To All Women Interested in Virgo Males... (Page 2)

HAHA LOL P-ANGEL good one.....ya he was charming FOR 5 MINUTES...it's like a drug...once u get a hit u keep chasn to get the same hi but U NEVER GET IT.....i will admit tho...im still chasin....inconspicuously of course...well im going out tonite for a well deserved girls nite out wish u all could come with, just imagine us all out drinkn togethr we'd have such a virgo bash session lol oh gawwwwwwd.....i would say wish me luck that i don't drink too much and txt him tonite but I ERASED HIS NUMBER HA so there....of course, if he calls me I WILL PICK UP and go over if he wants me to......oh u know u would too ...rite??

Ha ha I have to laugh, because I've been lurking for awhile, but decided to come out of the woodwork 😉 I've been dating a Virguy for over a year, and I've come here many a time for advice on his strange behavior (though I think I might be getting to be a pro at dealing with it now, lol)

"dating the same man" in some way, indeed! It's uncanny!

"of course, if he calls me I WILL PICK UP and go over if he wants me to......oh u know u would too ...rite??"


Noooooooooooo .. but, I live with mine, so he really only has to call from the next room, lol

Another one?

Ok, we need someone to keep a tally. Who's good at record keeping?

P-Angel are you in a relationship with a Virgo?

Married, mm .. have been for a long time, to a Virgo

And are you happy with him? Its just that everytime I read your post you come across as disliking them immensely..so I thought maybe you had a bad experience with one..Sorry I just come and go on the Virgo board so don't really know the full story.

lol, ok ..

"they know what to say, what to do to get you interested. Then once you are, they give you hope."

Like I said, if you found one like this .. you're the lucky one out of the bunch because none of the rest of us can find one who gives us hope .. quite the contrary, they make us feel dejected, not hopeful.

Anyway, mm .. there's just one Virgo in particular who has caused my bitterness and all the rest of them get thrown into the same category because .. well, listen to all of us ladies who are sinking in the same boat (except tanya, who found a rare one of his breed) .. so, it doesn't seem unreasonable for me to say that they are all like this.

Is that unfair? Probably .. but, quite frankly, I don't give a damn .. they obviously don't .. so, why should I?

I have few minutes free and decided to stop by here...

I see you all are talking about hopes. Well, my Virgo guy, after our Monday lunch and talk about all the mixed messages he was giving me, he said he did not even realize he was doing all of that and wanted to start all over again. Told him I could not start over again but continue from where we were at...

My sense is the man is afraid of a serious relationship, as well as he may be a bit intimidated by me since he kept stressing the word "casual" relationship.

Nevertheless since our conversation he seems to have come around a bit more and I am just wondering what it is going on, so I am sharing it here...

He wrote me a nice an email Monday nite, he called me twice yesterday, sent me a couple of txt messages and today he replied to a few of mine after I told him I had a "hmmm" (about making love and blah blah blah) dream last nite. First he wanted to make sure it was his face on my dream. I assured him it was face, body, kisses, caresses.... And that it was for hoursss with no agenda, no rush, and no anxiety. Then he replied too bad he wasn't there, then I asked him if dreams come real, and he replied "most certainly" and then I wrote back that was all I needed to know...

Is he playing with my feelings or what?

I guess I am not ready to let him go yet!

I wonder what it is next or if it will be NEXXXT? 😛

PS NEXXXT= find myself another man! lol

Well Escorpiona,

Usually Virguys say what they mean...don't lie...don't BS. Is yours pretty reliable in communication?

Cos it sounds like he is pretty serious about you...at least, as serious as one person can get after three months.

Congrats!

Egirl, yes I can say that he is reliable in his communication skills. But do not congratulate me yet! 😛 Because if Virgo men say what they mean then he just wants a "casual" relationship! lol But I have a feeling his definition of casual is more on a serious note, but I can NOT figure him out nor do I know I ever will.

Yes, I know I have to be patient, but that is so hard!

I asked him what he meant by "casual" and he had a hard time defining it. Nevertheless, it sounded more than just an occasional thing, but more like lets just see where it takes us... That is why I think there are some fears somewhere... Maybe he got burned in a previous relationship and he is afraid too get too serious!

He communicates well, but he has a hard time expressing his feelings!

Ok P-Angel..fair do's..

Its just that I haven't experienced this so called yo yo treatment or dejection or anything horrid from the virgo males I have encountered..There was one in our group of friends quite a while back, he was quite bitter..sarcastic, every opportunity he had to put you down he did, no manners etc etc..and needless to say he turned out to be a bitter twisted plonker.lonely as heck..but majority are nice..and as Bran quite rightly stated the other day, if they like you they always make a point of letting you know where they are, what they are doing avec whom etc..Just give them breathing space and don't pester so much etc..

I think I am quite like the man in a relationship..I don't get all emotional over anything in public or needy and demanding..Smothering isn't good for anyone I guess..

Escorpiona if his moon sign is in Aquarius run for your life..LOL..can't stand anything associated with Aquarius when it comes to relationships etc..

Yes his moon is in aqua! 😛 So then what am I do to? Besides running for my life! lol

And to add to that, do you have to go in all guns blazing? Can you not take the casual approach?..He's obviously showing SOME signs of being interested..I mean give yourself a time limit if your not comfortable with the whole casual thing..i.e. go casual for a while, if you don't think things are changing, just move on..

Escorpiona: "Yes his moon is in aqua!"

PUKE

Whats your moon sign?

MissM I like your advice and that is what I am doing even though here I post what it is on my mind. However, with him, I give him his space and come across as casual as he is... I am independent, self-sufficient and I enjoy life with the lemons life brings me! 😉

I make lemonade, indeed! 😛

My moon Leo!

Lol..well my Aqua male friend is currently dating a Leo woman and she is treating him reeeeeeeeally mean...I don't think she actually wants to be with him anymore as they constantly argue but he will NOT give up on her..2 years and he's still hanging on..so maybe there is some hope..

My sister is Leo and I know she is self-sufficient, independent but also very loving and caring etc..but my comment "all guns blazing" is sooooooo apt here with your moon in Leo..LOL..

Yeah just take the chill pill with your lemonade 😉

Yes, what a combination Sun Scorpio/ Moon Leo. So I guess in other words, I am intense and not a quitter! 😛 And very PASSIONATE to say the least!

But I do not even acknowledge my Leo moon, I do not like Leos.. lol

Escorpiona: "But I do not even acknowledge my Leo moon, I do not like Leos"

LOL..Same way as I don't like my cancer moon cos I can't stand cancers!..Especially the men..

Leos are fine..bless them..

Funny, I like cancer males! 😛