@pooface222
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Virgo men. How should a woman show interest in you?
Not interested
Show him your titties.
Based on my personal experience with Virgos, depending on if they're the anal type (not anal the fun way, but anal as in picky) - they will notice you, not the other way around.
And it depends on a few things: whether you're their type or if you're TIDY and look clean. They're anal about that shit. And if you're acquainted beforehand, they'll notice if you're helpful towards them in a practical way. Grooming/sartorial advice, finance or good life tips.
And above all, HUMOR.
Neither we are cautious.
If you want to show interest do what sag women do.
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Based on my personal experience with Virgos, depending on if they're the anal type (not anal the fun way, but anal as in picky) - they will notice you, not the other way around.
And it depends on a few things: whether you're their type or if you're TIDY and look clean. They're anal about that shit. And if you're acquainted beforehand, they'll notice if you're helpful towards them in a practical way. Grooming/sartorial advice, finance or good life tips.
And above all, HUMOR.
Ah ok. Thanks x
I met him online. I started off by telling him he looks like James Bond. Its a messaging system. And the great thing was that 2yrs ago he had been to a James Bond event for Casino Royale and wore a tuxedo.
So...i instant connection.
Honestly though..I Hate dating apps. Meeting a guy like that is shit. All my life I have net my boyfriends in person. Usually at college or work or the gym. Meeting in real life is exciting!
I gave in to this dating app because i haven't met anyone and you already know my story with that Pisces guy i fell in love with deeply.
He messed me around so much that its been 7 YEARS just to tell me last month, that "I find it hard to leave a rship. Some people find it easy. I find it hard."
7 Years WASTED!
And I've lost my marriage, family, home and life!
I was going to do a separate post on this as an update.I may still do. I'm now a single mum. With depression. But in therapy. And I've come along way to getting back to Me. But although I have my own little 2 bed flat now (i used to have a 4 bed house with my husband) I only have my little girl half the time as custody is 50/50.
Pisces guy?
He still has EVERYTHING he had when we first met 7yrs ago. Eg he is still with her. Still living in her house. Still having their life together.
And as if that wasn't bad enough, since his divorce from his wife, 5 years ago, his then teenage son moved in with him and his partner for 2yrs. And now (2yrs ago), his son has gone to Bristol to study for
5yrs. And with all the money he has saved up from his divorce (and with a Mortgage), he bought a 2 bed house up there for his son and a lodger.
So now he can see his son whenever he wants to. Me? I have list half of my childs life along with everything else I had before I met him!
😭
Hence depression.
Anyway thanks so much as always for your very helpful advice x Ive read on astro websites that Virgos are fussy and picky etc so its nice to actually hear it from a real life point of view.
Neither we are cautious.
If you want to show interest do what sag women do.
Ok cool!
And this works?
Its been 5 days now and I want to see him in person...but scared to ask.
I've never met a Virgo who won't talk a lot if they are remotely interested in you
So he's not interested?
Neither we are cautious.
If you want to show interest do what sag women do.
I was about to say be overly flirtatious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1. They like to talk ALOT but mostly in person..texting mine is OK but when we are face to face he is a chatter box.
2. They like it when a woman tells them what they want. Meaning...if you want to see him... tell him that. They don't like it when women beat around the bush or throw out subtle hints.
You want to fuck him... tell him that. (This is not my opinion, this is what Virgo men have told me).
Neither we are cautious.
If you want to show interest do what sag women do.
Ok cool!
And this works?
Its been 5 days now and I want to see him in person...but scared to ask.
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Yes. Take the initiative you'll be fine.
Neither we are cautious.
If you want to show interest do what sag women do.
I was about to say be overly flirtatious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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They are never too shy to ask you for a date if they want one.
I've never met a Virgo who won't talk a lot if they are remotely interested in you
So he's not interested?
I don't know. I only know about Virgo women, maybe the men are different. Also, I'm a Gem so we share that mercurial connection Well, my neighbour is a Virgo male and we talk for ages usually 😅
I will say though that if you are really cut up about this Pisces then be careful not to let that come out too much as it would be too much too soon and could drive someone away before they even get to know you
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Oh I know..its ok. I'm going to mention him to a new guy. Only on here or to my best friend.
1. They like to talk ALOT but mostly in person..texting mine is OK but when we are face to face he is a chatter box.
2. They like it when a woman tells them what they want. Meaning...if you want to see him... tell him that. They don't like it when women beat around the bush or throw out subtle hints.
You want to fuck him... tell him that. (This is not my opinion, this is what Virgo men have told me).
I'm glad you said that because I have been beating around the bush! Why? Because i want HIM to ask me out.
So now i think I will message him flirtaciously and see what he says..
Neither we are cautious.
If you want to show interest do what sag women do.
I was about to say be overly flirtatious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1. They like to talk ALOT but mostly in person..texting mine is OK but when we are face to face he is a chatter box.
2. They like it when a woman tells them what they want. Meaning...if you want to see him... tell him that. They don't like it when women beat around the bush or throw out subtle hints.
You want to fuck him... tell him that. (This is not my opinion, this is what Virgo men have told me).
I'm glad you said that because I have been beating around the bush! Why? Because i want HIM to ask me out.
So now i think I will message him flirtaciously and see what he says..
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Yeah thats what I have been told by them: "this girl told me after the fact that she wanted to do blah blah blah and at that point I was done and told her she should have told me that b4. If you want to do something tell me, I hate that shit."
I've never met a Virgo who won't talk a lot if they are remotely interested in you
So he's not interested?
I don't know. I only know about Virgo women, maybe the men are different. Also, I'm a Gem so we share that mercurial connection Well, my neighbour is a Virgo male and we talk for ages usually 😅
I will say though that if you are really cut up about this Pisces then be careful not to let that come out too much as it would be too much too soon and could drive someone away before they even get to know you
Oh I know..its ok. I'm going to mention him to a new guy. Only on here or to my best friend.
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I meant NOT going to mention him to a new guy!
It could just be he's not a texter/into the messaging.
If your comfortable with it get him your phone number and have convo over the phone.
It could just be he's not a texter/into the messaging.
If your comfortable with it get him your phone number and have convo over the phone.
Excellent idea x thank you 😊
1. They like to talk ALOT but mostly in person..texting mine is OK but when we are face to face he is a chatter box.
2. They like it when a woman tells them what they want. Meaning...if you want to see him... tell him that. They don't like it when women beat around the bush or throw out subtle hints.
You want to fuck him... tell him that. (This is not my opinion, this is what Virgo men have told me).
I'm glad you said that because I have been beating around the bush! Why? Because i want HIM to ask me out.
So now i think I will message him flirtaciously and see what he says..
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Nooo please don’t do what they mentioned. No matter what sign the man is, let him lead. Trust me if he wants you, he will want to pursue you. Don’t make it easy and don’t meet him halfway. There’s needs to be some tention and you already validated him with the James Bond comment. Let him come to you, jist chill. Women only chase because their afraid of losing the man, just be easy.
You let him lead, but give plenty of hints.
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I'm chatting to one online for last 2 days. But he's not saying much.
Apparently Virgo men are shy.
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So is this the case? Or is he just not interested?