Virgo women and obsession

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Yes, thats when you know the notorious Virgo self sabotage is activated. Almost all Virgos have insecurities of ''not being enough'' so they want you to be desperate for their approval(obsessed) because it makes the Virgo feel safe and valued

Most times they wait till you have fallen deep to test your feelings for them. To accomplish that, Virgos hide their feelings so that the other person will assume all chemistry is lost and in that way see how mad you will go about them, which they equate to loyalty

When my Virgo tried this, I didnt give him any reaction. Not because Im a badass, I was actually deeply hurt but I wont expend one joule of energy on people who make me feel neglected or manipulated. Im not in the business of begging people to respect or value/love me. You either respect me or you dont have access to me. I'll just make note and make sure I dont allow anyone who belittles my feelings, in my space

So when we saw each other a few days later, he got angry with me for ''ignoring'' him but in reality he was angry because he couldnt move me like a puppet for his validation

I feel like Virgos turn obsessive people into their convenience people and entertain/use them because of perks and for attention. The less you react to their self sabotage, the more they value you and will do right by you


Damn the Virgo I used to see was doing all this and I never gave a reaction but after the last self sabotage, I just chose to cut him off cause I don’t play games.

Hahahahaha. Now I feel kind of bad. I had no clue he was just looking for validation or what my feelings were. I just thought he wanted to see my angry.

Poor guy lol. #HoeWell

I’m on to the next Virgo. But I think this one I will let self sabotage cause he’s way more loving and nice. I won’t mind showing him that I throw major fits when I’m unhappy lol
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Yes lmaooo.

But as someone said, only if I’m obsessed w/ them too.

Which is why scorpio men were so appealing to me at some point. I loved the idea of someone being obsessed with me. But that was when I was a dummyhead bc Scorp men will never obsess over a Virgo the way we think we would.

We on the fire sign man wave now 😈


They do when you have fixed placements

Its kinda scary and lovely all at the same time lol
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Does this also count for Virgo moons? Because honestly if a person isn't up my ass 24/7 I quickly lose interest. It's not intentional. It's just that when I'm into someone I can't get enough of them. If the person I'm dating doesn't feel the same then the relationship is dead in the water. Fish pun intended.

This doesn't mean we suffocate each other and don't occassionally give space. Just that we communicate with each other in some form daily just to maintain that intimacy, even just a text.


so this is what a Virgo moon wants
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Yes, thats when you know the notorious Virgo self sabotage is activated. Almost all Virgos have insecurities of ''not being enough'' so they want you to be desperate for their approval(obsessed) because it makes the Virgo feel safe and valued

Most times they wait till you have fallen deep to test your feelings for them. To accomplish that, Virgos hide their feelings so that the other person will assume all chemistry is lost and in that way see how mad you will go about them, which they equate to loyalty

When my Virgo tried this, I didnt give him any reaction. Not because Im a badass, I was actually deeply hurt but I wont expend one joule of energy on people who make me feel neglected or manipulated. Im not in the business of begging people to respect or value/love me. You either respect me or you dont have access to me. I'll just make note and make sure I dont allow anyone who belittles my feelings, in my space

So when we saw each other a few days later, he got angry with me for ''ignoring'' him but in reality he was angry because he couldnt move me like a puppet for his validation

I feel like Virgos turn obsessive people into their convenience people and entertain/use them because of perks and for attention. The less you react to their self sabotage, the more they value you and will do right by you


Virgos are crazy insecure don't matter how good-looking we are.

i got annoyed with a Virgo man before coz he'd always question if i was engaged until i started to think HE was engaged haha. then this Virgo moon man i'm dealing with now would tell me how he thought i'd forgotten him. then at first i would initiate messaging him a lot but when he realized that i'm not going to disappear anytime soon, he started to take more initiative.

the insecurity is so annoying coz DUDE if you only know how OBSESSED i am with you fuck man.
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Does this also count for Virgo moons? Because honestly if a person isn't up my ass 24/7 I quickly lose interest. It's not intentional. It's just that when I'm into someone I can't get enough of them. If the person I'm dating doesn't feel the same then the relationship is dead in the water. Fish pun intended.

This doesn't mean we suffocate each other and don't occassionally give space. Just that we communicate with each other in some form daily just to maintain that intimacy, even just a text.

so this is what a Virgo moon wants

Well it's what I want lol. My dominant love style is quality time. I'm a pisces with a Virgo moon so maybe that's just me. I know the Libra and Virgo suns I met with virgo moon loved to spend time together a lot as well. Halalbabe is a Gemini with virgo moon so her love style may be different. 🤔
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okay so how do i let a Virgo moon man know i'm obsessed with him without me having to say it?
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Initially they like being fawned over. With time, any little mistake and they start nagging. It'll turn off even the most obsessed man.

Been there, dumped that. 💔


That's cause scorps smother when they start to get into you. The Scorp I dated... literally rearranged his couch because even tho I was sitting right next to him...it wasn't close enough 😑. Then to top it off...he had to have his arm around my neck while we watched TV or movie (do you know how uncomfortable that is?!)...I guess in case I tried to escape 😂. Then you all pick and pick and pick until you piss us off or maybe just me 😂
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

we are always obsessed
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How can you be obsessed but then disappear and need space at the same time?
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort
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What does that mean?
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

we are always obsessed

How can you be obsessed but then disappear and need space at the same time?
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i get scared sometimes when i get obsessed so that happens

but i can't really let it go so i go back

you just gotta wait for some people to embrace their obsession
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort

What does that mean?
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Look at virgo as a career

At first you start off as a janitor mopping floors emptying trash bins.

Soon your working the grill.

Then your an assistant manager.

Before you know it you own that McDonalds.

Less work more comfort.

When you think virgo think mcdonalds!
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

we are always obsessed

How can you be obsessed but then disappear and need space at the same time?

i get scared sometimes when i get obsessed so that happens

but i can't really let it go so i go back

you just gotta wait for some people to embrace their obsession
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My obsession is always embraced. I love it. I’m super comfy sitting inside my thoughts and being a weirdo and no one knows about it except me! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort

What does that mean?

Look at virgo as a career

At first you start off as a janitor mopping floors emptying trash bins.

Soon your working the grill.

Then your an assistant manager.

Before you know it you own that McDonalds.

Less work more comfort.

When you think virgo think mcdonalds!
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So basically time.

This was way too much of an explanation. I’m too literal to think of a person in reference to a career.

But time has no boundaries. What could take 2 days for some can take 2 years to others. It’s not a helpful explanation at all

But thank you anyways, I guess
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

we are always obsessed

How can you be obsessed but then disappear and need space at the same time?

I asked this same question long ago when I was dating the Sag... That mutuable is verily there with Sags. I mean Virgos needs space likes Sags want space too. Why not?
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I guess people have ale had a problem with this. And Sag don’t really need space at all. We need freedom to do what we want, when we want to do it, without someone trying to block us or restrict us. There’s a difference.

I adapt quickly and if I like you there would be no reason to stay away from you. I don’t need to adapt to a person to fit them into my life. If I like the person enough they can come and go whenever they want. But I prefer them to stay and chill beside me.
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort

What does that mean?

Look at virgo as a career

At first you start off as a janitor mopping floors emptying trash bins.

Soon your working the grill.

Then your an assistant manager.

Before you know it you own that McDonalds.

Less work more comfort.

When you think virgo think mcdonalds!

So basically time.

This was way too much of an explanation. I’m too literal to think of a person in reference to a career.

But time has no boundaries. What could take 2 days for some can take 2 years to others. It’s not a helpful explanation at all

But thank you anyways, I guess
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Not time... EFFORT.

Time doesn't make anything work if you have no effort.
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort

What does that mean?

Look at virgo as a career

At first you start off as a janitor mopping floors emptying trash bins.

Soon your working the grill.

Then your an assistant manager.

Before you know it you own that McDonalds.

Less work more comfort.

When you think virgo think mcdonalds!

So basically time.

This was way too much of an explanation. I’m too literal to think of a person in reference to a career.

But time has no boundaries. What could take 2 days for some can take 2 years to others. It’s not a helpful explanation at all

But thank you anyways, I guess

Not time... EFFORT.

Time doesn't make anything work if you have no effort.
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Chasing a guy— Is this what you’re talking about. 🙄🙄🙄

Freaking men.

I can do back and forth as long as it’s balanced. I’m not willing to hunt a man down and put in more effort then him.

And I honestly don’t even get your style of communication. It’s either too short and not enough explanatory info or too long and obscure or vague.

You must have either a Scorpio Mercury or Pisces Mercury by the way you talk.

I’m too literal and direct to look for hidden meanings and assume. I can only deal in straight info and facts.
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort

What does that mean?

Look at virgo as a career

At first you start off as a janitor mopping floors emptying trash bins.

Soon your working the grill.

Then your an assistant manager.

Before you know it you own that McDonalds.

Less work more comfort.

When you think virgo think mcdonalds!

So basically time.

This was way too much of an explanation. I’m too literal to think of a person in reference to a career.

But time has no boundaries. What could take 2 days for some can take 2 years to others. It’s not a helpful explanation at all

But thank you anyways, I guess

Not time... EFFORT.

Time doesn't make anything work if you have no effort.

Chasing a guy— Is this what you’re talking about. 🙄🙄🙄

Freaking men.

I can do back and forth as long as it’s balanced. I’m not willing to hunt a man down and put in more effort then him.

And I honestly don’t even get your style of communication. It’s either too short and not enough explanatory info or too long and obscure or vague.

You must have either a Scorpio Mercury or Pisces Mercury by the way you talk.

I’m too literal and direct to look for hidden meanings and assume. I can only deal in straight info and facts.
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no i have virgo mercury........
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Damn. All this getting close and texting a lot. Maybe the Virgos I deal with don’t actually like me at all. Cause we both just end up not texting or only when it’s time to meet up and talking on the phone at all.

I obsess privately, I never show it. I didn’t even know Virgos obsess.

Levels of comfort

What does that mean?

Look at virgo as a career

At first you start off as a janitor mopping floors emptying trash bins.

Soon your working the grill.

Then your an assistant manager.

Before you know it you own that McDonalds.

Less work more comfort.

When you think virgo think mcdonalds!

So basically time.

This was way too much of an explanation. I’m too literal to think of a person in reference to a career.

But time has no boundaries. What could take 2 days for some can take 2 years to others. It’s not a helpful explanation at all

But thank you anyways, I guess

Not time... EFFORT.

Time doesn't make anything work if you have no effort.

Chasing a guy— Is this what you’re talking about. 🙄🙄🙄

Freaking men.

I can do back and forth as long as it’s balanced. I’m not willing to hunt a man down and put in more effort then him.

And I honestly don’t even get your style of communication. It’s either too short and not enough explanatory info or too long and obscure or vague.

You must have either a Scorpio Mercury or Pisces Mercury by the way you talk.

I’m too literal and direct to look for hidden meanings and assume. I can only deal in straight info and facts.

no i have virgo mercury........
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Oh, that would've been my third guess lol. The last Virgo I dated had this mercury and we were always getting things wrong.

Man I'm having a serious hard time today with communication. Things are just not coming through at all and I'm super stressed for no reason 😭

There's like an urgency for something unknown, but nothing to do to let the sense of urgency release.
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Yes lmaooo.

But as someone said, only if I’m obsessed w/ them too.

Which is why scorpio men were so appealing to me at some point. I loved the idea of someone being obsessed with me. But that was when I was a dummyhead bc Scorp men will never obsess over a Virgo the way we think we would.

We on the fire sign man wave now 😈

They do when you have fixed placements

Its kinda scary and lovely all at the same time lol
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Oh I only have Leo Venus as fixed in my personal planets which is probably why
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Yes lmaooo.

But as someone said, only if I’m obsessed w/ them too.

Which is why scorpio men were so appealing to me at some point. I loved the idea of someone being obsessed with me. But that was when I was a dummyhead bc Scorp men will never obsess over a Virgo the way we think we would.

We on the fire sign man wave now 😈

The reason i posted this was actually because lately my bf is starting obsessing over me. He is scorpio. He becomes suspicious of me. And he always wants to be with me. Like, he will do anything to spend time with me. I don't know i can better put his love for me here. But i believe as he told me once that,"no one will love you like i do". And sometimes i feel it when he says that. Many scorpios have been obsessed over us virgos. But we tend to not give into them. I think a scorpio needs a person who puts them in their place not someone who gives too much. I am not saying that they dont like selfless people, they just want someone who can give them wake up call (fear of losing them). Do that, and they will treat you like queen and always care for you.
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Yes lmaooo.

But as someone said, only if I’m obsessed w/ them too.

Which is why scorpio men were so appealing to me at some point. I loved the idea of someone being obsessed with me. But that was when I was a dummyhead bc Scorp men will never obsess over a Virgo the way we think we would.

We on the fire sign man wave now 😈

The reason i posted this was actually because lately my bf is starting obsessing over me. He is scorpio. He becomes suspicious of me. And he always wants to be with me. Like, he will do anything to spend time with me. I don't know i can better put his love for me here. But i believe as he told me once that,"no one will love you like i do". And sometimes i feel it when he says that. Many scorpios have been obsessed over us virgos. But we tend to not give into them. I think a scorpio needs a person who puts them in their place not someone who gives too much. I am not saying that they dont like selfless people, they just want someone who can give them wake up call (fear of losing them). Do that, and they will treat you like queen and always care for you.
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I like that obsession on a healthy level, I'm the same and want it given back to me. But don't try to put me in a box like Boxing Helena or skin me and wear me as a coat. Then we're good. He could be testing to see if you can match his intensity of obsession....
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Yes, thats when you know the notorious Virgo self sabotage is activated. Almost all Virgos have insecurities of ''not being enough'' so they want you to be desperate for their approval(obsessed) because it makes the Virgo feel safe and valued

Most times they wait till you have fallen deep to test your feelings for them. To accomplish that, Virgos hide their feelings so that the other person will assume all chemistry is lost and in that way see how mad you will go about them, which they equate to loyalty

When my Virgo tried this, I didnt give him any reaction. Not because Im a badass, I was actually deeply hurt but I wont expend one joule of energy on people who make me feel neglected or manipulated. Im not in the business of begging people to respect or value/love me. You either respect me or you dont have access to me. I'll just make note and make sure I dont allow anyone who belittles my feelings, in my space

So when we saw each other a few days later, he got angry with me for ''ignoring'' him but in reality he was angry because he couldnt move me like a puppet for his validation

I feel like Virgos turn obsessive people into their convenience people and entertain/use them because of perks and for attention. The less you react to their self sabotage, the more they value you and will do right by you


Girl you couldn't be more correct. I once dated this Virgo attorney who thought his shit didn't stink. He would say things to try to make me jealous. I could see right through that game and didn't give the reaction he wanted but acted like I didn't care because I don't want anyone who doesn't want me. He actually had the nerve to say if I cared for him I would fight for the relationship against some other chick. I'm way too lazy for anything like that so he went as far as asking her to marry him and when he still didn't get a reaction from me he called the engagement off and asked what was my problem. He was my problem and I got rid of it. They love to play games.
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Initially they like being fawned over. With time, any little mistake and they start nagging. It'll turn off even the most obsessed man.

Been there, dumped that. 💔

That's cause scorps smother when they start to get into you. The Scorp I dated... literally rearranged his couch because even tho I was sitting right next to him...it wasn't close enough 😑. Then to top it off...he had to have his arm around my neck while we watched TV or movie (do you know how uncomfortable that is?!)...I guess in case I tried to escape 😂. Then you all pick and pick and pick until you piss us off or maybe just me 😂

😭😭😭😭@ in case you tried to escape 😭

My ex said to me once...” where are u going...oh, thought u were tryna escape”, I died laughing 😂🤦🏽‍♀️
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The possessiveness is def real! Lol
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Initially they like being fawned over. With time, any little mistake and they start nagging. It'll turn off even the most obsessed man.

Been there, dumped that. 💔

That's cause scorps smother when they start to get into you. The Scorp I dated... literally rearranged his couch because even tho I was sitting right next to him...it wasn't close enough 😑. Then to top it off...he had to have his arm around my neck while we watched TV or movie (do you know how uncomfortable that is?!)...I guess in case I tried to escape 😂. Then you all pick and pick and pick until you piss us off or maybe just me 😂

😭😭😭😭@ in case you tried to escape 😭

My ex said to me once...” where are u going...oh, thought u were tryna escape”, I died laughing 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

The possessiveness is def real! Lol

I never dated a scorp, although curious of how it would be, too skeptical of the aftermath. I always read how they try to pay you back when they feel you wronged them, and how vindictive they can get...I don’t want to end up with a vindictive stalker, after the breakup 🙅🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😂
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Definitely true for the unevolved ones but so far hasn't been my experience with the one I dated... although he could be in a plotting phase 😂
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Initially they like being fawned over. With time, any little mistake and they start nagging. It'll turn off even the most obsessed man.

Been there, dumped that. 💔

That's cause scorps smother when they start to get into you. The Scorp I dated... literally rearranged his couch because even tho I was sitting right next to him...it wasn't close enough 😑. Then to top it off...he had to have his arm around my neck while we watched TV or movie (do you know how uncomfortable that is?!)...I guess in case I tried to escape 😂. Then you all pick and pick and pick until you piss us off or maybe just me 😂

😭😭😭😭@ in case you tried to escape 😭

My ex said to me once...” where are u going...oh, thought u were tryna escape”, I died laughing 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

The possessiveness is def real! Lol

I never dated a scorp, although curious of how it would be, too skeptical of the aftermath. I always read how they try to pay you back when they feel you wronged them, and how vindictive they can get...I don’t want to end up with a vindictive stalker, after the breakup 🙅🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😂

Definitely true for the unevolved ones but so far hasn't been my experience with the one I dated... although he could be in a plotting phase 😂

Hopefully not! 😂

I posted a topic, here, about after a relationship ends with scorp. This woman had a very terrible experience, with her scorp ex basically stalking and harassing her for yrs before he left her alone, which only happened after a restraining order and court proceedings. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Who has time for that bleep? 🙋🏽Not I! 😂 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m just more paranoid when it comes to scorp men and possible dating. Bc they live in a world of black and white, it’s more believable to think bc they no longer love you, they will hate you (with no in between). My scorp coworker can be the sweetest person alive, unless he doesn’t like you, then he’s Lucifer, with no empathy for that person.
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They sometimes push away the very same thing they also crave. That fear of losing the control is very real thing and it takes a lot of shit for them to go thru to get to a place of being ok with it. It's a hard thing to balance.
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Yes lmaooo.

But as someone said, only if I’m obsessed w/ them too.

Which is why scorpio men were so appealing to me at some point. I loved the idea of someone being obsessed with me. But that was when I was a dummyhead bc Scorp men will never obsess over a Virgo the way we think we would.

We on the fire sign man wave now 😈


yas, you find yourself a leo RIGHT NOW 🙏🏻
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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Yes lmaooo.

But as someone said, only if I’m obsessed w/ them too.

Which is why scorpio men were so appealing to me at some point. I loved the idea of someone being obsessed with me. But that was when I was a dummyhead bc Scorp men will never obsess over a Virgo the way we think we would.

We on the fire sign man wave now 😈

yas, you find yourself a leo RIGHT NOW 🙏🏻
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