What do you guys want?

What do virgo men look in for a girl? Like seriously, loyalty, a lil bit flirting, being by ur side, cheerleading you, making you feel important. I thought thats what you men wanted. Im so hurt by this guy. He is hot and cold. He was so amazing when we started off. he made me feel like a queen, and now he chooses meeting his friends and cousins over a dinner with me. I give him his space and make efforts to make him comfortable. I am being my best at understanding this guy and his moods. He doesnt lie to me but his moods are frustrating.

When i ask him about our relationship he says that he cant be bad to be because he can be intolerable to handle and then when we are talking about something and i say that i dont want him to feel uncomfortable cus we arent dating or anything, he gets defensive and says wtf are u even saying.

I mean seriously whats your deal. i give you my time my feelings and my efforts and you just blow it up in the girls face because you think u can find better? youre looking for the perfect girl and are ready to wait, but when you see people making efforts towards you and trying to understand you, you treat her like shit?

What do virgos want or even for that matter what do you men want.?

Posted by yupvirgoo
@kart

Drop this jerk. You're trying your best to make him comfortable and he's acting like a piece of shyte. Maybe he'll learn when you drop him. Ignore him, block him and avoid him.

Im into him a lot by now. I dont know how to make him see through it. I wanna be positive about him and us and im willing to work on it too but I dont know what ive done wrong. Im giving up on him.

But he doesnt exactly break off you know, he keeps it going, like today, i told him that im doing something spl for him for valentines and he was like dont stress over it so i asked him to tell me honestly if he wants to do something, he dint see the message. Thn i just got irritated and told him to chuck it and i wont make any unnecessary efforts if he's not in for it. and that i will now take a step towards him only when he takes one towards me.

He replied like what happend, why are u behaving like this, and that he was really tired today and stuff. I just replied,im normal and that he can take some rest.

Like im so done. now im gonna be point blank on his face, that i dont want to drag stuff just because you dont have any other options. Do virgo men drag a relationship because they cant find someone better at that point of time? Are they like the something is better than nothing sorts?

I thought you guys were very clear with what you feel and make things very obvious. Is it because of his gemini moon?

I dont know how he will react to be ignoring him?