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Unrequited love in synastry
This about the Sag too?
Definitely Neptune. Uranus is more of an always getting ghosted type thing. To me it is anyway. I wanma say Pluto also as I can see the pluto person having a hard time letting go. But Neptune to me truly truly rules this.
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Usually venus in a partners 12th H. Venus usually doesn't reveal that they hardcore like the person or the house person is completely unaware.
I had this with someone in my life, composite chart. Composite Sun/moon/merc/venus square Neptune. So, all the major planets. There was no unrequited love but a bit of deception, illusion and a ton of secrecy in our relationship. For example, I was young, kept it from my parents, friends family. He turned out to be 8 years older than what he told me. So much stuff. Sigh. It wasn't terrible overall but that Neptune kept everything murky and illusory.
I would vote for Neptune (the planet of enchantment, the higher octave of Venus).
His Neptune aspected my Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn and Asc (major aspects).
My Neptune only aspected his Moon and Asc (major aspects).
I believe my love for him was unrequited.
His Neptune aspected my Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn and Asc (major aspects).
My Neptune only aspected his Moon and Asc (major aspects).
I believe my love for him was unrequited.
Posted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Errr....surely not the other way around...?!
My Jupiter on his Asc
My Neptune on his IC
My Moon on his DC (0º!)
My angles were free of his planets, if I ignore two orbs of 8-9º
My Asc in his 4th
0 in his 5th
My Sun and Moon in his 7th
My Mars, NN in his 8th
My Jupiter in his 12th
His Moon in my 4th
His Mars in my 5th
His Saturn, SN in my 7th
0 in my 8th
0 in my 12th
His angles and the above houses got more of my planets than vice versa. Yet I have reasons to believe my love for him was unrequited.
Posted by UndinePosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Errr....surely not the other way around...?!
My Jupiter on his Asc
My Neptune on his IC
My Moon on his DC (0º!)
My angles were free of his planets, if I ignore two orbs of 8-9º
My Asc in his 4th
0 in his 5th
My Sun and Moon in his 7th
My Mars, NN in his 8th
My Jupiter in his 12th
His Moon in my 4th
His Mars in my 5th
His Saturn, SN in my 7th
0 in my 8th
0 in my 12th
His angles and the above houses got more of my planets than vice versa. Yet I have reasons to believe my love for him was unrequited.click to expand
You both had aspects that should’ve been romantic, it’s when nothing touches the romantic houses.
You just didn’t love him for whatever reason.
Posted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting take. Does it matter what planets are aspecting the ascendant though?
Say for one it is Sun, Mars and Venus and for the other it is Jupiter and Saturn?
Also, what if Venus is in the 4th house for both partners in Synastry?
Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting take. Does it matter what planets are aspecting the ascendant though?
Say for one it is Sun, Mars and Venus and for the other it is Jupiter and Saturn?
Also, what if Venus is in the 4th house for both partners in Synastry?click to expand
Venus in the 4th is emotional turmoil for both. Like drowning in emotions. That's tough for a Sag who don't wear their emotions on their sleeve.
I'm not sure, I had unrequited love before and our charts looked like this.
I'm the one who loved him, even with all the squares on the ascendant, but I like working hard for love.
Notice he barely had any planets. My pluto and lilith were good with his ascendant, and it still went to shit.
Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting take. Does it matter what planets are aspecting the ascendant though?
Say for one it is Sun, Mars and Venus and for the other it is Jupiter and Saturn?
Also, what if Venus is in the 4th house for both partners in Synastry?click to expand
Here is what it says about the 4th house venus 😢
Either way, the house person gets the feeling that you don’t love as much as you should.
Their is definitely a magnetism that exists between you, and it’s deep and strong. However, there is also uncertainty, discomfort, and tension. This disruptive energy can be pacified by other harmonious synastry inter-aspects, and some people are simply okay with this energy. They may find it exciting. But for many people, sadly, Venus in this water house can drown your love.
Posted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting with the Virgo, my moon sits in his 8th house. His moon sits in my 12th house
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting with the Virgo, my moon sits in his 8th house. His moon sits in my 12th houseclick to expand
Those are good aspects to have for romance.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting with the Virgo, my moon sits in his 8th house. His moon sits in my 12th house
Those are good aspects to have for romance.click to expand
I hope so 😁
Posted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting take. Does it matter what planets are aspecting the ascendant though?
Say for one it is Sun, Mars and Venus and for the other it is Jupiter and Saturn?
Also, what if Venus is in the 4th house for both partners in Synastry?
Here is what it says about the 4th house venus 😢
Either way, the house person gets the feeling that you don’t love as much as you should.
Their is definitely a magnetism that exists between you, and it’s deep and strong. However, there is also uncertainty, discomfort, and tension. This disruptive energy can be pacified by other harmonious synastry inter-aspects, and some people are simply okay with this energy. They may find it exciting. But for many people, sadly, Venus in this water house can drown your love.click to expand
well bye bye love then lol
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88
Only one partner has planets conjunct the angles of the other partner
There are NO inter-aspects between the Ascendant of a partner and planets of the other partner
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible, creating an affectionate bond.
To summarize the above scenarios, if your planets activate someone’s 5th, 7th or 8th Houses, there’s a good chance that you have a romantic/sexual impact on them. If you also activate their 12th or 4th Houses, you’re reaching them on two, additional levels of intimacy: their hidden side (12th House) and their roots (4th House). If none of these houses are impacted by your planets, you probably don’t touch them on a level beyond platonic.
Interesting take. Does it matter what planets are aspecting the ascendant though?
Say for one it is Sun, Mars and Venus and for the other it is Jupiter and Saturn?
Also, what if Venus is in the 4th house for both partners in Synastry?
Here is what it says about the 4th house venus 😢
Either way, the house person gets the feeling that you don’t love as much as you should.
Their is definitely a magnetism that exists between you, and it’s deep and strong. However, there is also uncertainty, discomfort, and tension. This disruptive energy can be pacified by other harmonious synastry inter-aspects, and some people are simply okay with this energy. They may find it exciting. But for many people, sadly, Venus in this water house can drown your love.
well bye bye love then lolclick to expand
We've been trying to tell you!
It takes time to move on but both people are hurt in this type of love, even though the other may not show it 🙂
The unrequited part would be an illusion, since you would never know how the other person felt.
Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.click to expand
Beautifully said! I feel the same.
Posted by UndinePosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
Beautifully said! I feel the same.click to expand
Yeah there is 4th house overlap, never knew that was a bad thing in synastry though so somewhat news to me since it is one of the water houses. As for the rest, I might post the chart soon but I have been told that the relationship is intensity on steroids. Basically, it is a hell of an intense relationship between me and her.
It's weird because it is kind of a love hate but more of me wanting her sexually than anything but then being addicted sexually. Something tells me it is not as one way though because of the Mars-Venus and Mars-Pluto double whammies. But does the house negate that?
Like say the Venus and Mars fall into 3rd and 4th houses instead of 5th and 8th.
It's weird because it is kind of a love hate but more of me wanting her sexually than anything but then being addicted sexually. Something tells me it is not as one way though because of the Mars-Venus and Mars-Pluto double whammies. But does the house negate that?
Like say the Venus and Mars fall into 3rd and 4th houses instead of 5th and 8th.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.click to expand
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?
Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?click to expand
Thought you wanted to be “left alone”?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?
Thought you wanted to be “left alone”?click to expand
oh yeah...I did 🙂
Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?
Thought you wanted to be “left alone”?
oh yeah...I did 🙂click to expand
Past tense, eh?
You don’t get what you want, when you want. You didn’t learn that from the last Sag woman you encountered?
I don’t have much else to say to help, anyways.
👋
Posted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?
Thought you wanted to be “left alone”?
oh yeah...I did 🙂
Past tense, eh?
You don’t get what you want, when you want. You didn’t learn that from the last Sag woman you encountered?
I don’t have much else to say to help, anyways.
👋click to expand
I do?
Posted by peachy06
Venus rx and I can speak from experience.
It's even more horrible when combined with a Mercury rx 🙄
Posted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?click to expand
I think it has to aspect your personal planets - Ascendant, Sun, Venus, Moon, or Mars. Jupiter is about expansion in synastry. Saturn is about staying power and restriction in synastry. Personal planets are about love, emotion and sex. Also they have to have a small degree (1-3) to be in effect most of the time.
Posted by peachy06Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by peachy06
Venus rx and I can speak from experience.
It's even more horrible when combined with a Mercury rx 🙄
No.click to expand
Okay.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by deckedandeckerPosted by saggurl88Posted by deckedandecker
BTW do we use equal houses or placidus for synastry?
I don't know what this means.
I only know about some of the aspects you speak about because I've had them in serious relationship prospects, where things seemed to be going great, then they quickly went to hell, but I never voice it to the other person. I just let them go.
@deckedandecker
Edited to add, with these unrequited aspects, it felt like I've never loved a person more then I loved them.
Unrequited is what feels the heaviest in any relationship/situationship I've been in.
It's the most memorable for me. Probably having to do with me wanting something that I couldn't have, and having some guilt that things went bad because of me. When in reality, for whatever reason, I wasn't the one for them. But it still doesn't stop me from agonizing over it and wondering where it went wrong.
so wait
for ascendant
does it matter which planets aspect?
Like would jupiter and saturn be relevant?
I think it has to aspect your personal planets - Ascendant, Sun, Venus, Moon, or Mars. Jupiter is about expansion in synastry. Saturn is about staying power and restriction in synastry. Personal planets are about love, emotion and sex. Also they have to have a small degree (1-3) to be in effect most of the time.click to expand
Hmmm so if it aspects personal planets one way but for the other person it aspects only their Jupiter and Saturn, unrequited again?
^^^anyone?
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like the creepy guy chasing the girl that is not interested?
So there is this woman who I have a Mars and Pluto double whammy with, basically, Pluto Trine Mars at 0 degrees where her Pluto Trines my Mars and then a Mars conjunct Pluto at 1 degree where my Pluto conjuncts her Mars. We seem to also have a moon conjun
Is it better to have nice aspects between mars-venus, mars-pluto, pluto-venus etc or 5th and 8th house overlays for hot sex in synastry?
Likes Mars Square Venus along with Mars opposite Venus
Meaning if you have them in a synastry chart, the relationship is going to be a home run
Like is it like, game over bro?
Anyone want to take a stab at it?
Lets say 4 squares aspects involving outer planets and 5 oppositions but the rest are conjunctions, sextiles, and trines.
I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.
Can compatibility work out if there are squares and opposition
Could not get the time of birth down but between the two charts, tell me which you think on a surface level show more attraction and better synastry.
Chart 1
https://i.imgur.com/GDnYFra.png
Chart 2
https://i.imgur.com/Ln2x1hX.png
What aspects in a synastry chart scream intense sexual attraction between two people? Like the love at first sight type.
what sign energy's the guy you spent the longest time chasing?
(even if you're not a usual chaser, maybe an exception?)
anything you've noticed in your synastry?
how'd it end up?
Was it hard for you to forget about the person? A lot of people say that this is a powerful placement.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMZF2h-m0hQ
Does anyone know anything about this aspect in a Synastry chart? I've always heard it's the house person who feels the energy and not the planet. But I also read somewhere that with Moon in 8th house and Mars in 8th house Synastry that it is the planets
How many relationships have you been in that involved you/partner having multiple planets in the other’s 12th house? What were the planets & how was the experience??
Personally, I notice that I attract men who’s Mercury, Jupiter and/or Mars fall int
And what are the aspects? I know you need Saturn in synastry for a relationship to be longterm. I'm talking to someone right now and I'm not sure if we really have enough Saturn aspects in our synastry. We have Mars opposition Saturn which is a 7-degree a
Please see link to chart : https://ibb.co/m6qsHYM
Please see aspect chart : https://ibb.co/CMn3sKh
I'm still new to these interpretations, so would like to know if there is anything extraordinary that stands out.
Thanks again x
makes someone excessively interested/obsessive or passionate about you?
(not necessarily sexual/romantic)
but they tend to study you and follow you around
like you can talk about the most random, boring thing
and they just keep on gravitating towards
what astro vibe are you getting from this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROg4MoaAXvY
coz i sometimes get this vibe from someone
but sadly, nobody else but me seems to notice this person following me around
what's the creepiest synastry you've ever e
What does it say if you both have Pluto & Uranus in the 8th house and a lot of Pluto aspects in Synastry? Mostly trine, a couple of conjunct and one opposition.
Is it just a factor of being born two months apart? Aren’t Pluto and Uranus generatio
Mines is if someone is say Neptune or Uranus and that is the planet making contact with the inner planets but the others is not.
Un-even house overlays?