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What could be going through his mind?
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.click to expand
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?click to expand
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'click to expand
Not the best compatibility between your suns/moons. However, he wanted to commit to you, which is what's important. What were you doing, that made him lost for words, and then critical of you?
No one knows what he's thinking.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'
Not the best compatibility between your suns/moons. However, he wanted to commit to you, which is what's important. What were you doing, that made him lost for words, and then critical of you?click to expand
He accused me of posting a picture online of inside his old flat which was never the case, he’s had friends come in that place but was convinced it was me. I started to resent him for believing that l would do that, anything minute would go back to that situation, and I’ve never given him reason not to trust me before or after.
Posted by Basorexia
No one knows what he's thinking.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
You’re absolutely right, I guess I was hoping it could be more than that because I still loved him but I’m just going to carry on moving forward as I have been doing. Thank you.
Posted by GODZ
its hard to let go an ex
It is but I know I need to carry on moving forward.
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by Basorexia
No one knows what he's thinking.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
You’re absolutely right, I guess I was hoping it could be more than that because I still loved him but I’m just going to carry on moving forward as I have been doing. Thank you.click to expand
Yw! 🌻
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'
Not the best compatibility between your suns/moons. However, he wanted to commit to you, which is what's important. What were you doing, that made him lost for words, and then critical of you?
He accused me of posting a picture online of inside his old flat which was never the case, he’s had friends come in that place but was convinced it was me. I started to resent him for believing that l would do that, anything minute would go back to that situation, and I’ve never given him reason not to trust me before or after.click to expand
The mystery deepens! Errrr.......unless he uses his "old flat" to grow hemp now, was that even worth a mention, let alone an argument leading to a breakup?
Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'
Not the best compatibility between your suns/moons. However, he wanted to commit to you, which is what's important. What were you doing, that made him lost for words, and then critical of you?
He accused me of posting a picture online of inside his old flat which was never the case, he’s had friends come in that place but was convinced it was me. I started to resent him for believing that l would do that, anything minute would go back to that situation, and I’ve never given him reason not to trust me before or after.
The mystery deepens! Errrr.......unless he uses his "old flat" to grow hemp now, was that even worth a mention, let alone an argument leading to a breakup?click to expand
He was never proud of that place, it was a starter flat for him. And you know Caps are all about image and reputation. I think he saw it as 1. A breach of trust, 2. Potentially blowing his perfect life image 3. He is private, he’s nothing like he portrays himself to be.
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'
Not the best compatibility between your suns/moons. However, he wanted to commit to you, which is what's important. What were you doing, that made him lost for words, and then critical of you?
He accused me of posting a picture online of inside his old flat which was never the case, he’s had friends come in that place but was convinced it was me. I started to resent him for believing that l would do that, anything minute would go back to that situation, and I’ve never given him reason not to trust me before or after.
The mystery deepens! Errrr.......unless he uses his "old flat" to grow hemp now, was that even worth a mention, let alone an argument leading to a breakup?
He was never proud of that place, it was a starter flat for him. And you know Caps are all about image and reputation. I think he saw it as 1. A breach of trust, 2. Potentially blowing his perfect life image 3. He is private, he’s nothing like he portrays himself to be.click to expand
If this one of the main things that contributed to your breakup, it's good that you two are not together anymore. Accusing his girlfriend, repeatedly and without proof, of something so petty--that she denies doing-- it's a form of abuse.
Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by UndinePosted by Aniesha23Posted by Undine
It is likely that both of you still have feelings for eachother. But that was not the problem, was it?
"I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time". It looks like he was planning for the future, while you were stuck in the past.
Past issues...? Were they still relevant? Did they make you lose your trust in him?
I believe so, whenever I did something he never liked or said he wouldn’t be vocal about it, instead would give me the silent treatment leaving me to guess what was wrong, would then pretend he was over it then bring the same things up later.
Maybe I was a little selfish trying to change him, I just wanted him to be able to let things go when he truly was over it, no matter how long it took instead of punishing me time and time again.
He’s a Cancer moon if that helps.
He probably let the resentment build up, by not being vocal about it when it happened. You don't seem to be able to "let things go" either. What are your placements?
I think I just wish I handled things differently because I’m not usually like that and he’s the only man I’ve wanted to spend forever with.
I’m a water dominant Aries, Cancer rising if that helps too.
He is Aqua Venus, Cancer moon, Sag Mars, Cap Mercury and Leo rising I believe.
Sun Aries 18°53'
Moon Gemini 23°50'
Mercury Pisces 28°45' R
Venus Aries 1°28'
Mars Pisces 8°50'
Jupiter Virgo 5°23' R
Saturn Aquarius 16°31'
Uranus Capricorn 17°56'
Neptune Capricorn 18°56'
Pluto Scorpio 22°27' R
Lilith Aquarius 8°45'
N Node Capricorn 3°57'
Not the best compatibility between your suns/moons. However, he wanted to commit to you, which is what's important. What were you doing, that made him lost for words, and then critical of you?
He accused me of posting a picture online of inside his old flat which was never the case, he’s had friends come in that place but was convinced it was me. I started to resent him for believing that l would do that, anything minute would go back to that situation, and I’ve never given him reason not to trust me before or after.
The mystery deepens! Errrr.......unless he uses his "old flat" to grow hemp now, was that even worth a mention, let alone an argument leading to a breakup?
He was never proud of that place, it was a starter flat for him. And you know Caps are all about image and reputation. I think he saw it as 1. A breach of trust, 2. Potentially blowing his perfect life image 3. He is private, he’s nothing like he portrays himself to be.
If this one of the main things that contributed to your breakup, it's good that you two are not together anymore. Accusing his girlfriend, repeatedly and without proof, of something so petty--that she denies doing-- it's a form of abuse.click to expand
I never even saw it like this but I guess you’re right. No is perfect but I did try to do my best by him, maybe one day he will realise it.
Posted by Basorexia
No one knows what he's thinking.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
In agreement.
Don't allow him to interfere again. Don't even discuss him w the aqua.
In ref to your ex, if he never saw fit to vocalize issues, giving you the silent treatment, then he was never ready for a relationship. His loss.
Continue moving forward.
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by Basorexia
No one knows what he's thinking.
Sounds like he's not ready to see you dating someone else and that's really his problem not yours.
The issue here is you're letting him interfere in your dating life. As long as you keep doing that you'll be exactly where you are now confused and upset.
In agreement.
Don't allow him to interfere again. Don't even discuss him w the aqua.
In ref to your ex, if he never saw fit to vocalize issues, giving you the silent treatment, then he was never ready for a relationship. His loss.
Continue moving forward.click to expand
Yeah definitely I’ve learnt my lesson now, and will continue to do so.
Thank you x
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I have something to ask... So he was always looking at me at church. And I at him.
He talked to my pastor for 3 months about who I was and what was my name.
And I asked about him.
This has been happening since November.
2 weeks ago she said he wanted to
For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?
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During the night I was talking and joking with Aquarius as I did like him. My ex seemed to pop in to every room we was talking in. Fast forward my ex leaving he came to say bye, I asked to talk to him just to let him know there was no bad blood and I never ignored him on purpose.
My ex kissed me as soon as we got outside then left and said he’ll call me, feeling a bit upset I texted him that I still loved him, he messaged me back that he knows, I asked him why did he kiss me, he never messaged back.
I called Aquarius next morning and told him the situation was too close to home and we should just be friends, he agreed and told me my ex had called him a few times in the morning but hadn’t had the chance to call back.
When Aquarius did call my ex back Aquarius said how he just kept rambling about knowing me for a long time, we were family friends (which is true), Aquarius said the phone call was really intense and how he sounded like he wanted to say more but kept stopping and rambling again (he’s never been good with words at all) Aquarius asked me if Cap ex was still in love with me, I said I didn’t think so.
Background:
Capricorn ended things with me in December, said he will be happy if I found someone else that made me happy, that he tried to make it work and couldnt do it anymore, and we could always be good friends.
So I decided to move on without the friendship and he never reached out to me either.
We had just started talking about starting a family and moving towards the next step but I started becoming overwhelmingly emotional because I wanted to address past issues before moving forward that he wanted to ignore all the time.
I promised myself I would never behave like that again hence why I won’t be contacting him since my last msg, any insight into what he’s thinking?