Never been interested in a Capricorn until now😢

I’m a Scorpio and I met this Capricorn man from a dating site. He lost interest in me and I’m really sad about it. I won’t reach out to him because I have a lot on my plate right now and I wish he liked me for me. But I know that he doesn’t. I sent him a video in a text of me at work yesterday morning he opened it and didn’t respond. That is one of the most hurtful things anyone has ever done to me. And I just logged in my instagram today and I noticed he just logged into his instagram 20 mins ago it is now 6:20pm here. Never been treated this way before and I’m just trying not to let the thought interfere with other good things that I have happening for me.

He could’ve just told me he didn’t want to pursue with me any longer and doesn’t see us compatible. I gave him that opportunity instead he ghosted me. 🙁

Take the hint

Posted by TheSithRogen
Take the hint

Thanks

Someone opening and not responding to a video of you at work is one of the most hurtful things anyone's ever done to you?

Not the first Scorpio ive heard such a sentimentfrom. Name a gem gal and she was probably beaten by her parents

Anyway, Cap men have zero to offer but financial support

Posted by MidAtBest
Someone opening and not responding to a video of you at work is one of the most hurtful things anyone's ever done to you?

Not the first Scorpio ive heard such a sentimentfrom. Name a gem gal and she was probably beaten by her parents

Anyway, Cap men have zero to offer but financial support

Yes it is the most hurtful thing I have experienced Especially by someone I quickly thought so highly of. Everyone in my life respects me and acknowledges me even if it’s in the simplest form. I never met anyone that act like they wanted a place in my life then quickly change just to be rude and disrespectful like this. I am very careful of who I give my time to because I know how big my heart is so I guard it with everything. I am also quite outgoing and I try to stay positive in almost any situation. I did not deserve what he did.

Posted by Zxm

Posted by MidAtBest
Someone opening and not responding to a video of you at work is one of the most hurtful things anyone's ever done to you?

Not the first Scorpio ive heard such a sentimentfrom. Name a gem gal and she was probably beaten by her parents

Anyway, Cap men have zero to offer but financial support

Yes it is the most hurtful thing I have experienced Especially by someone I quickly thought so highly of. Everyone in my life respects me and acknowledges me even if it’s in the simplest form. I never met anyone that act like they wanted a place in my life then quickly change just to be rude and disrespectful like this. I am very careful of who I give my time to because I know how big my heart is so I guard it with everything. I am also quite outgoing and I try to stay positive in almost any situation. I did not deserve what he did.

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The unfortunate realization comes when one realizes that life does not play pair. Just becuase you ( a universal you) extended your respect, does not mean everyone is going to appreciate it. Worse, some might think it a weakness. That said, his actions are reflection of his character & little to nothing to do with you. Pull up your big girl panties & keep it moving! Focus on yourself & those those with whom you share same/similar values.

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Posted by MidAtBest
Someone opening and not responding to a video of you at work is one of the most hurtful things anyone's ever done to you?

Not the first Scorpio ive heard such a sentimentfrom. Name a gem gal and she was probably beaten by her parents

Anyway, Cap men have zero to offer but financial support

Yes it is the most hurtful thing I have experienced Especially by someone I quickly thought so highly of. Everyone in my life respects me and acknowledges me even if it’s in the simplest form. I never met anyone that act like they wanted a place in my life then quickly change just to be rude and disrespectful like this. I am very careful of who I give my time to because I know how big my heart is so I guard it with everything. I am also quite outgoing and I try to stay positive in almost any situation. I did not deserve what he did.
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The unfortunate realization comes when one realizes that life does not play pair. Just becuase you ( a universal you) extended your respect, does not mean everyone is going to appreciate it. Worse, some might think it a weakness. That said, his actions are reflection of his character & little to nothing to do with you. Pull up your big girl panties & keep it moving! Focus on yourself & those those with whom you share same/similar values.

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Very true. Thanks for the encouragement.

Online activity in a lot different than in real life activity but if he's not actively pursuing you then yes, cut your losses.

Posted by Zxm
He could’ve just told me he didn’t want to pursue with me any longer and doesn’t see us compatible. I gave him that opportunity instead he ghosted me. 🙁

That's likely his way of trying to gently let you down.

Meeting people from a dating site is not good. They place lower value on you if meeting from an online dating site. Not to mention, it’s better to meet people in person and let things organically develop. Secondly, this is a lesson in self-respect and walking away .

Posted by Zxm
He could’ve just told me he didn’t want to pursue with me any longer and doesn’t see us compatible. I gave him that opportunity instead he ghosted me. 🙁

Don’t take the ghosting personally and move on.

Posted by Bluemoon86
Meeting people from a dating site is not good. They place lower value on you if meeting from an online dating site. Not to mention, it’s better to meet people in person and let things organically develop. Secondly, this is a lesson in self-respect and walking away .

Yes I don’t think I will meet anyone online again. At first I didn’t take it seriously it was just something to have up then when he matched with me I liked him enough to actually want to get to know him and it went down hill from there.

Posted by HaveATourmaline
Btw, I was wondering.. where do you come from?

What do you mean?