity you know?!! It is down right personal..!

Only fools stay in one way relationship?!

You can't stay in a relationship just for the sake of the name..!

Some people looking for emotional satisfactions, some others looking for material satisfactions ?!

You tell me about the other reasons that I don't know of? so I'll be shutting up.

if i don't see you again it won't kill me or i won't die.....

And he was damn right..!!

hey ya'all life happens and we're not always on the same wavelength. not always in agreement. now maybe it's more a question on this thread of semantics, and the definations. it's clear to me after consulting the dictionary that there is a positive and a negative connotation to the word compromise.
no harm in seeking clarity!

relationships are made in heaven but is managed on earth. every relationships are to be managed. to keep the relationship on track you hhave to realize that you and your partner are preprogrammed for conflict. you are trying to mesh your life to someone who is emotionally,, physically, spiritually different from you. you have to have a great degree of awareness that you have to manage this relationship or else you'll go spiralling right back down at the bottom.setting goals and plans to keep the relationship healthy to hang on to what both of you worked to hard to gain.

it's a myth that happy couples know the right and wrong way to make their relationships great. realistically speaking there's no cookie-cutter way to be in a relationship, and no handbook on the proper way to love each other, fight, relate to each other or do anything else that has to do with being in a relationship.

what is important is that your ways "work" for the two of you.

Q - of course i know that not seeing me again won't 'kill him' i'm just saying Virgos come across -- or state their feelings to come across as 'i don't really care' 'i'm cool on my own'..... they have extreme difficulty in letting anyone really in and letting them know/see their vulnerability....

when i said to him once, it was so good to see you.... and he said yeah, i had a great time.... and when i pushed to say well didn't you have a great time with me? he was like that's just not me i can't say that...... when i know a HUGE part of the reason he had a great time cuz he was with ME!

that's all i'm saying.... just let your feelings show if you like someone (of course he can't tho cuz he's taken, but then so am i and i still show mine....)