Women up grade men down grade is B.S

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Firefighter on Wednesday, June 14, 2017 and has 145 replies.

Understanding Relationship Dynamics Between Women and Men

Women often choose partners based on safety and stability rather than superficial traits. Men tend to pursue multiple options, which can be seen as riskier. These patterns reflect differing priorities in relationships rather than superficial judgments. Recognizing these tendencies can help clarify why dating behaviors vary between genders.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

For the second time in 1 week I've heard 2 female friends refer to their boyfriends as "he's not that attractive" or " he's ugly but i love him" I'm starting to feel that every guy who is in a relationship is the "Safe Bet. He's not that good looking to "cheat or he's not that attractive to reel in women by the boat loads. Im starting to think women are more shallow then men are in the Safe Bet department.

For the guys who dont believe me, look up your girlfriends ex. And I'll bet you he dosent look anything like you. It may make you reconsider your feelings about your girlfriend you maybe The Guy who gets titled Mr I'll Settle with.

And check out single women or divorced women they are always hanging on to tall athletic or pretty boys who act bad. Not the clean cut reserved guy. Now why is that. Why is the good guy, the lame guy ok to date and plan a future with but he's not going to be getting Pu**y on first date. But when that bad boy comes along and he strucks all night then gets you pregnant and breaks your heart the good guy has to put you all back together and get stuck raising his kids.

So women dont up grade they look for safer option. Men are more riskier and take several option over and over making it look like we down graded.

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Most men as nasty af in some way imo. That could be mentally, physically, or simply life style . A man will have to have somen type of decent use if he's going to keep the decent type of women most men are looking for. If she doesn't need him in any way why the hell would she keep him? The same goes for him.

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@LittleFairy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Naaah.

Women would neeever do this to a nice guy

He's a nice guy!

He takes care of her kids, makes an honest living, doesn't take risks and is a safe option.

Are you telling me women don't value this?

That's not nice ...that is what you are MEANT to do ..it's normal. You can't take credit for stuff you are supposed to do...

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Naaah.

Women would neeever do this to a nice guy

He's a nice guy!

He takes care of her kids, makes an honest living, doesn't take risks and is a safe option.

Are you telling me women don't value this?

They do it when they are their child rearing years they want safe Bet

But when their in their late teens early 20s its lust and after kids grow up then its back to f**kin bad boys. Women over 40 have tge highest extramarital affairs. And girls 18 to 23 "well lets say its a slippery slope.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
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Its True.

Women fear infidelity and men who would leave them.

How many single mothers out there with no good baby daddies they knew where no good.

And the next guy she starts dates turns out to be opposite from the thug she got banged by

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@Firefighter
9 Years

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Naaah.

Women would neeever do this to a nice guy

He's a nice guy!

He takes care of her kids, makes an honest living, doesn't take risks and is a safe option.

Are you telling me women don't value this?

They do it when they are their child rearing years they want safe Bet

But when their in their late teens early 20s its lust and after kids grow up then its back to f**kin bad boys. Women over 40 have tge highest extramarital affairs. And girls 18 to 23 "well lets say its a slippery slope.

Oh my God those bitches....

So, what can I do to prevent this?

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Stop being a bitch and be a bad a $ $ dont be nice lie every day. And watch the Pu**y stock rise.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by LittleFairy
So yeah I avoid good looking guys ...I guess ..they tend to not be as nice to you or other people. I am generalizing so sorry to any guy if i am ..

You avoid them in long term ..but how many have you let fu*k before you settle down.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by -elle-
wut?

This thread is reeking of stupidity.

I have the hottest gentleman with the best manners on this planet. His intelligence often tops mine and he can be a bad ass when it's called for.

Settle?

You are way out in left field....like in another galaxy left field.

He cooks too!

If hes not cheating lying or beating on you then hes a durk Mr settle penis

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by Soul
Most men as nasty af in some way imo. That could be mentally, physically, or simply life style . A man will have to have somen type of decent use if he's going to keep the decent type of women most men are looking for. If she doesn't need him in any way why the hell would she keep him? The same goes for him.

Women want 1 but settle for the other.

Men just Fk we dnt care

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
I think I understand now

Next time I start liking a girl, I go up to her, break her jaw, tell her to get back to the kitchen or I'll fuckin kill her.

Thanks for the golden advice, man

Honestly im just saying women are shallow too.

Men are shallow and like boobs and fat ass.

Women are shallow by saying i wont date a hot guy cuz he will cheat.

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@Gcgc
9 Years

If i had a girl and I found out she thought she was dating down i would leave lol.

My exs downgraded but that's mostly because they would let there selfs go.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by -elle-
Or are you just one of those guys that are constantly pissed off at women?

No i just got eye opener when 2 different women told me how unattractive their men were. Like why date guy you think is ugly.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

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Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Who hurt you?

Lol no one.

What i heard just upset me twice in one day.

One girl had a tongue ring showing it off to me. Conversation went towards relationship so i asked her why she dosent bring her boyfriend to work she said he was ugly.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

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Lol no im just ass hole some times.

Miss settle puss*y

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX

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Who hurt you?

Lol no one.

What i heard just upset me twice in one day.

One girl had a tongue ring showing it off to me. Conversation went towards relationship so i asked her why she dosent bring her boyfriend to work she said he was ugly.

And you came to all of these conclusions based on that interaction? 😕

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Yes i did because i started to look closer then i saw it again and again.

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Posted by -elle-
I got exactly what I wanted.

Took damn near forever.

When he leaves for work I just stare for a second because it's pretty surreal.

I don't have time to settle....hell, I usually enjoy my own company over anyone else's anyways...the fact that I ENJOY his company is a big feat in itself. lol

Well i didnt say all women did I?

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

Lol no im just ass hole some times.

Miss settle puss*y

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Wow, what a gentleman you are... no wonder you attract such classy women. Good for you ?

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@Firefighter
9 Years

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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

Lol no im just ass hole some times.

Miss settle puss*y

Wow, what a gentleman you are... no wonder you attract such classy women. Good for you ?

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Lol im sorry. Didnt mean to offend you.

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@Moonbutter
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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

Lol no im just ass hole some times.

Miss settle puss*y

Wow, what a gentleman you are... no wonder you attract such classy women. Good for you ?

Lol im sorry. Didnt mean to offend you.

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Eat a big fat dick, bitch ?

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@Firefighter
9 Years

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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

Lol no im just ass hole some times.

Miss settle puss*y

Wow, what a gentleman you are... no wonder you attract such classy women. Good for you ?

Lol im sorry. Didnt mean to offend you.

Eat a big fat dick, bitch ?

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You do it everyday so do it today for me ??

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@Firefighter
9 Years

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I have a nice guy and I'm super attracted to him ?

Lier you have a Mr I'll settle dick.

Yeeaah I'll settle on that dick ??

Let your 40s ease in and ill bet Mr settle dick wont be as appealing as Mr bad boy dick

Haha he is a reformed bad boy so I got the best of both in one.

So he settled

I get it now

Wow your ego is really shattered by this, huh?

Lol no im just ass hole some times.

Miss settle puss*y

Wow, what a gentleman you are... no wonder you attract such classy women. Good for you ?

Lol im sorry. Didnt mean to offend you.

Pull it together, bro

Bad motherfuckers don't apologize for their doings, remember

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Its o.k she the one he settled with

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