If I get hurt.. and IF, I'll keep it to my self till I find a way out of the rut...! as I am not a person of compromising in anyway (unless its matter of life and death), usually I will forget and forgive and hit the road of my own destiny, where ever it takes me..!
But its me?and this behaviour has nothing to do with the Virgoness..!
This is one of those areas where i think baggage and hang-ups (or lack thereof if you're lucky) probably supercede sign....although sign will probably exacerbate certain reactions...
Clear boundaries and lines? no compromising?!! Draw the line where you are and what you are expecting in the first place?.. believe me it saves you a lot of head and heart ache?!!
all successful relationships do have boundaries where you set your needs/wants as well as your partner's. then see if this needs/wants are capable to be met. of course it will take honesty and sincerity to know what these needs are but there's no soul on earth who will have a clue what these needs are without talking things through and that's when compromises takes place.
Draw the line where you are and what you are expecting in the first place?..
yeah this is best for those who don't want to succeed in their relationship and just let the relationship go down the drain.
believe me it saves you a lot of head and heart ache?!!
if you think so, if living without them will make you feel better.
if my husband want me to compromise on things that i am against with. i don't think that he's cheating on me? why will i ever think that way?
It is common and superficial example?. I am talking about deeper things..! a basis and primary things..! things that you can base and build your life upon it.. a solid base?!!
If I don't like certain behaviour of my lady, then I am obliged to tell her that I do not appreciate the behaviour..!
If it continues, then will I make compromise to save the relation or feel like an ass that never been taken seriously enough for the rest of the ?relationHELL? period...?
ok good luck then on your search of that special soul whom you won't need to compromise with to save you from "heartaches and headaches" and at the same time have a fulfilling relationship.
ha ha, nothing in particular but I just found it curious that you mentioned something like "youre a Virgo, alright" when youre usually telling everyone that whatever is being discussed doesnt have to do with "Virgoness" as you call it..
I'm new here and come to ask for some help all those who can give me some information on virgo...I have a fliend who;s virgo and we really enjoy eachother's company. I think I like him but I'm not sure about his feelings to me...he i
But its me?and this behaviour has nothing to do with the Virgoness..!