
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?



Posted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
When you crack that cold hard code....you have a best friend and lover for life.



Posted by saggurl88
They like people who don't like them, that's why they're hard to pin down. Be distant and wishy washy and they may get curious about you.


Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
They like people who don't like them, that's why they're hard to pin down. Be distant and wishy washy and they may get curious about you.
then how come i'm always attracting them?
oh wait.... distant and wishy washy hmmm
ooopclick to expand

Posted by SassyKiwi
@virgooppp @saggurl88
I always get yall confused for each other bc of yalls profile pics can u guys just not

Posted by saggurl88Posted by SassyKiwi
@virgooppp @saggurl88
I always get yall confused for each other bc of yalls profile pics can u guys just not
It's the Sag/ Virgo connection. I'm sorry you can't join this club! 😛
@virgooppp ❤️click to expand

Posted by saggurl88
They like people who don't like them, that's why they're hard to pin down. Be distant and wishy washy and they may get curious about you.

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by MrsElleCappysnatch
When you crack that cold hard code....you have a best friend and lover for life.
Really? Any testimonies for that?
When I first started seeing my Cap he was aloof and weirdly distant and I would rarely see a softer side. Hell, more than 75% of the time I didnt know if we were even in a relationship.
That threw me into a twirl. If I knew then what I've learned thru this whole process I could have saved myself alot of unnecessary stress.
I had actually given up any hope and moved on to other relationships.
He eventually wandered back and verbalized wanting to be in a committed relationship and actually followed up with action.
It literally felt like he turned on a switch.
If I didnt love him so damn much I would have told him to go pound sand. I spent a lot of time understanding this placement and his others (he is why I landed on dxp to begin with)
Even though I flip flop every day on marriage.....because he is ready.....I can't see myself with anyone else ever. He is truly my best friend before everything else.
He dictated the evolution of the friendship even though I fought him all the way. I'm very glad about that now, despite all my hissy fits....lolclick to expand

Posted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by saggurl88
They like people who don't like them, that's why they're hard to pin down. Be distant and wishy washy and they may get curious about you.
That's Venus in Pisces (traditionally speaking and imo). The venuses are neighbors so check the degrees.click to expand

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by MrsElleCappysnatch
When you crack that cold hard code....you have a best friend and lover for life.
Really? Any testimonies for that?
When I first started seeing my Cap he was aloof and weirdly distant and I would rarely see a softer side. Hell, more than 75% of the time I didnt know if we were even in a relationship.
That threw me into a twirl. If I knew then what I've learned thru this whole process I could have saved myself alot of unnecessary stress.
I had actually given up any hope and moved on to other relationships.
He eventually wandered back and verbalized wanting to be in a committed relationship and actually followed up with action.
It literally felt like he turned on a switch.
If I didnt love him so damn much I would have told him to go pound sand. I spent a lot of time understanding this placement and his others (he is why I landed on dxp to begin with)
Even though I flip flop every day on marriage.....because he is ready.....I can't see myself with anyone else ever. He is truly my best friend before everything else.
He dictated the evolution of the friendship even though I fought him all the way. I'm very glad about that now, despite all my hissy fits....lol
why did he suddenly switch like that?
mine was very straightforward but got busy with work which gave me some doubts
but being so hot-headed, i HAD to do something about that lol
what prompted it?
When we first started seeing each other we had both just gotten divorced. We also knew each other during our marriages.
I will never really know without picking his brain....and he is a pisces moon so I'm not going to stress him with that, I dont need it......
However, he had lots of personal things to work on. Divorce destroys you for awhile. I think he wanted to go off and repair himself and come back in a proper state of mind.
I can respect that. *shrugs*click to expand

Posted by dilettante
they arent asexual. they just arent sexually motivated.

Posted by ArilovesAqu
I also didn’t want a relationship either. The key is to not want it 🤣 then they give it to you


Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by MrsElleCappysnatch
When you crack that cold hard code....you have a best friend and lover for life.
Really? Any testimonies for that?
When I first started seeing my Cap he was aloof and weirdly distant and I would rarely see a softer side. Hell, more than 75% of the time I didnt know if we were even in a relationship.
That threw me into a twirl. If I knew then what I've learned thru this whole process I could have saved myself alot of unnecessary stress.
I had actually given up any hope and moved on to other relationships.
He eventually wandered back and verbalized wanting to be in a committed relationship and actually followed up with action.
It literally felt like he turned on a switch.
If I didnt love him so damn much I would have told him to go pound sand. I spent a lot of time understanding this placement and his others (he is why I landed on dxp to begin with)
Even though I flip flop every day on marriage.....because he is ready.....I can't see myself with anyone else ever. He is truly my best friend before everything else.
He dictated the evolution of the friendship even though I fought him all the way. I'm very glad about that now, despite all my hissy fits....lolclick to expand

Posted by Anomalous
Retarded.

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Anomalous
Retarded.
Is there a story here?click to expand

Posted by ArilovesAquPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience
If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?
As far as sexuality I find they just enjoy ermm...trying new exciting things and get bored easily if sex is always the same. That could just mean doing it on the kitchen counter or bent over the bathroom sink or other kinkier things.
I guess I can’t say if he’s hard to pin down. I don’t really keep a leash on him. He has a crush on Margot Robbie as Harley Quinn. He wants me to be wacky over him. I give it to him in small doses. He would kill me if he saw this but he would not mind at all if I want to dominate him. Aqua is secretive about their sexual proclivities. I think if you think they’re boring....they just don’t want to tell you what they’re into.
I don’t think he’s hard to please
He is aqua sun, cancer moon, gem marsclick to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?
Accurate.
But, I will add that we have "low standards" with oddity. Venus most likely to fall in love with someone on their death bed, in a wheelchair, impotent, etc.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?
Accurate.
But, I will add that we have "low standards" with oddity. Venus most likely to fall in love with someone on their death bed, in a wheelchair, impotent, etc.
That’s interesting... I’ve seen you mention something about an SO of yours being impotent. Have you been with others who had any other oddities to come to this theory?click to expand

Posted by dilettante
they arent asexual. they just arent sexually motivated.

Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
they arent asexual. they just arent sexually motivated.
I think it depends on their Mars. Both Aquarius Venuses I know love sex and have it extremely often.
that does not mean they arent sexually motivated. you can be a sexual person & love sex but not be motivated by it.click to expand


Posted by MyStarsShine
Venus the planet of love 💕 and romance in a Uranus ruled sign feels at odds
If you’re looking for warmth and romance, it won’t be high on their list. Men with aqua Venus look for intellect in a woman who will give them freedom and plenty of space..

Posted by dilettantePosted by LittleStar
Idk the Pisces has one and he didn’t play hard to get at all.
He’s not a jealous person AT ALL.
Also very affectionate and stable without being overbearing or clingy.
I think it’s one of the best Venus placements, IMO.
i agree w this! i luv aqua venus. my experience is generally caps w/ aqua venus but overall, yes, i dont think aqua venus plays hard to get at all.
aqua energy is V motivated by its interest in anything. if you interest them, they will move in w/ no pussyfooting or games. their energy is p focused & direct.
honestly, my advice to anyone who tries to get romantic w/ an air placement:
if you cannot naturally, easily, organically, carry on incessant conversation, you will not get very far.
- signed,
air moon, mars, rising & venus in air houseclick to expand

Posted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?

Posted by aquarius09Posted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?
You’re 100 percent accurate in your observation. However, I don’t think it’s asexual vibes. It’s sexual discipline. We got standards in who we love and who we sleep with.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by aquarius09Posted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?
You’re 100 percent accurate in your observation. However, I don’t think it’s asexual vibes. It’s sexual discipline. We got standards in who we love and who we sleep with.
For me, I wouldn't call it "standards" quite like everyone else's usage of that word.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by aquarius09Posted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?
You’re 100 percent accurate in your observation. However, I don’t think it’s asexual vibes. It’s sexual discipline. We got standards in who we love and who we sleep with.
For me, I wouldn't call it "standards" quite like everyone else's usage of that word.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MyStarsShine
Venus the planet of love 💕 and romance in a Uranus ruled sign feels at odds
If you’re looking for warmth and romance, it won’t be high on their list. Men with aqua Venus look for intellect in a woman who will give them freedom and plenty of space..
Thanks for distinguishing male vs. female Aqua Venus. It's a fine line but noticeable.
I never dated one. But, have read blogs... and Yuck... no fun.
My father was an Aqua Venus though. And, he made my Venus "worse" by understanding me and encouraging me, and giving me "instruction." It's my strongest placement.
He loved to hear my dating stories. He actually asked... and boy, he would pass out laughing no matter how strange my interactions where. He made me comfortable as a fellow Aqua Venus.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MyStarsShine
Venus the planet of love 💕 and romance in a Uranus ruled sign feels at odds
If you’re looking for warmth and romance, it won’t be high on their list. Men with aqua Venus look for intellect in a woman who will give them freedom and plenty of space..
Thanks for distinguishing male vs. female Aqua Venus. It's a fine line but noticeable.
I never dated one. But, have read blogs... and Yuck... no fun.
My father was an Aqua Venus though. And, he made my Venus "worse" by understanding me and encouraging me, and giving me "instruction." It's my strongest placement.
He loved to hear my dating stories. He actually asked... and boy, he would pass out laughing no matter how strange my interactions where. He made me comfortable as a fellow Aqua Venus.
Your dad 😀click to expand

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by MyStarsShine
Venus the planet of love 💕 and romance in a Uranus ruled sign feels at odds
If you’re looking for warmth and romance, it won’t be high on their list. Men with aqua Venus look for intellect in a woman who will give them freedom and plenty of space..
It works well with my libra venus.
He was asked once if he was a breast or butt guy....he made a funny face and said he is a brain guy 😍😍
I melted a little 🤪click to expand




Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by MyStarsShine
Venus the planet of love 💕 and romance in a Uranus ruled sign feels at odds
If you’re looking for warmth and romance, it won’t be high on their list. Men with aqua Venus look for intellect in a woman who will give them freedom and plenty of space..
It works well with my libra venus.
He was asked once if he was a breast or butt guy....he made a funny face and said he is a brain guy 😍😍
I melted a little 🤪
Love it 🥰. What does his Pisces moon think about his Venus? 😊
He doesnt grasp the aqua venus....which is funny in itself.
He talks about his pisces moon and taurus mars all the time 🤣😂🤣click to expand

Posted by Subliminals
If you dont know birth time, can you find the venus?

Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience
If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?
Mine is not like you described either.. maybe the “hard to pin down” part, but not really. They are slow to commit but their interest is not hard to get or hard to keep. Definitely NOT asexual. Lol mine was very sensual. In fact I’ve dated a few aqua venus (my libra rising seems to attract them 🙄) they are never asexual. That surprised me... patient, maybe.. but not asexual.
They like unconventional relationships and don’t like rules. They’re attracted to quirkiness. They love intellectual conversation. Freedom and independence is important to them. IF they will marry anyone, they will marry their best friend.click to expand

Posted by Arielle83
My partner is aqua venus. Not sure what I’m meant to associate with that placement.
He’s a weirdo, and has this freaky sexual energy that made me think of some weird bdsm whips n chains type of scenario that would let me push his limits.
He’s very open minded and can talk about all types of things. He thinks I’m overly analytical in my thinking, where he is more reductive.
But ya he let me in his space pretty easily. And he’s overly touchy feely and affectionate. I’m more distant at first
Actually my Lilith is in Aquarius, so that might be the erotic attention

Posted by maidenPosted by virgoOPPP
they have sex on the 40th day
hows all that going by the way? you move on or whatclick to expand

Posted by 7thHousePosted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by dilettante
they arent asexual. they just arent sexually motivated.
I think it depends on their Mars. Both Aquarius Venuses I know love sex and have it extremely often.
that does not mean they arent sexually motivated. you can be a sexual person & love sex but not be motivated by it.
Oh! I see what you're saying. Both I know are fine with sex on the first date. One is a Pisces and One is A Capricorn. Could be their other placements in their chart though, cause they both have similar placements.
im fine w/ sex on the first date but i do not consider myself sexually motivated. generally, other things are higher on the list. ppl put too much meaning/ pressure on sex & i just cant be bothered to engage. the aqua venusians i know, are v similar. like sex isnt everything... it certainly isnt as interesting as my dorky ass hobbies.
not being sexually motivated means you do not actively seek out sexual experiences. a lot of ppl rely on the validation of others & aqua energy does not need validation from anyone.
... well, until they meet someone they actually like & start to form feelings. then they need a lotta validation lol
I agree with this. For an aqua venus, sex is a bonus but not a main requirement. It's a very logical venus. Like they get more aroused by intellectual conversations than the act of sex. The main foreplay is talking about something interesting then ends up in bed. Most of the partners that they fall head over heels for are those that has something beyond sexual compatibility. Being good in bed doesn't make them stay either. Which is why I think they do have high standards. When we think of venus we think of love and aqua venus loves nothing more than the intellect.click to expand

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by Antiphates
Reading this thread suddenly made me think Cap and Aqua Venus are very similiar.
Not really. Cap venus has everything planned out and you need to be an exact replica of what they have in their mind.
Aqua has no script.click to expand

Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience
If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?
Mine is not like you described either.. maybe the “hard to pin down” part, but not really. They are slow to commit but their interest is not hard to get or hard to keep. Definitely NOT asexual. Lol mine was very sensual. In fact I’ve dated a few aqua venus (my libra rising seems to attract them 🙄) they are never asexual. That surprised me... patient, maybe.. but not asexual.
They like unconventional relationships and don’t like rules. They’re attracted to quirkiness. They love intellectual conversation. Freedom and independence is important to them. IF they will marry anyone, they will marry their best friend.click to expand

Posted by peachy06
My cap mum and an old acquaintance both have Aquarius venus. I'd say they are quite "weird". I mean the way they approach relationship is werd. They'd date anybody, don't care about looks, attracted to any kind of people, open-minded, they're quite hippies. Thy seem cold but are quite the opposite actually. Strangely, they are like Pisces venus in a way, they tend to fall for the "wrong" people. Often impossible or one-sided/unrequited love. Since venus rules over your fashion style too, they dress up as hippies lol. They like simple stuff and their freedom.

Posted by maiden
after reading thru this is kinda hitting for me s well.. have aqua moon.. but now gonna go look and see where else aqua touches... 👀
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