Virgos When Hurt (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by FallingForVirgo on Sunday, December 24, 2006 and has 86 replies.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

If I get hurt.. and IF, I'll keep it to my self till I find a way out of the rut...! as I am not a person of compromising in anyway (unless its matter of life and death), usually I will forget and forgive and hit the road of my own destiny, where ever it takes me..!

But its me?and this behaviour has nothing to do with the Virgoness..!

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@cancerLA
20 Years500+ Posts

This is one of those areas where i think baggage and hang-ups (or lack thereof if you're lucky) probably supercede sign....although sign will probably exacerbate certain reactions...

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

vgurl

If you are honest with your relationship and make it understood in the first place, then there will be no need for compromises? !

Compromises are for the cheaters and deceivers? politicians?!

I've said it before..

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Clear boundaries and lines? no compromising?!! Draw the line where you are and what you are expecting in the first place?.. believe me it saves you a lot of head and heart ache?!!

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@vgurl
19 Years500+ PostsVirgo

Clear boundaries and lines? no compromising?!!

all successful relationships do have boundaries where you set your needs/wants as well as your partner's. then see if this needs/wants are capable to be met. of course it will take honesty and sincerity to know what these needs are but there's no soul on earth who will have a clue what these needs are without talking things through and that's when compromises takes place.

Draw the line where you are and what you are expecting in the first place?..

yeah this is best for those who don't want to succeed in their relationship and just let the relationship go down the drain.

believe me it saves you a lot of head and heart ache?!!

if you think so, if living without them will make you feel better.

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

if my husband want me to compromise on things that i am against with. i don't think that he's cheating on me? why will i ever think that way?

It is common and superficial example?. I am talking about deeper things..! a basis and primary things..! things that you can base and build your life upon it.. a solid base?!!

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

See... thats the trick....

If I don't like certain behaviour of my lady, then I am obliged to tell her that I do not appreciate the behaviour..!

If it continues, then will I make compromise to save the relation or feel like an ass that never been taken seriously enough for the rest of the ?relationHELL? period...?

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

It would be nice if hearts in love could speak to each other, but, they can't.

There's no way of knowing how the heart feels unless one tells the other.

Call it boundaries, call it comprimises, call it whatever you want . .but, this still has to be communicated to each other.

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@vgurl
19 Years500+ PostsVirgo

ok good luck then on your search of that special soul whom you won't need to compromise with to save you from "heartaches and headaches" and at the same time have a fulfilling relationship.

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@vgurl
19 Years500+ PostsVirgo

ha ha, nothing in particular but I just found it curious that you mentioned something like "youre a Virgo, alright" when youre usually telling everyone that whatever is being discussed doesnt have to do with "Virgoness" as you call it..

gotcha 😛

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Yes that's correct.. Virgoness is something like a frame..as I said it before? a FRAME..

What is in this frame is important not the frame.. You would decorate your art in FRAME not the art because of the FRAME?

Ring a bell..??

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Jovial shaka...

You have no idea for what I am and what I do in my life?

Just wanted you to know it is not VIRGONESS..! It is personal choice/ethics and family back grounds..

And the societies effects..!

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

These ladies complaining about their relationsship with the Virgos... they can't handle us...

They want slaves. (We are not)? looking for solutions...!!

They won't GET it, cause they are not honest and think that Virgos are stupid as they are..?!

To hell with them all..!!

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

It's all about UNIVERSALITIES?nothing more and nothing less...

If anyone understands it... sigh..

Now... start these stupid arguments... Like my dick is bigger than yours..!

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Sorry roxi...

I should included the females part too.. sorry about my ignorance..

Correcting above.. also included.. ?my crack is tighter than yours? too..

Feel better..??