Can anyone help me please ?!!

I’m having way too much thoughts running at the same time lately. I also find it very difficult to trust people and make decisions also I’m too afraid of love, therefore I’m 26 and never been in relationship before!!

Here’s my chart ( can’t remember time of birth ) and I’m a female if it help!

Sun in 6° 48' Taurus

Moon in 5° 51' Cancer

Mercury in 17° 36' Aries

Venus in 4° 7' Aries

Mars in 29° 33' Cancer

Jupiter in 6° 32' Libra (r)

Saturn in 28° 46' Aquarius

Uranus in 22° 11' Capricorn (r)

Neptune in 21° 8' Capricorn (r)

Pluto in 24° 37' Scorpio (r)

North Node in 14° 16' Sagittarius (r)

Chiron in 17° 16' Leo

Could it be something wrong in my chart?

You have lots of squares but at varying and wide degrees. You have a cancer moon and mars which would definitely not help. I know people with cancer positions like that that are like in their mid to late 20s like you who properly haven't been in their first relationship yet. It would help to see what houses all those planets are in but you need to know your birth time for that.

I don't have any of those placements but I was kind of like you once. It made me feel very lonely. I craved falling into something deep and meaningful. Anything. I was seeking for it hard. It did eventually happen a few times and it transformed me. It involved quite a few hard heartbreaks but they were totally worth it for who I've become today. So I say to you go forth and throw yourself at the world, no matter how much you want to shell back up. But also don't make too scarring decisions. You need to accept you NEED to experience hard falls to grow as a person. Better to do it sooner than later.

Would it have to do with you not getting your way and then retreating back when you think something is going wrong, being too stubborn? Your Cancer Moon and Mars would most likely make you a little sensitive but stubborn. But then that Venus would make you rush in fast, then if you get your feelings hurt you retreat and close yourself off.

You're probably be super touchy feely with that sun and mars 😄

You just have to find someone you will be able to trust with your emotions and who likes how you do things.

Are you a heavy chaser of men or do you lay back and let them come to you?

Find the source of your trust issues and heal it.

Posted by saggurl88

Would it have to do with you not getting your way and then retreating back when you think something is going wrong, being too stubborn? Your Cancer Moon and Mars would most likely make you a little sensitive but stubborn. But then that Venus would make you rush in fast, then if you get your feelings hurt you retreat and close yourself off.

You're probably be super touchy feely with that sun and mars 😄

You just have to find someone you will be able to trust with your emotions and who likes how you do things.

Are you a heavy chaser of men or do you lay back and let them come to you?

I subtly show that I’m interested and let the guy do the chase



Honestly...

I enjoy the chase more than anything else when the guy ask me out I just disappear or cancel last minute

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Posted by blvckphvse

Trust issues I generally tie to Scorpio placements.

Decision making I'd tie to Gemini and Libra, you don't have any of those in your major placements.. It could be something in your aspects. I'm not the best at reading charts though, so maybe some others will see something to pin point here.

I struggle greatly with trust issues as well, so I know how difficult that can be. 😢

Trust issues I think it's an air signs thing.

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Can you please explain it to me what is trust issues?

Is that something like you’ve been hurt once and you taking it trough your life afraid to be hurt again?

Posted by Bee93

Posted by saggurl88

Would it have to do with you not getting your way and then retreating back when you think something is going wrong, being too stubborn? Your Cancer Moon and Mars would most likely make you a little sensitive but stubborn. But then that Venus would make you rush in fast, then if you get your feelings hurt you retreat and close yourself off.

You're probably be super touchy feely with that sun and mars 😄

You just have to find someone you will be able to trust with your emotions and who likes how you do things.

Are you a heavy chaser of men or do you lay back and let them come to you?

I subtly show that I’m interested and let the guy do the chase



Honestly...

I enjoy the chase more than anything else when the guy ask me out I just disappear or cancel last minute

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Well that will get you nowhere, I understand your dilemma lol

What are you interested in then? What would make you not cancel?

Posted by DMV

Find the source of your trust issues and heal it.

Nothing bad has ever happened to me Thankfully!!

But I feel like the dating scene is toxic and so ruined, guys are out there just for easy fun, casual sex and meaningless dates.

I’m pretty, well educated and all !! why’d I settle for this!!

Posted by Vicktoria

If you don't have your time of birth, your moon could be incorrect.

Oh no!

My mom can’t remember the exact time but she could narrow it down to 6 hour window

Would that help !

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Posted by Bee93

Posted by saggurl88

Would it have to do with you not getting your way and then retreating back when you think something is going wrong, being too stubborn? Your Cancer Moon and Mars would most likely make you a little sensitive but stubborn. But then that Venus would make you rush in fast, then if you get your feelings hurt you retreat and close yourself off.

You're probably be super touchy feely with that sun and mars 😄

You just have to find someone you will be able to trust with your emotions and who likes how you do things.

Are you a heavy chaser of men or do you lay back and let them come to you?

I subtly show that I’m interested and let the guy do the chase



Honestly...

I enjoy the chase more than anything else when the guy ask me out I just disappear or cancel last minute

Hahaha that is very Aries Venus. I recognize myself 😅

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Yes but Aries Venus doesn't back out. She's a hunter and goes after her mark. Could be her Cancer placements holding her back at the last minute. Also her Aries Mercury and Cancer placements must be awful tough.

Posted by Bee93

Posted by DMV

Find the source of your trust issues and heal it.

Nothing bad has ever happened to me Thankfully!!

But I feel like the dating scene is toxic and so ruined, guys are out there just for easy fun, casual sex and meaningless dates.

I’m pretty, well educated and all !! why’d I settle for this!!

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nah, don't settle - and it is tough; like finding a needle in a haystack …

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Bee93

Posted by saggurl88

Would it have to do with you not getting your way and then retreating back when you think something is going wrong, being too stubborn? Your Cancer Moon and Mars would most likely make you a little sensitive but stubborn. But then that Venus would make you rush in fast, then if you get your feelings hurt you retreat and close yourself off.

You're probably be super touchy feely with that sun and mars 😄

You just have to find someone you will be able to trust with your emotions and who likes how you do things.

Are you a heavy chaser of men or do you lay back and let them come to you?

I subtly show that I’m interested and let the guy do the chase



Honestly...

I enjoy the chase more than anything else when the guy ask me out I just disappear or cancel last minute

Well that will get you nowhere, I understand your dilemma lol

What are you interested in then? What would make you not cancel?

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Some disappear after scheduling a date and never call or text until same day or the night before and I just assume the date is off and the chase is over

I mean at least check in again during the week!!!

But sometimes I agree when I’m pretty sure I’m not going ( don’t wanna hurt their feelings)

this happen mostly when the guy says something like “ how are you still single?! “

I mean it’s obvious ... a date with a guy like this !!