virgo women and pressure.

Do Virgo women really hate pressure? I tried dating Virgo women ..tried asking them out and they would always tell me ..they don't want a relationship or they have a bf..they also look all upset and frustrated when they say it. But as soon as I back off and do me..they start feeling some type of way..become upset with me yelling at me for talking to other women. Its so weird. My Virgo ex I live with its even worst when I use to try and ask to be with her..she gives me the whole run down and looks so upset and frustrated.
I am wondering does the pressure make them go crazy knowing that someone wants a answer right then and there and it came unexpectedly. Do they just like to do it in there own time so they can have thought about all the what If.

Pay attention to their actions not words.

I see that now..I need a.. Scorpio