Why does my Virgo keep coming back -.-

My Virgo once again tried to contact me and this would make it the 4th time too.

the first time was last year on New Years when I checked my email (drunk) and saw I had a message, I assumed it was the job I had applied for but it ended up being her wishing me a Happy New Year. I was shocked and well replied back "Happy New Year to you too" and she kept replying. She would later call me with an UNKNOWN # and we'd talk. We eventually met up and she told me that she was very happy with her bf and that she plans to have kids with him already so I was like "wow.... well ok I guess this goodbye for good then?" We hugged and like the wuss I was I cried when I got inside my car.

The second time was 2 1/2months later. A coworker of mine that I really hit it off with ended up moving and well I was left to start over but then I get an UNKNOWN phone call and well I already assumed it might be her so I picked up and said "Hi Paulina, what can I do for you today?" *sarcastic tone*

She asked how I knew it was her and I told her "I used common sense, who else would EVER call me with an UNKNOWN number around this time of the day? She giggled and realized I was right. She told me she really needed somebody to talk to. I asked her "where's your baby daddy? Why can't you talk to Jonatan?"

She tells me that she felt alone and that she had nobody she could consider a friend to talk to. So I mean we talked and she begged to see me the next day so I go and she unloads on me some more. She's telling me that she's already thinking of breaking up with him and that her best friend is being so distant and abusive towards her. So I just tried to cheer her up and ended the day telling her that she needs to talk to her bf and she needs to talk things out with him. I EVEN CONVINCED HER TO STAY WITH HIM!!!! I never told her all the bad shit I was going thru and later when I asked her how it went I never got a reply.

The third time, was around mid September she literally called me telling me she was coming to my house. It was my day off and I was in my basketball shorts and well when she told me that I quickly threw a shirt on and well tried to look somewhat presentable. She came and my dumb ass looked at her like she I had seen her the first time... I was love struck all over again for some reason and we talked, she showed me her new car and she drove off.

After that her uncles told me she was getting married around December, I just kinda snapped I guess and went on living my life with the thought "it's over". Although, I'm now in a happy relationship with a LEO that I feel I've matured and grown as a person. But this time my ex Virgo is trying to follow me on Instagram and she even called me twice with her actual #. I don't want to contact her because I know it's wrong but I feel like at this point she just playing games. Help?

she is just bored from my experience,,hehehehe

if she want u back she will state clearly I WANT YOU BACK or hide herself from the beginning . we are extreme —

as a virgo, those behaviors = boredom

As of this day I've tried to literally not let it take power over my mind so I've been pampering my Leo gf and sadly she dropped the bomb that she's moving to San Fran to study journalism. Tbh it broke me a little inside but I gave her my opinion and told her hat I'd still help her accomplish her dreams. I feel like our relationship is on a timer right now?