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Aries Woman - Taurus Man Fall-Out
Understanding Aries Woman and Taurus Man Fall-Out
Taurus men value stability and honesty. If they feel hurt or misunderstood, they may withdraw or become distant. They typically need time to process emotions and prefer clear communication. Respecting their space and showing genuine understanding can help rebuild trust and connection over time.
As a man tho not a Taurus, I can tell ya he reached out to reconnect. He probably senswd ya coldness and backed off. As a Libra, that's my sibling sign and being venus ruled we look for attachment. If you seem detached in any way we bsck off to protect ourselves. Libra is easier to open uo tha Taurus. They sre fixed earth which means they latch on to the last emotion and wont shake it at all.
Taurus doesnt like sudden change and aries is good for that. If you like him reach back out after you have calmed down. They deflect only to keep a god vibe. Playing hard to get so early will only upset you because they will not chase you until irs certain that the heat is real and then you wont have to intiate anything
I already took a step and messaged to ask about him. His reply was short and to the point so I never did it again.
I do miss him as a friend, but I also don't like feeling like I'm chasing him. Do you think there's a chance that he might feel the same? Do you think that if he does miss me or our friendship he would've got back in touch regardless?
I just want any indication that he does care about this friendship and it's hard to tell if his silence/distance is because he doesn't care or if it's because he wants reassurance that there are no hard feelings.
As a man tho not a Taurus, I can tell ya he reached out to reconnect. He probably senswd ya coldness and backed off. As a Libra, that's my sibling sign and being venus ruled we look for attachment. If you seem detached in any way we bsck off to protect ourselves. Libra is easier to open uo tha Taurus. They sre fixed earth which means they latch on to the last emotion and wont shake it at all.
Taurus doesnt like sudden change and aries is good for that. If you like him reach back out after you have calmed down. They deflect only to keep a god vibe. Playing hard to get so early will only upset you because they will not chase you until irs certain that the heat is real and then you wont have to intiate anything
You mean that he doesn't care or that he's oblivious?
I'm guessing he has no idea that you're even cutting him off
I already took a step and messaged to ask about him. His reply was short and to the point so I never did it again.
I do miss him as a friend, but I also don't like feeling like I'm chasing him. Do you think there's a chance that he might feel the same? Do you think that if he does miss me or our friendship he would've got back in touch regardless?
I just want any indication that he does care about this friendship and it's hard to tell if his silence/distance is because he doesn't care or if it's because he wants reassurance that there are no hard feelings.
As a man tho not a Taurus, I can tell ya he reached out to reconnect. He probably senswd ya coldness and backed off. As a Libra, that's my sibling sign and being venus ruled we look for attachment. If you seem detached in any way we bsck off to protect ourselves. Libra is easier to open uo tha Taurus. They sre fixed earth which means they latch on to the last emotion and wont shake it at all.
Taurus doesnt like sudden change and aries is good for that. If you like him reach back out after you have calmed down. They deflect only to keep a god vibe. Playing hard to get so early will only upset you because they will not chase you until irs certain that the heat is real and then you wont have to intiate anything
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I would say give it time. But also ask yourself do you want a friendship this one sided? Wouldnt you want one where someone is open with you and honest? And appreciative and forgiving? If he doesnt respond or seems cold Id leave it there. You tried to make it work and he doesnt seem to care. Friendships take 2 ppl to be on the same page
I'm guessing he has no idea that you're even cutting him off
My first thought too.
He's not interested and hurt your feelings, and you think he knows this but he still reached out to remain friends, you answered but are still in your feelings about it and so now there is a standstill because you haven't reached out again.
Just start texting him like regular. Go back to how you communicated previously. It's not him who got his feelings hurt, so if you want to go back to the friendship. Hit him up and start a normal conversation.
I understand we aren't just Sun of the zodiac. I get it.
However, watching a lot of relationships I see that Earth people and Fire people have
very difficult relationships. I had no one seen Earth and Fire being happy lovely having no care in the world.
I am personally being an air - suffocating by Earth people. But great with Fire and Water.
Like we can't get separated as hard as we are trying...
Who are Earth people easy with? Nobody?
utely right! Which is what I've been thinking about. And that's what's holding me back from reaching out to him. Real friends don't let small things get in the way. I feel, if we were really as good friends as I thought we were in the first place, we wouldn't be this distant now.
I already took a step and messaged to ask about him. His reply was short and to the point so I never did it again.
I do miss him as a friend, but I also don't like feeling like I'm chasing him. Do you think there's a chance that he might feel the same? Do you think that if he does miss me or our friendship he would've got back in touch regardless?
I just want any indication that he does care about this friendship and it's hard to tell if his silence/distance is because he doesn't care or if it's because he wants reassurance that there are no hard feelings.
As a man tho not a Taurus, I can tell ya he reached out to reconnect. He probably senswd ya coldness and backed off. As a Libra, that's my sibling sign and being venus ruled we look for attachment. If you seem detached in any way we bsck off to protect ourselves. Libra is easier to open uo tha Taurus. They sre fixed earth which means they latch on to the last emotion and wont shake it at all.
Taurus doesnt like sudden change and aries is good for that. If you like him reach back out after you have calmed down. They deflect only to keep a god vibe. Playing hard to get so early will only upset you because they will not chase you until irs certain that the heat is real and then you wont have to intiate anything
I would say give it time. But also ask yourself do you want a friendship this one sided? Wouldnt you want one where someone is open with you and honest? And appreciative and forgiving? If he doesnt respond or seems cold Id leave it there. You tried to make it work and he doesnt seem to care. Friendships take 2 ppl to be on the same page
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've turned and tossed this in my head a lot and thought it's best to leave all the details and just focus on what others would do/have done in this situation.
People are different, of course, but I think people can play the devil's advocate and point to some things I perhaps wasn't aware of.
Maybe a better question would have been: does the person being rejected has the right to cut off the friendship? Does the person doing the rejecting has to be understanding/forgiving of any animosity from the other person? What are Tauruses like when it comes to situations like these?
I'm an Aries women. We were good friends and I began liking him more than a friend. I asked him indirectly and realized he's not interested and he did something that offended me. I was hurt and decided to distance myself and cut him off for a bit without explaining. I know he knows the reason. He reached out once but not to ask what happened, he was just starting a random conversation about something else. I responded in a friendly way that day but I wasn't emotionally ready to going back to texting him like the old days. So I didn't intitate any texts after that and neither did he.
On social media I keep checking on him because it's been a long while and I miss him and I can tell he checks my social media as well.
Tauruses, if you are in his shoes, what would you do and how would you feel?
It looks like Taurus men are your kryptonite.
On that note, this is vague and cryptic. Not very detailed/informative. I like that you kept it short.
I’m sure your intuition is very good and I encourage you to listen to it.
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If you want to be friends just continue to reach out to him as a friend. A couple of times should be enough and then if he continues to not be communicative then give him the boot.
i would second this. taurus can be slowly moved with consistency and tenaciousness. if they see you are going to stick then they are more likely to come around.
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I'm an Aries women. We were good friends and I began liking him more than a friend. I asked him indirectly and realized he's not interested and he did something that offended me. I was hurt and decided to distance myself and cut him off for a bit without explaining. I know he knows the reason. He reached out once but not to ask what happened, he was just starting a random conversation about something else. I responded in a friendly way that day but I wasn't emotionally ready to going back to texting him like the old days. So I didn't intitate any texts after that and neither did he.
On social media I keep checking on him because it's been a long while and I miss him and I can tell he checks my social media as well.
Tauruses, if you are in his shoes, what would you do and how would you feel?