virgo personality when crushing?

I've read a lot of conflicting things about virgos when they have crushes...some say they're very shy and reserved and others say they relax and show their sense of humor and witty conversation to where they accidental friendzone themselves with crushes...??

My virgo crush used to be quite reserved, awkward and quiet with me and then now they've started being a looot more comfortable, making random remarks and stuff, to the point where it feels like we're friends and I'm wondering if maybe the crush isnt mutual?? How do you know which is which?

Im a get really awkward and shy kinda crushing Virgo

I would probably stay this way a long time unless u made me comfortable. By interactions with me.

I say affection, pay attention to physical affection. I always have a hard time being or even standing close to my crush. But also I get really clumsy🤣🤣

So watch for casual touches, I would never ever ever touch my crush....unless I was sure he liked me back but even then probably not..

Just a guy friend I might totally laugh and touch is arm...well Becuz it’s just innocent means nothing

my voice become smol and I feel like slapping myself

From observing the ones I know, they go into extremes. Either being shy and not able to make any moves (if they can’t tell whether their crush is interested or not), or jump in bed with the person ASAP (if the crush is physically friendly with them).

Virgos are witches.. Just accept that. Probably you can make sense of it.

Posted by Earthy

Im a get really awkward and shy kinda crushing Virgo

I would probably stay this way a long time unless u made me comfortable. By interactions with me.

I say affection, pay attention to physical affection. I always have a hard time being or even standing close to my crush. But also I get really clumsy🤣🤣

So watch for casual touches, I would never ever ever touch my crush....unless I was sure he liked me back but even then probably not..

Just a guy friend I might totally laugh and touch is arm...well Becuz it’s just innocent means nothing

Truest shit ever.

You'll know a male virgo is crushing on you because they'll become very distant from you emotionally as well as the literal, physical distance between you. We will talk to everyone but you. We will betray all outward shows of any interest..... it's really highly effective towards initiating love. Think George in Back to the Future.

But then when a male virgo feels comfortable/confident you like them back, it's a complete 180. Then they let their true self out with slow, increasing intensity.

The biggest misconception is that Virgos aren't confident or we're afraid to pull the trigger. Not the case at all. We are just reserved, poker-faced, and slow to action until we know for sure.

That's the key. You don't need to make the first move, you just need to let us know. Don't assault us with your feelings and any declarations. Don't corner us. But just make it obvious as fuck your into us without saying it, and we'll ask you out when we're ready. It'll likely be a few months, probz next season, so settle in. Love's not going anywhere. True love shouldn't expire. Don't rush. Enjoy every step of the way. If you actually want us, you'll stick around. Have some faith. We won't let you don't.

Posted by IceVirg

Posted by Earthy

Im a get really awkward and shy kinda crushing Virgo

I would probably stay this way a long time unless u made me comfortable. By interactions with me.

I say affection, pay attention to physical affection. I always have a hard time being or even standing close to my crush. But also I get really clumsy🤣🤣

So watch for casual touches, I would never ever ever touch my crush....unless I was sure he liked me back but even then probably not..

Just a guy friend I might totally laugh and touch is arm...well Becuz it’s just innocent means nothing

Truest shit ever.

You'll know a male virgo is crushing on you because they'll become very distant from you emotionally as well as the literal, physical distance between you. We will talk to everyone but you. We will betray all outward shows of any interest..... it's really highly effective towards initiating love. Think George in Back to the Future.

But then when a male virgo feels comfortable/confident you like them back, it's a complete 180. Then they let their true self out with slow, increasing intensity.

The biggest misconception is that Virgos aren't confident or we're afraid to pull the trigger. Not the case at all. We are just reserved, poker-faced, and slow to action until we know for sure.

That's the key. You don't need to make the first move, you just need to let us know. Don't assault us with your feelings and any declarations. Don't corner us. But just make it obvious as fuck your into us without saying it, and we'll ask you out when we're ready. It'll likely be a few months, probz next season, so settle in. Love's not going anywhere. True love shouldn't expire. Don't rush. Enjoy every step of the way. If you actually want us, you'll stick around. Have some faith. We won't let you don't.

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Help please! Lol. And how exactly do I let the Virgo man know without being too much? It is driving me insane. I'm also worried of being rejected because he seems like a busy guy with working a lot and hes always painting which is also like a second job to him.

This guy has told me he wondered why I act so nice to him. Hes also said "why me? Why do you want me lol?" Lol I kept playing it cool because I read if you try to force the Virgo man in anything he will run. I just kept playing it cool and said "I think you're cool and we got a long well when we met" but then I act so nice to him and give him a lot of things/cook for him lol. It starting to feel like I'm chasing him but I dont know if he is aware? I think hes a bit clueless to it like he just thinks I'm being nice and friendly? because I'm also playing it cool.

He sometimes acted like he likes me with very subtle signs like asking if I got home safe, putting his arm on me, liking all my pictures etc. He also before would say he wanted to do a lot of things and go places with me and then he acts distant as hell and pretends to be all busy. Lol I have a feeling he somewhat likes me but is clueless to all my attempts. This is getting very frustrating. I dont know what to say to him anymore. I really like him and dont want to blow it