karebear
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What Did He Mean
Last sentence carries a cunt flavor to it.
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I'm curious where you read that Virgo don't communicate because that's not true. We communicate with people we're interested in which sadly means I don't think he's that into you.
Unless you text something completely ambiguous... you texting should have triggered him to knowing who you are unless he's such a player he has a plethora of girls texting him in which case - good riddance anyway.
I think you can do better and find other men.
Unless you text something completely ambiguous... you texting should have triggered him to knowing who you are unless he's such a player he has a plethora of girls texting him in which case - good riddance anyway.
I think you can do better and find other men.
Posted by karebearGiving his number to you wasn't him pursuing you. He wants you to be able to reach him next time you come into town so he can fuck you again.
I took it a step further and asked him why did he even give me his number to begin with. We live over 800 miles away from each other, so it would have been easier if we had just ended everything during my vacation. I did not get a response.
However, once he gave me his number, I felt like that we could be working on developing some kind of relationship. I'm not saying that the relationship would be romantic and we would start dating, but a friendship.Okay, if I was honest, I would say that I would hope that we would be working on a friendship that has the possibility of growing into something bigger.
I'm single and I have no children. I have a job that will allow me to work anywhere in the United States from home, so those are not factors on my end. My problem is he has not been into verbal communication as I am, so I feel stuck.
He hasn't made an effort to get to know you/continue the conversation. Its pretty obvious that he's not interested in a relationship with you.
Your telling yourself you only want a friendship with him but then also considering moving to be closer to him?? Be real with yourself, you want more than a friendship. Your already more emotionally invested in him which is not good.
My suggestion, date locally.
it sounds like he's got a kink in his chain somewhere
Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand what you are saying completely, however, I did ask him. What is so hard with him saying that? Matter of fact, I feel like He could have said "Here is my number. Call me if you are ever in town and want to hook up." How hard is that?Posted by karebearGiving his number to you wasn't him pursuing you. He wants you to be able to reach him next time you come into town so he can fuck you again.
I took it a step further and asked him why did he even give me his number to begin with. We live over 800 miles away from each other, so it would have been easier if we had just ended everything during my vacation. I did not get a response.
However, once he gave me his number, I felt like that we could be working on developing some kind of relationship. I'm not saying that the relationship would be romantic and we would start dating, but a friendship.Okay, if I was honest, I would say that I would hope that we would be working on a friendship that has the possibility of growing into something bigger.
I'm single and I have no children. I have a job that will allow me to work anywhere in the United States from home, so those are not factors on my end. My problem is he has not been into verbal communication as I am, so I feel stuck.
He hasn't made an effort to get to know you/continue the conversation. Its pretty obvious that he's not interested in a relationship with you.
Your telling yourself you only want a friendship with him but then also considering moving to be closer to him?? Be real with yourself, you want more than a friendship. Your already more emotionally invested in him which is not good.
My suggestion, date locally.click to expand
Posted by karebearDo you want to just hook up with him when he's in town?Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand what you are saying completely, however, I did ask him. What is so hard with him saying that? Matter of fact, I feel like He could have said "Here is my number. Call me if you are ever in town and want to hook up." How hard is that?Posted by karebearGiving his number to you wasn't him pursuing you. He wants you to be able to reach him next time you come into town so he can fuck you again.
I took it a step further and asked him why did he even give me his number to begin with. We live over 800 miles away from each other, so it would have been easier if we had just ended everything during my vacation. I did not get a response.
However, once he gave me his number, I felt like that we could be working on developing some kind of relationship. I'm not saying that the relationship would be romantic and we would start dating, but a friendship.Okay, if I was honest, I would say that I would hope that we would be working on a friendship that has the possibility of growing into something bigger.
I'm single and I have no children. I have a job that will allow me to work anywhere in the United States from home, so those are not factors on my end. My problem is he has not been into verbal communication as I am, so I feel stuck.
He hasn't made an effort to get to know you/continue the conversation. Its pretty obvious that he's not interested in a relationship with you.
Your telling yourself you only want a friendship with him but then also considering moving to be closer to him?? Be real with yourself, you want more than a friendship. Your already more emotionally invested in him which is not good.
My suggestion, date locally.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI feel like hooking up is a given...so yes. However, I also want more. If we just hook up then some type of friendship along with it would be nice.Posted by karebearDo you want to just hook up with him when he's in town?Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand what you are saying completely, however, I did ask him. What is so hard with him saying that? Matter of fact, I feel like He could have said "Here is my number. Call me if you are ever in town and want to hook up." How hard is that?Posted by karebearGiving his number to you wasn't him pursuing you. He wants you to be able to reach him next time you come into town so he can fuck you again.
I took it a step further and asked him why did he even give me his number to begin with. We live over 800 miles away from each other, so it would have been easier if we had just ended everything during my vacation. I did not get a response.
However, once he gave me his number, I felt like that we could be working on developing some kind of relationship. I'm not saying that the relationship would be romantic and we would start dating, but a friendship.Okay, if I was honest, I would say that I would hope that we would be working on a friendship that has the possibility of growing into something bigger.
I'm single and I have no children. I have a job that will allow me to work anywhere in the United States from home, so those are not factors on my end. My problem is he has not been into verbal communication as I am, so I feel stuck.
He hasn't made an effort to get to know you/continue the conversation. Its pretty obvious that he's not interested in a relationship with you.
Your telling yourself you only want a friendship with him but then also considering moving to be closer to him?? Be real with yourself, you want more than a friendship. Your already more emotionally invested in him which is not good.
My suggestion, date locally.click to expand
Posted by karebearNot everyone is a direct communicator though...Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand what you are saying completely, however, I did ask him. What is so hard with him saying that? Matter of fact, I feel like He could have said "Here is my number. Call me if you are ever in town and want to hook up." How hard is that?Posted by karebearGiving his number to you wasn't him pursuing you. He wants you to be able to reach him next time you come into town so he can fuck you again.
I took it a step further and asked him why did he even give me his number to begin with. We live over 800 miles away from each other, so it would have been easier if we had just ended everything during my vacation. I did not get a response.
However, once he gave me his number, I felt like that we could be working on developing some kind of relationship. I'm not saying that the relationship would be romantic and we would start dating, but a friendship.Okay, if I was honest, I would say that I would hope that we would be working on a friendship that has the possibility of growing into something bigger.
I'm single and I have no children. I have a job that will allow me to work anywhere in the United States from home, so those are not factors on my end. My problem is he has not been into verbal communication as I am, so I feel stuck.
He hasn't made an effort to get to know you/continue the conversation. Its pretty obvious that he's not interested in a relationship with you.
Your telling yourself you only want a friendship with him but then also considering moving to be closer to him?? Be real with yourself, you want more than a friendship. Your already more emotionally invested in him which is not good.
My suggestion, date locally.click to expand
You gotta read between the lines. What are his actions (or in this case his inaction) saying.
I have to say, this story sounds exactly like the guy really enjoyed sex with you, and hopes to do it again sometime, but doesn't want anything more. He really isn't even pursuing much of a friendship.
As a Virgo, if I like a girl then I talk to her. A lot. Often to the point of being annoying. I'm not blowing her off, and I'm certainly not directing her to stop asking questions and read my Facebook page... is he 12? lol
Astrology aside, his obsession with social media and this attitude of "I won't entertain you unless you meet my criteria" implies an extreme narcissism. You said he's very attractive, but I think he's been told that a few times too many.
My advice, appreciate the sex for what it was but don't expect to dig deeper with this guy. He strikes me as very shallow and self absorbed. And, considering you must be hot enough to have met his inflated criteria, I can't imagine that you're lacking male attention, anyway 😉
As a Virgo, if I like a girl then I talk to her. A lot. Often to the point of being annoying. I'm not blowing her off, and I'm certainly not directing her to stop asking questions and read my Facebook page... is he 12? lol
Also know that he has made it known very publicly that he will not entertain you unless you meet his criteria. This includes sex.
Astrology aside, his obsession with social media and this attitude of "I won't entertain you unless you meet my criteria" implies an extreme narcissism. You said he's very attractive, but I think he's been told that a few times too many.
My advice, appreciate the sex for what it was but don't expect to dig deeper with this guy. He strikes me as very shallow and self absorbed. And, considering you must be hot enough to have met his inflated criteria, I can't imagine that you're lacking male attention, anyway 😉
It was just sex. Stop reaching out to him. If he is interested in something more, he should be the one to lead.
He wanted to sleep with me but told me that he will get too attached to me. I had to ask him to sleep with me after waiting on him to make a move.
We stayed in touch. I pushed myself more into his space but only because i knew he liked me but was afraid. Both of us didn't want a long distance thing but we are very compatible-he's busy with his life but will spend 5 hrs talking to me on skype. Every morning, lunch and night i get messages from him telling me that he's thinking about me. Calls me to sing songs to me. You will know when a virgo really likes you. He communicates very well. Tells me everything i ask him and i do the same.
I seriously had to read that twice, thinking you might be talking about me! lol That's exactly how I am, to the letter.
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I wrote on the previous posts how we hooked up and I assumed that it was a one-night thing. In my mind, I just assumed that nothing would come of this and I will just have a good memory of the time we spent. A few hours after he left from our rendezvous he inboxed me his number. He didn't say anything along with it. This seemed to change everything for me and I felt like let him giving me his number was a way to gauge how interested I was in him.
I texted him the next day and explain that I had a good time and that I hope that we would not become strangers. His response was that we wouldn't be strangers unless I made us out to be strangers. I posted that on my previous comment on here. I received a response that said that he basically had me on a schedule and that I would have only a certain amount of time to respond that was unknown to me. I took that as meaning that I only had a certain amount of time to show this guy that I was interested in him.
I called him the next day and the conversation was awkward. However, I felt like the initial conversation we had was awkward. He doesn't seem to talk much, but I've heard that Virgos are not one to really communicate in the same manner as Geminis. Oh by the way, I am a Gemini. During that conversation he did not want to answer any questions and gave vague answers. When I asked him the reason behind it he simply said that anything anyone wanted to know about him was on Facebook. I ended that conversation, but I did reach back out to him later on.
About an hour had passed and I was able to collect my thoughts so that I could respond back to how I felt about the conversation. I inboxed him on Facebook and I explained that I wasn't trying to be nosy, but then I felt that he gave me his number so that we could talk outside of social media. His response was that he didn't save my number from the text and that he didn't know it was me that he was talking to. He then went on to say, " believe me it is saved in my phone now."
I took it a step further and asked him why did he even give me his number to begin with. We live over 800 miles away from each other, so it would have been easier if we had just ended everything during my vacation. I did not get a response. I have no clue how to take the fact that I did not get a response. I feel as though I do not need to push him because I do know that he is very busy in his life with work and his children. I think it would be naive of me to think that this man would come into my life and sweep me off of my feet just because of the distance between us. However, once he gave me his number, I felt like that we could be working on developing some kind of relationship. I'm not saying that the relationship would be romantic and we would start dating, but a friendship.
Okay, if I was honest, I would say that I would hope that we would be working on a friendship that has the possibility of growing into something bigger.
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Are there any Virgos out there that can tell me what exactly is going on? I get that you guys stay busy with work life and family, but what exactly happened when he gave me his number?
Also, I want to add that I feel like he uses social media as his biggest form of communication, or as he calls it, entertainment. He has let it be known on Facebook several times that he has a criteria of who he spends his time with. I know this guy is super sensitive, but he doesn't really show it. I think that is a Virgo thing to be honest.
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