Virgos and your emos (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by DMV on Friday, July 18, 2014 and has 62 replies.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I agree about Limm's post.

Oh face to face conversations..I think I get what you're saying now. Yes, if the other party isn't someone we consider close (and our reasoning for considering people close is very weird), than the Virgo will feel uncomfortable and will try to evade the conversation. Not because of ego or refusal to admit, because it makes us feel icky in the moment. And sometimes we also don't give enough of a fuck to explain ourselves. That is selfish so..yeah.

I usually feel close to people and don't have walls built around me so I cannot really relate. I don't know what vibe I give off...that is more for the other person to judge. But I have no qualms discussing my flaws. Approach is essential, more essential is intent. Do you genuinely want to bring a convo up to discuss it? I'm game. A lot of people just bring stuff up to bring you down and that's not the energy I'm on.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tiziani
Also if I had one wish for you guys, Virgo or non-Virgos, it would be to just leave emotions in the context of the bigger picture of character. It's just one facet of it. These debates on emotions are so superficial and myopic it just seems to be robbing people of life experience in many ways.

This too. I think I got a little bit too emotionally involved in this topic. Not impending on my clarity..but still. It was about something else, not the supremacy of emotions. I went with that until I got sidetracked.

*goes back to stare into puddles* 😄

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Tiz, you know when a convo turns weird and it makes you feel odd? Not because of ego or because you refuse to have it or because it's about how's wrong or right..it's just a different wave length. Sometimes it's as easy as not being in a good mood.

I felt the different wave length in this topic which isn't anyone's fault. I still think variety rules 😄

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@TMV
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I find myself wondering why people think Virgos should wear their flaws on their sleeves with even casual acquaintances. That doesn't make sense.

If you're looking for someone who makes a show of nailing themselves to crosses I'll happily give directions to the Pisces board.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by TMV
I find myself wondering why people think Virgos should wear their flaws on their sleeves with even casual acquaintances. That doesn't make sense.

If you're looking for someone who makes a show of nailing themselves to crosses I'll happily give directions to the Pisces board.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Tavrine
A question for this position, is it that you dislikes for getting pitiful/feeling sorry from other people?

Yes, and it's not because I'm on some high and mighty ego trip. It's because no matter how worse it gets, I am not a victim of my life..there's no need for pity or anything of that sort. I don't hold it against them but it's just...so foreign for me.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by CluelessCancer
Damnata your ego is obnoxious. It really depends on the Virgo there are virgos that whine and complain all day/who can't balance sheet out, and then there's those that use others...and then there are the stoic one's..private.those are rare...

I'm in neither category based on the two you provided..or rather I'm in both and 3 more lol.

I don't feel like adding a disclaimer to my every post with "in MY personal experience, going by what I PERCEIVE and what I've seen in people I KNOW"..it should be implied everyone is speaking out of personal experience here. In the mean time, my obnoxious ego will have to suffice. My motivation is to help, if I can and if it's a different poster asking something about Virgos or a different question being asked. Repeating myself ad infinitum to the same people lends no results.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by CluelessCancer

Dam, does the SW disrespect you make you want to please her even more?

do you want to be liked by her?

Just got back in the house.

There is no one who can disrespect you on the internetz. I don't take this site as seriously as some people do. And in real life..you won't hear people go "I feel disrespected"..they'll just walk away.

I like her brash style , nothing against her. She's just been more of a try hard lately than her usual self..and her usual self was cool as it was. Too much trying to come across as hitleresque. We Earth Women don't fool anybody..we're softies deep down. + I can't take e-feuds seriously and I don't think she does either. This being said, a touch of humbleness would suit her. As it would me, probably lol.

(btw I know you were going for a "Virgo are masochists 😄" theme with this question 😛)

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tiziani
LOL

there is truly no question that is off limits to CC.

That's one of the lovely things about the net...few people dare to ask weird questions in reality or anything deemed uncomfortable...and those that do, get banned for life by the Libra community.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Damnata

Posted by tiziani
LOL

there is truly no question that is off limits to CC.

That's one of the lovely things about the net...few people dare to ask weird questions in reality or anything deemed uncomfortable...and those that do, get banned for life by the Libra community.

I lead a different life. My godmother is like CC. I have other people too, that ask the right questions.

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I love questions in general 😄..makes for good convo. God knows I dish a fair share of weird ones lol