To: Virgo Men

I have already had a relationship with a virgo. However, I recently started dated another virgo man. He told me he loved me. My ex was very much in love with me and good to, me until he started snooping and spying on me all the damn time. But...back to the new virgo. He tells me that he needs a lot of attention and that he is sensitive. I am a Leo and while I am sweet I usually and very upfront and dont cut corners when I have to say something. How do I desensitize him or do you have any advice. Also, do Virgo men really fall in love that easily? We went on 2 dates and he seemed so into me on the second date. I could see it in his eyes. What do you think? He tells me he wants me to meet his family. Its only been about 3 weeks.

I'm not a virgo nor male but how in the hell can he love you after 2 dates? Don't you think that's odd behavior?

well...I knew on my first date with my ex boyfriend that i loved him and we stayed together 9.5 years. So, i think its possible, even love at first site. It happens.

He's definitely not the norm! Run for the hills! Most of us take our time when it comes to love (much to our lover's chagrin). We don't fall in love that easy...but if we do, we sure wouldn't let it be known (especially not on the second date). He seems like the insecure, clingy, creeper type. Say "no thank you" and keep it movin' or tell him to man-up! haha. Most virgos I know are emotionally tough and can dish it as well as take it...and boy can they dish it. lol. Clever insults and razor-blade tongues. This guy must have a lot of water in his chart.

It is easy for Virgos to fall in love, part of the naive nature I think.

Having been a nice guy and made it nowhere, I think it possible (like myself), to realise the urgency in the beginning of a relationship to "secure" the young ladies attention or so to speak. Once that is done, then he may start to slow down to regular pace.

One thing us Virgo men have a real weakness for is BEAUTY. and Leo women can be some of the most beautiful on the planet.
I remember really falling for this Leo once, she was amazing. I was in a club full of other cute girls but when i saw her coming around with the beer tray, that was it. Thats who I wanted to meet.
Long story, short....things didnt work out cause she was a bit immature (laughing at handicapped people)and she wanted a rich man, Wall Street type, i was just out of jail and couldnt get a job at Burger King.
But yeah, she was so beautiful, falling in love on the spot was easy. I loved when we went out in public and all the men looked and some women....shit, all women looked too.
I hope he does he research.

questions to :
virg916:you not see it as normal? is it not just the natural attraction to the cool girl,which in the guy's mind is summed by the unvoised criteria "it's so easy to be around with" ?
you know,the ladies more often are advised to pay exactra carefully attention exact on the first meetings,because almost 100% virgo guys are direct and unfold the key information about their intentions 🙂


cajunsporit : would you explain why you see you with a naive nature ,referred to fall in love?

you are very smart ,excellent skills in analysing
knowing you as virgo have high standarts,wouldn't you allow yourself such emotional state only if you find matches between your list of girl's qualities and the live image?
i recall once you mentioned sagit.,aries and virgo ladies getting you ,hence you're in a happy relationship with a fire girl/from your description on dxp,you attract them /


@wgamador: why do you see it as a weakness?/for beauty/

is it not just natural virgos being handsome people to are intrigued/captivated and achieve conquer them as their missing half ?
/i don't know how you look like,but i believe you as cajunspirit and other virgo ,who have their images here,which confirms people from your sign are handsome/

excuse and allow me to correct the mistake in the spelling of user names
*wgmador2 and cajunspirit

@wgamador: why do you see it as a weakness?/for beauty/

is it not just natural virgos being handsome people to are intrigued/captivated and achieve conquer them as their missing half ?
/i don't know how you look like,but i believe you as cajunspirit and other virgo ,who have their images here,which confirms people from your sign are handsome/



I call it weakness on my behalf because beauty can manipulate me like nothing else can.
If you are beautiful and are kind hearted, you will hook me like a fish.

Posted by LadyLionness
Its only been about 3 weeks.

*chuckles*

leos are so cute

Posted by Cajunspirit
It is easy for Virgos to fall in love, part of the naive nature I think.

Having been a nice guy and made it nowhere, I think it possible (like myself), to realise the urgency in the beginning of a relationship to "secure" the young ladies attention or so to speak. Once that is done, then he may start to slow down to regular pace.

I dont know what it is but I like you Cajunspirit😉 I agree with you on this also.

My Virgo told me he loved me right away..i took a while longer but he knew how i felt for him before i even did....we have a very special bond and everyday getting stronger..like all signs i dont think all Virgos are the same..i guess it depends on the relationship and what the other person brings out in them..It's called chemistry..Take it easy, enjoy it and just observe him, don't be surprised if this turns out to be an amazing relatinship for you both. I dont think you should run. We are all different and no one falls in love the same way, who are we to say how people fall in love. For some people love at first site is unheard of, some believe it can happen, I know it can. Follow your heart.

I met my husband a day like today and he told me i was going to be his wife and mother of his kids 3 days later...I was like Really? well yes we got together 2 weeks later and we lasted 13 yrs together, till the day he passed away.

@ TaurusBadGirl, thats a beautiful story. & yes, it was love at first site with my ex. We had a great relationship & even though it ended 9 years later, thats longer than some marriages last.

Posted by LadyLionness
@ TaurusBadGirl, thats a beautiful story. & yes, it was love at first site with my ex. We had a great relationship & even though it ended 9 years later, thats longer than some marriages last.

Thank you...Just dont let that Virgo guy get away...I love my Virgo and couldn't imagine life without him..He is amazing😉

Posted by TaurusBadGirl

Posted by LadyLionness
@ TaurusBadGirl, thats a beautiful story. & yes, it was love at first site with my ex. We had a great relationship & even though it ended 9 years later, thats longer than some marriages last.

Thank you...Just dont let that Virgo guy get away...I love my Virgo and couldn't imagine life without him..He is amazing😉

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Damn right, we would fight to the end for you.

Maybe thats why we get dumped and cheated on.

Bringing this thread back as I need some advice on this subject:

I'm just wondering for you Virgo's that say you have been hypnotized by a Leo lady... How easy is it for another Leo woman to distract you from the one you got—

I'm a Leo gal and have been with my Virgo for a year and a half or so. And; at the beginning we had some issues but we were able to work through them and we got in a really good place. I know he is attracted to me and he's told me that he's always enjoyed our time in the bedroom. Then all of a sudden just about a little over a year in; I started noticing a roving eye. Checking out beautiful women all the time and being flirtatious with women all the time. I told him it bothered me, that it made me feel like he was still looking for others, that it made me feel not special to him and we discussed but he said it was in his nature and he would tone it down. His Venus is in Libra -- so it all makes sense. He told me he was devoted to me and that I shouldn't worry. But recently there has been someone new at work (we work together) and he has been very flirtatious with her. She is a Leo, too. I expressed again my concern at this new flirtation and mistakenly got emotional about it. This girl is actually someone he may actually have more than just a physical attraction towards -- so this time I actually feel truly threatened. He reassured me again but then got upset when the conversation turned emotional and said the fact that I didn't trust him pushes him away. But it's not that I don't trust him -- I just want him to be as into me as I am into him! (My venus is in Virgo so I am extremely devoted to my love.) We were okay again -- or so I thought -- but I sense things are different now and sense him pulling away again. And I still notice him checking her out at work 😢 It's killing me. He is seemingly acting normal -- but definitely taking steps back from me.

Anyway, longest story short: Is it REALLY that easy to distract a Virgo? Or is this his Venus in Libra that is making us highly incompatible in this way—

Posted by wgamador2
One thing us Virgo men have a real weakness for is BEAUTY. and Leo women can be some of the most beautiful on the planet.
I remember really falling for this Leo once, she was amazing. I was in a club full of other cute girls but when i saw her coming around with the beer tray, that was it. Thats who I wanted to meet.
Long story, short....things didnt work out cause she was a bit immature (laughing at handicapped people)and she wanted a rich man, Wall Street type, i was just out of jail and couldnt get a job at Burger King.
But yeah, she was so beautiful, falling in love on the spot was easy. I loved when we went out in public and all the men looked and some women....shit, all women looked too.
I hope he does he research.

LOL@ "coming around with the beer tray" Sorry but something about this was just amusing to me... :-)

Posted by Virg916
He's definitely not the norm! Run for the hills! Most of us take our time when it comes to love (much to our lover's chagrin). We don't fall in love that easy...but if we do, we sure wouldn't let it be known (especially not on the second date). He seems like the insecure, clingy, creeper type. Say "no thank you" and keep it movin' or tell him to man-up! haha. Most virgos I know are emotionally tough and can dish it as well as take it...and boy can they dish it. lol. Clever insults and razor-blade tongues. This guy must have a lot of water in his chart.

If a Virgo hides his feelings how do I know he's genuinely into me? He's said to me recently - I can get sex anywhere I want from anyone, I'm not here because of sex - what do I take from this? He said this after I made a joke that next time I'll see him is when he wants it. We have spent over a year and a half together and not always have sex but often because I want it most of the time lol He has this tendency to always say opposite of what I want to hear. But when he sees he's hurt my feelings a bit he'll smile and say "I'm kidding.." or something cute like that. I don't know... how does anyone know?

Posted by wgamador2
One thing us Virgo men have a real weakness for is BEAUTY. and Leo women can be some of the most beautiful on the planet.
I remember really falling for this Leo once, she was amazing. I was in a club full of other cute girls but when i saw her coming around with the beer tray, that was it. Thats who I wanted to meet.
Long story, short....things didnt work out cause she was a bit immature (laughing at handicapped people)and she wanted a rich man, Wall Street type, i was just out of jail and couldnt get a job at Burger King.
But yeah, she was so beautiful, falling in love on the spot was easy. I loved when we went out in public and all the men looked and some women....shit, all women looked too.
I hope he does he research.

Very true. Having been involved with a Leo, they are very much superficial and about the MONEY. Your value is determined by what you can buy her. The rest is all secondary. I know of another VM/LF couple, older one, it was also so that the man had all the resources and the woman was just the one spending it.

Us Virgos have a weakness for beauty, that's for sure. And no, it's not too strange to admit you love someone after a few weeks of courting. I believe if you feel it then it develops quickly, if not then it'll never quite happen as it should.

Posted by moondream

I'm just wondering for you Virgo's that say you have been hypnotized by a Leo lady... How easy is it for another Leo woman to distract you from the one you got—

We were okay again -- or so I thought -- but I sense things are different now and sense him pulling away again. And I still notice him checking her out at work 😢 It's killing me. He is seemingly acting normal -- but definitely taking steps back from me.

Anyway, longest story short: Is it REALLY that easy to distract a Virgo? Or is this his Venus in Libra that is making us highly incompatible in this way—

I truly believe that people totally fuck themselves up when they remove the love-experience from a union, and replace it with Ownership.

People are meant to experience a wide variety of people, in all forms. An intimate relationship will run its course, just like all types of relationships, and when its finished the two people are suppose to step away, implant within their memory all the beauty that was shared .... lift their eyes to horizon and move on the next life experience.

Unfortunately, people fail to do that most of the time. Instead, they cling on to a bitter end ... repeat

.... a BITTER end!

So, then when you die, and at that time your life flashes before your eyes ... you will recall resentment for never being loved .. when in reality that isn't the truth.


You were loved, very much, likely by a lot of people .... but, you chose to attempt to possess, control, manipulate the love to the point that it became the opposite of love.

Cement into your mind all the reasons why you loved him, why he loved you, and happy it made you feel .... and step away.

so, that when you look back on your life ... you will see love, not resentment.

Point taken, P-Angel. But then again, I think it is fair to want to feel somewhat secure in a relationship. It may also be my age -- I am 36 and feeling like I don't want to be in a relationship with someone for 3-4 years and then for it to just "not work out". I guess I am trying to force something that can't be forced though. It either will or it won't... but for now I should appreciate and accept him for who he is and either love him as he is and accept everything -- or move on. I just can't seem to walk away from him though. I love my life with him. It's a predicament. But I appreciate your insight; it's all definitely valid.