Virgo girl acting strange.

Hi, Leo guy here.
I'm just writing to see if someone who knows Virgos recognizes
this behaviour.

I had a thing with a Virgo girl that never turned into anything physical.
There are many reasons for that, due to unfortunate cicumstances
Naturally (for her) she moved on and she's now seeing someone.
Due to a project at school, we see more of each other lately.
Recently our paths crossed.
The first time her boyfriend was around and she openly showed signs of affection for him while I was there.
That hurt, and after their "cuddling" she turned to give me an examining look.

Later that day, as she walked by my locker she looked at me like she used to before. She would've said hi if I hadn't turned away. She had avoided me for months. Not even looking at me. And now... Just after declaring her love for him before my eyes!! She always knew I had feelings for her. Always.
I think that's why she avoided me after meeting her boyfriend. She knew I wanted more than friendship. And she choose him.

The second time she was alone, she threw in a few jokes and gave me a compliment. She never gave me compliments before!!
I got the feeling she felt bad about the last time and tried to smooth it over.
I've seen her around my classroom after that. On her own.
I know she's serious with her boyfriend. I'm not trying to win her over, but WHAT is SHE doing?
She'll walk by, look my way and if I meet her stare, she'll look away like nothing.
The last time we met she asked me about my weekend. She hadn't been up to anything special herself. I decided to ignore her. I'm not gonna let her play with me. Still she lingers in my mind.
One day she's shoving her boyfriend up my ass (not to be taken literally), the next she seems into me. She's annoyed that I ignore her. Her friends whisper about me as they walk by.

Would a Virgo woman in love test her powers on other guys to make sure she hasn't lost it? But she knows I'm into her.

She seems so in love with her boyfriend. But after months of avoiding me she acts as if she had never met him, except when he's there...
Is this typical for a confused Virgo, or is she some sort of a nutcase?
Sh en
Grateful for your opinions (please be kind). 🙂

Most people are attracted to someone who has that certain something that poses a threat to them possibly losing that person. It's kind of retarded I know, but her boyfriend is probably someone that keeps her on her emotional toes. And 9 times out of 10 there is trouble in that paradise where she is not able to feel secure about her place with him.

So, to fill that void she's trying to get attention anywhere she can. From you that is. She knows you like her and that you'll give her that sincere adoration attention. However, she feels safe to test your affection for her because she knows she can put that wall up about having a boyfriend.

Also, it's that you're ignoring her that is making her want your attention. Clearly you're not a loser (in the Virgo sense not society's standards) so you can be happy about that much. In fact, you must really be a great guy, just more great than god-like. 😢 Until you're ignoring her you're not hot stuff. But, you must REALLY be a decent and easy going laid back guy for her to not be able to dig you except when you're ignoring her. It's kind of her way of forcing you to be intriguing.

Anyway, she's got issues. She needs to stay in line or break the tie and not be with anyone exclusively. She can't get the best of both worlds. Sincere loving adoration from you and the emotional challenge her boyfriend gives her. If she was indeed secure she wouldn't be playing those games.

More so, don't let her drag you into her mess because she will hurt you. You seem like a nice guy and she might seem worthy to you but until she can match your sincerity she's not. Hope I was helpful.

Best,

MsA

WoW!!

Look how virgo heads work.
The mistake I made, should be avoided by others- that is falling for a virgo.

It will take too much of your time and energy. If you have other important things to achieve in life, DO NOT go after them, make them come after you. First step for that is- THINK LIKE THEM. Use head NOT HEART.

Well um... I still have yet to truly analyse Virgo females, so I can only speak generally.

We are an insecure people, who oft check to see if we can still charm others.

I love teasing old interests of mine, I like to know I have some influence over them and that I keep their interests alive.

That is what I make of your account.

Yes, it's typical Virgo ... they are players.

She's not a nutcase at all ... perfectly normal for her kind.


The question you should be asking, isn't what she's doing ... it should be a question to yourself, asking .... do you really like a girl who isn't sincere to her man?

Seriously, if you get her, what makes you think she isn't then going to start playing these games with another man for this attention?

Thanks everyone for your comments!! She does seem to want my attention the more I ignore her. I am attracted to her as you migh figure.
But I'm not going after her (not as long as she's with that guy). It will be up to her to make a move. I wonder... If I keep ignoring her, will she eventually give in?
Well, I know it depends on what kind of person she is too.

Haha wow i just noticed how misunderstood us virgos are! after reading all these peoples opinions.
80% SOOOOO NOT TRUE!
Players? who are you kidding!

virgos..players?


LOL

Virgo's aren't misunderstood .... and yes, they are players.

No more than any other sign, each is individual, I know plenty of virgos that are not so! I can mess about and I can also be totally faithful. Don't generalise P-angel, is your husband a player?

Of course he is ... and you may not like to hear generalizations, but, the shoe fits, so oh well ... deal with it.


It's you who misunderstand yourselves, to be honest.


To the Virgo, they will give other people alot of attention ... more than they should. Why just look at the thread about the Virgo and 20-year-old-needs-a-ride-girl ... he provides to her an excessive amount of service .. which in turn, makes a person feel special.

so special that it makes her/him think there is more that the Virgo is hinting towards by all this attention, but, is just too shy to approach openly .... which leads to the other person being bold and attempting to approach ... which leads to the Virgo pulling back because they are confused as to why this person is coming onto them .. what happened ....

.... acting all innocent and shit ...


To you guys, you have no clue what you just did ..... so you have no understanding of yourselves in what just happened.

To other people, you just played around with our feelings .... and we have a clear understanding of you in what just happened.



Or at least, I got that all figured out ... maybe others don't.

Awesome so you married to a player— No I don't like to hear generalisations because the shoe does not fit everyone just like Cinderella! I don't misunderstand myself, I'm always learning yes, but I do not misunderstand. I as a Virgo haven't the balls to be player or would I be any good at it. So go figure!

Posted by unbroken
Awesome so you married to a player— No I don't like to hear generalisations because the shoe does not fit everyone just like Cinderella! I don't misunderstand myself, I'm always learning yes, but I do not misunderstand. I as a Virgo haven't the balls to be player or would I be any good at it. So go figure!

I just told you I was married to a Virgo, while making claim they are players, so why ask this question again?

You don't like to hear generalizations because you think the shoe doesn't fit, and yet you are on an astrology board, where astrology is based strickly on generalizations of signs being present in people.

Dah !!!!!!!!!!

Then leave if you don't like it .... what the fuck are you on a site that is strickly generalizations if you don't like it?

do you think Linda Goodman was talking about YOU specifically when she wrote her writeup on Virgos?

Alright, so you don't like it .... then how about a personal assumption about you specifically based purly on what you wrote in here, my own interpretation of your character, in my own fashion just about YOU ... so as to be strickly person specific .. would you like that better?

"haven't the balls"

Fucking coward .... any person who can openly admit they don't have the balls to do something is in my opinion a loser.



Does that make you feel better?

Apparantly you have no clue what perspective is .... in typical Virgo fashion, you think that how you feel is all there is, there are no other perceptions.


Daily, people come in here and say that their Virgo played with their feelings .... that the Virgo came on strong to make the other think he/she is a special person to whom the Virgo cherishes, and then once the other person responds, the Virgo pulls away and acts uninterested or too casual to feelings.

Now, to you .. it may not feel like this is the case, as it is happening to you and how you feel inside ... however, this is what other people say they experience with your kind ... and that is indeed a shoe that fits, if it's the majority of people saying they experience this.

I cannot tolerate stupid people ..... there is no shame in owning yourself, there is shame in denying it because you cannot handle self-growth for your own evolution.

Apparently I have no perspective p-angel according to you. I am far from stupid, so tolerate me as you will! Perspective is ones point of view, so chat away about my character whatever you want . I "haven't the balls" lets put this back into context please, I stated I haven't the balls to be a player. This does not make me a coward, I said I can mess about and I can be faithful but I never stated I am a player, I said I haven't the balls to be one. If you think I'm a coward because of this statement then cool that's sweet I'm not really arsed!

I have no problem with astrology and its generalisation I take it as it is, but you seem to speak like you are the be all and end all to all maters on this forum, you were the last person to speak on this thread so I answered. No I wont go because I dont like something you said, you are one tiny fragment of this site.

"in typical Virgo fashion, you think that how you feel is all there is, there are no other perceptions." Its a damn shame I'm a mother then cause my children would be fucked hey!! In typical p-angle fashion you say what you think and thats all good!

"I cannot tolerate stupid people ..... there is no shame in owning yourself, there is shame in denying it because you cannot handle self-growth for your own evolution." Well simply don't tolerate it then P-angle you don't have to answer 'stupid people' rest your case.....I can handle self growth but I fail to see where my self growth comes up in this thread I fortunately do not permanently live on an internet forum so judge me as you will doll!

So, there we have it, then ... you don't like general statements and you don't like person specific statements .. which means, you just don't like.


In typical Virgo fashion .... critical.


It isn't uncommon for a Virgo to be like you are .. in fact, you are common of your kind. For, most .... just don't like, and a great portion even hate.

I don't like generalisation because they are - general and person specific statements, still generalisation because you don't know me, I've posted a handful of times on dxp, I don't hate anybody or anything.

I'll bet you that if I posted something about Virgo's saying good things, things that you liked to hear, like for instance ... Virgo's are kind people and are always respectful and considerate of others .... then you wouldn't say a fucking word about you not liking generalizations because I don't know you.


In fact, I might just go through your posting history and I'll bet you I'll find something where a person said something .... generally speaking .... about Virgo's and your hypocritical mouth remained shut.

Nope You'll find a post about virgos being moody and I agreed. I don't think I'm perfect I just didn't agree with the idea that all virgos where players! If that makes me hypocritical then so be it go through my posting history if you can be that bothered. I don't think Virgos are that considerate actually in my opinion, can be but I think quite selfish me included.

Posted by unbroken
Nope You'll find a post about virgos being moody and I agreed. I don't think I'm perfect I just didn't agree with the idea that all virgos where players! If that makes me hypocritical then so be it go through my posting history if you can be that bothered. I don't think Virgos are that considerate actually in my opinion, can be but I think quite selfish me included.

I see .. so, you are allowed to say things .. generally speaking .. about Virgo's and so is whomever spoke about you being moody, and that's ok.

But, if someone says something about Virgo's ... generally speaking ... that you don't agree with, then it's ok to make comment to this person about it being wrong to make generalized comments about Virgo's.

In other words ...... you just proved my point.

And it makes you a hypocrite.


And seeing that you are hypocrite and know not ... I would make assumption that you are indeed a player like the one I described ... because you don't even know how what's been said here is relative to my point.

Posted by P-Angel
Of course he is ... and you may not like to hear generalizations, but, the shoe fits, so oh well ... deal with it.


It's you who misunderstand yourselves, to be honest.


To the Virgo, they will give other people alot of attention ... more than they should. Why just look at the thread about the Virgo and 20-year-old-needs-a-ride-girl ... he provides to her an excessive amount of service .. which in turn, makes a person feel special.

so special that it makes her/him think there is more that the Virgo is hinting towards by all this attention, but, is just too shy to approach openly .... which leads to the other person being bold and attempting to approach ... which leads to the Virgo pulling back because they are confused as to why this person is coming onto them .. what happened ....

.... acting all innocent and shit ...


To you guys, you have no clue what you just did ..... so you have no understanding of yourselves in what just happened.

To other people, you just played around with our feelings .... and we have a clear understanding of you in what just happened.



Or at least, I got that all figured out ... maybe others don't.

The above is the kind of player that I described in which I'm not positive you are a part of this group of people. Virgo's will indeed make a person feel so special inside that this other person is positive that they have found their soulmate, and then the moment this other person responds accordingly ....... the Virgo leaves them high and dry, along with thier injured feelings.

We see this daily.

And the Virgo has no clue what they just did. They cannot for the life of them fathom why this other person is so upset.

So, in your tither where you got your panties wadded up your ass about what I said, you never thought to see if I was meaning it as an intentional deed, or not .. and just automatically assumed that's how I meant it .... I would guess because you have guilty feelings.

Most people only respond like you did to a comment in which wasn't directed aimed straight towards them .... because they have a guilty conscientious. So, maybe in your case, you do know what you did.

But, I doubt it ... because you don't even know what I'm saying, so it's doubtful you'd know what you're doing when you emotionally fuck with people's feelings.

Nope I stated that we 'can' be moody, not that all virgos are moody, I answered from my point of view as I am a virgo. Assume away if you think I'm a player then cool, you generalised about virgos being players, I said that I know lots of virgos that were not players, I answered from my point of view not some fallacy out of thin air.

" ... in which I'm not positive you are a part of this group of people"



Correction ... **** now


in which I'm now positive you are a part of this group of people

Posted by unbroken
Nope I stated that we 'can' be moody, not that all virgos are moody, I answered from my point of view as I am a virgo. Assume away if you think I'm a player then cool, you generalised about virgos being players, I said that I know lots of virgos that were not players, I answered from my point of view not some fallacy out of thin air.

I'm not talking about your point of view on whether you think Virgo's are players or not, my child, LightIsDim .... I'm talking about how you reacted to generalizations on one hand, while the other is busy generalizing.


I know you don't get that LightIsDim, and think I am still talking about the subject of the generalization .... and I know you are unable to grasp it, LightIsDim ....


... carry on.



*** pats head ***

That is from an entirely different post p-angel, I would have answered that if that had been on this thread but it wasn't was it.

You may see it daily on dxp but thats because the majority of posts are about virgos being dickheads, rarely are there posts showing them in a better light because folk tend not to share that.

I have no guilty conscience I am a single woman enjoying being single I'm not with anybody or messing anybody about so that point is moot. I do know what you are saying you said virgos are players and I said not all of them. I asked if your husband was a player as I understand he is a virgo! Nothing to misunderstand really.

I didn't generalise I answered from my perspective being a virgo, nice to see you have to resort to name calling ace!!